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By *estarossa. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Is that just a lazy way of being a receiver only.

Does that make you a Bottom

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Never heard that saying

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By *estarossa. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Never heard that saying"

Me neither until today!

I have seen it a few times though!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Me no understand

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By *omad_SolMan
over a year ago

Cheshunt


"Never heard that saying

Me neither until today!

I have seen it a few times though!"

Same, just played along cuz it's the game lol, otherwise no clue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inanimate object…?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it being used in an ironic way? As in "In to be objectified"

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By *estarossa. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Me no understand "

If you look on the my mate fancies you thread from today, several of the men have stated they are "In, As An Object" xx

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

An object of desire you mean?

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Is that just a lazy way of being a receiver only.

Does that make you a Bottom "
not heard of that saying sorry

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"Me no understand

If you look on the my mate fancies you thread from today, several of the men have stated they are "In, As An Object" xx"

I don’t gerrit!

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"Me no understand

If you look on the my mate fancies you thread from today, several of the men have stated they are "In, As An Object" xx

I don’t gerrit!"

Me too

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By *estarossa. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Was it being used in an ironic way? As in "In to be objectified""

It could be!

Or they could just not be arsed to send any messages

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Me no understand

If you look on the my mate fancies you thread from today, several of the men have stated they are "In, As An Object" xx"

Oh yeah. So they have. Maybe they have a secret code going on

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Oh. It’s in the ops title . I think it means they don’t want to pass messages on

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By *omad_SolMan
over a year ago

Cheshunt


"Me no understand

If you look on the my mate fancies you thread from today, several of the men have stated they are "In, As An Object" xx

Oh yeah. So they have. Maybe they have a secret code going on "

Well I didn't get the memo, just figured it to be Fab terminology or some shiz. Don't think it's too deep anyway, "comment as postie or object", it's just those who want to be commented on as opposed to those who want to do the commenting. From my understanding anyway

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Me no understand

If you look on the my mate fancies you thread from today, several of the men have stated they are "In, As An Object" xx

Oh yeah. So they have. Maybe they have a secret code going on

Well I didn't get the memo, just figured it to be Fab terminology or some shiz. Don't think it's too deep anyway, "comment as postie or object", it's just those who want to be commented on as opposed to those who want to do the commenting. From my understanding anyway"

Yeah I didn’t read the op as usual . I get it now

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Me no understand

If you look on the my mate fancies you thread from today, several of the men have stated they are "In, As An Object" xx

I don’t gerrit!

Me too "

Me three

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh. It’s in the ops title . I think it means they don’t want to pass messages on "

You nailed it!

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By *omad_SolMan
over a year ago

Cheshunt


"Me no understand

If you look on the my mate fancies you thread from today, several of the men have stated they are "In, As An Object" xx

Oh yeah. So they have. Maybe they have a secret code going on

Well I didn't get the memo, just figured it to be Fab terminology or some shiz. Don't think it's too deep anyway, "comment as postie or object", it's just those who want to be commented on as opposed to those who want to do the commenting. From my understanding anyway

Yeah I didn’t read the op as usual . I get it now "

Took me a while too haha

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Me no understand

If you look on the my mate fancies you thread from today, several of the men have stated they are "In, As An Object" xx

Oh yeah. So they have. Maybe they have a secret code going on

Well I didn't get the memo, just figured it to be Fab terminology or some shiz. Don't think it's too deep anyway, "comment as postie or object", it's just those who want to be commented on as opposed to those who want to do the commenting. From my understanding anyway"
That makes sense

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Oh. It’s in the ops title . I think it means they don’t want to pass messages on

You nailed it! "

I need to read things properly before commenting

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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In as an object.

That's brilliant, not read that until today. Going to be my new Fab approach.

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By *estarossa. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Oh. It’s in the ops title . I think it means they don’t want to pass messages on

You nailed it! "

So basically being lazy then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh. It’s in the ops title . I think it means they don’t want to pass messages on

You nailed it!

I need to read things properly before commenting "

Me too . Mystery solved at least!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Oh. It’s in the ops title . I think it means they don’t want to pass messages on

You nailed it!

So basically being lazy then! "

Yes! Taking but not giving. Lazy!

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By *omad_SolMan
over a year ago

Cheshunt


"Oh. It’s in the ops title . I think it means they don’t want to pass messages on

You nailed it!

