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"I’ve had exactly that! I turned the bloke down and told him why " But he's soooo pretty! I mean my kinda pretty, which is actually a tad rough looking with tattoos. | |||
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"I’ve had exactly that! I turned the bloke down and told him why But he's soooo pretty! I mean my kinda pretty, which is actually a tad rough looking with tattoos. " I wonder if we’re talking about the same bloke | |||
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"I’ve had exactly that! I turned the bloke down and told him why But he's soooo pretty! I mean my kinda pretty, which is actually a tad rough looking with tattoos. I wonder if we’re talking about the same bloke " Hands off he's mine!! | |||
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"I'm just going to say "mental nurse" I refuse to delve further!!" I need you to delve further. | |||
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"I do worry about you sometimes Jaga." So does my psychiatrist | |||
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"I still think about her every day, and it's been nearly 20 years. All she would have to do is say yes and I'm there" It sucks doesn't it. | |||
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"I do worry about you sometimes Jaga. So does my psychiatrist " Understandable. | |||
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"I was once mistaken by a woman who had a affair with a married guy She went absolutely dogshit doolally at for around a minute whilst I stood there and took all her abuse When she had finally burnt herself out I just said thank you and then showed her my driving licence She apologised I found it quite funny I don’t think she quite got over “The one!” " Eeeeek! | |||
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"I don't seem to have that one. Thankfully. I'd do it anyway. Surely you can't judge someone just because they look like someone else and assume they'd be the same. They can't possibly be the same. " I'm only considering it because he looks like him, I'm not overly fussed about the personality on this occasion! Just feeling a tad squirrelly you know? | |||
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"I don't seem to have that one. Thankfully. I'd do it anyway. Surely you can't judge someone just because they look like someone else and assume they'd be the same. They can't possibly be the same. I'm only considering it because he looks like him, I'm not overly fussed about the personality on this occasion! Just feeling a tad squirrelly you know? " Well you need to get that squirrelly feeling sorted. So what's the harm? Can't have you climbing the walls can we! | |||
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"I'm just going to say "mental nurse" I refuse to delve further!! I need you to delve further. " The first part of that sentence doesn't compute coming from your lips | |||
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"I don't seem to have that one. Thankfully. I'd do it anyway. Surely you can't judge someone just because they look like someone else and assume they'd be the same. They can't possibly be the same. I'm only considering it because he looks like him, I'm not overly fussed about the personality on this occasion! Just feeling a tad squirrelly you know? " I’d say do it, it might cure the original attachment | |||
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"Is it strange mine was someone I met at a meet. After our second and unfortunately last, there was time when I thought about her nearly every day. XX" Sometimes you just click and you don't ever unclick. | |||
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"No, sorry I don't. " I feel like our relationship has broken down... | |||
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"I do yea. Also a dickhead. But not met anyone since that resembles him in anyway really...though i do still find myself going for the same 'type'...a bit. No hair and tatoos!! I must get out of that habit " I definitely have a type...but this guy i had to do a double take and zoom in just to make sure it wasn't him! | |||
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"I don't seem to have that one. Thankfully. I'd do it anyway. Surely you can't judge someone just because they look like someone else and assume they'd be the same. They can't possibly be the same. I'm only considering it because he looks like him, I'm not overly fussed about the personality on this occasion! Just feeling a tad squirrelly you know? I’d say do it, it might cure the original attachment " This is my thinking | |||
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"Sounds Healthy! Um nope, I would say a big fat Nop, NO, no entry, no way Hosè!" Fully agree, not in the slightest bit healthy. Unfortunately I'm drawn to things that aren't good for me. | |||
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"Oh yes without a doubt, I have one of those. Still remember her 20+ years on. Didn't work out was an understatement, she was feral. Loved completely one day and could be ready to kill you the next. But no as hot as she was I don't think looks would be enough, she had some very unique 'qualities'." Did we know each 20 years ago? | |||
