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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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You. And you. And yep, even you.

So- what are the personality traits you like in other people?

Do you find that the qualities you admire in other people are ones you possess yourself on some level?

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Humility, kindness and humour. Simples.

Oh and an unwavering devotion to the Pope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally for me I tend to be drawn towards positive people, with a kind heart and compassion for others. I hate bullying and dislike arrogance. But love confidence, fun and a sense of adventure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You. And you. And yep, even you.

So- what are the personality traits you like in other people?

Do you find that the qualities you admire in other people are ones you possess yourself on some level?

"

I admire people that don't take life so seriously generally. Mental health issues aside which I genuinely sympathise with. And yes I have that trait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sense of humor

Cheeky side

Compassion

Strong minded.

I’d like to think I possess these qualities myself but ultimately love spending time with people who are comfortable in themselves and knows their own mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Humility, kindness and humour. Simples.

Oh and an unwavering devotion to the Pope. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour, kindness and a sense of adventure

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good morning Meli.

For me I'd say the ability to empathise and sympathise, a sense of humour, not taking themselves too seriously, a strong sense of principle, a real naughty (sorry to use that word but can't think of another this early in the day) streak and a strong preference for cake....

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

People with a strong sense of self - who don’t follow the crowd and freely speak there mind, who have the ability to take the piss but not with arrogance and equally have the piss taken out them. People with a warm glow who just have those inviting eyes that suck you in and you can’t help but listen to them, people with a soul for adventure and a mind to make it happen xx

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Authenticity

Openness

Empathy

Spontaneity

Intelligence

Intuitiveness

Wild at heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sense of humour and empathy would be the two big ones for me. I think everything else would be embellishment

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Humour, kindness & empathy.

Mrs

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"You. And you. And yep, even you.

So- what are the personality traits you like in other people?

Do you find that the qualities you admire in other people are ones you possess yourself on some level?

"

Kindness, wit, charm, politeness, humour, forgiveness, integrity, class

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *kaythen07Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Humour, and confidence(with out cockieness)

I gravitate towards people who have been through the mill and come out the over side fighting, it people that feel the word owes them a favour I've got no time for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like kindness. I love people who are authenticly themselves. They don't need to pretend to be something they aren't. The embrace the tough times and the good times.

I value honesty and deep conversations. Don't hide behind small talk, tell me what you really think and mean.

I suppose in many ways I do see those things in myself too

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Oh and self awareness. And yes i think those i admire in others i feel i either have myself or desire that i have.

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By *ed MartinMan
over a year ago

Shefford


"You. And you. And yep, even you.

So- what are the personality traits you like in other people?

Do you find that the qualities you admire in other people are ones you possess yourself on some level?

I’m normally quite reserved socially, but in the past I’ve tended to date people who are more vivacious. Perhaps this is why all my relationships have eventually fallen apart?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Empathy, integrity, a wicked sense of humour, compassion

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Personally for me I tend to be drawn towards positive people, with a kind heart and compassion for others. I hate bullying and dislike arrogance. But love confidence, fun and a sense of adventure. "

Aww I like this a lot. I don't think there's wrong with someone not always being positive, I love people who present who they are without a facade. But that sense of adventure is such an important trait in others if you have it. Else it can be a bit... boring.

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I love warm hearted cunts! You know the type, will happily take the piss, but you know they’d be the first ones there if ever needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any good traits

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Oh I love lots of traits in other people. But I think my favourite one is passion. And I don't mean in a sexual way. Just the way someone can talk about a subject with such passion that you become engrossed in what they are saying. Or that they have this drive to explore more because of it and you get sucked along on the ride. I adore those kind of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have any good traits "

I call horse shit in this one, wonko is all the good, people who are themselves get my vote, you can be happy sad anything just don’t try and be someone else

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I like people who have a thought process and don't judge people on words alone, i like generous people with a personality and i like people who laugh

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

Did someone mentioned cake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did someone mentioned cake? "

Whoops I might have slipped it in.. or even slipped in it

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By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

Honesty, being humble, willingness to help others.

