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By *ay11986 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northwest

As I seem to get no where on here with woman, any advice,

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By *urhamlad2022Man
over a year ago

here&there

Don’t see why! Your not bad looking. Tbh fella this site is just full or people who talk the talk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Jay, what would you like advice on?

What to write in your messages?

Profile advice?

Which clubs to go to?

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Only been on for 8 weeks, OP. Give it a chance - takes time to get to know people, just like the offline world.

Good luck!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

There's a lot more men than women around. Standing out from the endless sea of penii is no easy task.

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By *ay11986 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northwest

See going to a club is something I haven't done, I just think getting someone attention or actually getting a response is like 1-2000

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By *ay11986 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northwest


"Only been on for 8 weeks, OP. Give it a chance - takes time to get to know people, just like the offline world.

Good luck!"

I have been on 6 months ago for two years

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

At a glance, fill your profile out, and vary your pictures.

A lot of women look at the profile before they open or delete the message

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By *ay11986 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northwest


"At a glance, fill your profile out, and vary your pictures.

A lot of women look at the profile before they open or delete the message"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put some more info in your profile other than that it’s good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I seem to get no where on here with woman, any advice, "

I've had a quick look and I can't see any rapping on your profile.

You should probably rap more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile, profile, profile.

It doesn't matter how good your message is to someone, they will always check out your profile before even thinking of opening it.

They'll be wanting to know what you're looking for and what you have to offer - and of course, they need to be attracted to you.

If they're unimpressed, they'll simply delete and move on.

You need to ask yourself if your profile is the best it can possibly be.

If you think it is, then carry on doing what you're doing and continue to enjoy your current level of success.

You get out what you put in.

Effort in = rewards out

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Hi Jay, what would you like advice on?

What to write in your messages?

Profile advice?

Which clubs to go to?"

Hi red can you help me write a message its to this beautiful red

head but im a bit shy.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Dude, everyone knows that a gold pass gets you some fanny on here. I’m surprised you’ve not worked that one out yet.

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By *ay11986 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northwest


"Put some more info in your profile other than that it’s good "

Thanks hun

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By *ay11986 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northwest


"Dude, everyone knows that a gold pass gets you some fanny on here. I’m surprised you’ve not worked that one out yet. "

I have a golden ticket does that count

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"Only been on for 8 weeks, OP. Give it a chance - takes time to get to know people, just like the offline world.

Good luck!

I have been on 6 months ago for two years"

Ah, ok. Still guess it takes time to re-establish yourself, unless you're still in touch with people from last time.

I never have any advice other than: "don't be a dick", but that always sounds like I'm taking the piss when I'm not. Just be yourself*.

*Unless you're a dick, in which case, be someone else. Sorry, this last bit is me taking the piss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only been on for 8 weeks, OP. Give it a chance - takes time to get to know people, just like the offline world.

Good luck!

I have been on 6 months ago for two years

Ah, ok. Still guess it takes time to re-establish yourself, unless you're still in touch with people from last time.

I never have any advice other than: "don't be a dick", but that always sounds like I'm taking the piss when I'm not. Just be yourself*.

*Unless you're a dick, in which case, be someone else. Sorry, this last bit is me taking the piss."

That last bit is actually good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only been on for 8 weeks, OP. Give it a chance - takes time to get to know people, just like the offline world.

Good luck!

I have been on 6 months ago for two years

Ah, ok. Still guess it takes time to re-establish yourself, unless you're still in touch with people from last time.

I never have any advice other than: "don't be a dick", but that always sounds like I'm taking the piss when I'm not. Just be yourself*.

*Unless you're a dick, in which case, be someone else. Sorry, this last bit is me taking the piss."

I gave this advice once!!!

Great minds and all.

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By *ay11986 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northwest


"Only been on for 8 weeks, OP. Give it a chance - takes time to get to know people, just like the offline world.

Good luck!

I have been on 6 months ago for two years

Ah, ok. Still guess it takes time to re-establish yourself, unless you're still in touch with people from last time.

I never have any advice other than: "don't be a dick", but that always sounds like I'm taking the piss when I'm not. Just be yourself*.

*Unless you're a dick, in which case, be someone else. Sorry, this last bit is me taking the piss.

That last bit is actually good advice "

Good advice and well I would like to think I'm not a penis so yeah thanks lol

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Dude, everyone knows that a gold pass gets you some fanny on here. I’m surprised you’ve not worked that one out yet.

I have a golden ticket does that count "

No, it’s needs to be a pass I’m afraid

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By *ay11986 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northwest

But it is to coronation Streets coronation party god dam, I can't catch a break lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dude, everyone knows that a gold pass gets you some fanny on here. I’m surprised you’ve not worked that one out yet. "

*Laughs in platinum membership*

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