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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it a big deal for you?

Btw I’m not short before anyone thinks this haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a much taller man, especially with the way I like to play but it’s not the be all and end all. The one proviso is they have to be at least a bit taller than me

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I don’t think it’s an issue but I suppose I’ve had a small sample size to work from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer taller.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I'd like to be bit taller.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Nope. Not at all.

I get why it does matter to some people. I really don't care if there's that attraction there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner is shorter than me and the sexiest most awesome man ever!

I've never been heightest at all ... height doesn't define the person, only that part of them that noone can do anything about

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

Height doesn’t matter if you are 180cm+ lol.

I am quite short, in offline life - no an issue at all. However in online dating scene - height is one of the first filter that is used, probably same as age and race.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height doesn’t matter to me at all. It’s not something I ask or look for on a profile.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

It matters to me, for a variety of reasons. One is my own insecurities, because I'm not small and if a guy is a lot smaller than me I feel huge and awful about myself.

Another is down to past trauma.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford... (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Somewhat heightest... sorry

...it just makes it an extra filter on here to help a girl out

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Height has never bothered me. I'm only 5ft 1 so not many shorter than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'm heightest but the opposite of what people expect in that I love a short king.

5'7"ish or there about is ideal.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

It was a bit of a thing for me. And then I got propositioned by a female friend who was taller. Went something like this.

F: So do you fancy me or what?

M: yeah... I've just never had sex with someone taller, I'm trying to get my head around the mechanics.

F: As long as you have a few inches on me lying down, I'm good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to be taller ahh well

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Everyone is shorter than me so it is kind of academic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Short or tall I win ask you to mount me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is shorter than me so it is kind of academic."

You are a big boy

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Everyone is shorter than me so it is kind of academic.

You are a big boy "

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By *otmyrealname99Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Nope, height does not affect attraction for me

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Not at all, it's all to do with the people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 5'11.

Men seem to be more bothered than me.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Is it a big deal for you?

Btw I’m not short before anyone thinks this haha "
cmon you're 5'2 arent you

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By *cotsguy888Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I'm 5'11.

Men seem to be more bothered than me."

Personally I find taller women very sexy.

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By *inkykittypleaserMan
over a year ago

London


"I prefer a much taller man, especially with the way I like to play but it’s not the be all and end all. The one proviso is they have to be at least a bit taller than me "

Not really the place I know but I’m doing it anyway I can’t message as I’m under 33 but I’ve just got to say they are up there with the best boobs I’ve seen on this site or just in general in fact, impeccable incredible perfect WOOOW !!!

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By *inkykittypleaserMan
over a year ago

London

Unfortunately I don’t have the height advantage but it is what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a big deal for you?….."

Hahaha. I like how you worded that?

Not really, if they is fit, they is even more fit if they’re taller, init’!?!?

Or, if they’re shorter, my cock will Look Massive when I lay it on their chest

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

Not for me. For lots of men, yes it is. They say they don't mind a woman taller than them, but when they have to look up to me f2f, it's a different story

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By *heExcommMan
over a year ago

Llantrisant

Not really. I am me, and I'm happy with that. Only thing I do like though is I don't have to stretch much to get the top shelves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer a much taller man, especially with the way I like to play but it’s not the be all and end all. The one proviso is they have to be at least a bit taller than me

Not really the place I know but I’m doing it anyway I can’t message as I’m under 33 but I’ve just got to say they are up there with the best boobs I’ve seen on this site or just in general in fact, impeccable incredible perfect WOOOW !!! "

why thank you

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Doesn’t bother me, much more important qualities to look for in a man than his height as far as I’m concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a short ass!

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I must admit, height is one of the major, if not the main factors for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind dating a woman taller then me but women dont like men shorter then them, most of them if not all of them prefer taller men

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

Never given it a lot of thought. I am sure for most people it's the whole package, including personality and charisma, sexual compatibility and sort of attitude they are looking for.

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

I actually like tall women even though I'm not tall. Oddly I don't like really short women, ideally my height or bit shorter/taller

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Honestly couldn't care less about height. Only time it's an issue for me is when it's an issue for the other person.

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts


"Honestly couldn't care less about height. Only time it's an issue for me is when it's an issue for the other person."