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

Honesty, kindness intelligence.

I really like a bit of quirkiness. Something unique.

And passion. Not just for sex. But a passion for life. I give 100% and I always like that to be reciprocated - I don’t expect anyone to be quite as full on throttle as me though. That would be quite possibly dangerous

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By *lipzer KnicksaffWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

Playfulness and a sense of humour.

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

Do great boobs and a fine ass count as personality traits?

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"You. And you. And yep, even you.

So- what are the personality traits you like in other people?

Do you find that the qualities you admire in other people are ones you possess yourself on some level?

"

Yes and no because I can be a dick sometimes. At least I'm honest.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

A sense of humour is an absolute prerequisite for me.

Also, generosity, warmth, being non judgmental and a reasonable grasp on sanity help.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Down to earth, sense of humour, none serious.

Also me bring my very strange self. I like people who don’t like me, as I am a man who likes to know where he stand, you know where you stand with those people, you don’t have to work out of its fake nice or genuine nice, you know they don’t like you, job done.

The mr

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"People with a strong sense of self - who don’t follow the crowd and freely speak there mind, who have the ability to take the piss but not with arrogance and equally have the piss taken out them. People with a warm glow who just have those inviting eyes that suck you in and you can’t help but listen to them, people with a soul for adventure and a mind to make it happen xx"

This is eloquently described Dancer, I adore it, x

Yes, those with that warm energy that radiates - being around them is good for the soul. I like those people a lot. And it's good to not take life too seriously - people who are able to laugh, revel in the silliness are fantastic.

Quite a bit of what you've described is how I see you, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People with a strong social compassion. Free thinkers. People who are comfortable with who they are and don't follow the crowd. People who are passionate about what they love regardless of what it is

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"I like kindness. I love people who are authenticly themselves. They don't need to pretend to be something they aren't. The embrace the tough times and the good times.

I value honesty and deep conversations. Don't hide behind small talk, tell me what you really think and mean.

I suppose in many ways I do see those things in myself too "

Oh authenticity! An oft bandied around term but one that carries so much importance.

Yes. I like people who don't filter, edit who they are to try and appease or appeal to others. Can openly talk about those tough times, the good times and everything in between. You know where you stand. Without overthinking. The bond is deeper because... you're talking to the real them. Not who they feel you should be. In turn, it gives you space to be you. To let others know the real you.

I see those things in you too Wyld. It's not that common to find people who are authentic - makes it all the more special when you do, doesn't it? x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I admire qualities that I don't perceive myself to possess.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Ahhh Meli...

I have been struggling with this all week.

I like Basic Manners, Honesty, Integrity and Kindness in people. I have a real problem not judging people who don't have these qualities. But I've learned not to put people on unobtainable pedestals and my frustration has lowered. Ignoring them is best for me and facing up to that I cannot protect everyone has helped me let go

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Kindness, Humour, Eccentricity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A similar sense of humour, empathy and confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Similar humour , well read , knowledgeable, respect for their appearance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kindness and empathy

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Mellster! Is this some kind of tribute thread?

I like people who say the things, rather than shying away from them. I can't be doing with pussyfooting around. That doesn't mean I tell it like it is - take me as you find me - I'm just being honest etc. etc... But I do value people who speak plainly when the time is right.

What about you?

Mrs TMN x

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Humility, kind, confident, shy and non judgemental people.

I sure the list could go on.

When I get to see their inner self is a pretty special moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bigger chest than mine, driven, enthusiastic, sympathetic, communicative, compassionate, idealistic, sincere and imaginative.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Kindness, compassion, humility, integrity, self confidence, ambition, self sufficiency - I seek all of those in a partner and aspire to be those things myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You. And you. And yep, even you.

So- what are the personality traits you like in other people?

Do you find that the qualities you admire in other people are ones you possess yourself on some level?

"

I look for Kindness, humility, empathy and who is caring, thoughtful, unselfish and can show their weaknesses, i personally think that shows strength. I hope that people can see i have some of these traits. I struggle to empathise sometimes and my anxiety comes across as rudeness. But i am a person working towards being a better person each day

Whoa i got a bit deep there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confident but not arrogant.

