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"Absolutely not. But sometimes other people make me feel sexy, its the look in their eyes! At those moments, yes, i feel incredibly sexy x " So like someone wanting you and thinking you’re sexy makes you feel sexy? x | |||
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"If not what makes you feel sexy?" Kissing a lover when we meet. Lying next to her in bed. Watching her smile as she sleeps. | |||
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"A person can make me feel sexy. right now, I am not feeling it. … you know what my next line should be. " If ya want my body and ya think I’m sexy ….? | |||
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"So like someone wanting you and thinking you’re sexy makes you feel sexy? x " Yes, exactly x | |||
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"Right now? No. But on the rare occasions I do it's because of my own state of mind. I don't think anyone ever makes me feel that way, I don't take much (or any!) notice of what others say to me so their opinion doesn't mean a lot. I realise this may seem a tad dismissive but it's just how I am. I don't need others confirmation to think that way. I either do or I don't and it's all my own doing. " I understand that to be fair. A bit like when someone says you look great or you don’t need to lose weight. And you know you do so it makes no difference | |||
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"So like someone wanting you and thinking you’re sexy makes you feel sexy? x Yes, exactly x " Yeah. I agree with that | |||
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"A person can make me feel sexy. right now, I am not feeling it. … you know what my next line should be. If ya want my body and ya think I’m sexy ….?" …Unzip my pants and say you’ll blow!? I don’t know the words, I’m improvising | |||
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"Just posted a thread about what really turns me on." That’s too long haha | |||
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"A person can make me feel sexy. right now, I am not feeling it. … you know what my next line should be. If ya want my body and ya think I’m sexy ….? …Unzip my pants and say you’ll blow!? I don’t know the words, I’m improvising " You may be a bit young for that song I quoted | |||
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"Right now? No. But on the rare occasions I do it's because of my own state of mind. I don't think anyone ever makes me feel that way, I don't take much (or any!) notice of what others say to me so their opinion doesn't mean a lot. I realise this may seem a tad dismissive but it's just how I am. I don't need others confirmation to think that way. I either do or I don't and it's all my own doing. I understand that to be fair. A bit like when someone says you look great or you don’t need to lose weight. And you know you do so it makes no difference " Oh shit, I never feel sexy because someone says it! Damn, that’s not how it works. | |||
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"Right now? No. But on the rare occasions I do it's because of my own state of mind. I don't think anyone ever makes me feel that way, I don't take much (or any!) notice of what others say to me so their opinion doesn't mean a lot. I realise this may seem a tad dismissive but it's just how I am. I don't need others confirmation to think that way. I either do or I don't and it's all my own doing. I understand that to be fair. A bit like when someone says you look great or you don’t need to lose weight. And you know you do so it makes no difference Oh shit, I never feel sexy because someone says it! Damn, that’s not how it works. " So if someone really wants you and can’t keep their hands off you that doesn’t make you feel sexy? | |||
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"If not what makes you feel sexy?" think with most guys its waking up | |||
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"Right now? No. But on the rare occasions I do it's because of my own state of mind. I don't think anyone ever makes me feel that way, I don't take much (or any!) notice of what others say to me so their opinion doesn't mean a lot. I realise this may seem a tad dismissive but it's just how I am. I don't need others confirmation to think that way. I either do or I don't and it's all my own doing. I understand that to be fair. A bit like when someone says you look great or you don’t need to lose weight. And you know you do so it makes no difference Oh shit, I never feel sexy because someone says it! Damn, that’s not how it works. So if someone really wants you and can’t keep their hands off you that doesn’t make you feel sexy?" That just means they want sex. 2 different things. | |||
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"Right now? No. But on the rare occasions I do it's because of my own state of mind. I don't think anyone ever makes me feel that way, I don't take much (or any!) notice of what others say to me so their opinion doesn't mean a lot. I realise this may seem a tad dismissive but it's just how I am. I don't need others confirmation to think that way. I either do or I don't and it's all my own doing. I understand that to be fair. A bit like when someone says you look great or you don’t need to lose weight. And you know you do so it makes no difference Oh shit, I never feel sexy because someone says it! Damn, that’s not how it works. So if someone really wants you and can’t keep their hands off you that doesn’t make you feel sexy? That just means they want sex. 2 different things. " Depends who it is though. Does for me anyhoo | |||
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"If not what makes you feel sexy?think with most guys its waking up " I don’t mean feeling like sex. I mean feeling sexy | |||
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"I wish my hair would grow. I need a wild mane again then I would feel sexier. " Same I had mine cut shorter. I don’t hate it and it’s easier to manage but I prefer it long | |||
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"I don't really feel sexy. In a not self deprecating way, I know I'm not sexy. I'm cute and happy with that. But, reciprocated desire does make me feel desirable. I guess the closest to feeling sexy on a personal level, things I do? Taking care of myself, my mood etc. Like having a long hot shower, exfoliating and trimming while listening to good music. Going for a long walk/to the gym. Things that make my body feel alive. Enough sleep. Taking care of myself and being the best me I can be at that moment makes me feel more confident in the moment. I feel more cute. " I do think it’s linked to confidence | |||
