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By *odieCI5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull

Dose anyone else look at the background in house pics, and if it’s a mess, it is a big turn off ha ha maybe I’m fussy

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I only look at pics to see the backgrounds

They can be interesting

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Absolutely, OP. Disgusting bedrooms, bathrooms, personal hygiene (like dirty fingernails) is very off putting.

I recently refused a meet with someone down to a disgusting house when we met for coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely, OP. Disgusting bedrooms, bathrooms, personal hygiene (like dirty fingernails) is very off putting.

I recently refused a meet with someone down to a disgusting house when we met for coffee."

*Checks finger nails.....oh.

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By *carletcoupleCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Absolutely, OP. Disgusting bedrooms, bathrooms, personal hygiene (like dirty fingernails) is very off putting.

I recently refused a meet with someone down to a disgusting house when we met for coffee.

*Checks finger nails.....oh. "

100%, untidy houses and dirty fingernails are what we look for and it's a turn off and move on straight away..

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's like a crime scene cluedo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely, OP. Disgusting bedrooms, bathrooms, personal hygiene (like dirty fingernails) is very off putting.

I recently refused a meet with someone down to a disgusting house when we met for coffee.

*Checks finger nails.....oh.

100%, untidy houses and dirty fingernails are what we look for and it's a turn off and move on straight away.. "

I'm doomed.

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By *essicagraceWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

I don't tend to get too judgy cause I have adhd so my room is often chaos. However if its like low quality photos and there's nothing else jumping out... It'd be a turn off yes. Rubbish lying around is a huge no no. Difference between shoes littering the hall behind an outfit pic and a cock/lynx can picture with empty take away boxes behind it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s an absolute shit tip then yeah, it’s really off putting or if they just look unclean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely, OP. Disgusting bedrooms, bathrooms, personal hygiene (like dirty fingernails) is very off putting.

I recently refused a meet with someone down to a disgusting house when we met for coffee.

*Checks finger nails.....oh. "

A certain amount of blood is only to be expected..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try not to judge but if the background is super messy than it can be a little off putting. Mrs has a big thing about fingernails too, always looks closely at people fingernails on pics like an absolute psychopath

Mr

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

I do, there is one in the Irish hot pics at the moment and they’ve a lovely looking kitchen

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

Absolutely...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.

The back grounds tell you a lot about a person

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes I do, I love spotting the Mrs belongings in the single males photos

Also the scavenger hunt we need another one.

Mrs

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Mucky carpets, or pants laid in a pile

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Definitely

I think it tells you a lot about a person

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

Totally agree with you op

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Always... I saw the grimiest bathroom floor the other day...

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

I thought I was the only one

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Absolutely! Would be a total turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I please point out, the background on ours, where there is stuff on the bed.. It is just clothes/lingerie so I feel that is acceptable plus I've blurred it anyway

I did have to crop out a Smyths bag out of one of our pictures.

F

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

This is my guilty pleasure on Fab! I love checking out the background in people's pics.

Mike

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By *odieCI5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull


"Absolutely! Would be a total turn off "

Ohh your on my hot list ha ha ha

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"This is my guilty pleasure on Fab! I love checking out the background in people's pics.

Mike"

This is why it is worth paying to be a site subscriber !

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By *odieCI5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull

Well glad I’m not the only one, I actually got put off by ragging curtains hanging all over the place, and an old busty up chest of draws, it looked like a bombed out building ha ha, and strangely enough, no condoms in any pics, huge no no, hope she doesn’t see this ha ha

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

OP How do you feel about toilets or urinals in the background of pics ?

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By *odieCI5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull


"OP How do you feel about toilets or urinals in the background of pics ?"

Oh got to have the big shot ha ha it’s up there with legs in the bath

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By *odieCI5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull

Bog shot that meant to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely I do! I know it’s judgmental but I like what I like

Unmade beds, toilet seat up, floordrobes are my biggest turn offs.

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By *odieCI5 OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull


"Absolutely I do! I know it’s judgmental but I like what I like

Unmade beds, toilet seat up, floordrobes are my biggest turn offs. "

Oh toilet seat up is a bit harsh ha ha, I’m a man and live alone, ha ha no reason to have the seat down, ha ha bless you

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By *ornycouple7884Couple
over a year ago

Exeter

The amount of pics clearly taken in public toilets though ?? Erm not a turn on thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it can be for sure. Obviously normal house things around is fine just not a mess or if they look unkempt that's not pleasant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dose anyone else look at the background in house pics, and if it’s a mess, it is a big turn off ha ha maybe I’m fussy "

All the time. I notice the back ground before the person/ people. Ha ha

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By *arpePinguisWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Oh definitely! And i don't understand why guys take pics of themselves in grubby mirrors saw one delightful profile pic with no duvet cover! A bit of untidiness is okay but when your carpet is clearly overdue a vacuum, I worry hygiene isnt well looked after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, yes and yes.

There is a female local to me and her pics are awful. The total mess is unreal. The place must stink.

It's worrying that she clearly doesnt notice it

It bothers me that much that I wouldnt meet a guy who has met her. And her equally minging friend

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