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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

If not what makes you feel sexy?

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

Absolutely not.

But sometimes other people make me feel sexy, its the look in their eyes! At those moments, yes, i feel incredibly sexy x

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Yes

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Absolutely not.

But sometimes other people make me feel sexy, its the look in their eyes! At those moments, yes, i feel incredibly sexy x "

So like someone wanting you and thinking you’re sexy makes you feel sexy? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just posted a thread about what really turns me on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A person can make me feel sexy. right now, I am not feeling it. … you know what my next line should be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If not what makes you feel sexy?"

Kissing a lover when we meet. Lying next to her in bed. Watching her smile as she sleeps.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"A person can make me feel sexy. right now, I am not feeling it. … you know what my next line should be. "

If ya want my body and ya think I’m sexy ….?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right now?

No.

But on the rare occasions I do it's because of my own state of mind. I don't think anyone ever makes me feel that way, I don't take much (or any!) notice of what others say to me so their opinion doesn't mean a lot. I realise this may seem a tad dismissive but it's just how I am. I don't need others confirmation to think that way. I either do or I don't and it's all my own doing.

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London


"So like someone wanting you and thinking you’re sexy makes you feel sexy? x "

Yes, exactly x

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Right now?

No.

But on the rare occasions I do it's because of my own state of mind. I don't think anyone ever makes me feel that way, I don't take much (or any!) notice of what others say to me so their opinion doesn't mean a lot. I realise this may seem a tad dismissive but it's just how I am. I don't need others confirmation to think that way. I either do or I don't and it's all my own doing.

"

I understand that to be fair. A bit like when someone says you look great or you don’t need to lose weight. And you know you do so it makes no difference

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Umm Sometimes, but I don’t think I look that bad for my age

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"So like someone wanting you and thinking you’re sexy makes you feel sexy? x

Yes, exactly x "

Yeah. I agree with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr always feels sexy

Mrs always looks sexy but she loves lingerie and feels sexiest with high heels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A person can make me feel sexy. right now, I am not feeling it. … you know what my next line should be.

If ya want my body and ya think I’m sexy ….?"

…Unzip my pants and say you’ll blow!?

I don’t know the words, I’m improvising

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Just posted a thread about what really turns me on."

That’s too long haha

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"A person can make me feel sexy. right now, I am not feeling it. … you know what my next line should be.

If ya want my body and ya think I’m sexy ….?

…Unzip my pants and say you’ll blow!?

I don’t know the words, I’m improvising "

You may be a bit young for that song I quoted

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

A good haircut after having my flowing locks cut....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right now?

No.

But on the rare occasions I do it's because of my own state of mind. I don't think anyone ever makes me feel that way, I don't take much (or any!) notice of what others say to me so their opinion doesn't mean a lot. I realise this may seem a tad dismissive but it's just how I am. I don't need others confirmation to think that way. I either do or I don't and it's all my own doing.

I understand that to be fair. A bit like when someone says you look great or you don’t need to lose weight. And you know you do so it makes no difference "

Oh shit, I never feel sexy because someone says it! Damn, that’s not how it works.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Right now?

No.

But on the rare occasions I do it's because of my own state of mind. I don't think anyone ever makes me feel that way, I don't take much (or any!) notice of what others say to me so their opinion doesn't mean a lot. I realise this may seem a tad dismissive but it's just how I am. I don't need others confirmation to think that way. I either do or I don't and it's all my own doing.

I understand that to be fair. A bit like when someone says you look great or you don’t need to lose weight. And you know you do so it makes no difference

Oh shit, I never feel sexy because someone says it! Damn, that’s not how it works. "

So if someone really wants you and can’t keep their hands off you that doesn’t make you feel sexy?

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By *en ukMan
over a year ago

harrow London

Yes, I feel very sexy, with good sense, discreet and with good body hygiene

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"If not what makes you feel sexy?"
think with most guys its waking up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right now?