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"I do yea. Also a dickhead. But not met anyone since that resembles him in anyway really...though i do still find myself going for the same 'type'...a bit. No hair and tatoos!! I must get out of that habit I definitely have a type...but this guy i had to do a double take and zoom in just to make sure it wasn't him! " Well if you can see it for what it is, just some fun then go for it!! Just make sure you don't call out your ex's name mid thrust | |||
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"Oh yes without a doubt, I have one of those. Still remember her 20+ years on. Didn't work out was an understatement, she was feral. Loved completely one day and could be ready to kill you the next. But no as hot as she was I don't think looks would be enough, she had some very unique 'qualities'. Did we know each 20 years ago? " To be honest you remind me of her. | |||
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"Oh yes without a doubt, I have one of those. Still remember her 20+ years on. Didn't work out was an understatement, she was feral. Loved completely one day and could be ready to kill you the next. But no as hot as she was I don't think looks would be enough, she had some very unique 'qualities'. Did we know each 20 years ago? To be honest you remind me of her. " It was the "Loved completely one day and could be ready to kill you the next" that struck a chord! | |||
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"Do it! Just make sure he never finds out you had sex with him because he resembles someone else and it’ll be grand " I did kinda tell him that he reminds me of another guy already! He doesn't seem overly bothered | |||
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"I've never had such a guy in my life. There all in the past and stay there. I've never really given any of them a thought" I try not to, but sometimes it's just right there in front of me! | |||
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"Do it! Just make sure he never finds out you had sex with him because he resembles someone else and it’ll be grand I did kinda tell him that he reminds me of another guy already! He doesn't seem overly bothered " Ah that’s not too bad then. | |||
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"Awww no. I feel sorry for him now. I’d hate that if someone did that to me. It’s mean! But he’s a man and you’re hot so it’s probably cool. Don’t think I could though " Men don't think the same! He's really really hot! That's makes it ok right? | |||
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"Awww no. I feel sorry for him now. I’d hate that if someone did that to me. It’s mean! But he’s a man and you’re hot so it’s probably cool. Don’t think I could though Men don't think the same! He's really really hot! That's makes it ok right? " True. They don’t. I’m too soft. I don’t want to be! . Go for it. | |||
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"Do it! Just make sure he never finds out you had sex with him because he resembles someone else and it’ll be grand I did kinda tell him that he reminds me of another guy already! He doesn't seem overly bothered " There you go then. It’s meant to be! | |||
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"Do we all have a "one", you know the one that didn't work out but you just can't forget about? They always creep back into your thoughts no matter what. I do. He's lush. Also a dickhead. So, what do you do when someone messages you that strikes an uncanny resemblance to said "one", I mean, a very uncanny resemblance. Squint a tad and it could almost be them. Would you?? Purely for sexual pleasure obviously, nothing more sinister, no bunnies here. Not the furry kind anyway. It's a bad idea isn't it??" Only just a recent one who is in my thoughts and have just realised the feeling isn't mutual | |||
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"When I have the one I keep him xx " Oh no I don't want a guy full time. Too much of a commitment. | |||
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"Do we all have a "one", you know the one that didn't work out but you just can't forget about? They always creep back into your thoughts no matter what. I do. He's lush. Also a dickhead. So, what do you do when someone messages you that strikes an uncanny resemblance to said "one", I mean, a very uncanny resemblance. Squint a tad and it could almost be them. Would you?? Purely for sexual pleasure obviously, nothing more sinister, no bunnies here. Not the furry kind anyway. It's a bad idea isn't it?? Only just a recent one who is in my thoughts and have just realised the feeling isn't mutual " Well this is it, it isn't with him either. But the new him seems keen. It sucks | |||
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"Do we all have a "one", you know the one that didn't work out but you just can't forget about? They always creep back into your thoughts no matter what. I do. He's lush. Also a dickhead. So, what do you do when someone messages you that strikes an uncanny resemblance to said "one", I mean, a very uncanny resemblance. Squint a tad and it could almost be them. Would you?? Purely for sexual pleasure obviously, nothing more sinister, no bunnies here. Not the furry kind anyway. It's a bad idea isn't it??" For your heart and head yes its a terrible idea For your body probably not a bad idea But what's the worst that could happen | |||
