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 . Are many folk put off by bigger ladies or is it a non issue?! I find myself only winking or messaging similar body types to my own because of my own insecurities.
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"I'm a BBW and have spent years feeling embarrassed of my body. My husband loves my softness and curves but I just thought he was weird . Are many folk put off by bigger ladies or is it a non issue?! I find myself only winking or messaging similar body types to my own because of my own insecurities.
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"Personally I think your pics look great and hubby Is a very lucky man (which I am sure he knows) xx" That's really kind. Thank you xx | |||
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"It's a non issue for myself. I don't have preferences like body type etc, it's all about the vibe we have. " That's good to know. Thank you xx | |||
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"If you search topic heading bbw you will find that there are many bbw appreciation threads Ooh, top tip! Thank you *Searches for search function.top left hand side under quick links" Thank you xx | |||
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And Yes I am one "Really? We're pretty new to all this so an discovering so much. How do I find these marvelous places?! X  | |||
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"I love a woman with curves and OP you look just amazing " Thank you lovely x | |||
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We live in a society that constantly tells women that they should be reed thin. It's not natural and it makes no allowance for the range of human physiology. Full figured women with bellies and large breasts and big bums are just gorgeous - and lots of people think so!.
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"Obviously personality is important in forming a connection, but we'd be naive to think that physical attraction doesn't play a role. Plenty of men and women are attracted to a fuller figured woman. My late wife was what you'd term a bbw, and she was the sexiest woman I've ever met. I might hope that I'm not weird (well, not TOO weird - but we won't get into that ).
We live in a society that constantly tells women that they should be reed thin. It's not natural and it makes no allowance for the range of human physiology. Full figured women with bellies and large breasts and big bums are just gorgeous - and lots of people think so!.
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"Bbw ladies are that popular that there is a dedicated club night for them at most swingers clubs
And Yes I am one
Really? We're pretty new to all this so an discovering so much. How do I find these marvelous places?! X "Have a look on your local swingers club website and the events dates will be on there, its a very popular night | |||
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"Just had a peek, and I think you look absolutely beautiful. Exactly the body type I love in a female, so soft and pillowy to touch
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"I love a woman with curves and OP you look just amazing " thank you x | |||
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"I'm a BBW and have spent years feeling embarrassed of my body. My husband loves my softness and curves but I just thought he was weird . Are many folk put off by bigger ladies or is it a non issue?! I find myself only winking or messaging similar body types to my own because of my own insecurities.
Please be kind!"Mrs R used to feel like this, her body shape and weight constantly fluctuates, but one of her biggest revelations was when we started visiting the clubs, there was such a range of different body types - all shapes and sizes - and what’s more she got attention from people which made her feel very confident and attractive no matter what her body shape at the time. People are attracted to different shapes and sizes, no matter what they are so embrace it, enjoy it and be confident in in your body. Also like to add, we’re very eclectic in our tastes visually - what never differs is our attraction to attitude and personality - and that’s often as important if not more so in who we are attracted to. We’ve met people in clubs we may not initially be attracted to, but after chatting we’ve become attracted to them because of their personality and the click we’ve had with them and had some great fun with them. | |||
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"We are looking for one to take our gorgeous lady friend to. She thinks that she'll be more comfortable and confident in an environment with ladies of a similar build. Sounds like you two have a lot in common "You'll have to introduce us! | |||
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"I'm a BBW and have spent years feeling embarrassed of my body. My husband loves my softness and curves but I just thought he was weird . Are many folk put off by bigger ladies or is it a non issue?! I find myself only winking or messaging similar body types to my own because of my own insecurities.
Please be kind!
Mrs R used to feel like this, her body shape and weight constantly fluctuates, but one of her biggest revelations was when we started visiting the clubs, there was such a range of different body types - all shapes and sizes - and what’s more she got attention from people which made her feel very confident and attractive no matter what her body shape at the time.
People are attracted to different shapes and sizes, no matter what they are so embrace it, enjoy it and be confident in in your body.
Also like to add, we’re very eclectic in our tastes visually - what never differs is our attraction to attitude and personality - and that’s often as important if not more so in who we are attracted to.
We’ve met people in clubs we may not initially be attracted to, but after chatting we’ve become attracted to them because of their personality and the click we’ve had with them and had some great fun with them. "This is really heartening to read. Thank you for taking the time to reply xx | |||
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"I'm a BBW and have spent years feeling embarrassed of my body. My husband loves my softness and curves but I just thought he was weird . Are many folk put off by bigger ladies or is it a non issue?! I find myself only winking or messaging similar body types to my own because of my own insecurities.
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"Does that mean you're attracted to people who don't look like you OP? And that you'd like to wink or message them? Many people me being one those, like women with a completely different body type to mine. So by not going for it your potentially missing out on people who think you're amazing " I absolutely am attracted to those not like me. Maybe I should stop do being so daft!! | |||
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"Does that mean you're attracted to people who don't look like you OP? And that you'd like to wink or message them? Many people me being one those, like women with a completely different body type to mine. So by not going for it your potentially missing out on people who think you're amazing I absolutely am attracted to those not like me. Maybe I should stop do being so daft!!" Nah it's not daft, we all have our insecurities. But you should try and engage with those you fancy  | |||
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"I'm a BBW and have spent years feeling embarrassed of my body. My husband loves my softness and curves but I just thought he was weird . Are many folk put off by bigger ladies or is it a non issue?! I find myself only winking or messaging similar body types to my own because of my own insecurities.