No.

But on the rare occasions I do it's because of my own state of mind. I don't think anyone ever makes me feel that way, I don't take much (or any!) notice of what others say to me so their opinion doesn't mean a lot. I realise this may seem a tad dismissive but it's just how I am. I don't need others confirmation to think that way. I either do or I don't and it's all my own doing.

I understand that to be fair. A bit like when someone says you look great or you don’t need to lose weight. And you know you do so it makes no difference

Oh shit, I never feel sexy because someone says it! Damn, that’s not how it works.

So if someone really wants you and can’t keep their hands off you that doesn’t make you feel sexy?"

That just means they want sex. 2 different things.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Right now?

No.

But on the rare occasions I do it's because of my own state of mind. I don't think anyone ever makes me feel that way, I don't take much (or any!) notice of what others say to me so their opinion doesn't mean a lot. I realise this may seem a tad dismissive but it's just how I am. I don't need others confirmation to think that way. I either do or I don't and it's all my own doing.

I understand that to be fair. A bit like when someone says you look great or you don’t need to lose weight. And you know you do so it makes no difference

Oh shit, I never feel sexy because someone says it! Damn, that’s not how it works.

So if someone really wants you and can’t keep their hands off you that doesn’t make you feel sexy?

That just means they want sex. 2 different things. "

Depends who it is though. Does for me anyhoo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish my hair would grow. I need a wild mane again then I would feel sexier.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"If not what makes you feel sexy?think with most guys its waking up "

I don’t mean feeling like sex. I mean feeling sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When a woman messages you on here first lol

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

I feel like I'm L'Oréal that makes me sexy

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't really feel sexy. In a not self deprecating way, I know I'm not sexy. I'm cute and happy with that.

But, reciprocated desire does make me feel desirable. I guess the closest to feeling sexy on a personal level, things I do?

Taking care of myself, my mood etc. Like having a long hot shower, exfoliating and trimming while listening to good music. Going for a long walk/to the gym. Things that make my body feel alive. Enough sleep. Taking care of myself and being the best me I can be at that moment makes me feel more confident in the moment. I feel more cute.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I wish my hair would grow. I need a wild mane again then I would feel sexier. "

Same I had mine cut shorter. I don’t hate it and it’s easier to manage but I prefer it long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know it’s a vibe I guess, it can either be me thinking gut once in a shirt I look good, instead of the hobo look I tend to go with

Or a female admirer or even a stranger smiling at me in a way that they approve.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I don't really feel sexy. In a not self deprecating way, I know I'm not sexy. I'm cute and happy with that.

But, reciprocated desire does make me feel desirable. I guess the closest to feeling sexy on a personal level, things I do?

Taking care of myself, my mood etc. Like having a long hot shower, exfoliating and trimming while listening to good music. Going for a long walk/to the gym. Things that make my body feel alive. Enough sleep. Taking care of myself and being the best me I can be at that moment makes me feel more confident in the moment. I feel more cute. "

I do think it’s linked to confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think I ever feel sexy in myself. Sometimes I’ll think ohh yeah , I look hot today. I think I rely on other people to make me feel that way too much.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Define what feeling sexy is, I'm not sure. I accept who I am and I'm gratefull for what I have and do and have learned to love myself but, I'm not sure what feeling sexy actualy is.

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By *o scandalousWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Sometimes. Depends on what underwear I’ve on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right now?

No.

….

I understand that to be fair. A bit like when someone says you look great or you don’t need to lose weight. And you know you do so it makes no difference

Oh shit, I never feel sexy because someone says it! Damn, that’s not how it works.

So if someone really wants you and can’t keep their hands off you that doesn’t make you feel sexy?"

That’s the end result. All that leading to the fumbling got me feeling sexy enough to get to that point. The, the lead up, everything they do and say, the subtle beauty and sexyness and attraction they try to hide. It get you feeling ‘it’. Makes you heart race and the just fullness to dive in yourself and start tearing at each other.