Will stand up for people.

Sarcastic.

Hard working.

Sweet as fuck but only with me.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

My very favourite people all have an abundance of empathy, dark humour, and outright sadism.

But there are a million things that could draw me to someone's personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My very favourite people all have an abundance of empathy, dark humour, and outright sadism.

But there are a million things that could draw me to someone's personality."

*is none of the above *

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I like a person who's still breathing

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"My very favourite people all have an abundance of empathy, dark humour, and outright sadism.

But there are a million things that could draw me to someone's personality.

*is none of the above *"

That'll be why you're not on the very favourites list

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"My very favourite people all have an abundance of empathy, dark humour, and outright sadism.

But there are a million things that could draw me to someone's personality."

How dark are we talking? Like Anthony Jeselnik dark?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My very favourite people all have an abundance of empathy, dark humour, and outright sadism.

But there are a million things that could draw me to someone's personality.

*is none of the above *

That'll be why you're not on the very favourites list "
exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Confident but not arrogant.

Will stand up for people.

Sarcastic.

Hard working.

Sweet as fuck but only with me.

"

Like how sweet

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

If they're open and chatty. Makes it so much easier for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kindness, humility and self awareness.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"My very favourite people all have an abundance of empathy, dark humour, and outright sadism.

But there are a million things that could draw me to someone's personality.

How dark are we talking? Like Anthony Jeselnik dark?"

I have no idea who that is.

But if you guilty for laughing at it, it's probably the right ballpark.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"My very favourite people all have an abundance of empathy, dark humour, and outright sadism.

But there are a million things that could draw me to someone's personality.

How dark are we talking? Like Anthony Jeselnik dark?

I have no idea who that is.

But if you guilty for laughing at it, it's probably the right ballpark."

I can't think of many darker Doug Stanhope maybe.

Do I feel guilty laughing... I think I have before, I'm sure I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Random, kind, funny and honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Random, kind, funny and honest."

Would you like one of my kitkat fingers?

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By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

Forgot to add loyalty, being fiercely loyal myself (often to my own detriment) I’d like a partner who is similar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Witty and a good sense of humour goes without saying. Also if they show compassion and sensitivity.

Femininininity. (Just be womanie !!!

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling


"People with a strong sense of self - who don’t follow the crowd and freely speak there mind, who have the ability to take the piss but not with arrogance and equally have the piss taken out them. People with a warm glow who just have those inviting eyes that suck you in and you can’t help but listen to them, people with a soul for adventure and a mind to make it happen xx

This is eloquently described Dancer, I adore it, x

Yes, those with that warm energy that radiates - being around them is good for the soul. I like those people a lot. And it's good to not take life too seriously - people who are able to laugh, revel in the silliness are fantastic.

Quite a bit of what you've described is how I see you, x

"

Aw Meli you are just adorable, made me smile xx

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By *o scandalousWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Compassion

The ability to laugh at themselves and make others laugh

Kindness

Not afraid to express feelings

Honesty

Loyalty

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Compassion, good sense of sarcasm, and a great sense of humour and generous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that have a nice way about them, a friendly yet not overbearing confidence

Someone who leaves those they meet with a smile, a rosey glow or a feeling they have just met someone 'decent'

Clever enough to be astute and daft in equal measures

Amiable, amicable, honest and unafraid to confront challenges head on

I am like that, in flickers

Sadly, my inner demons let me down at times

Learning when and how to keep them at bay is important x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Kindness

Generosity

empathy

Thoughtfulness

Drama free.

Just someone whose easy to be with.

I'd like to think I have some of those qualities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so- what are the personality traits you like in other people?

Do you find that the qualities you admire in other people are ones you possess yourself on some level? "

I am drawn to confidence, humour, kindness, positivity.. I like radiators that boost others and celebrate their achievements... I really like creative people... I buzz in their presence

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Compassion, good sense of sarcasm, and a great sense of humour and generous "
they are my qualities

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