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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been reading more threads lately in the other sections instead of just the lounge. There's a lot of people requesting multiple men to meet with singles/couples with rules on the meet.

My question for the men is

When you've been chosen/ messaged with yes and the details (not sure if chosen is the right word) by that person to go, do you get anxiety with other men in the room? Do you have butterflies? Do you look at the other men and do a 'comparison/size up' (not cock size) more of a 'he's blonde I'm bald he's brown haired, he's shorter, he's tattooed, I'm neither' kinda thing? Do you just focus on what your doing or do you enjoy watching the other men playing too? Arousal from the anticipation of what's to come?

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I enjoy it. Never get nerves anymore. The first time doing anything will give you nerves but group meets are

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I've been reading more threads lately in the other sections instead of just the lounge. There's a lot of people requesting multiple men to meet with singles/couples with rules on the meet.

My question for the men is

When you've been chosen/ messaged with yes and the details (not sure if chosen is the right word) by that person to go, do you get anxiety with other men in the room? Do you have butterflies? Do you look at the other men and do a 'comparison/size up' (not cock size) more of a 'he's blonde I'm bald he's brown haired, he's shorter, he's tattooed, I'm neither' kinda thing? Do you just focus on what your doing or do you enjoy watching the other men playing too? Arousal from the anticipation of what's to come?"
yes i feel intimidated and get anxiety attacks I've been carried out on a stretcher naked with an erection before now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been reading more threads lately in the other sections instead of just the lounge. There's a lot of people requesting multiple men to meet with singles/couples with rules on the meet.

My question for the men is

When you've been chosen/ messaged with yes and the details (not sure if chosen is the right word) by that person to go, do you get anxiety with other men in the room? Do you have butterflies? Do you look at the other men and do a 'comparison/size up' (not cock size) more of a 'he's blonde I'm bald he's brown haired, he's shorter, he's tattooed, I'm neither' kinda thing? Do you just focus on what your doing or do you enjoy watching the other men playing too? Arousal from the anticipation of what's to come?yes i feel intimidated and get anxiety attacks I've been carried out on a stretcher naked with an erection before now "

Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I posted here and the swinger's

Coz I'm greedy and want as many answers as I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know it's never happened to me

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By *heExcommMan
over a year ago

Llantrisant

Not really. I am what I am. Also with meets with multiple men, the pressure is kind of off to make them cum also, if you get me? Multiple person meets are all about the pleasure but its not all down to you to give said pleasure

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By *emofaJamesMan
over a year ago

London

Yikes. As one yet to, but maybe keen to try, though slightly reluctant for the reasons OP described.. do the nerves subside once underway? (For want of a better word)

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Not a situation I’ve ever been in or been offered to be in. Maybe one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I get the TLDR version please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not interested in multiple meets.

Comparison was more of a thing when at secondary school and in the showers after PE (that was if someone was not trying to flick you with their wet towel!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had nerves before these types of meets in the past. But once there you usually talk to the other guys and everyone has been down to earth and at the end of the day everyone is different as long as you are pleasing her it doesn't matter your size etc she/they have picked you for a reason

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By *adbod2godbodMan
over a year ago

Manchester

More worried about cock size and performance than how I'd look compared to others. Unless there is an Adonis.

But youv got to play your own game.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not interested in multiple meets.

Comparison was more of a thing when at secondary school and in the showers after PE (that was if someone was not trying to flick you with their wet towel!)"

I have to ask, if your not interested then why comment? My question was to people that had

Experienced it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can I get the TLDR version please? "

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll let you know when I get picked haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not really. I am what I am. Also with meets with multiple men, the pressure is kind of off to make them cum also, if you get me? Multiple person meets are all about the pleasure but its not all down to you to give said pleasure"

I get ya. A few thrusts, swap over, cuppa tea, resume fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would firmly swipe left

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would firmly swipe left "

Not sure I understand? X

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By *heExcommMan
over a year ago

Llantrisant


"Not really. I am what I am. Also with meets with multiple men, the pressure is kind of off to make them cum also, if you get me? Multiple person meets are all about the pleasure but its not all down to you to give said pleasure

I get ya. A few thrusts, swap over, cuppa tea, resume fucking "

Doesn't mean I'm not gonna try though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would firmly swipe left

Not sure I understand? X"

It appears I get performance anxiety so I'd just end up standing around not doing a great deal

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

First time yeah was a bit nervous. Nowadays I am just enjoying the experience. As I am bi it adds to the meeting even if it’s a straight threesome or group

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not really. I am what I am. Also with meets with multiple men, the pressure is kind of off to make them cum also, if you get me? Multiple person meets are all about the pleasure but its not all down to you to give said pleasure

I get ya. A few thrusts, swap over, cuppa tea, resume fucking

Doesn't mean I'm not gonna try though "

Everyone likes a try'er lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would firmly swipe left

Not sure I understand? X

It appears I get performance anxiety so I'd just end up standing around not doing a great deal "

Got it. Xx

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny


"I have had nerves before these types of meets in the past. But once there you usually talk to the other guys and everyone has been down to earth and at the end of the day everyone is different as long as you are pleasing her it doesn't matter your size etc she/they have picked you for a reason"

What he said.

And yes, I enjoy watching other men.

I wouldn’t fancy a meet if the other men were straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you get too many men together they will invariably get distracted by talking about beer and sport…

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