It’s more than words.

#weallknow

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Define what feeling sexy is, I'm not sure. I accept who I am and I'm gratefull for what I have and do and have learned to love myself but, I'm not sure what feeling sexy actualy is."

I can’t define it really. It will be different for different people. Not sure I even have my own definition to put into words

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

You must be joking - not in the slightest atm.

Maybe some pics of ladies in their blue underwear would help?

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"You must be joking - not in the slightest atm.

Maybe some pics of ladies in their blue underwear would help? "

you and your blue underwear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a state of mind isn't it?

Depends on mood and how bloated I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

Nothing

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"It's a state of mind isn't it?

Depends on mood and how bloated I am "

Yes I think it is a state of mind

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Depends on the day. Often, I don't feel sexy because I think I look like a beached whale but in some outfits, I do feel sexy. I mainly feel sexy when I can see/feel Mr KC getting over excited because he finds me sexy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly I very really feel sexy even though hubby tells me I am, I would have so much more fun if I felt sexy and confident.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"If not what makes you feel sexy?think with most guys its waking up

I don’t mean feeling like sex. I mean feeling sexy "

If its erect you feel sexy, they just knock one out and all the effort needed to feel sexy goes

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Sometimes, but then I catch sight of myself and get a reality check.

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By *issIrishCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Depends on the day. Often, I don't feel sexy because I think I look like a beached whale but in some outfits, I do feel sexy. I mainly feel sexy when I can see/feel Mr KC getting over excited because he finds me sexy...."

Yeah I can relate to this Mrs KC

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Depends on the day. Often, I don't feel sexy because I think I look like a beached whale but in some outfits, I do feel sexy. I mainly feel sexy when I can see/feel Mr KC getting over excited because he finds me sexy....

Yeah I can relate to this Mrs KC"

Like, I felt sexy in the shower this morning.....

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Depends on the day. Often, I don't feel sexy because I think I look like a beached whale but in some outfits, I do feel sexy. I mainly feel sexy when I can see/feel Mr KC getting over excited because he finds me sexy....

Yeah I can relate to this Mrs KC

Like, I felt sexy in the shower this morning..... "

was he peeking ?

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By *urvelover39Man
over a year ago

Somewhere

Fresh boxers , that's about it

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Depends on the day. Often, I don't feel sexy because I think I look like a beached whale but in some outfits, I do feel sexy. I mainly feel sexy when I can see/feel Mr KC getting over excited because he finds me sexy....

Yeah I can relate to this Mrs KC

Like, I felt sexy in the shower this morning.....

was he peeking ?"

No, he was a very happy husband receiving a blow job

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Depends on the day. Often, I don't feel sexy because I think I look like a beached whale but in some outfits, I do feel sexy. I mainly feel sexy when I can see/feel Mr KC getting over excited because he finds me sexy....

Yeah I can relate to this Mrs KC

Like, I felt sexy in the shower this morning.....

was he peeking ?

No, he was a very happy husband receiving a blow job "

Oh! Haha

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Actually i feel sexy now I'm looking good but i just saw my exs daughters 17 yr old female best friend with a baby and its knocked the feeling out of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are very rare occasions I feel sexy.

One is when I perform, weirdly after my first fringe I didn't but last year it happened once or twice.

The other is lost in the moment with someone, knowing you are giving them pleasure, seeing them react. A kiss, a touch, even just that eye contact and laughter before you even get to the the sex stuff.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I only feel sexy when I'm naked with a man who is thoroughly enveloping me in lust and pleasure.

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By *laytime78Man
over a year ago

Oldham


"Absolutely not.

But sometimes other people make me feel sexy, its the look in their eyes! At those moments, yes, i feel incredibly sexy x "

This is the same for me, being looked at a certain way and being wanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can I hear Austin Powers in ky head saying 'do I make you feel sexy baby'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only feel sexy when I'm naked with a man who is thoroughly enveloping me in lust and pleasure."

