FabSwingers.com forum: Does porn affect sexual performance?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Listened to a podcast where a guy was talking about his porn addiction, not being able to get it up in reality due to it not being porn like fantasy, etc etc.

Anyone come close to this or experienced anything similar?

I definitely had a porn phase in my early 20s where I watched porn SO much and it wouldn't even make me feel good watching it, it was like needing a hit. Now I actually don't watch much at all, but either way I don't remember it ever affecting sexual performance.

But what about you fabbers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of all people the US navy did research into under 26yo who are in increasing numbers having erection problems or ED and they concluded that the under 26yo had/were watching so much porn that in reality/the RW without porn style stimulants they literally couldn't get an erection

Also because what they expected from actual sex wasn't matching up with their 'date's' expectations again they were failing to get an erection

A sad world ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't watch porn anymore,I think "that's somebody's daughter",I would be devastated if my daughter was in one,what would you people do if you found out your daughter was doing porn?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't watch porn anymore,I think "that's somebody's daughter",I would be devastated if my daughter was in one,what would you people do if you found out your daughter was doing porn?"

Make sure that she enjoyed her work, wasn't being exploited and ensure never worked together

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't watch porn anymore,I think "that's somebody's daughter",I would be devastated if my daughter was in one,what would you people do if you found out your daughter was doing porn?

Make sure that she enjoyed her work, wasn't being exploited and ensure never worked together"

Yeah this. I don't shame porn stars at all and from what I've seen in interviews most are really cool. As long as they are consciously consenting and enjoy it, so be it

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I don't watch porn anymore,I think "that's somebody's daughter",I would be devastated if my daughter was in one,what would you people do if you found out your daughter was doing porn?

Make sure that she enjoyed her work, wasn't being exploited and ensure never worked together

Yeah this. I don't shame porn stars at all and from what I've seen in interviews most are really cool. As long as they are consciously consenting and enjoy it, so be it"

Yep.

Sex work is work.

As long as its done safely who is anyone to judge.

But then there are plenty of guys on Fab who have said they'd never swing with a partner they got together with whether on or off Fab.......so.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't watch porn anymore,I think "that's somebody's daughter",I would be devastated if my daughter was in one,what would you people do if you found out your daughter was doing porn?

Make sure that she enjoyed her work, wasn't being exploited and ensure never worked together

Yeah this. I don't shame porn stars at all and from what I've seen in interviews most are really cool. As long as they are consciously consenting and enjoy it, so be it

Yep.

Sex work is work.

As long as its done safely who is anyone to judge.

But then there are plenty of guys on Fab who have said they'd never swing with a partner they got together with whether on or off Fab.......so.....

Yeah each to their own. It's always a treat when a delicious couple like you do it so thank you for your services

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By *asyloversCouple
over a year ago

leicester

Listen to once upon a time in the valley podcast. Doesn’t tell the whole story but is a great snapshot into what was happening and going through peoples head at the time.

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"I don't watch porn anymore,I think "that's somebody's daughter",I would be devastated if my daughter was in one,what would you people do if you found out your daughter was doing porn?"

Or you could just think your daughter is an adult who can make her own decisions.

Your role is to advise and protect. Devastated is a bit far fetched.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't watch porn anymore,I think "that's somebody's daughter",I would be devastated if my daughter was in one,what would you people do if you found out your daughter was doing porn?

Or you could just think your daughter is an adult who can make her own decisions.

Your role is to advise and protect. Devastated is a bit far fetched. "

Those threads where a new profile emerges and 'take my breath away' enters your head

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"I don't watch porn anymore,I think "that's somebody's daughter",I would be devastated if my daughter was in one,what would you people do if you found out your daughter was doing porn?

Or you could just think your daughter is an adult who can make her own decisions.

Your role is to advise and protect. Devastated is a bit far fetched.

Those threads where a new profile emerges and 'take my breath away' enters your head "

You can usually find me in the politics section

I'd like to say thanks but I'm assuming you're talking about the missus

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't watch porn anymore,I think "that's somebody's daughter",I would be devastated if my daughter was in one,what would you people do if you found out your daughter was doing porn?

Or you could just think your daughter is an adult who can make her own decisions.

Your role is to advise and protect. Devastated is a bit far fetched.

Those threads where a new profile emerges and 'take my breath away' enters your head

You can usually find me in the politics section

I'd like to say thanks but I'm assuming you're talking about the missus

You get a well done, unless you're the profile picture...in which case I've turned

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By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"I don't watch porn anymore,I think "that's somebody's daughter",I would be devastated if my daughter was in one,what would you people do if you found out your daughter was doing porn?

Or you could just think your daughter is an adult who can make her own decisions.

Your role is to advise and protect. Devastated is a bit far fetched.

Those threads where a new profile emerges and 'take my breath away' enters your head

You can usually find me in the politics section

I'd like to say thanks but I'm assuming you're talking about the missus

You get a well done, unless you're the profile picture...in which case I've turned

the DP is definitely not me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't watch porn anymore,I think "that's somebody's daughter",I would be devastated if my daughter was in one,what would you people do if you found out your daughter was doing porn?

Or you could just think your daughter is an adult who can make her own decisions.

Your role is to advise and protect. Devastated is a bit far fetched.

Those threads where a new profile emerges and 'take my breath away' enters your head

You can usually find me in the politics section

I'd like to say thanks but I'm assuming you're talking about the missus

You get a well done, unless you're the profile picture...in which case I've turned

the DP is definitely not me "

She looks amazing. You have done well. Jealousy levels are high

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
over a year ago

Beverley

I still watch a bit, not gonna pretend otherwise, but at the same time it's nowhere near as much as before. I have also considered the OPs question and there is a distinct period in my 20s where I can recall it being the case with my then wife. I didn't have a problem getting it up, but going through the motions.

I cut out the porn and we were at it every night after a week or so.

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By *wointo1Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Manchester

I think I have completed every hub.com there is!

When it comes to an erection in the real world that's different. Just the touch and taste of a woman is enough to get me hard. Porn becomes a distant memory and the moment takes over.

Surely it's a question of mental state. If your still thinking about streaming porn when there is a naked woman in front of you then I say stay at home next time!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I met someone recently, couldn't perform, he said it was a 50/50 chance of him getting hard due to too much porn/masturbation from an early age (he's now 30) said he only masturbates twice a week now. So yes, it has a massive effect on some people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I met someone recently, couldn't perform, he said it was a 50/50 chance of him getting hard due to too much porn/masturbation from an early age (he's now 30) said he only masturbates twice a week now. So yes, it has a massive effect on some people."

I have a friend (I promise) who buys like a Viagra online that is low dose and doesn't need prescription and it sorts him out.

Everyone is now gonna think that's me and that's a risk I guess I had to take

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