FabSwingers.com forum: Flirting with women VS men

By *ust a little bit more OP Woman
over a year ago

kendal

Do any other females struggle with flirting with women....

But not men?

Or am I just a little oddball?

I find men easier to flirt with in general,

But women, I feel like I'm just absolutely rubbish at it.

Women think alot differently, they're just different aren't they?

Or are they?

I've a feeling I 'might' be massively overthinking this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can talk to anyone but flirt with nobody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are simple creatures, stick a

on the end of anything and your good.

Women are just bloody weird.

If I was guy I'd be gay for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flirting with women is definitely harder. I’d say were more critical and it can be more like competition than a situation of flattery and appreciation. It certainly requires a different approach…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do any other females struggle with flirting with women....

But not men?

Or am I just a little oddball?

I find men easier to flirt with in general,

But women, I feel like I'm just absolutely rubbish at it.

Women think alot differently, they're just different aren't they?

Or are they?

I've a feeling I 'might' be massively overthinking this!"

Yep women are more difficult.

Flirt and they'll not think much of it and can think it's harmless fun and not because you're actually flirting with them.

Flirt with men and they think you're interested and in there a lot quicker than a woman will.

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny

Is it because men are naturally open to flirting with women so you get a vibe and it flows easily. Whereas women are more reserved and less prepared to open up so you sense the barrier and struggle? It’s probably deeply subconscious so they don’t know it’s happening.

How do you feel when another woman comes on to you?

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By *heExcommMan
over a year ago

Llantrisant

I find it difficult to flirt in the first place

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"Men are simple creatures, stick a

on the end of anything and your good.

Women are just bloody weird.

If I was guy I'd be gay for sure.

I object to your first statement. I also require filth and sandwiches.

Second statement not all.

Third statement I wish.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

I find it difficult with both, but definitely harder with women.

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By *heExcommMan
over a year ago

Llantrisant

"Men are simple creatures, stick a

on the end of anything and your good.

Women are just bloody weird.

If I was guy I'd be gay for sure.

Excuse you, I require wining and dining! A KFC will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a minefield. I can be direct with men, and it’s often received favourably. But with women, it can go either way - I’m too subtle, it doesn’t go anywhere and we seem to end up friends. I’m too direct, women can get scared off and disappear.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

"Is it because men are naturally open to flirting with women so you get a vibe and it flows easily. Whereas women are more reserved and less prepared to open up so you sense the barrier and struggle? It’s probably deeply subconscious so they don’t know it’s happening.

How do you feel when another woman comes on to you? "

?? you sure ?? if thats the case then why do men always stand off just go to a swingers club and you'll see what youve just said is wrong ... in this day of everything internet most men have lost the art of flirting as have alot of women ...social skills are being killed by social media

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men are simple creatures, stick a

on the end of anything and your good.

Women are just bloody weird.

If I was guy I'd be gay for sure.

I object to your first statement. I also require filth and sandwiches.

Second statement not all.

Third statement I wish."

Filth & sandwiches? Whatever floats your boat.

You wish I was a gay guy??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men are simple creatures, stick a

on the end of anything and your good.

Women are just bloody weird.

If I was guy I'd be gay for sure.

Excuse you, I require wining and dining! A KFC will do"

Happy meal round the bins at maccies?.

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By *ycom72Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

How do you feel when another woman comes on to you?

Definitely agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there are any women here who want to have sex with me just let me know bluntly. I can take it (aslong as your strapon isn't any bigger than 7 inches).

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By *heExcommMan
over a year ago

Llantrisant

"Men are simple creatures, stick a

on the end of anything and your good.

Women are just bloody weird.

If I was guy I'd be gay for sure.

Excuse you, I require wining and dining! A KFC will do

Happy meal round the bins at maccies?."

Only if I get the toy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried flirting with a very good looking guy sat night. Turns out “it’s a good job you’re pretty sugar cause you’re a bit boring” is the wrong thing to say.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"Men are simple creatures, stick a

on the end of anything and your good.

Women are just bloody weird.

If I was guy I'd be gay for sure.

I object to your first statement. I also require filth and sandwiches.

Second statement not all.

Third statement I wish.

