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By *tevesue2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We are looking for help and or advice please.

We have been here a while now and thought we knew what we where looking for but we guess like many that is not always the case.

We have had a couple on MFM but we are as interested in the friendship side of this life too, so after lots of searching we have found a really great couple and we all get on very well, here is the issue, whilst I'm very happy to see June with another man, hence the MFM, she much less so seeing me with another woman she says she is not jeaulous but more possessive any advice greatly received. What shall we do?

Thanks.

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By *urreyfun38Couple
over a year ago

croydon


"We are looking for help and or advice please.

We have been here a while now and thought we knew what we where looking for but we guess like many that is not always the case.

We have had a couple on MFM but we are as interested in the friendship side of this life too, so after lots of searching we have found a really great couple and we all get on very well, here is the issue, whilst I'm very happy to see June with another man, hence the MFM, she much less so seeing me with another woman she says she is not jeaulous but more possessive any advice greatly received. What shall we do?

Thanks."

Maybe try separate rooms.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"We are looking for help and or advice please.

We have been here a while now and thought we knew what we where looking for but we guess like many that is not always the case.

We have had a couple on MFM but we are as interested in the friendship side of this life too, so after lots of searching we have found a really great couple and we all get on very well, here is the issue, whilst I'm very happy to see June with another man, hence the MFM, she much less so seeing me with another woman she says she is not jeaulous but more possessive any advice greatly received. What shall we do?

Thanks."

If she's not happy with another couple don't push her.

She has her boundaries don't cross them, I like seeing the Mr with another woman however I'm unsure about being with another man, if I wanted too he'd be all for it, but wouldn't ever push me to do something I wasn't comfortable with.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suggest not going through with it until everyone knows exactly what they want. The last thing you want to do is go and your wife gets upset or you ending putting the other couple in a really uncomfortable situation if it all goes tits up.

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By *tevesue2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

leeds

No pushing at all, we 100% agree on anything and everything. But many thanks for your input xx

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Stick with just having another guy joining you

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"I suggest not going through with it until everyone knows exactly what they want. The last thing you want to do is go and your wife gets upset or you ending putting the other couple in a really uncomfortable situation if it all goes tits up. "

This is good advice

I love seeing my mr with another woman and know its just fun & he comes home with/to me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What help of advice do you want? If she doesn't want to see you with another woman that's the end of it surely.

When we first started swinging I wasn't sure I'd want to see Mr N with another woman but over time that changed and I'm happy to see him enjoy himself. Your partner might change her mind too but also she might not.

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By *ueandbillCouple
over a year ago

Leyland

We are in the same situation, but i dont mind as much as im happy with things as they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MFM is the best way forward.

I just used to love see, hear wife get fucked and Mrs was shy before that but then opened up. However, with family and people we knew she still behaves like she used to. However, with stranger blokes, she is never shy to talk and flirt now but always a slow start but never on the phone, not sure why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello guys

This is what I call “ knickers politics “

Very familiar with this one . Personally

Been there

As I love FFM and I can’t do MMF . So I’m not fair in my sex politics . I know I’m not But is my pattern . I’m genuine . Is how I am . Can’t fake .

And I been discriminated on fabs for don’t offer MMF . On fabs . The most open mind platform . In 2023 is shocking . I didn’t toke any notice

But comments like : no cocaine n no MMF ? U r shit . Oh dear … anyway … ha ha

Back to you :

Your best friend here is Honesty .

Your best tool is clear open communication

And your best product is a pattern that will keep both happy .

I am a FFM lover . I love it . But if I have a loving partner who doesn’t like it ?

I don’t give two fucks about FFM . Simple

As .

Priorities . Fantasies vs dreams .

I’m not a fair lover when it cames to FFM n MMF as she can’t have MM couple with me included . Would have to go with out me .

I can have a FF couple, she can have FM

I only like FF , she likes FM

I have 2 , she has 1 each ? Is fair as we both like women we both happy

But I don’t men , so is. It fair I have to do something I can’t do

And is not fair on her she can’t have what she wants .

So …. There will be a pattern to be talked about n find an answer

I’m single . But I been in this position before

And I couldn’t do MMF so the FFM gone of the window

And I was happy and she was happy

Then later the 1o1 gone of the window too

Sadly. So yeah

I’m sure u guys will find a happy answer

Happy fabs

Honesty n communication don’t hide

Be real . Be 100%

Me personally I have too be 200%real or computer say no

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"We are looking for help and or advice please.

We have been here a while now and thought we knew what we where looking for but we guess like many that is not always the case.

We have had a couple on MFM but we are as interested in the friendship side of this life too, so after lots of searching we have found a really great couple and we all get on very well, here is the issue, whilst I'm very happy to see June with another man, hence the MFM, she much less so seeing me with another woman she says she is not jeaulous but more possessive any advice greatly received. What shall we do?

Thanks."
Always let the woman have her way its so much easier

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"We are looking for help and or advice please.

We have been here a while now and thought we knew what we where looking for but we guess like many that is not always the case.

We have had a couple on MFM but we are as interested in the friendship side of this life too, so after lots of searching we have found a really great couple and we all get on very well, here is the issue, whilst I'm very happy to see June with another man, hence the MFM, she much less so seeing me with another woman she says she is not jeaulous but more possessive any advice greatly received. What shall we do?

Thanks."

Not invite another women in

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