So basically being lazy then! "

Oi! I'm still tryna suss this place out haha

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By *estarossa. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Oh. It’s in the ops title . I think it means they don’t want to pass messages on

You nailed it!

So basically being lazy then!

Yes! Taking but not giving. Lazy!"

I reckon they might be Pillow Princes!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Oh. It’s in the ops title . I think it means they don’t want to pass messages on

You nailed it!

So basically being lazy then!

Yes! Taking but not giving. Lazy!

I reckon they might be Pillow Princes! "

Haha. I wouldn’t mind one of them every so often. Do what I want to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in…. What are we objecting about?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Someone called me a "literal person" the other day. I think they may be right.

I still don't understand this thread.

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By *estarossa. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Oh. It’s in the ops title . I think it means they don’t want to pass messages on

You nailed it!

So basically being lazy then!

Yes! Taking but not giving. Lazy!

I reckon they might be Pillow Princes!

Haha. I wouldn’t mind one of them every so often. Do what I want to them "

Thats easy enough- you let them wesr themselves out on you first, then pounce while they are helpless!

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

I saw that and didn't know what it meant. But yes it basically means that they're in as an object of desire but don't want to bother even sending messages to a postie. That's not how that thread works. Lazy buggers.

J

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"I saw that and didn't know what it meant. But yes it basically means that they're in as an object of desire but don't want to bother even sending messages to a postie. That's not how that thread works. Lazy buggers.

J"

•

Thank you, my penny farthing - now I understand.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"I saw that and didn't know what it meant. But yes it basically means that they're in as an object of desire but don't want to bother even sending messages to a postie. That's not how that thread works. Lazy buggers.

J

•

Thank you, my penny farthing - now I understand."

I'm not sure I like penny farthing as a term of endearment. It suggests a difficult and eccentric ride with strange proportions

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I saw that and didn't know what it meant. But yes it basically means that they're in as an object of desire but don't want to bother even sending messages to a postie. That's not how that thread works. Lazy buggers.

J"

Well that’sshit and boring!

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By *essicagraceWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

I was OP and yes just object of desire.

Intended it so people could state they weren't available to postie due to filters or availability or so people could just be facilitators but it's interesting how it fell in practise...

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"I was OP and yes just object of desire.

Intended it so people could state they weren't available to postie due to filters or availability or so people could just be facilitators but it's interesting how it fell in practise... "

I think there's a lot of these threads where people just say in but never send anything and expect the adulation to come rolling in. When I take part in those threads I send a load of messages about lots of people. Some I genuinely fancy, some a cheeky flirt and some just to put a smile on someone's face.

J

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I was OP and yes just object of desire.

Intended it so people could state they weren't available to postie due to filters or availability or so people could just be facilitators but it's interesting how it fell in practise...

I think there's a lot of these threads where people just say in but never send anything and expect the adulation to come rolling in. When I take part in those threads I send a load of messages about lots of people. Some I genuinely fancy, some a cheeky flirt and some just to put a smile on someone's face.

J"

And Julie... that is exactly the point of them!

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By *estarossa. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante


"I was OP and yes just object of desire.

Intended it so people could state they weren't available to postie due to filters or availability or so people could just be facilitators but it's interesting how it fell in practise... "

Absolutely on me this!

I didnt read into your OP that people would do what they did and its definitely no reflection or criticism intended towards you Lovely xx

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"I was OP and yes just object of desire.

Intended it so people could state they weren't available to postie due to filters or availability or so people could just be facilitators but it's interesting how it fell in practise...

I think there's a lot of these threads where people just say in but never send anything and expect the adulation to come rolling in. When I take part in those threads I send a load of messages about lots of people. Some I genuinely fancy, some a cheeky flirt and some just to put a smile on someone's face.

J

And Julie... that is exactly the point of them!"

I am having a cynical day

Maybe I need to start a sulky thread

J

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I was OP and yes just object of desire.

Intended it so people could state they weren't available to postie due to filters or availability or so people could just be facilitators but it's interesting how it fell in practise...

I think there's a lot of these threads where people just say in but never send anything and expect the adulation to come rolling in. When I take part in those threads I send a load of messages about lots of people. Some I genuinely fancy, some a cheeky flirt and some just to put a smile on someone's face.

J

And Julie... that is exactly the point of them!

