FabSwingers.com forum: To be a Gentleman..

By *mTheMrJ OP Man
over a year ago

Barry

Pulling this from what was brought up in another discussion..

How do you define what a gentleman is?

Is there a code/rulebook to follow?

what attitudes, actions and behaviours brings you to think of that person as such?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Respect, loyalty, empathy & compassion all are great attributes of someone I'd define as a gentleman.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treats me like a lady (I am!) In public.

Fucks me like a whore in private.

Hardworking.

Smells nice!

Stands up for others.

Intelligent.

Respectful but not a push over.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"Pulling this from what was brought up in another discussion..

How do you define what a gentleman is?

Is there a code/rulebook to follow?

what attitudes, actions and behaviours brings you to think of that person as such?

Manners, integrity, respect, consideration, support, chivalry, charm, honesty and loyalty

And asking nicely if you can blow your cocksnot up their fartpipe.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

A gentleman always bums a lady

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Like a true gentleman he lets the lady cum first.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A gentleman washes it in the sink before he puts it in her mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See when you think that would be a bit of a dick thing to do and you don’t do it.

That makes you a gentleman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Respect, loyalty, empathy & compassion all are great attributes of someone I'd define as a gentleman.

Mrs "

And get derided as a white knight for your trouble….

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Everything mentioned above with the caveat that a gentleman doesn't have to tell anyone that he is one.

In doing so he is obviously presenting a different image and as such needs to reinforce in people's minds that he is indeed a gentleman rather than allow his actions to speak for themselves.

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By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

Decent manners and treating others good. I’ve met people who look like rogues yet were absolute gentlemen and people that looked like gentlemen who were utter fucking shitbags.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

A little respect is all it takes for me to think of someone as a gentleman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A little respect is all it takes for me to think of someone as a gentleman

Aretha?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Pulling this from what was brought up in another discussion..

How do you define what a gentleman is?

Is there a code/rulebook to follow?

what attitudes, actions and behaviours brings you to think of that person as such?

Manners, integrity, respect, consideration, support, chivalry, charm, honesty and loyalty

And asking nicely if you can blow your cocksnot up their fartpipe."

That's hot

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Everything mentioned above with the caveat that a gentleman doesn't have to tell anyone that he is one.

In doing so he is obviously presenting a different image and as such needs to reinforce in people's minds that he is indeed a gentleman rather than allow his actions to speak for themselves.

That's true

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

All the above plus taking the lead from the woman when eating so they don't finish their meal first. Putting the ladies coat on for her. Stand up when she leaves the table

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

A list of things a man should be doesn't make them a gentleman. I've seen my grandad covered in cow poo and god knows what else and he had manners and kindness etc. But I doubt anyone would have said he was gentleman

So to me I guess it means someone with old fashioned manners and isn't a scruff bag.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Offer a lady your last Rolo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Opening doors

Just being considerate to all

In world where there’s none compassion and understanding for all Meh

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Respect, loyalty, empathy & compassion all are great attributes of someone I'd define as a gentleman.

Mrs

And get derided as a white knight for your trouble…."

You've read yesterday's thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Respect, loyalty, empathy & compassion all are great attributes of someone I'd define as a gentleman.

Mrs

And get derided as a white knight for your trouble….

You've read yesterday's thread

I came to this conclusion long before yesterday. Long before I joined fab, which is @10 years ago

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

Always remembers to smack a woman on the arse as she goes through the door you held open!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respectful

Loyal to his family, lady and to his friends

Helpful

Supportive

Hardworking

Caring

Gentle to the ones he loves

Protective to others and kind

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Wears a monocle and sports a proud muttonchops moustache.

Usually goes by such names as Horatio, Reginald or Tarquin.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

How's a gentleman different to a lady (and I don't mean appendages or chromosomes).

Surely being kind/nice/decent etc are simply positive human traits?

Yes, I am that person with XX chromosomes who doesn't want anyone (gender irrelevant) to open doors, bring my coat, pull out a chair or anything else, unless they'd equally do it for one of their male amigos.

But that's just me (and yes, I'll hold doors open for people, but any person. I don't distinguish by gender, age etc).

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i do own a smoking jacket and cravat,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Respect, loyalty, empathy & compassion all are great attributes of someone I'd define as a gentleman.

Mrs

And get derided as a white knight for your trouble…."

Not by those that matter x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"How's a gentleman different to a lady (and I don't mean appendages or chromosomes).

Surely being kind/nice/decent etc are simply positive human traits?

But that's just me (and yes, I'll hold doors open for people, but any person. I don't distinguish by gender, age etc). "
But gentleman do do it regardless of the gender

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Respect, loyalty, empathy & compassion all are great attributes of someone I'd define as a gentleman.

Mrs "

What they lady just said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As kind to the cleaner as he is to the boss.

Has the ability to make me feel, safe, special and sexy all at the same time.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

If a Guy has to ask it's unlikely it'd be natural to him..

All the points mentioned are valid but it's very obvious when someone tries to be them

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

"How's a gentleman different to a lady (and I don't mean appendages or chromosomes).

Surely being kind/nice/decent etc are simply positive human traits?

But that's just me (and yes, I'll hold doors open for people, but any person. I don't distinguish by gender, age etc). "

I was raised to be like this to everyone.

Also regardless to gender or age.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"How's a gentleman different to a lady (and I don't mean appendages or chromosomes).

Surely being kind/nice/decent etc are simply positive human traits?

But that's just me (and yes, I'll hold doors open for people, but any person. I don't distinguish by gender, age etc).

I was raised to be like this to everyone.

Also regardless to gender or age."

Good stuff. I've never seen a guy offer to pull their mate's chair out at dinner, unless it's to pull a practical joke. Nor help with coats, unless it's their elderly father or something.

Basically, I prefer to do things for myself and if I really need help, e.g. move something in a café because my wheelchair won't fit, then I'll ask someone, politely

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i do my best to be one,,

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

A barrow boy or a rag n' bone man can be a gentleman.

Being a gentleman is a matter of choice. Politeness, civility, patience and kindness above all else.

A man will hold back his tears for the sake of bravado; a gentleman isn't afraid to cry.

Is it about being a differentiator? A man assumes he knows where the clitoris is; a gentleman isn't ashamed to ask.

A gentleman will give with no expectation of anything in return. For example: he will carefully hold back her perfectly coiffured hair as she throws up following a night of over-indulgence.

He may even instinctively drop to the floor to locate her missing earring.

There is no right or wrong answer. On this Fab fora only the women can (mostly) gauge which one of us is a Gentleman by the way we conduct ourselves on here.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Just don’t be a twat simple as that

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Kind

Humble

Polite

Modest

Reserved

Well-mannered

Gracious

Composed

Generous

Sincere

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"Treats me like a lady (I am!) In public.

Fucks me like a whore in private.

Hardworking.

Smells nice!

Stands up for others.

Intelligent.

Respectful but not a push over.

What she said

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

I wouldnt know,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A gentleman in never UNINTENTIONALLY rude.

And never wears brown shoes after 6pm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clean, smells nice and well dressed.

Presentable - beard trimmed or clean shaven depending on preference. Hair styled nicely.

Talks without swearing every other word (I talk without swearing unless around friends , was a strict upbringing)

Chivalrous- opens doors for you, pulls chair out for you etc.

The biggest one by far - treats everyone with respect and how the gentlemen would like to be treated .

There’s probably more to it but that’s what I think a gentleman is.

Please don’t shoot me for my opinion!

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"A gentleman in never UNINTENTIONALLY rude.

And never wears brown shoes after 6pm"
what about boots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A gentleman in never UNINTENTIONALLY rude.

And never wears brown shoes after 6pm what about boots"

Same goes

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley

Sleeping on the wet patch.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Taken from my grandad

"A gentleman is generous with his time, wisdom, and resources"

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"A gentleman in never UNINTENTIONALLY rude.

And never wears brown shoes after 6pm what about boots

Same goes"

Jesus Dont tell that to a Texan or a gent from Montana,,

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Treats me like a lady (I am!) In public.

Fucks me like a whore in private.

Hardworking.

Smells nice!

Stands up for others.

Intelligent.

Respectful but not a push over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A gentleman in never UNINTENTIONALLY rude.

And never wears brown shoes after 6pm what about boots"

The only boots that a gentleman should wear are white, black or green. White for cricket, black for riding or green wellies.

Bess x

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

A gentleman just is. There are different types of gentlemen but when you meet one you just know

Em x

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"A gentleman just is. There are different types of gentlemen but when you meet one you just know

Em x"
the sexy Celt is correct,,, again,

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"A gentleman in never UNINTENTIONALLY rude.

And never wears brown shoes after 6pm what about boots

The only boots that a gentleman should wear are white, black or green. White for cricket, black for riding or green wellies.

Bess x

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lol so what we are supposed to believe here that the only Gentleman in existence here are British???

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"A gentleman just is. There are different types of gentlemen but when you meet one you just know

Em x"
I agree they didn't have to tell any one He his but when others describe him they fescribr him as a gentlr6

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘A Gentleman is simply a patient wolf’ and from experience, this is exactly how it is.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"‘A Gentleman is simply a patient wolf’ and from experience, this is exactly how it is."
this

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