FabSwingers.com forum: Don’t think just do.

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

So after receiving a message. Where both us and them have both stated that we would have messaged but didn’t think you’d be interested.

Got me thinking we can not be the only ones. So I’ve had an idea ( seen as you all like games ).

Say you’re in. And if there’s anyone else on the thread you’ve wanted to message. DO IT! Tell that person you are infact interested.

Send that message, never know could be your lucky day.

The mr

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in as its pointless for me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Always in to recieving messages.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

Sounds like fun! We’re in x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I'm in

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in. Good morning

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not thinking leads to trouble.

You should always take a moment to think first.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always convinced people wouldn't be interested, sometimes though you get a surprise.

I'm in

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

[Removed by poster at 02/05/23 06:17:15]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

"Not thinking leads to trouble.

You should always take a moment to think first.

"
Yes Raven, I have thought alot, and yes I am.

This will get me blocked for sure.

Morning

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not thinking leads to trouble.

You should always take a moment to think first.

Yes Raven, I have thought alot, and yes I am.

This will get me blocked for sure.

Morning

No block yet, but I would suggest you give it another think!

Morning.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not thinking leads to trouble.

You should always take a moment to think first.

Yes Raven, I have thought alot, and yes I am.

This will get me blocked for sure.

Morning

No block yet, but I would suggest you give it another think!

Morning.

Can I be blocked?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

"Not thinking leads to trouble.

You should always take a moment to think first.

Yes Raven, I have thought alot, and yes I am.

This will get me blocked for sure.

Morning

No block yet, but I would suggest you give it another think!

Morning.

"
Yes, thouhght again and still a yes.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

I’m always suprised by the people that say that they don’t think I’d be interested in them. On this account and our couples one.

I absolutely adore meeting people for socials even if it’s not going to go anywhere. But I’ll never say never before meeting!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Come for a nosey

Mrs

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Aww Mr, you've started a lovely thread.

I'll join in, I might just message people I'm interested in in any kind of way. x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are in xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

Ooh, Im in for this

Usually too shy to start a conversation

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Always open to chat,

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Sounds interesting

Any lack of messages is because I won't have time at work to check or reply.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

That’s an interesting approach, I rarely send any messages because I think most people are far out of my league.

I’m, cautiously, in.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds fun

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

I’m in but I’m a thinker maybe over thinker

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm in

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Don’t talk just kiss

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I’m in

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in.

There are a few people who I would message but just don't think they'd be interested. It's happened quite a few times that people haven't been so I tend to hold back these days, but then if we all did that there'd be no messages being sent on this site at all.

So here goes...hello

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was ahead of you on this one

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Aww Mr, you've started a lovely thread.

I'll join in, I might just message people I'm interested in in any kind of way. x"

I do have my moments. Shhhh don’t tell anyone.

The mr

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eadjeyecMan
over a year ago

Bucks/London

I’m in

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It amazes me that so many of us feel the same way. Maybe that little bit of insecurity is why we all end up here?

The nature of the site means that everything is out there to be seen as (sometimes quite literally

) it can then be really hard not to compare ourselves to others and hyperfocus on things we feel we aren't, can't do or should be.

I've looked at countless profiles over the years and assumed I'm not their type because their verifications are all from women not a bit like me.

I'm sure I'm probably not the only one in that either.

I don't know what I'm trying to say with this waffle, I guess maybe we all need to start extending the same kindness and belief to ourselves as we give to others?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t talk just kiss "

Best advice ever!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

I am in, what a lovely sentiment x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It amazes me that so many of us feel the same way. Maybe that little bit of insecurity is why we all end up here?

The nature of the site means that everything is out there to be seen as (sometimes quite literally

) it can then be really hard not to compare ourselves to others and hyperfocus on things we feel we aren't, can't do or should be.

I've looked at countless profiles over the years and assumed I'm not their type because their verifications are all from women not a bit like me.

I'm sure I'm probably not the only one in that either.

I don't know what I'm trying to say with this waffle, I guess maybe we all need to start extending the same kindness and belief to ourselves as we give to others? "

Unfortunately positivity in ourselves is harder to appreciate than negativity….I think a lot of us see what we’re not when we should look at what we are….we all have something positive to bring and should embrace that!!

Let’s not let our insecurities stop us from getting what we want!!

Love this thread and I for one think we should all be a whole lot more positive about ourselves!!

Also open for a message

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *KloganMan
over a year ago

Ramsbottom

Self confidence (or lack of) can be an issue for lots of different reasons, a safe space to be able to message people without the stark rejection and a more empathetic place to be can only be a good thing.

I’m empathetic and I like talking.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like taking chances

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Lifes a risk, got to be in it to win it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"I like taking chances

Scampi's a chance

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Ah go on on then it would be rude not to

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

We're in

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Mr this is beautiful

I'm in

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

…

"It amazes me that so many of us feel the same way. Maybe that little bit of insecurity is why we all end up here?

The nature of the site means that everything is out there to be seen as (sometimes quite literally

) it can then be really hard not to compare ourselves to others and hyperfocus on things we feel we aren't, can't do or should be.

I've looked at countless profiles over the years and assumed I'm not their type because their verifications are all from women not a bit like me.

I'm sure I'm probably not the only one in that either.

I don't know what I'm trying to say with this waffle, I guess maybe we all need to start extending the same kindness and belief to ourselves as we give to others? "

Aww perfectly put! Comparison is the thief of joy….and it’s so true!