I am having a cynical day

Maybe I need to start a sulky thread

J"

Get yer tits out and buck up then woooooman

Also... I feel you sista

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By *essicagraceWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

No offense taken!!

In retrospect I do think people took the option that I intended for accessibility and used it to be lazy and just have their egos massaged without actually engaging. Which is a damn shame.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"I was OP and yes just object of desire.

Intended it so people could state they weren't available to postie due to filters or availability or so people could just be facilitators but it's interesting how it fell in practise...

I think there's a lot of these threads where people just say in but never send anything and expect the adulation to come rolling in. When I take part in those threads I send a load of messages about lots of people. Some I genuinely fancy, some a cheeky flirt and some just to put a smile on someone's face.

J

And Julie... that is exactly the point of them!

I am having a cynical day

Maybe I need to start a sulky thread

J"

In

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No offense taken!!

In retrospect I do think people took the option that I intended for accessibility and used it to be lazy and just have their egos massaged without actually engaging. Which is a damn shame."

It happens all the time! It’s expected.

it shows how common that practice is that we have a phrase for it.

I just think it’s pointless coming in, saying I’m in. And not doing anything.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"I saw that and didn't know what it meant. But yes it basically means that they're in as an object of desire but don't want to bother even sending messages to a postie. That's not how that thread works. Lazy buggers.

J

•

Thank you, my penny farthing - now I understand.

I'm not sure I like penny farthing as a term of endearment. It suggests a difficult and eccentric ride with strange proportions

J

"

Bumping for the middleman.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"I saw that and didn't know what it meant. But yes it basically means that they're in as an object of desire but don't want to bother even sending messages to a postie. That's not how that thread works. Lazy buggers.

J

•

Thank you, my penny farthing - now I understand.

I'm not sure I like penny farthing as a term of endearment. It suggests a difficult and eccentric ride with strange proportions

J

Bumping for the middleman. "

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I shall henceforth call you as a term of endearment - Chopper.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"I saw that and didn't know what it meant. But yes it basically means that they're in as an object of desire but don't want to bother even sending messages to a postie. That's not how that thread works. Lazy buggers.

J

•

Thank you, my penny farthing - now I understand.

I'm not sure I like penny farthing as a term of endearment. It suggests a difficult and eccentric ride with strange proportions

J

Bumping for the middleman.

•

I shall henceforth call you as a term of endearment - Chopper."

Ignoring the repeated 'bike' comparison A Chopper is definitely better - everyone wants to ride a Chopper

J

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"I saw that and didn't know what it meant. But yes it basically means that they're in as an object of desire but don't want to bother even sending messages to a postie. That's not how that thread works. Lazy buggers.

J

•

Thank you, my penny farthing - now I understand.

I'm not sure I like penny farthing as a term of endearment. It suggests a difficult and eccentric ride with strange proportions

J

Bumping for the middleman.

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I shall henceforth call you as a term of endearment - Chopper.

·

Ignoring the repeated 'bike' comparison A Chopper is definitely better - everyone wants to ride a Chopper

J"

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Are you Raleigh that offended?

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"I saw that and didn't know what it meant. But yes it basically means that they're in as an object of desire but don't want to bother even sending messages to a postie. That's not how that thread works. Lazy buggers.

J

•

Thank you, my penny farthing - now I understand.

I'm not sure I like penny farthing as a term of endearment. It suggests a difficult and eccentric ride with strange proportions

J

Bumping for the middleman.

•

I shall henceforth call you as a term of endearment - Chopper.

·

Ignoring the repeated 'bike' comparison A Chopper is definitely better - everyone wants to ride a Chopper

J

•

Are you Raleigh that offended? "

We're wheelie scrâping the barrel now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I saw that and didn't know what it meant. But yes it basically means that they're in as an object of desire but don't want to bother even sending messages to a postie. That's not how that thread works. Lazy buggers.

J

•

Thank you, my penny farthing - now I understand.

I'm not sure I like penny farthing as a term of endearment. It suggests a difficult and eccentric ride with strange proportions

J

Bumping for the middleman.

•

I shall henceforth call you as a term of endearment - Chopper.

·

Ignoring the repeated 'bike' comparison A Chopper is definitely better - everyone wants to ride a Chopper

J

•

Are you Raleigh that offended?

We're wheelie scrâping the barrel now. "

I’m steering clear of joining in.

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