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"Right now? No. …. I understand that to be fair. A bit like when someone says you look great or you don’t need to lose weight. And you know you do so it makes no difference Oh shit, I never feel sexy because someone says it! Damn, that’s not how it works. So if someone really wants you and can’t keep their hands off you that doesn’t make you feel sexy?" That’s the end result. All that leading to the fumbling got me feeling sexy enough to get to that point. The, the lead up, everything they do and say, the subtle beauty and sexyness and attraction they try to hide. It get you feeling ‘it’. Makes you heart race and the just fullness to dive in yourself and start tearing at each other. It’s more than words. #weallknow | |||
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"Define what feeling sexy is, I'm not sure. I accept who I am and I'm gratefull for what I have and do and have learned to love myself but, I'm not sure what feeling sexy actualy is." I can’t define it really. It will be different for different people. Not sure I even have my own definition to put into words | |||
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"You must be joking - not in the slightest atm. Maybe some pics of ladies in their blue underwear would help? " you and your blue underwear | |||
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"It's a state of mind isn't it? Depends on mood and how bloated I am " Yes I think it is a state of mind | |||
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"If not what makes you feel sexy?think with most guys its waking up I don’t mean feeling like sex. I mean feeling sexy " If its erect you feel sexy, they just knock one out and all the effort needed to feel sexy goes | |||
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"Depends on the day. Often, I don't feel sexy because I think I look like a beached whale but in some outfits, I do feel sexy. I mainly feel sexy when I can see/feel Mr KC getting over excited because he finds me sexy...." Yeah I can relate to this Mrs KC | |||
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"Depends on the day. Often, I don't feel sexy because I think I look like a beached whale but in some outfits, I do feel sexy. I mainly feel sexy when I can see/feel Mr KC getting over excited because he finds me sexy.... Yeah I can relate to this Mrs KC" Like, I felt sexy in the shower this morning..... | |||
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"Depends on the day. Often, I don't feel sexy because I think I look like a beached whale but in some outfits, I do feel sexy. I mainly feel sexy when I can see/feel Mr KC getting over excited because he finds me sexy.... Yeah I can relate to this Mrs KC Like, I felt sexy in the shower this morning..... " was he peeking ? | |||
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"Depends on the day. Often, I don't feel sexy because I think I look like a beached whale but in some outfits, I do feel sexy. I mainly feel sexy when I can see/feel Mr KC getting over excited because he finds me sexy.... Yeah I can relate to this Mrs KC Like, I felt sexy in the shower this morning..... was he peeking ?" No, he was a very happy husband receiving a blow job | |||
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"Depends on the day. Often, I don't feel sexy because I think I look like a beached whale but in some outfits, I do feel sexy. I mainly feel sexy when I can see/feel Mr KC getting over excited because he finds me sexy.... Yeah I can relate to this Mrs KC Like, I felt sexy in the shower this morning..... was he peeking ? No, he was a very happy husband receiving a blow job " Oh! Haha | |||
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"Absolutely not. But sometimes other people make me feel sexy, its the look in their eyes! At those moments, yes, i feel incredibly sexy x " This is the same for me, being looked at a certain way and being wanted | |||
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"I only feel sexy when I'm naked with a man who is thoroughly enveloping me in lust and pleasure." I must agree with that, once I'm at that stag lust takes over. | |||
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"Why can I hear Austin Powers in ky head saying 'do I make you feel sexy baby'" | |||
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"Why can I hear Austin Powers in ky head saying 'do I make you feel sexy baby'" Do I make you Randy? Do I? | |||
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"Why can I hear Austin Powers in ky head saying 'do I make you feel sexy baby' Do I make you Randy? Do I?" *Purring noise* | |||
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"Not really. I tend to fluctuate, so when I've lost a bit of belly and my clothes are fitting well, and I'm wearing a nice outfit then I might feel sexy. " Yeah. I get this | |||
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"Not really. I tend to fluctuate, so when I've lost a bit of belly and my clothes are fitting well, and I'm wearing a nice outfit then I might feel sexy. Yeah. I get this " I try so hard to get rid of my tummy, I hate it and it has stopped me from playing so many times as I just get so self conscious. | |||
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"I think having energy is a big part of it. Today I'm utterly wiped out and don't feel sexy. However yesterday I did, the energy from the sun, other people and I was happy and feeling it. Today I'm Meh! So energy, it comes from energy! When someone fancies you, you get an energy from that, you feel sexy. So can someone give me some energy please I'm on vapours!" Just realised how that reads. That was not supposed to come across like that! | |||
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"Not really. I tend to fluctuate, so when I've lost a bit of belly and my clothes are fitting well, and I'm wearing a nice outfit then I might feel sexy. Yeah. I get this I try so hard to get rid of my tummy, I hate it and it has stopped me from playing so many times as I just get so self conscious." I’m self conscious about some things too. And it does stop me meeting people sometimes. | |||
