Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
Back to forum list |
Back to The Lounge |
Jump to newest |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Do any other females struggle with flirting with women.... But not men? Or am I just a little oddball? I find men easier to flirt with in general, But women, I feel like I'm just absolutely rubbish at it. Women think alot differently, they're just different aren't they? Or are they? I've a feeling I 'might' be massively overthinking this!" Yep women are more difficult. Flirt and they'll not think much of it and can think it's harmless fun and not because you're actually flirting with them. Flirt with men and they think you're interested and in there a lot quicker than a woman will. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Men are simple creatures, stick a on the end of anything and your good. Women are just bloody weird. If I was guy I'd be gay for sure. " I object to your first statement. I also require filth and sandwiches. Second statement not all. Third statement I wish. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Men are simple creatures, stick a on the end of anything and your good. Women are just bloody weird. If I was guy I'd be gay for sure. " Excuse you, I require wining and dining! A KFC will do | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Is it because men are naturally open to flirting with women so you get a vibe and it flows easily. Whereas women are more reserved and less prepared to open up so you sense the barrier and struggle? It’s probably deeply subconscious so they don’t know it’s happening. How do you feel when another woman comes on to you? " ?? you sure ?? if thats the case then why do men always stand off just go to a swingers club and you'll see what youve just said is wrong ... in this day of everything internet most men have lost the art of flirting as have alot of women ...social skills are being killed by social media | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Men are simple creatures, stick a on the end of anything and your good. Women are just bloody weird. If I was guy I'd be gay for sure. I object to your first statement. I also require filth and sandwiches. Second statement not all. Third statement I wish." Filth & sandwiches? Whatever floats your boat. You wish I was a gay guy?? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Men are simple creatures, stick a on the end of anything and your good. Women are just bloody weird. If I was guy I'd be gay for sure. Excuse you, I require wining and dining! A KFC will do" Happy meal round the bins at maccies?. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Is it because men are naturally open to flirting with women so you get a vibe and it flows easily. Whereas women are more reserved and less prepared to open up so you sense the barrier and struggle? It’s probably deeply subconscious so they don’t know it’s happening. How do you feel when another woman comes on to you? ?? you sure ?? if thats the case then why do men always stand off just go to a swingers club and you'll see what youve just said is wrong ... in this day of everything internet most men have lost the art of flirting as have alot of women ...social skills are being killed by social media" Definitely agree with you | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Men are simple creatures, stick a on the end of anything and your good. Women are just bloody weird. If I was guy I'd be gay for sure. Excuse you, I require wining and dining! A KFC will do Happy meal round the bins at maccies?." Only if I get the toy | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Men are simple creatures, stick a on the end of anything and your good. Women are just bloody weird. If I was guy I'd be gay for sure. I object to your first statement. I also require filth and sandwiches. Second statement not all. Third statement I wish. Filth & sandwiches? Whatever floats your boat. You wish I was a gay guy??" | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I find it a lot more difficult trying to flirt with women than I do men, yeah. Sometimes I wonder if my flirting is coming off as just being friendly and they’re not picking up the signals. " You can practice on F, I won't read the messages, promise | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I find it a lot more difficult trying to flirt with women than I do men, yeah. Sometimes I wonder if my flirting is coming off as just being friendly and they’re not picking up the signals. " Yes, same for me. And i think it probably applies the other way round too, i wouldnt know if a lovely lady was flirting with me, id just think they were being friendly x | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I find it a lot more difficult trying to flirt with women than I do men, yeah. Sometimes I wonder if my flirting is coming off as just being friendly and they’re not picking up the signals. " Yep same here, I think I just come across friendly and I generally don't notice if anyone tries to flirt with me Mrs | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Flirting with women is definitely harder. I’d say were more critical and it can be more like competition than a situation of flattery and appreciation. It certainly requires a different approach…" Sooooo what is the approach required .... Coz I've got absolutely no idea | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I find it a lot more difficult trying to flirt with