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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We see so many people on here who leave and then come back.

Why did you leave and then come back?

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

How many have you seen in 7 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was dating someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually because someone pissed me off.

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Boredom

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I've not yet done so. But lots do like a regular profile reset

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or I've changed my name too many times so I need a new profile.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Boredom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Left in January for personal reasons

Had to evalute life and whare I was heading

And my own general happiness lot happier now and know witch way I am going in life

So decided to come back x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started dating someone in the real world

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I change my profile all the time.

Sad desperate males ain’t going to scam themselves.

The mr

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"Left in January for personal reasons

Had to evalute life and whare I was heading

And my own general happiness lot happier now and know witch way I am going in life

So decided to come back x "

Nice to see you back x

Tinder xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Left in January for personal reasons

Had to evalute life and whare I was heading

And my own general happiness lot happier now and know witch way I am going in life

So decided to come back x

Nice to see you back x

Tinder xx"

Thank you x

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I needed a breather from fab land

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I needed a breather from fab land "

Yes it happeneds sometimes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never understand when people say I accidentally deleted my account. Theres a whole process to delete, which includes entering passwords. That was no accident. Just admit you had argument about fab and sex then one of you deleted the account

Mrs C

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By *ommyTighMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I needed a breather from fab land

Yes it happeneds sometimes x"

Agreed

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

The pull of this place is strong and people mostly gravitate back to it, even if prior experiences weren't the best.

I've never left and came back. I just stay offline when I can't be fussed.

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By *ildGroverMan
over a year ago

rathfarnham

Needed a long break.

Thought I was finished with it

Thought I could quit

Behaved for a long time

Why did I come back?

The thrill of the fun that is out there to be had

And I’m greedy

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Tried it to see how we'd get on and after a couple of meets and a club trip weren't sure that it was for us. So left for several years but never deleted the profile. Decided end of last year to try again and we are enjoying it a lot more this time round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd had enough and wasn't really here very much. Came back to see how it was going

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"We see so many people on here who leave and then come back.

Why did you leave and then come back?"

Cuz I'm in hiding from the police and the clique

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

We had a couple give us a false address. They left site, joined back under a new name and did the same to another couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People leave and then come back? Really?

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By *ensual but naughtyCouple
over a year ago

somewhere

Having asked a few people who have said they have come back, the usual answer is something went wrong with someone else but I suspect more often than not for a couple anyway, they just get fed up with the reality not meeting their expectations but then the alternative is not doing anything so they come back.

For single guys I suspect a high proportion have got into a relationship and then it ends and they are back again (quite an honourable thing to do if you think about it).

But the reality is most people who do this don't tell the truth or the full truth anyway, so you never know.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I've left a couple of times.

I felt there was nothing more for me on here and I knew I could rejoin if I wanted to meet new people.

I rejoined because I wanted to meet new people, and did.

I don't see the problem with leaving and rejoining. It's just a website.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

With some people (please note I say SOME, not everyone) it is attention-seeking. But they can’t resist not getting any more attention 2 days after leaving, so they come back.

I’ve never felt the need to leave. I just hide my profile or go offline.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've left completely and deleted my account on 3 previous occasions.

The first time was following a disastrous and dangerous first meet and I felt it wasn't the place for me.

The second time because I wasn't in the right frame of mind and last time because of drama created by someone I met who wanted complete control of my fab journey. I didn't log in for a whole year and then came back just long enough to delete my account and it's 30+ veries.

I came back on this profile 4 years ago determined to do it my way and in general have succeeded.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I was in a MF couple on here. She died.

I needed a break from most things.

Glad I came back though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually because someone pissed me off.

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Well please don't leave again, cos I can't keep pace with the name changes (and it messes up my hotlist)

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I've left once ,years ago as i had alot going on in real life.

I just hide now when i'm bored .

I often think some leave and rejoin alot to get round blocks or filters.

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By *mTheMrJMan
over a year ago

Barry

We are all just prisoners here of our own device, we can check out any time we want but we can never leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanted to annoy all the people that had blocked us on our old account.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Do they ‘really’ leave though?

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By *omad_SolMan
over a year ago

Cheshunt

I've been on and off here a few times, last time I was kinda active was three years ago, but then life happened and not in a good way. So i'm back busily trying to rebuild my confidence and push myself to get back out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the word of one forumite, I have recidivistic tendencies

That sounds much better than I get bored of it all, leave, get FOMO, come back, realise I missed nothing, get bored again and ... repeat 10 or 15 times in a 12 year period

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"We see so many people on here who leave and then come back.

Why did you leave and then come back?"
prison

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are all just prisoners here of our own device, we can check out any time we want but we can never leave "

Maybe we should rename Fab the Hotel California

I too am a returner, I deleted my profile because I was getting hassle.

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