I must agree with that, once I'm at that stag lust takes over.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Why can I hear Austin Powers in ky head saying 'do I make you feel sexy baby'"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can I hear Austin Powers in ky head saying 'do I make you feel sexy baby'"

Do I make you Randy? Do I?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Why can I hear Austin Powers in ky head saying 'do I make you feel sexy baby'

Do I make you Randy? Do I?"

*Purring noise*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s transient, I find. Some days yes, and often I just like myself in a particular outfit, or feel especially confident about my body. But like most, I often feel like a blob.

It definitely helps having someone interested in me though, being desired has a nice way of papering over the cracks.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Not really.

I tend to fluctuate, so when I've lost a bit of belly and my clothes are fitting well, and I'm wearing a nice outfit then I might feel sexy.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Time and a place and all that. Day to day no.

But getting ready for bed and the mrs starts eyeing me up in my pants, yes I do.

The mr

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Not really.

I tend to fluctuate, so when I've lost a bit of belly and my clothes are fitting well, and I'm wearing a nice outfit then I might feel sexy. "

Yeah. I get this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think having energy is a big part of it.

Today I'm utterly wiped out and don't feel sexy.

However yesterday I did, the energy from the sun, other people and I was happy and feeling it.

Today I'm Meh!

So energy, it comes from energy! When someone fancies you, you get an energy from that, you feel sexy.

So can someone give me some energy please I'm on vapours!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really.

I tend to fluctuate, so when I've lost a bit of belly and my clothes are fitting well, and I'm wearing a nice outfit then I might feel sexy.

Yeah. I get this "

I try so hard to get rid of my tummy, I hate it and it has stopped me from playing so many times as I just get so self conscious.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I might not appear sexy on the outside but my sexiness is merely internal.

I’m grateful for my body, I’m accepting the aging process as something natural and I feel powerful. I feel sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right now?

Not at all. Once I've shaved my legs, tinted my brows, had a facial (the skincare kind) and possibly done my nails I might feel a little sexier

F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think having energy is a big part of it.

Today I'm utterly wiped out and don't feel sexy.

However yesterday I did, the energy from the sun, other people and I was happy and feeling it.

Today I'm Meh!

So energy, it comes from energy! When someone fancies you, you get an energy from that, you feel sexy.

So can someone give me some energy please I'm on vapours!"

Just realised how that reads.

That was not supposed to come across like that!

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Right now, no.

I don't often feel 'sexy' to be honest. This isn't false modesty - there are definitely times I feel happy and confident with how I look, but "sexiness" isn't really my thing.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Sometimes it's as soon as he opens his zip and I'm bending down to take him in my mouth.

I feel washed with desire and a peace falls upon me

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Not really.

I tend to fluctuate, so when I've lost a bit of belly and my clothes are fitting well, and I'm wearing a nice outfit then I might feel sexy.

Yeah. I get this

I try so hard to get rid of my tummy, I hate it and it has stopped me from playing so many times as I just get so self conscious."

I’m self conscious about some things too. And it does stop me meeting people sometimes.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't really feel sexy. In a not self deprecating way, I know I'm not sexy. I'm cute and happy with that.

But, reciprocated desire does make me feel desirable. I guess the closest to feeling sexy on a personal level, things I do?

Taking care of myself, my mood etc. Like having a long hot shower, exfoliating and trimming while listening to good music. Going for a long walk/to the gym. Things that make my body feel alive. Enough sleep. Taking care of myself and being the best me I can be at that moment makes me feel more confident in the moment. I feel more cute.

I do think it’s linked to confidence "

Yes definitely. Feeling secure, well more secure in who you are.

I think I feel desirable more than sexy. And I like that other people can influence that to some extent, it's very clear when I'm feeling desired and when I'm not - my words are softer and more charged, I feel happier in myself. My libido rockets.