Filth & sandwiches? Whatever floats your boat.

You wish I was a gay guy??"

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm terrible at flirting with either, but I find I can be more blunt and to the point with men, women not so much I'm useless in that department.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it a lot more difficult trying to flirt with women than I do men, yeah.

Sometimes I wonder if my flirting is coming off as just being friendly and they’re not picking up the signals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it a lot more difficult trying to flirt with women than I do men, yeah.

Sometimes I wonder if my flirting is coming off as just being friendly and they’re not picking up the signals. "

You can practice on F, I won't read the messages, promise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate flirting with anyone I'm too awkward

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

"I find it a lot more difficult trying to flirt with women than I do men, yeah.

Sometimes I wonder if my flirting is coming off as just being friendly and they’re not picking up the signals. "

Yes, same for me. And i think it probably applies the other way round too, i wouldnt know if a lovely lady was flirting with me, id just think they were being friendly x

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By *ust a little bit more OP Woman
over a year ago

kendal

Without meaning to sound derogatory and to tar an entire gender with the same brush....

I find it easier to flirt with men.

They're a little like operatin a machine, do all the relevent, eyelash fluttering, the odd pout n you can generally guarantee the end result.....

I feel like I need a Haynes manual for women

Despite actually being a woman!

I've tried thinking about how I like men to flirt with me and what works for me and then mirroring that kind of behaviour, but it doesn't work n makes me feel uncomfortable.

Which then makes the whole situation worse.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I don't know how to flirt.

I don't know when people are flirting with me (they're probably not)

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I find it a lot more difficult trying to flirt with women than I do men, yeah.

Sometimes I wonder if my flirting is coming off as just being friendly and they’re not picking up the signals. "

Yep same here, I think I just come across friendly and I generally don't notice if anyone tries to flirt with me

Mrs

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By *ust a little bit more OP Woman
over a year ago

kendal

"Flirting with women is definitely harder. I’d say were more critical and it can be more like competition than a situation of flattery and appreciation. It certainly requires a different approach…"

Sooooo what is the approach required ....

Coz I've got absolutely no idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it a lot more difficult trying to flirt with women than I do men, yeah.

Sometimes I wonder if my flirting is coming off as just being friendly and they’re not picking up the signals.

Yes, same for me. And i think it probably applies the other way round too, i wouldnt know if a lovely lady was flirting with me, id just think they were being friendly x

I think it’s because we’re too good at complimenting each other and being friendly anyway. It’s hard to decipher between the two sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it a lot more difficult trying to flirt with women than I do men, yeah.

Sometimes I wonder if my flirting is coming off as just being friendly and they’re not picking up the signals.

Yep same here, I think I just come across friendly and I generally don't notice if anyone tries to flirt with me

Mrs "

I’m just going to start telling people I fancy them. Seems like the best way to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it a lot more difficult trying to flirt with women than I do men, yeah.

Sometimes I wonder if my flirting is coming off as just being friendly and they’re not picking up the signals.

You can practice on F, I won't read the messages, promise

She’s welcome in my inbox anytime

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

I don't really flirt with men and with women, I prefer to get to know them before I start flirting so I can kind of guage where a line is. If I am flirting, it's mainly friendly anyway because if I want to fuck them, I hate the idea of playing games

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

I remember the line I heard once

'hey darling, how about I show you how we milk feed the meat'

I thought that was some gangster shit right there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really understand what the difference is between being friendly and flirting...perhaps that's why I'm single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And if there is someone I actually fancy, trying to even talk to them becomes a challenge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it a lot more difficult trying to flirt with women than I do men, yeah.

Sometimes I wonder if my flirting is coming off as just being friendly and they’re not picking up the signals.

You can practice on F, I won't read the messages, promise

She’s welcome in my inbox anytime

You should have seen the smile when I showed her

I think I've just lost my wife, thanks I suppose

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Some women just like holding the thought rather than expressing it in words for a cheeky wank later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it a lot more difficult trying to flirt with women than I do men, yeah.

Sometimes I wonder if my flirting is coming off as just being friendly and they’re not picking up the signals.