Please be kind!"Non issue for Me Always preferred larger women always have always will Listen to your husband ?  | |||
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"I'm a BBW and have spent years feeling embarrassed of my body. My husband loves my softness and curves but I just thought he was weird . Are many folk put off by bigger ladies or is it a non issue?! I find myself only winking or messaging similar body types to my own because of my own insecurities.
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Non issue for Me
Always preferred larger women always have always will
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"I'm a BBW and have spent years feeling embarrassed of my body. My husband loves my softness and curves but I just thought he was weird . Are many folk put off by bigger ladies or is it a non issue?! I find myself only winking or messaging similar body types to my own because of my own insecurities.
Please be kind!"Honestly I am the same never really been comfortable with how I look, my shape or size. My man loves my curves and in general prefers curvy women. He tells me all the time how much he loves my shape and body and some times it's hard to believe. I am getting a lot more comfortable with my shape these days but I will never see myself the way he sees me. I used to cover up my body alot more but now I have the confidence to wear a skirt and a short top if I want to and bollocks to what anyone else thinks | |||
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"I understand how you feel, I hate mine too and it always makes me really nervous when it comes to meeting people. I'm a dab hand with fairly flattering camera angles most of the time. I'm always convinced they will be disappointed when they meet me. However, no man has ever ran away scared at the sight of me naked yet and as far as I know, I've not traumatised anyone either. What we see and what others see is the very often different. " You look fantastic, wish I had boobs like yours. | |||
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"We are looking for one to take our gorgeous lady friend to. She thinks that she'll be more comfortable and confident in an environment with ladies of a similar build. Sounds like you two have a lot in common
You'll have to introduce us! "I'd be happy to. I will just let her know about your thread | |||
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"I'm a BBW and have spent years feeling embarrassed of my body. My husband loves my softness and curves but I just thought he was weird . Are many folk put off by bigger ladies or is it a non issue?! I find myself only winking or messaging similar body types to my own because of my own insecurities.
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Honestly I am the same never really been comfortable with how I look, my shape or size. My man loves my curves and in general prefers curvy women. He tells me all the time how much he loves my shape and body and some times it's hard to believe. I am getting a lot more comfortable with my shape these days but I will never see myself the way he sees me. I used to cover up my body alot more but now I have the confidence to wear a skirt and a short top if I want to and bollocks to what anyone else thinks "It's rubbish isn't it!! Glad things are improving for you!! Xx | |||
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"I struggle with my size too. Even though I've gone down 5 dress sizes, I still don't feel sexy. I think a lot of the issue is with our own heads! I always hope my personality will get me somewhere ha ha. " I'm sure it does and you look gorgeous btw!! Lucky for me I have lots of personality! | |||
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"I understand how you feel, I hate mine too and it always makes me really nervous when it comes to meeting people. I'm a dab hand with fairly flattering camera angles most of the time. I'm always convinced they will be disappointed when they meet me. However, no man has ever ran away scared at the sight of me naked yet and as far as I know, I've not traumatised anyone either. What we see and what others see is the very often different. You look fantastic, wish I had boobs like yours." Thanks... I've always wanted little ones where the bra didn't resemble a parachute!! | |||
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"I've never had a problem with my wobbly bits x" You're gorgeous xx | |||
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"I've never had a problem with my wobbly bits x You're gorgeous xx" Thank you but it's all doen to great angles..plus my face isn't visable x | |||
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"I understand how you feel, I hate mine too and it always makes me really nervous when it comes to meeting people. I'm a dab hand with fairly flattering camera angles most of the time. I'm always convinced they will be disappointed when they meet me. However, no man has ever ran away scared at the sight of me naked yet and as far as I know, I've not traumatised anyone either. What we see and what others see is the very often different. You look fantastic, wish I had boobs like yours. Thanks... I've always wanted little ones where the bra didn't resemble a parachute!! "Funny how we want what we don't have. | |||
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"I've never had a problem with my wobbly bits x You're gorgeous xx Thank you but it's all doen to great angles..plus my face isn't visable x"Bloody hell we're all the same, aren't we!! I still think you're gorgeous...I would! | |||
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Like you, I've had a lot of confidence issues about my figure over the years, but Mr makes me feel like a goddess. I also worry that other people won't be attracted to me, but then the number of Fabs on our pics speaks for itself, and is a lovely wee confidence boost!
Just be yourselves, and for you pic ideas, take some sexy lingerie shots
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"I've just had a nosey at your profile and love your pics. You are beautiful, and from one curvy woman to another, I love your curves
Like you, I've had a lot of confidence issues about my figure over the years, but Mr makes me feel like a goddess. I also worry that other people won't be attracted to me, but then the number of Fabs on our pics speaks for itself, and is a lovely wee confidence boost!
Just be yourselves, and for you pic ideas, take some sexy lingerie shots
Mrs"Aww thank so much. That's really kind of you. You're bloody gorgeous! Lingerie shots it is... Where's my tripod?! Xxx | |||
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"It's tricky when you get into your own head too much. I feel the same sometimes, even though Mr loves my body I don't always believe that I am attractive to anyone else. However I enjoy posting pics and get a confidence boost from fabs. As other people have already said people are attracted to different things and there are plenty out there who love a curvaceous lady "I definitely need a bit of a boost. There's so many Gorgeous people... Including you, btw xx | |||
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"There are lots of club events for us curvy ladies, but clubs are pretty inclusive anyway. There’s someone for everyone in the weird and wonderful world of swinging. Own your curves, confidence is sexy xx" Thank you Gorgeous... It is my new mission!! | |||
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