I'm also just a bit of a slut for that feedback loop of desire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think having energy is a big part of it.

Today I'm utterly wiped out and don't feel sexy.

However yesterday I did, the energy from the sun, other people and I was happy and feeling it.

Today I'm Meh!

So energy, it comes from energy! When someone fancies you, you get an energy from that, you feel sexy.

So can someone give me some energy please I'm on vapours!

Just realised how that reads.

That was not supposed to come across like that!"

Not sure how you felt it came across, seemed OK to me. Can understand the running on fumes, I have felt that for a while, but currently feel wanted - plus the sun is out in Lisbon and its still 24° at 17.00 hours. My tank feels full!

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

I'm sexy and I know it...

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I'm sexy and I know it..."

You’re very sexy young man. Good to see you back too x

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

yes i think i do,,

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

Right now? No I don’t Nora. I ache and I’m sore and it’s not shifting. Right now I feel all of my years.

But

Putting on some of my fav underwear, putting on heels, putting on lippy, my hair just done. Those are the sorts of things do it for me. It’s those things that make me feel confident in myself and that’s what makes me feel sexy.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Right now? No I don’t Nora. I ache and I’m sore and it’s not shifting. Right now I feel all of my years.

But

Putting on some of my fav underwear, putting on heels, putting on lippy, my hair just done. Those are the sorts of things do it for me. It’s those things that make me feel confident in myself and that’s what makes me feel sexy."

Yeah I think the confidence thing is definitely linked. It is for me anyway.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"Define what feeling sexy is, I'm not sure. I accept who I am and I'm gratefull for what I have and do and have learned to love myself but, I'm not sure what feeling sexy actualy is.

I can’t define it really. It will be different for different people. Not sure I even have my own definition to put into words "

I been trying to think what feeling sexy is so,

When you look at someone and think they are sexy is because the tern you on and you feel aroused, do I every look at myself and feel aroused then no.

When I wear something new, I sometimes feel more confident but, not aroused as this is the same happy feeling I get when buying a piece of furniture or a new car.

When I do deep meditaion and I'm in the zone, I get the emotional enegy and feeling of an orgasm but it doesn't make me feel aroused though.

The first hot day, fills me with good energy and vitamin D and I suppose as an after effect I can look at someone a feel more aroused but, I would say it makes me feel sexy.

I don't have much of an ego so, perhaps this is why I lack feeling sexy although I do feel confident and love myself for who I am.

But I also look at things too deeply sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

And nothing at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my days. Some days I want to just lounge around and look like I brushed my hair with a grenade. "Feeling sexy" is situational for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm horny most of the time, but I've never felt sexy in my life..

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

Sometimes yes, sometimes no!

All depends on my mood and my feeling at the time, somedays I feel like I'm glowing where as others ill feel a bit meh. This is normally reflected in how I'm dressed and how outgoing I am as well. A fresh haircut always help bring that feeling back when it fades.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

No I don't. What makes me feel sexy? Actually having the sex

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"No I don't. What makes me feel sexy? Actually having the sex "

Odd that isn't it?

Who'd have thunk it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no! I've only ever had one person that has ever made me feel sexy and desireable, and that was a long time ago. I live in hope that one day it might happen again

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By *issEmmWoman
over a year ago

Bournemouth

I can’t say I’ve ever felt sexy

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Right now I do.. but that might just be the cava lol...

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By *weetCherryWoman
over a year ago

London

Right now? Not in the slightest

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"No I don't. What makes me feel sexy? Actually having the sex

Odd that isn't it?

Who'd have thunk it?"

Yeah it's a conundrum - apparently just have to get me naked quick enough that I don't have time to think or me nervous

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

Fuck no haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes "

Oh Rexy, you're so sexy!

