FabSwingers.com forum: Help

By *razel OP Man
over a year ago

South East

Wondering how single guys on here go about meeting people and what some good opening messages would be as most people's inboxes on here are so full they have no time to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people will check out your profile before ecen thinking abput opening anything you've sent tyem.

If they're unimpressed, chances are they'll either delete it or ignore it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, Drazel, Drazel, Drazel, I made you out of clay.

Are you made out of clay? That would be a good ice breaker.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

They have plenty of time to reply to anyone they think they’ll have a connection with. That connection really starts with a well written and interesting profile, without that the message won’t be opened. Basically it’s the first thing a woman or couple will look at.

Good luck

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Congrats on your second post OP. The forums are a good place to chat nonsense and pick up some tips while you wait for that elusive first meet. The numbers are against you but a funny/interesting profile with a good mix of pics showcasing your best bits will help. Make friends with your camera timer

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"Oh, Drazel, Drazel, Drazel, I made you out of clay.

Are you made out of clay? That would be a good ice breaker."

Will it break ice as well as a young lad on his way to school spotting a frozen puddle... *smash*

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Make your profile interesting and appealing - whatever you think will attract your target audience.

The person you're messaging, look to their profile for information that will help you write a message they'd like.

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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

The best way to get a reply is as follows...

Send my pic and say...this is what you could end up with if your not careful lol

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

We’re not allowed to critique profiles and tell someone that their profile is rubbish unless they specifically ask us to, which you didn’t do OP.

Hopefully you can read between the lines though…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always check their profile first.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Now then you slag, get thee fucking tits out and thee gob around this.

Works for me.

The mr

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Wondering how single guys on here go about meeting people and what some good opening messages would be as most people's inboxes on here are so full they have no time to reply."

Generally, it seems that women will read your profile before they even open your message. If your profile doesn't tick their boxes, they'll not bother reading your message.

The message it's self should be genuine and specific to the person you're contacting. Humour is always popular, and smiley face pics help immensely... but don't send pictures of your cock and don't send sexual messages.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Wondering how single guys on here go about meeting people and what some good opening messages would be as most people's inboxes on here are so full they have no time to reply."
Your profile is your advert

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