women than I do men, yeah. Sometimes I wonder if my flirting is coming off as just being friendly and they’re not picking up the signals. Yes, same for me. And i think it probably applies the other way round too, i wouldnt know if a lovely lady was flirting with me, id just think they were being friendly x " I think it’s because we’re too good at complimenting each other and being friendly anyway. It’s hard to decipher between the two sometimes | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I find it a lot more difficult trying to flirt with women than I do men, yeah. Sometimes I wonder if my flirting is coming off as just being friendly and they’re not picking up the signals. Yep same here, I think I just come across friendly and I generally don't notice if anyone tries to flirt with me Mrs " I’m just going to start telling people I fancy them. Seems like the best way to do it | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I find it a lot more difficult trying to flirt with women than I do men, yeah. Sometimes I wonder if my flirting is coming off as just being friendly and they’re not picking up the signals. You can practice on F, I won't read the messages, promise " She’s welcome in my inbox anytime | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I find it a lot more difficult trying to flirt with women than I do men, yeah. Sometimes I wonder if my flirting is coming off as just being friendly and they’re not picking up the signals. You can practice on F, I won't read the messages, promise She’s welcome in my inbox anytime " You should have seen the smile when I showed her I think I've just lost my wife, thanks I suppose | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I find it a lot more difficult trying to flirt with women than I do men, yeah. Sometimes I wonder if my flirting is coming off as just being friendly and they’re not picking up the signals. You can practice on F, I won't read the messages, promise She’s welcome in my inbox anytime You should have seen the smile when I showed her I think I've just lost my wife, thanks I suppose " I’ll look after her I promise | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Men are simple creatures, stick a on the end of anything and your good. Women are just bloody weird. If I was guy I'd be gay for sure. " You had me at simple | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"No I get that too OP. I sometimes feel like I don’t want to try to hard and give them ick I have been chatting to a gorgeous woman and she’s super flirty, and she wants to wine and dine me. Take me out for a night of spoiling, dress up and have dinner. Then who knows. I’m really not used to that. But hey, I’m not going to turn it down. Still fear I’m giving her ick even though she’s the one making advances. We are strange beings. " Yes!!! This is how I feel, like I'm somehow gonna end up looking like a massive weirdo No, you'd definately be a fool to turn down a night of being wined and dined, Hope you have an awesome time | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I can flirt with woman. I turn into an awkward potato with men." Ahem. Hi! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I can flirt with woman. I turn into an awkward potato with men." Good thing I like my potassium! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I can flirt with woman. I turn into an awkward potato with men. Ahem. Hi! " Oh hello gorgeous You are going straight on my hotlist | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I find it a lot more difficult trying to flirt with women than I do men, yeah. Sometimes I wonder if my flirting is coming off as just being friendly and they’re not picking up the signals. Yep same here, I think I just come across friendly and I generally don't notice if anyone tries to flirt with me Mrs " This is the same for me, I really can't flirt at all with women and I'm oblivious if they are with me T x | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Well for a woman to flirt with a woman how would you know if she was straight or not? Like i can compliment /receive compliments but i would never think oh she fancies me - i would always just think... Ooo a new female friend.. Wait is that the outcome Or are we only talking about fab flirting.. In which case the above still stands " If she's bi and sends she wants you between her legs. That's what I'd assume anyway cause you're pretty hot basically... | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I find it easier to flirt with men for sure. FAF?" I’m outside, let me in! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I find it easier to flirt with men for sure. FAF? I’m outside, let me in!" You're right it's pretty damn easy isn't it. Damn my sexuality | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Men are simple creatures, stick a on the end of anything and your good. Women are just bloody weird. If I was guy I'd be gay for sure. " Id bum you if you were!! Just saying… | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Do any other females struggle with flirting with women.... But not men? Or am I just a little oddball? I find men easier to flirt with in general, But women, I feel like I'm just absolutely rubbish at it. Women think alot differently, they're just different aren't they? Or are they? I've a feeling I 'might' be massively overthinking this!" Yeah overthinking | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Post new Message to Thread |
back to top |