FabSwingers.com forum: Nudes of the ex etiquette

By *ack688 OP Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

What do you (should you) do with them? Delete them? Keep them? Still use them to wank to? Do you ask permission?

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Delete them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Delete them"

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete them for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good question!

I have so many

I think we should start a thread where ask for replacement videos till we've we've swapped the whole lot out for current ones.

Could take a while. I have too many ex's

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Up to you, but whatever you do, don’t share them or post them online.

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By *radesman87Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Why would you want them from a ex ?

Probably best to delete IMO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good question!

I have so many

I think we should start a thread where ask for replacement videos till we've we've swapped the whole lot out for current ones.

Could take a while. I have too many ex's

Just to clarify we don't swap them with anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always delete. They were taken when you were an item, you are no longer an item.

Also if your looking at them because you miss your partner your probably just going to make yourself miserable thinking of them.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I pin them on my dartboard and throw my Bob Monk at them

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

Delete them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always delete. They were taken when you were an item, you are no longer an item.

Also if your looking at them because you miss your partner your probably just going to make yourself miserable thinking of them."

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I ask for them to be deleted when it's over over. I haven't really had many videos taken of me with another but generally they mainly feature me. I don't really use them for wanking, once it's finished my quim dries up for them.

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By *eorge1949Man
over a year ago

BroadwayWR11

Show some respect - don't take 'em or make 'em in the first place.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Delete them.

Any implied consent regarding those pictures no longer applies when the relationship is over.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Delete.

Mrs

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

A lot of single guys on here post them on here

. It’s incredible that ex partners give so many permission for them to entice new people to play with

I’d delete them - no point keeping pics of someone I have no sexual interest in now.

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By *ed MartinMan
over a year ago

Shefford

Delete them- firstly for the legal/ethical reasons, secondly as an act of self-care, just like you dispose of sentimental items from the relationship; you don’t need that crap weighing you down emotionally for the rest of your life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Delete them and inform the ex of your action

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Delete them

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

Delete them!

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Delete

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By *ritIndianCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Definitely delete.

Mrs

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Yep, totally delete them

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Fife

Keep them but I don't share them... I have dick pics going back 20yrs that I still fck when we are nearby each other

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

"Good question!

I have so many

I think we should start a thread where ask for replacement videos till we've we've swapped the whole lot out for current ones.

Could take a while. I have too many ex's

Nooooo.... delete. Delete..delete

Naughty girl !!!

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Show some respect - don't take 'em or make 'em in the first place."

Don't take them?

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Delete them. If they get into the public domain for whatever reason (your storage gets hacked; you accidentally share a folder; your device gets nicked; whatever), then you don't know what legal jeopardy you may be in. Apart from that, it's good manners.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"Delete them. If they get into the public domain for whatever reason (your storage gets hacked; you accidentally share a folder; your device gets nicked; whatever), then you don't know what legal jeopardy you may be in. Apart from that, it's good manners. "
100% agree

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

trouble most likely, or creating it :)

"What do you (should you) do with them? Delete them? Keep them? Still use them to wank to? Do you ask permission? "
My ex had mine. He makes no secret thet it's still his go to wank bank. I occasionally send him some new ones. He does however know they are not for sharing

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"What do you (should you) do with them? Delete them? Keep them? Still use them to wank to? Do you ask permission? My ex had mine. He makes no secret thet it's still his go to wank bank. I occasionally send him some new ones. He does however know they are not for sharing "
lucky fella

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Delete, and insist the other party does the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete everything.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Delete them because, ex's are ex's for a reason, what's the point in retaining memories of something that was never to be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete them.

Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of single guys on here post them on here

. It’s incredible that ex partners give so many permission for them to entice new people to play with

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Why would you need to ask, delete them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Show some respect - don't take 'em or make 'em in the first place."

I have huge respect for Dora and we both enjoy this dynamic. I’m sure others respect their wives too!

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

No question about it. Delete them. I have no use for them and I would hope they’d think the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For your mental health you should delete.

If you were the one who was dumped using them to wank isn't going to help you get over them.

If you did the breaking up, there was a reason you broke up, and this gives it a chance of getting back together

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