Im in!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I am in.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in.

I’ll look later to see who I’ll pick on.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work on the principle that you don't know unless you ask.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

If you can get past all our message filters - we're in

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes we all need to take a risk

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Do it! And we're in!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 02/05/23 09:49:36]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Count us in! We only get a couple of messages a week so either we’ve got a lot of secret admirers or we’re just not that interesting

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

We will be in. Funny enough this happened with the matchmaking thread and one rather tempting soul messaged to say just this.

We had no idea and therefore didn’t add them to our list of 3.

Of course interest doesn’t mean that it has to go anywhere, for us it could be a simple as I’m interested to get to know you

Marc

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

As a wise glove puppet once said: “Do or do not. There is no ‘try’.”

Count me in. I like messages. They’re fun.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hareWithMeUKMan
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

Count me in!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hareWithMeUKMan
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

"Count us in! We only get a couple of messages a week so either we’ve got a lot of secret admirers or we’re just not that interesting

I think the majority of messages on here come from single guys! I can’t message you as you’re not interested BUT I’m definitely interested in you

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hareWithMeUKMan
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

"If you can get past all our message filters - we're in

I can’t get past your filters but I’m definitely interested

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Count us in! We only get a couple of messages a week so either we’ve got a lot of secret admirers or we’re just not that interesting

Same here... but in my case I'm just not that interesting...

I'm in though.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inger_the_NinjaMan
over a year ago

Frome

I'm in. I never get messages that aren't from questionable people, it'd be nice to get one from a non-questionable forum person (you all seem nice).

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inger_the_NinjaMan
over a year ago

Frome

Mind you, the person I want to message here isn't accepting messages from non-site supporters. I wish I wasn't having issues signing up. I used to be one of that helps.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you can get past all our message filters - we're in

Can I identify as female for the purpose of this...?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I should have said I'm in

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilkstressWoman
over a year ago

Drasnia

Good morning all. I'm in.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

Another nice thread to get folks connecting… count us in xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"Another nice thread to get folks connecting… count us in xx"

You two are very connectable.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good morning all. I'm in.

In my head I'm singing "if I said you had a beautiful body would you hold it against me?"

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We are in

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

"If you can get past all our message filters - we're in

Can I identify as female for the purpose of this...?

If you like but we dont accept messages from females either

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

"Another nice thread to get folks connecting… count us in xx

You two are very connectable.

You winked! It’s always great to hear from you Xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Can't imagine that anyone would be interested in me. I'm constantly amazed at the friendships I've made. Always happy to receive a message

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"Count us in! We only get a couple of messages a week so either we’ve got a lot of secret admirers or we’re just not that interesting

Secret.. For the time being

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"Another nice thread to get folks connecting… count us in xx

You two are very connectable.

You winked! It’s always great to hear from you Xx"

Likewise with you two you lovely pair. X

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ischiefManaged69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

What an awesome and positive thread! We're in!

Need to find a few minutes to send hellos to a few of you lovely lot

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in. I'll come back later and see who else has joined

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in

Tend to overthink things

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Not in

Tend to overthink things

Stop that! Go on, send someone an off-the-cuff hello. Just this once.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Yes yes, in! That counts for chatting too, not just sexy stuff

Mrs TMN x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you can get past all our message filters - we're in

Can I identify as female for the purpose of this...?

If you like but we dont accept messages from females either

Wow you guys have created an impenetrable shield!

Gonna need my filter smashing ray...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *omad_SolMan
over a year ago

Cheshunt

Sounds like this may be a good thread for me, recently rejoined and trying to get myself back in the game, but overthinking everything atm so tryna push myself lol. I'm always up for general chats, I don't bite, so say hi if you like what you see.

I'm even overthinking writing this, gah

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny

I always think people wouldn’t be interested but, as the theme is “you never know”, you never know.

I’m in

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

I'm more than happy to say I'm in

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *litpleaserMan
over a year ago

Oldham

I'm in ...maybe I will be surprised ??

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not in

Tend to overthink things

Stop that! Go on, send someone an off-the-cuff hello. Just this once."

I don’t have confidence at the moment few things going on medically and mentally that makes me think this way

Life is life

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I did it. And, OP, I'm blaming you when it all goes wrong.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I did it. And, OP, I'm blaming you when it all goes wrong."

Sorry I will not be held responsible, message were sent at own risk.

Rules 9.3 in the Sidney handbook.

The mr

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like taking chances

Scampi's a chance

Noooooooo never

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Put me in please

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I did it. And, OP, I'm blaming you when it all goes wrong.

Sorry I will not be held responsible, message were sent at own risk.

Rules 9.3 in the Sidney handbook.

The mr "

Crap. I only read up to 9.2.17

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ischiefManaged69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

Messages away! Like wordy torpedo's, speeding towards their hot seafaring targets.....

Ships.,. Fish....

That analogy sounded better in my head, and now it's just d*unkenly wandered off to pass out in an alley.

Like a d*unken sailor!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to me Goose.....err, Rooster.....err, ah fuck it..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny

Have we started yet?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uzzy-LogicMan
over a year ago

Fochabers

I'm in, could be interesting

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm in. And, maybe, you're in too

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Count us in! We only get a couple of messages a week so either we’ve got a lot of secret admirers or we’re just not that interesting

Secret.. For the time being

We certainly hope so

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

In and messaging

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *he Dark GentlemanMan
over a year ago

London

I'm fully in x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread