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By *rMrsBrightside OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

the perfect jeans. Do they even exist? So it’s come to that time where I need to step out of my comfort zone as apparently skinny jeans have been out dated for some time and I need to buy a new pair of jeans. My issue is despite being one, i feel too old for the trendy ‘mom’ jeans.

I have tried on numerous pairs over the past few weeks and still haven’t found my dream pair of jeans. You know, the ones that frame and lift my curvy bum and hold in all my stomach rolls. Finish off at just the right length and that perfect shade of denim that goes with everything. It’s got me thinking, if it just that I don’t have the figure for jeans or is it that I’ve missed some lesson in life where you are taught how to find the perfect fit.

So people, what is your perfect fit of jeans? Do you have a style you go for everytime or like me do you hate shopping for them? Maybe you have some tips. Is there a certain style of jeans that you find really sexy on people or a certain look?

Kx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't exist unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get my skinny jeans from Primark,they are a perfect fit every time,ans a bit cheaper too ,its a win win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get my jeans from river island, the fit is perfect and I quite literally wear them until they fall apart

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

I suit low rise jeans best. Levi's Slight Curve were my dream jeans but they don't make them any more. I recently got some Puddle jeans from Urban Outfitters which I love - low rise and wide legs. But finding the right jeans is hard work.

J

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By *rMrsBrightside OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"They don't exist unfortunately "

Well that’s a good start. I’ll just close the thread now

You look great in grey joggers though, so you don’t need the perfect jeans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eurgh I don't wear jeans.

Not comfy.

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By *rMrsBrightside OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I get my jeans from river island, the fit is perfect and I quite literally wear them until they fall apart "

I’ve never thought to try there as it’s not a shop I really go in. Maybe I’ll give it a go. Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eurgh I don't wear jeans.

Not comfy. "

What do you where when something forces you to leave the house then?

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I don't wear jeans either

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

It's worth finding some of the older fashion influencers (I hate that word) on insta with a similar figure to you and then buying the jeans that suit them.

J

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Prefer mine with colour loose fit not keen on the faded ones it's like you've left the iron on m&m

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you find them can you let me know please. I have a wardrobe full of jeans I don’t wear because they never fit how I want them to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I’m

Not in shorts, I’m

Usually in jeans, a nice stretch pair of Replay are my go to

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By *rMrsBrightside OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I suit low rise jeans best. Levi's Slight Curve were my dream jeans but they don't make them any more. I recently got some Puddle jeans from Urban Outfitters which I love - low rise and wide legs. But finding the right jeans is hard work.

J"

It really is a chore. I’m trying to remain focussed when I go to the shop and only pick up jeans but I keep getting tempted my all the summer stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eurgh I don't wear jeans.

Not comfy.

What do you where when something forces you to leave the house then?"

I have an array of joggers and leggings.

I'm so sophisticated.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I have a love hate relationship with jeans - I love how they look on others but they hate being on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eurgh I don't wear jeans.

Not comfy.

What do you where when something forces you to leave the house then?

I have an array of joggers and leggings.

I'm so sophisticated. "

Or you need to find the right pair of jeans! Baggy jeans are back in by the way

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By *rMrsBrightside OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Eurgh I don't wear jeans.

Not comfy. "

I agree, I prefer skirts and dresses when I go out usually. Definitely a no no if I’m going out for food!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eurgh I don't wear jeans.

Not comfy.

What do you where when something forces you to leave the house then?

I have an array of joggers and leggings.

I'm so sophisticated.

Or you need to find the right pair of jeans! Baggy jeans are back in by the way "

No jeans are comfy.

I'm happy been a hobo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eurgh I don't wear jeans.

Not comfy.

What do you where when something forces you to leave the house then?

I have an array of joggers and leggings.

I'm so sophisticated.

Or you need to find the right pair of jeans! Baggy jeans are back in by the way "

That’s probably why I’m wear tight fight…. I’m always 2 years behind… or 10 years in front

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By *rMrsBrightside OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I have a love hate relationship with jeans - I love how they look on others but they hate being on me "

I’m the same. My friend looked great in a pair so I tried on the same ones and they looked awful on me

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I had the most perfect pair of jeans, once. They are rare!!

I like high waisted ones now, but don't often wear them as I pretty much live in leggings for comfort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im doomed of skinny jeans are out, they are all I have. It takes me forever to find a pair I like too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get my jeans from river island, the fit is perfect and I quite literally wear them until they fall apart

I’ve never thought to try there as it’s not a shop I really go in. Maybe I’ll give it a go. Thanks x"

Quite reasonable pricing and lots of different styles and fits

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I need to tone the olde wibbly thighs a tad more before I fit nicely back into Jean's. I find the Boyfriend cut in Asda fits me best as the pockets don't make my arse look massive, and the flare balances out my soon to be again muscled thighs

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I read this a few weeks ago. Quite interesting. It basically suggests trying on as many pairs as possible until you find your right fit. Then buy 2 pairs

theguardian.com/fashion/2023/apr/14/your-perfect-jeans-do-exist-you-just-need-to-know-what-to-look-for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d suggest to have a look at cargos. They suit anyone and look so nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not sure about jeans anymore as my fly keeps opening

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"I have a love hate relationship with jeans - I love how they look on others but they hate being on me

I’m the same. My friend looked great in a pair so I tried on the same ones and they looked awful on me "

It's traumatic!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best jeans I've ever bought were actually Tesco perfect sculpt or a good something they were called. They were comfy, flattering and the colour perfect.