You can practice on F, I won't read the messages, promise

She’s welcome in my inbox anytime

You should have seen the smile when I showed her

I think I've just lost my wife, thanks I suppose

I’ll look after her I promise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men are simple creatures, stick a

on the end of anything and your good.

Women are just bloody weird.

If I was guy I'd be gay for sure.

You had me at simple

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

No I get that too OP. I sometimes feel like I don’t want to try to hard and give them ick

I have been chatting to a gorgeous woman and she’s super flirty, and she wants to wine and dine me. Take me out for a night of spoiling, dress up and have dinner. Then who knows. I’m really not used to that. But hey, I’m not going to turn it down.

Still fear I’m giving her ick even though she’s the one making advances. We are strange beings.

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By *ust a little bit more OP Woman
over a year ago

kendal

"No I get that too OP. I sometimes feel like I don’t want to try to hard and give them ick

Still fear I’m giving her ick even though she’s the one making advances. We are strange beings.

Yes!!!

This is how I feel, like I'm somehow gonna end up looking like a massive weirdo

No, you'd definately be a fool to turn down a night of being wined and dined,

Hope you have an awesome time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can flirt with woman.

I turn into an awkward potato with men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can flirt with woman.

I turn into an awkward potato with men."

Ahem. Hi!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I don’t think I’ve ever flirted with a woman on here

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

I can flirt with women- im really good at it and they go all gooey and want me naked… its a gift and a curse as i can’t turn it off … means all the women i work with want me for the sex and stuff!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can flirt with anyone. The lord blessed me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can flirt with woman.

I turn into an awkward potato with men."

Good thing I like my potassium!

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

Im just in from 12 pints of Stella and a dirty kebab .. i said ‘ large Doner love!!’ She said - she’s out the back and wants you over the empty fat boxes… see!! Can’t help it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can flirt with woman.

I turn into an awkward potato with men.

Ahem. Hi!

Oh hello gorgeous

You are going straight on my hotlist

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

"I find it a lot more difficult trying to flirt with women than I do men, yeah.

Sometimes I wonder if my flirting is coming off as just being friendly and they’re not picking up the signals.

Yep same here, I think I just come across friendly and I generally don't notice if anyone tries to flirt with me

Mrs "

This is the same for me, I really can't flirt at all with women and I'm oblivious if they are with me

T x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well for a woman to flirt with a woman how would you know if she was straight or not? Like i can compliment /receive compliments but i would never think oh she fancies me - i would always just think... Ooo a new female friend.. Wait is that the outcome

Or are we only talking about fab flirting.. In which case the above still stands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well for a woman to flirt with a woman how would you know if she was straight or not? Like i can compliment /receive compliments but i would never think oh she fancies me - i would always just think... Ooo a new female friend.. Wait is that the outcome

Or are we only talking about fab flirting.. In which case the above still stands

If she's bi and sends

she wants you between her legs.

That's what I'd assume anyway cause you're pretty hot basically...

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By *rgasmicChemistryCouple
over a year ago

east coast

H says I flirt with everybody but I didn't think I did till everyone in the office at work says the same as H haha x J

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

I find it easier to flirt with men for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it easier to flirt with men for sure. "

FAF?

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

"I find it easier to flirt with men for sure.

FAF?"

I’m outside, let me in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it easier to flirt with men for sure.

FAF?

I’m outside, let me in!"

You're right it's pretty damn easy isn't it. Damn my sexuality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure I find it easy to flirt with anyone.

On here I can genuinely pay women compliments but I think sometimes they don't know how to take it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never flirted with women but i get my wife to do that and she finds it easy - any men all men are ready to fuck her as most women will know.

Men can get a big negative seen it happen to mates so i steeer clear plus I'm married

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

"Men are simple creatures, stick a

on the end of anything and your good.

Women are just bloody weird.

If I was guy I'd be gay for sure.

Id bum you if you were!! Just saying…

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I wouldn't know I never flirt on here

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Do any other females struggle with flirting with women....

But not men?

Or am I just a little oddball?

I find men easier to flirt with in general,

But women, I feel like I'm just absolutely rubbish at it.

Women think alot differently, they're just different aren't they?

Or are they?

I've a feeling I 'might' be massively overthinking this!"

Yeah overthinking

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