FabSwingers.com forum: Going out alone

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does anyone else here do it? I love just walking, going for a drink, spending all night just feeling free. Any other loners here you’re more than welcome to lmk if you wanna go somewhere for a drink. Mental health is massively important, so please don’t hesitate to open up here. I walk alone, I’m usually lonely. Gotta take time for yourself though and enjoy being out on your own. This post meanders a bit but you might get what I’m saying. Hope you all have a lovely evening

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes, I often go for a walk on my own. I stick headphones in so I can stay alone.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Just went to a local festival on my own. Home now though as it was Baltic

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

London

Yes, I go everywhere alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go alone but with my camera and often camp alone on weekends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like alone time, sometimes…

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

If I didn't do anything on my own I'd never leave the house

But seriously, I know it's hard and I would often get nervous (sometimes still do) doing things on my own. But the confidence you gain from knowing you don't have to depend on others to live your life the way you want to is worth the nerves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm often doing things alone. And it's quite liberating just heading out for a good walk and actually enjoying the solitude rather than fearing it.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

As a single parent I do a lot with my child but for me time I like doing things alone. I always have done.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I do lots of things alone, if i dudnt i wouldn't do hardly anything.

I do enjoy it but at times it would be nice to have someone to enjoy it with.

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By *phroditesexygodessWoman
over a year ago

sexy town

I love walking on my own with my music on sometimes singing along to myself maybe a bit too loud but hay I don't care I'm out having some fun it's feels good haha sod what others think do what makes you feel alive and free love my own company always have x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else here do it? I love just walking, going for a drink, spending all night just feeling free. Any other loners here you’re more than welcome to lmk if you wanna go somewhere for a drink.….."

Then how the hell am I supposed to enjoy being alone if I’m out with you?

I actually don’t enjoy being alone, I’ve avoided going out all day today, and I needed shopping.

I’d much rather spend it with someone.

But, yeh, like you a can do it and find something interesting during my time on my own.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I didn't do anything on my own I'd never leave the house

Exactly!!!!!

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

All the time it’s great.

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

There are times I love being alone, in my own head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do everything on my own: gigs, theatre, walks, rides, sports matches, etc. Can't remember what it was like to do stuff with someone else.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I like my alone time. Do feel a bit awkward in social settings on my own but walking or being somewhere secluded I like.

I am another take my camera person.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I go to football on my own I dont mind that.

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

I definitely need my alone time, especially after ive been social.

I have done a few things alone, like go to the theatre or for dinner, but dont do them often. This thread is making me think i should do more things though x

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By *uyForeLadiesMan
over a year ago

Grantham

"I love walking on my own with my music on sometimes singing along to myself maybe a bit too loud but hay I don't care I'm out having some fun it's feels good haha sod what others think do what makes you feel alive and free love my own company always have x"

Haha, this is me. Been caught more than once playing the air guitar or drums. Always saying hi to people and petting their dogs if their ok with it. Very beneficial for my mental health

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By *illDoXXXMan
over a year ago

Preston

Mates think I’m odd because I’m happy to get to a bar early and read a book.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mates think I’m odd because I’m happy to get to a bar early and read a book. "

Nope that’s a brilliant thing bro

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I definitely need my alone time, especially after ive been social.

I have done a few things alone, like go to the theatre or for dinner, but dont do them often. This thread is making me think i should do more things though x

You ABSOLUTELY SHOULD!! I often go to the cinema alone, the sense of freedom is utterly intoxicating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often go to concerts and movies, a walk on the beach on my own. As it happens, I'm off on my own to a concert later this week in Glasgow.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

I've been to gigs on my own several times, gone to the pub by myself..not afraid to be in my own company

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

o o OO o o

I’d love to do a holiday truly on my own. I have a terrible sense of direction and I’m a bit ditzy. I’d book a holiday to Boston and end up in Bolton

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I have no problems going places on my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it. Just came back from trip to Greece on my own. Was bloody brilliant not having ask anyone else about doing anything. Met and chatted to locals and other travelers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my own company - perhaps a bit too much at times. I enjoy going for a drive, or for a coffee, or a night or two in a hotel by myself. It's good for the soul

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is what I found the hardest about becoming a parent I used to have so much me time that sometimes I felt lonely. Now I never have me time and have never felt more lonely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When your a single person, you've no choice, but to go out & do thing's on your own.

I've to do it meself, go to the pub, away for a weekend, holidays, etc.

It's probably the good thing about being single, as you can come & go, as you please.

The down side of being a single person is, it can be very hard on a person's metal health, being on your own alot of the time. So anybody that's not feeling great, talk to somebody. "It's ok, to be ok".

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Reading this I realise that O need to push myself to get out more alone.

This might sound weird, but since I lost my dog last year, I don't really get out much. It feels strange walking without her zx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is what I found the hardest about becoming a parent I used to have so much me time that sometimes I felt lonely. Now I never have me time and have never felt more lonely. "

I hear you with this one. Mr and I don't live together and both have kids from our previous relationships. My kids are getting a bit older and therefore stay up a bit later...which means I literally get no time to myself in the evenings any more and I really, really miss that. So whenever I get the opportunity for time on my own I grab it with both hands

Mrs

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Frequently. I live alone and enjoy my time company, so go out for exercise and pursuits all the time. Life's a challenge, the secret is to not lose out, just because there may not be someone to accompany you, some of the time.

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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

How can loners go for a drink together?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found myself on my own a lot nowadays …. It’s shit

…. End of !

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
over a year ago

IPSWICH

I do most things alone. I'm kind of used to it.

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By *ickdelightMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Would love someone in Portsmouth to join me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite used to doing lots of things alone. There are some adventures though, that I really do want to share.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Swanage

I like going out alone i enjoy my own company, i like meeting people i enjoy their company, I'm a people person

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Me spending time with myself is my favourite, I mean I’m a top lad, we like all the same stuff. So it’s a win win really.

The mr

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By *hestersladyWoman
over a year ago

cannock

I go to the football alone !!

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Yes, there are times when I only want my own company. And do dogs count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love doing stuff on my own. Ingo for meals, cinema, shopping, bike rides, walks and holidays

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By *issIrishCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Me I always prefer my own company, I like going for walks and vibing to music and gaming

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I go to the football alone !!

Who is your team?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Me I always prefer my own company, I like going for walks and vibing to music and gaming "

Me too!!!!! Get the speakers on and chill playing a game

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, there are times when I only want my own company. And do dogs count?"

Dogs can be stressful sometimes but it counts to be alone with them

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Love my own company tbf

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

At times yes I enjoy my me time but doesn't last long as I always come across someone I may know

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