(Unless you don't get that reference, as then we'll never have a future !)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only feel sexy when I have a sexy woman sat on my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The hasn’t cracked today but I do have a tickling throat right now

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"No I don't. What makes me feel sexy? Actually having the sex

Odd that isn't it?

Who'd have thunk it?

Yeah it's a conundrum - apparently just have to get me naked quick enough that I don't have time to think or me nervous "

Don't wear anything you mind being torn to shreds.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Depends on the occasion, setting and circumstances.

It's a state of mind which varies and is influenced by a multitude of factors.

Being happy with one's self and of course attention and some external validation from either a loved one or someone we desire can contribute decisively.

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

No not in myself, but occasionally though by how someone looks at me or how they make me feel

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Good god no. I'm over the hill. I'm a realist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never feel sexy! But I don't say that in a 'poor me' way, it's just not my thing! I'm clumsy and goofy and can't really take myself seriously enough to have any kind of sex appeal, but I'm at peace with that . I like when I find my people who are the same.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Nope but wearing my pvc/leather/satin clothes makes me feel sexy. Its mainly why i like to dress up for meets

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"No I don't. What makes me feel sexy? Actually having the sex

Odd that isn't it?

Who'd have thunk it?

Yeah it's a conundrum - apparently just have to get me naked quick enough that I don't have time to think or me nervous

Don't wear anything you mind being torn to shreds. "

Deal

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Sometimes. Less so since I've not been training for a while but that's just a body dysmorphia thing

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I feel fairly sexy. Usually happens after a good gym session or a fresh haircut

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

I feel very, very sexy when fully dressed ,

Xx

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"I never feel sexy! But I don't say that in a 'poor me' way, it's just not my thing! I'm clumsy and goofy and can't really take myself seriously enough to have any kind of sex appeal, but I'm at peace with that . I like when I find my people who are the same. "

You defo have sex appeal!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jennie feels sexy.

Scott .... hmmm ... less so

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"I think having energy is a big part of it.

Today I'm utterly wiped out and don't feel sexy.

However yesterday I did, the energy from the sun, other people and I was happy and feeling it.

Today I'm Meh!

So energy, it comes from energy! When someone fancies you, you get an energy from that, you feel sexy.

So can someone give me some energy please I'm on vapours!"

Can totally relate to this, I definitely need to have the energy, to make the effort, to look ok and feel it.

I agree with what others have said about feeling desired.

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By *rMonkeyMan
over a year ago

Somewhere

Never, I don't think I can do sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never feel sexy! But I don't say that in a 'poor me' way, it's just not my thing! I'm clumsy and goofy and can't really take myself seriously enough to have any kind of sex appeal, but I'm at peace with that . I like when I find my people who are the same.

You defo have sex appeal!! "

I have 2d boob pics, that's different ! I can't keep a straight face long enough to actually be sexy! But thanks

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"I never feel sexy! But I don't say that in a 'poor me' way, it's just not my thing! I'm clumsy and goofy and can't really take myself seriously enough to have any kind of sex appeal, but I'm at peace with that . I like when I find my people who are the same.

You defo have sex appeal!!

I have 2d boob pics, that's different ! I can't keep a straight face long enough to actually be sexy! But thanks "

Your 2d face is also sexy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don’t feel sexy. J giving me attention can maybe make me feel a little sexy, but otherwise not at all.

J doesn’t normally feel sexy. But has said I make her feel sexy with the way I speak to her, and the compliments I give her.

That and compliments from other men when we are out at the weekends .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice messages from others are always a positive not allways got the most confidence and it's nice to know theres interest in me

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Not right now I don’t! But I definitely did earlier today when I got Wolf whistled at by I think it was 3 lasses in a car! Either they were a little bit tipsy or just taking the piss lol all I was doing is filling a skip at the side of the road, I was wearing a vest though so I’m going with enjoying the view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes more than others you be honest. New cloths often help, brw aftershave and if I'm.feeing in premium shape so training is on point.

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