Plus only £25!

I think they probably were skinny though.

To be honest regardless of what's 'trendy' or not, I go with what makes me feel good.

Sadly those mom jeans don't seem to flatter my mum body!

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

New look 'curve' skinny fit, ultra high waist, long length in black.

M&S slim bootcut long length, in black, classic and faded.

Bought all 10 pairs they had in sale in my size.

Only allow myself one of each colour, and have to wear them to death before I can have 'new' pair.

At this rate, I think I'm Ok for jeans for about 5 years.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Wrangler black cowboy cut.

Tough,. Durable and with a little bit extra in the groin area.

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By *rMrsBrightside OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I had the most perfect pair of jeans, once. They are rare!!

I like high waisted ones now, but don't often wear them as I pretty much live in leggings for comfort."

I always change into my leggings as soon as I get home, comfort always wins

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By *rMrsBrightside OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"The best jeans I've ever bought were actually Tesco perfect sculpt or a good something they were called. They were comfy, flattering and the colour perfect.

Plus only £25!

I think they probably were skinny though.

To be honest regardless of what's 'trendy' or not, I go with what makes me feel good.

Sadly those mom jeans don't seem to flatter my mum body! "

I’ve heard other people say good things about the Tesco ones.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I have some River Island curve ones and they’re quite comfy

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

Aztec work jeans off eBay as they about only place can find the really light blue coloured ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

American eagle bootcut low-rise for me I hate the high waisted jeans.

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By *ycom72Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Levi’s can’t beat them .. you will always get the right fit men or women

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I don’t think I can post links on the forums, but try Googling "ALC Edinburgh". Adele knows more about women’s denim than anyone else I’ve ever met.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Just try loads on. Avoid stretch denim if possible

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley


"I don't wear jeans either "

Nor me.

What put me off them was seeing pictures of almost everyone in America wearing them. Same goes for baseball caps.

So unimaginative in the 'Land of the free'.

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By *ycom72Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Acne jeans or APC getting pricey but great fit for women

Also arket ,cos or h and m be aware of the fits as cos and arket are h and m owned and your get the same fit in h and m cheaper

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"Eurgh I don't wear jeans.

Not comfy. "

You need bigger knickers! Harvest festivals-aleays safely gathered in.

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By *rMrsBrightside OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"New look 'curve' skinny fit, ultra high waist, long length in black.

M&S slim bootcut long length, in black, classic and faded.

Bought all 10 pairs they had in sale in my size.

Only allow myself one of each colour, and have to wear them to death before I can have 'new' pair.

At this rate, I think I'm Ok for jeans for about 5 years."

Now that is good planning!

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By *rMrsBrightside OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Levi’s can’t beat them .. you will always get the right fit men or women "

I used to always buy Levi’s when I was younger, slimmer & wealthier

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By *ycom72Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Levi’s can’t beat them .. you will always get the right fit men or women

I used to always buy Levi’s when I was younger, slimmer & wealthier "

There not as expensive as you think and do a lot more fits than you might think.. quality over quantity they will last you a long time

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Another vote for Levi's

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

501s in just the right colour blue, but buy them stateside as 35" waist is just

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By *ot_Guy999Man
over a year ago

Close by...


"the perfect jeans. Do they even exist? So it’s come to that time where I need to step out of my comfort zone as apparently skinny jeans have been out dated for some time and I need to buy a new pair of jeans. My issue is despite being one, i feel too old for the trendy ‘mom’ jeans.

I have tried on numerous pairs over the past few weeks and still haven’t found my dream pair of jeans. You know, the ones that frame and lift my curvy bum and hold in all my stomach rolls. Finish off at just the right length and that perfect shade of denim that goes with everything. It’s got me thinking, if it just that I don’t have the figure for jeans or is it that I’ve missed some lesson in life where you are taught how to find the perfect fit.

So people, what is your perfect fit of jeans? Do you have a style you go for everytime or like me do you hate shopping for them? Maybe you have some tips. Is there a certain style of jeans that you find really sexy on people or a certain look?

Kx"

Gotta go Levis... shapes and sizes plentiful!!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Skinny jeans for me, and will continue to do so. It bears little relevance to me if they're are outdated / outmoded. I still prefer them.

Do perfect jeans exist? They do for me because the variation on the cut and quality is quite apparent between brands. I'm mostly loyal to G-Star RAW and A&F, simply because they do odd-numbered sizes and their skinny or cigarette-cut style suit my sparrow legs (!).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Skinny jeans for me! I do have ripped mom jeans but the eldest daughter said I was too old so I stopped wearing them. I’m yet to find a perfect pair of jeans so I stick to jeggings or tight joggers when I’m not at work

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Skinny jeans for me! I do have ripped mom jeans but the eldest daughter said I was too old so I stopped wearing them. I’m yet to find a perfect pair of jeans so I stick to jeggings or tight joggers when I’m not at work

Mrs"

You're not too old for ripped jeans. I think they look great on any age styled right. Get them back out and wear them

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