This TBH. It's the person that matters

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By *929Man
over a year ago

northumberland

Height of a lass never really gave it a thought. For own height I wished I was shorter as it took ages to look “big” at 6’2 when I was late teens and early 20s and felt like a lanky and scrawny despite years of training now at an inch shorter realise what a stupid thing I wished for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d prefer taller than me

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By *oJo pornstarMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

When a women says she'll only date men 6ft or over as she's 5"10 in heels, I fully understand that as am 9ft6 on horseback so only go for a lady 7ft or taller

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height just isn't an issue for me.

If someone has on their profile they are looking for someone 6ft plus etc...that's fine. I know they're not for me

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"Is it a big deal for you?…..

Hahaha. I like how you worded that?

Not really, if they is fit, they is even more fit if they’re taller, init’!?!?

Or, if they’re shorter, my cock will Look Massive when I lay it on their chest "

Ummmmm. I definitely shorter but I don’t think anything will look massive on my chest

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

On a female, height is not an issue.

At 6'3 in heels, I prefer not to have tolook down, sorry.

Mrs M

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By *rishguy086Man
over a year ago

Limerick

Speaking as a short lad at 5'7, it might sound off but I would want to be the taller one. It's a bit of a turn off for me if I'm looking up at the girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is height important?

For many women seeking men, yes it is

It is one thing we can't really have any effect on though

It is largely a condition of genetics

For that reason, more than any other, it does not bother me in the slightest that someone might not be interested in me sexually cos I am short for a bloke

I think it's important that we concentrate on those whose filters / preferences we do fit as opposed to those we don't

Trying to fight against it / change minds just seems a little trite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, but I love height. I’m quite tall myself (so everyone says) so I don’t like to feel taller than I already am.

Mrs

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Yes it is. It's only a big deal for me because it happens to be a big deal for those very women that I'm sometimes drawn towards but are only interested in tall men.

Therefore I simply stay clear and don't impose on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun


"Speaking as a short lad at 5'7, it might sound off but I would want to be the taller one. It's a bit of a turn off for me if I'm looking up at the girl."

Oh bugger I'm 5'8" lol

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

It's not an issue but taller preferred

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope just a brain between those ears does me fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not tall myself, tall women above 6ft are quite rare in my experience

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I like tall men. Or at least taller than me.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

…

Yes I only for tall guys…. preferably man giants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t say it has affected me much. Like everything else, sometimes mine works in my favour, sometimes it doesn’t but I can’t say it has ever bothered me to a great extent.

I was told by the RAF that I’m a good size for a fighter pilot because the cockpit wouldn’t be a tight squeeze for me.

M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all "

Phew.

M

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss


"I can’t say it has affected me much. Like everything else, sometimes mine works in my favour, sometimes it doesn’t but I can’t say it has ever bothered me to a great extent.

I was told by the RAF that I’m a good size for a fighter pilot because the cockpit wouldn’t be a tight squeeze for me.

M"

You give fabulous cuddles though M x

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

It’s not an issue for me but I probably wouldn’t fancy a girl that was taller than me.

H is a tall guy lover and prefers ladies her height or around it.

So yeah, height probably is a bit of a deal breaker for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can’t say it has affected me much. Like everything else, sometimes mine works in my favour, sometimes it doesn’t but I can’t say it has ever bothered me to a great extent.

I was told by the RAF that I’m a good size for a fighter pilot because the cockpit wouldn’t be a tight squeeze for me.

M"

Always a silver lining, my darling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can’t say it has affected me much. Like everything else, sometimes mine works in my favour, sometimes it doesn’t but I can’t say it has ever bothered me to a great extent.

I was told by the RAF that I’m a good size for a fighter pilot because the cockpit wouldn’t be a tight squeeze for me.

M

You give fabulous cuddles though M x"

Yay

Missed you !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can’t say it has affected me much. Like everything else, sometimes mine works in my favour, sometimes it doesn’t but I can’t say it has ever bothered me to a great extent.

I was told by the RAF that I’m a good size for a fighter pilot because the cockpit wouldn’t be a tight squeeze for me.

M

You give fabulous cuddles though M x

Yay

Missed you !"

This is me. The wild one of the duo speaking.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I definitely prefer a guy to be taller. Doesn’t have to be by much. Just makes me feel more womanly for some reason.

Maybe it’s my submissive side I don’t know.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss


"I can’t say it has affected me much. Like everything else, sometimes mine works in my favour, sometimes it doesn’t but I can’t say it has ever bothered me to a great extent.

