FabSwingers.com forum: One of those days

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you ever feel like it’s one of those days where everything is just abit ‘meh’

How do you pick yourself back up?

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By *ure_heatMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Gym. Clears and focuses my mind - and is a massive pick me up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Gym. Clears and focuses my mind - and is a massive pick me up"

Yeah I go to the gym often. Clears the mind for sure

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I do yes...as for picking myself up. Don't really do anything except dust myself down and get on with it.

Hugs OP...if you're having one of those days.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do yes...as for picking myself up. Don't really do anything except dust myself down and get on with it.

Hugs OP...if you're having one of those days."

Thankyou x

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I do yes...as for picking myself up. Don't really do anything except dust myself down and get on with it.

Hugs OP...if you're having one of those days.

Thankyou x"

You're welcome my lovely x

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Yes. Often.

I hope it gets better for you OP

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

It's just one of those days

Where you don't want to wake up

Everything is fucked

Everybody sucks

You don't really know why

But you want to justify

Rippin' someone's head off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big squishy hugs.

I go for a walk or a bike ride in as much nature as possible. Big parks, countryside. It resets me

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By *nna and MikeCouple
over a year ago

Kildare, Laois

"Do you ever feel like it’s one of those days where everything is just abit ‘meh’

How do you pick yourself back up?

My favourite song on repeat and a long drive.

Hugs and kisses for you, OP xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's just one of those days

Where you don't want to wake up

Everything is fucked

Everybody sucks

You don't really know why

But you want to justify

Rippin' someone's head off."

Legit got this in my head now. Thanks hahaha went to limp bizkit last week

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Big squishy hugs.

I go for a walk or a bike ride in as much nature as possible. Big parks, countryside. It resets me"

Thankyou xx

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

A few things that works for me

If it’s a gym night good way to work out the stress

Playing with the dog always cheers me up puts in good mood

Skipping planned tea and getting favourite takeaway

Chill in bath with radio on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you are OK OP

Just remember it is 'one of those days' a day, 24 hours, tomorrow is a new day. And the day prior long gone.

If I have an 'umpty day' I just keep telling myself there is always rain before a sunshine, there will always be new days

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"It's just one of those days

Where you don't want to wake up

Everything is fucked

Everybody sucks

You don't really know why

But you want to justify

Rippin' someone's head off.

Legit got this in my head now. Thanks hahaha went to limp bizkit last week "

First live gig I ever went to

I can't reconcile the way he looks these days at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A few things that works for me

If it’s a gym night good way to work out the stress

Playing with the dog always cheers me up puts in good mood

Skipping planned tea and getting favourite takeaway

Chill in bath with radio on"

Thanks mate x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hope you are OK OP

Just remember it is 'one of those days' a day, 24 hours, tomorrow is a new day. And the day prior long gone.

If I have an 'umpty day' I just keep telling myself there is always rain before a sunshine, there will always be new days "

Thankyou, means a lot x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few things:

1) organise a few activities/fun things to do with people I like. Having something to look forward to perks me up.

2) baking. Give some of what I've made to friends and neighbours.

3) get outside. Fresh air works wonders.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A few things:

1) organise a few activities/fun things to do with people I like. Having something to look forward to perks me up.

2) baking. Give some of what I've made to friends and neighbours.

3) get outside. Fresh air works wonders."

Yeah I completely agree. Booked a holiday this morning so looking forward to that

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I hope today is a better day for you, OP

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I’ve been like that for the last 2 weeks. It’s horrible.

Need to get back to work- over there I am jittery with extreme stress but I prefer it! I am happier and more productive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last couple of weeks or so have been a bit meh. My small people have been unwell. I can't complain as they are the ones feeling worse. One is better the other has been hit quite harshly. I just want to help and feel a bit useless when its not having the desired effect.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hey OP, hope today is feeling brighter for you

If I’m having a bad day, things that always make me feel better are: getting a walk in the fresh air (especially if it’s sunny), cuddles or playing with the dog, listening to music, taking the time to make something nice to eat (feeling like your doing something good for your body), doing something nice for someone else (even if it’s just giving a compliment). If all else fails, hot bath early night and knowing that tomorrow will be a better day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyday

.. ! … just have to keep moving

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Last couple of weeks or so have been a bit meh. My small people have been unwell. I can't complain as they are the ones feeling worse. One is better the other has been hit quite harshly. I just want to help and feel a bit useless when its not having the desired effect.

Yeah I know exactly what you mean. It’s frustrating as you really can’t do anything

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I'm a happy guy nothing really gets me down and if it does i have this compartment in my brain i put it in there and forget about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hey OP, hope today is feeling brighter for you

Hey, Thankyou so much.

Having a much better day, booked a holiday as just realised I’ve not had a holiday since last July. Sometimes work overrides life.. I’ve been focused on getting tattooed more than anything else haha

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

Hugs does wonders!

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By *ittle Miss BipolarWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

I open my eyes and look round about me. Most people don't realise when they have it good.

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"Do you ever feel like it’s one of those days where everything is just abit ‘meh’

How do you pick yourself back up?

Think of how better off I am. There's other people in this world doing far worse than me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hugs does wonders!

I agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you ever feel like it’s one of those days where everything is just abit ‘meh’

How do you pick yourself back up?

Think of how better off I am. There's other people in this world doing far worse than me"

Yeah I get that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A walk in the fresh air can work wonders and give you a bit of headspace to get back on track.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Do you ever feel like it’s one of those days where everything is just abit ‘meh’

How do you pick yourself back up?

Think of how better off I am. There's other people in this world doing far worse than me

Yeah I get that. "

I do agree that there’s always going to be someone worse off and it always helps to count your blessings, but that doesn’t mean your feelings or low mood aren’t valid OP

A comparison I sometimes use is that it would be seen as worse to lose a leg than a foot, but that doesn’t meant the person only losing a foot can’t be sad about it. It’s important to acknowledge your down days and don’t dismiss how you might be feeling in that moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ear pods in off for a nice long run, think about nothing and come back fucked

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Hey OP, hope today is feeling brighter for you

Hey, Thankyou so much.

You’re welcome

Glad to hear you’re feeling better today. It always helps having nice plans to look forward too and obviously your tattoos are a big passion so that will always lift your mood too

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By *ecret_Passion777Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Gym, lifting weights. And an ice cold shower.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hey OP, hope today is feeling brighter for you

Hey, Thankyou so much.

You’re welcome

Glad to hear you’re feeling better today. It always helps having nice plans to look forward too and obviously your tattoos are a big passion so that will always lift your mood too

Means a lot. Much appreciated x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Gym, lifting weights. And an ice cold shower."

Yeah man a cold shower to shock the system

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just "Embrace the Suck" to change my mood.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just "Embrace the Suck" to change my mood."

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