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"I don't really feel sexy. In a not self deprecating way, I know I'm not sexy. I'm cute and happy with that. But, reciprocated desire does make me feel desirable. I guess the closest to feeling sexy on a personal level, things I do? Taking care of myself, my mood etc. Like having a long hot shower, exfoliating and trimming while listening to good music. Going for a long walk/to the gym. Things that make my body feel alive. Enough sleep. Taking care of myself and being the best me I can be at that moment makes me feel more confident in the moment. I feel more cute. I do think it’s linked to confidence " Yes definitely. Feeling secure, well more secure in who you are. I think I feel desirable more than sexy. And I like that other people can influence that to some extent, it's very clear when I'm feeling desired and when I'm not - my words are softer and more charged, I feel happier in myself. My libido rockets. I'm also just a bit of a slut for that feedback loop of desire. | |||
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"I think having energy is a big part of it. Today I'm utterly wiped out and don't feel sexy. However yesterday I did, the energy from the sun, other people and I was happy and feeling it. Today I'm Meh! So energy, it comes from energy! When someone fancies you, you get an energy from that, you feel sexy. So can someone give me some energy please I'm on vapours! Just realised how that reads. That was not supposed to come across like that!" Not sure how you felt it came across, seemed OK to me. Can understand the running on fumes, I have felt that for a while, but currently feel wanted - plus the sun is out in Lisbon and its still 24° at 17.00 hours. My tank feels full! | |||
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"I'm sexy and I know it..." You’re very sexy young man. Good to see you back too x | |||
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"Right now? No I don’t Nora. I ache and I’m sore and it’s not shifting. Right now I feel all of my years. But Putting on some of my fav underwear, putting on heels, putting on lippy, my hair just done. Those are the sorts of things do it for me. It’s those things that make me feel confident in myself and that’s what makes me feel sexy." Yeah I think the confidence thing is definitely linked. It is for me anyway. | |||
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"Define what feeling sexy is, I'm not sure. I accept who I am and I'm gratefull for what I have and do and have learned to love myself but, I'm not sure what feeling sexy actualy is. I can’t define it really. It will be different for different people. Not sure I even have my own definition to put into words " I been trying to think what feeling sexy is so, When you look at someone and think they are sexy is because the tern you on and you feel aroused, do I every look at myself and feel aroused then no. When I wear something new, I sometimes feel more confident but, not aroused as this is the same happy feeling I get when buying a piece of furniture or a new car. When I do deep meditaion and I'm in the zone, I get the emotional enegy and feeling of an orgasm but it doesn't make me feel aroused though. The first hot day, fills me with good energy and vitamin D and I suppose as an after effect I can look at someone a feel more aroused but, I would say it makes me feel sexy. I don't have much of an ego so, perhaps this is why I lack feeling sexy although I do feel confident and love myself for who I am. But I also look at things too deeply sometimes. | |||
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"No I don't. What makes me feel sexy? Actually having the sex " Odd that isn't it? Who'd have thunk it? | |||
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"No I don't. What makes me feel sexy? Actually having the sex Odd that isn't it? Who'd have thunk it?" Yeah it's a conundrum - apparently just have to get me naked quick enough that I don't have time to think or me nervous | |||
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"Yes " Oh Rexy, you're so sexy! (Unless you don't get that reference, as then we'll never have a future !) | |||
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"No I don't. What makes me feel sexy? Actually having the sex Odd that isn't it? Who'd have thunk it? Yeah it's a conundrum - apparently just have to get me naked quick enough that I don't have time to think or me nervous " Don't wear anything you mind being torn to shreds. | |||
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"No I don't. What makes me feel sexy? Actually having the sex Odd that isn't it? Who'd have thunk it? Yeah it's a conundrum - apparently just have to get me naked quick enough that I don't have time to think or me nervous Don't wear anything you mind being torn to shreds. " Deal | |||
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"I never feel sexy! But I don't say that in a 'poor me' way, it's just not my thing! I'm clumsy and goofy and can't really take myself seriously enough to have any kind of sex appeal, but I'm at peace with that . I like when I find my people who are the same. " You defo have sex appeal!! | |||
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"I think having energy is a big part of it. Today I'm utterly wiped out and don't feel sexy. However yesterday I did, the energy from the sun, other people and I was happy and feeling it. Today I'm Meh! So energy, it comes from energy! When someone fancies you, you get an energy from that, you feel sexy. So can someone give me some energy please I'm on vapours!" Can totally relate to this, I definitely need to have the energy, to make the effort, to look ok and feel it. I agree with what others have said about feeling desired. | |||
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"I never feel sexy! But I don't say that in a 'poor me' way, it's just not my thing! I'm clumsy and goofy and can't really take myself seriously enough to have any kind of sex appeal, but I'm at peace with that . I like when I find my people who are the same. You defo have sex appeal!! " I have 2d boob pics, that's different ! I can't keep a straight face long enough to actually be sexy! But thanks | |||
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"I never feel sexy! But I don't say that in a 'poor me' way, it's just not my thing! I'm clumsy and goofy and can't really take myself seriously enough to have any kind of sex appeal, but I'm at peace with that . I like when I find my people who are the same. You defo have sex appeal!! I have 2d boob pics, that's different ! I can't keep a straight face long enough to actually be sexy! But thanks " Your 2d face is also sexy! | |||
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