I was told by the RAF that I’m a good size for a fighter pilot because the cockpit wouldn’t be a tight squeeze for me.

M

You give fabulous cuddles though M x

Yay

Missed you !"

We need to meet. Soon. Dance and chat the night away again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can’t say it has affected me much. Like everything else, sometimes mine works in my favour, sometimes it doesn’t but I can’t say it has ever bothered me to a great extent.

I was told by the RAF that I’m a good size for a fighter pilot because the cockpit wouldn’t be a tight squeeze for me.

M

You give fabulous cuddles though M x"

Good lord, it has been too long. I’m waiting, impatiently, for the next one from you.

M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer taller than myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can’t say it has affected me much. Like everything else, sometimes mine works in my favour, sometimes it doesn’t but I can’t say it has ever bothered me to a great extent.

I was told by the RAF that I’m a good size for a fighter pilot because the cockpit wouldn’t be a tight squeeze for me.

M

You give fabulous cuddles though M x

Yay

Missed you !

We need to meet. Soon. Dance and chat the night away again x"

I know! We have been slacking x

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Do people realise you can't always have what you want so if it's tall would the size of his manhood matter be truthful for once

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

I’m 5ft and a 1/4 but have big heels and a big personality so people don’t normally notice until I take my shoes off and by that time they don’t care. My ex husband was 6ft 4. Height isn’t an issue unless you make it one xx

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Have to be at least 5’8” for me. Roxy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 5'7" and i like to wear heels... So yeah, it's important to me.. 5'10"+

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Not sure if this is a reflective or biased sample but based on this thread I'm happy to be tall

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

It's not been something I consciously select, no. And sitting in this special chair means pretty much everyone is taller anyways

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

Never was an issue for me,

Love tall athletic women

But find women under ir in and around 5ft incredible sexy also,

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Have to be at least 5’8” for me. Roxy x"

Do you wear heels when riding or do they stop you

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

I have a weakness for tall guys

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By *hellebelleWoman
over a year ago

ashford

I’m only a short arse so most men are taller then me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only 5'4 and although it puts many women off and thats fine, I find your personality and way you hold yourself outshines anything else and never had a problem down to height, many other flaws but not that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last gf was 4-5 inches taller than me.

Couldn't care less tbh.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

5ft 10 to 6ft 4 please...yes it's pretty important

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I’m 5’4”, 5’8-9 in heels.

If I find someone attractive height is not an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d tend to go shorter, although I’m 6ft1 so don’t really get many women as tall as me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's important not to have anyone smaller than me but as I'm not on the lookout for borrowers, it's not an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody is different

If life was uniform and all was the same life be bit boring

Only 6 2 myself tend to be shrinking though as getting older lol

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Not an issue but I'm 5' 11.

So some can cross me off the list.

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By *uv2kissMan
over a year ago

fenland

I'm 6'2" and never really thought about my height or anyone else's

Then I was at a vanilla party and one guy there was 6'8" it felt really strange looking up at him to talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a deal breaker at all for me but I do love feeling small in someone's arms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Elfie 6 foot 2 barefoot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind taller women but can understand if they prefer taller men. The only reason I might find women shorter than me a more attractive proposition is because as stupid as it sounds, it can make me feel a bit more manly which isn't always possible at only 5'8"

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By *rishguy086Man
over a year ago

Limerick


"Speaking as a short lad at 5'7, it might sound off but I would want to be the taller one. It's a bit of a turn off for me if I'm looking up at the girl.

Oh bugger I'm 5'8" lol"

Lol soz

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

I think most people prefer taller guys as it makes you feel more petite but I've met guys the same height ... I don't want to be picked up and banged anyway. X k x

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By *eniandMikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It’s tricky with us, Mike is 6’10 and I’m 5’5 so there is naturally a big difference, so any guys I would say being under 5’10/6ft just wouldn’t feel right for me!!!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Not really. Especially when lying down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never was an issue for me,

Love tall athletic women

But find women under ir in and around 5ft incredible sexy also, "

Oh hello

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

My hypothetical ideal man would be taller than me, but as im on the shorter side, and practically never wear heels, most are. However, its not actually something i look at until im going to meet someone, just so i know how what to expect when they turn up!

In reality it doesnt matter to me, its about the whole person, if we get on its all good x

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