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"Sounds Healthy! Um nope, I would say a big fat Nop, NO, no entry, no way Hosè! Fully agree, not in the slightest bit healthy. Unfortunately I'm drawn to things that aren't good for me. " Ditto, I am a slow learner xx | |||
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"I found my one, she's a bit of a bitch but she's my bitch " She's a female do too by the way | |||
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"Oh yes without a doubt, I have one of those. Still remember her 20+ years on. Didn't work out was an understatement, she was feral. Loved completely one day and could be ready to kill you the next. But no as hot as she was I don't think looks would be enough, she had some very unique 'qualities'. Did we know each 20 years ago? To be honest you remind me of her. It was the "Loved completely one day and could be ready to kill you the next" that struck a chord! " Yup that'd be it. | |||
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"Do we all have a "one", you know the one that didn't work out but you just can't forget about? They always creep back into your thoughts no matter what. I do. He's lush. Also a dickhead. So, what do you do when someone messages you that strikes an uncanny resemblance to said "one", I mean, a very uncanny resemblance. Squint a tad and it could almost be them. Would you?? Purely for sexual pleasure obviously, nothing more sinister, no bunnies here. Not the furry kind anyway. It's a bad idea isn't it?? Only just a recent one who is in my thoughts and have just realised the feeling isn't mutual Well this is it, it isn't with him either. But the new him seems keen. It sucks " Plot twist it's a woman I'm gutted, but I'm so rubbish at messaging ladies I'm not surprised they don't get back to me | |||
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"I found my one, she's a bit of a bitch but she's my bitch She's a female do too by the way " A female do too? | |||
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"Yes most definitely, she probably even knows this… But i try to live by the words of the great man Lemmy Don’t live a life with an regrets " Hey, I know that face! | |||
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"Is there one that looks like you op? " We can only pray there isn't! | |||
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"I hate to say this on your thread as I know it’s me and Ryan you’re referring to but my ‘one’ did work out. Please… no vomit emoji’s." As a consultation I think you should invite me to join you and your one. I'll bring a Deadpool mask. | |||
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"Is there one that looks like you op? We can only pray there isn't! " I’m not a religious man. | |||
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"I hate to say this on your thread as I know it’s me and Ryan you’re referring to but my ‘one’ did work out. Please… no vomit emoji’s. As a consultation I think you should invite me to join you and your one. I'll bring a Dead owl mask. " A sexy body and a wise face, how could I resist! | |||
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"I hate to say this on your thread as I know it’s me and Ryan you’re referring to but my ‘one’ did work out. Please… no vomit emoji’s. As a consultation I think you should invite me to join you and your one. I'll bring a Dead owl mask. A sexy body and a wise face, how could I resist!" Twit-twoo | |||
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"No, sorry I don't. I feel like our relationship has broken down..." There is always a person you will feel a historical attachment towards as that person could have been the catalist for a change in your life, emotional growth for example. Some attachement to that part of your life which is significant. Moe or not we look at the past with 'rose tinted glasses' even in reality that the reason things don't work we still attach a level of joy to it, becasue of how significant that era was. The reason I say no is simply based on the fact that I learned from that moment in time and moved past it. The 'one' was the one that was part of a change in my life. I can't live in the past as it no longer serves me and any attention I have is for the now and if I'm with someone in the now, they are the one that deserve and get all my attention. I don't mean a relasionship, just someone I'm spending time with. I'll be blocked now. | |||
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"Yes most definitely, she probably even knows this… But i try to live by the words of the great man Lemmy Don’t live a life with an regrets Hey, I know that face!" Is that a good thing lol | |||
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"No, sorry I don't. I feel like our relationship has broken down... There is always a person you will feel a historical attachment towards as that person could have been the catalist for a change in your life, emotional growth for example. Some attachement to that part of your life which is significant. Moe or not we look at the past with 'rose tinted glasses' even in reality that the reason things don't work we still attach a level of joy to it, becasue of how significant that era was. The reason I say no is simply based on the fact that I learned from that moment in time and moved past it. The 'one' was the one that was part of a change in my life. I can't live in the past as it no longer serves me and any attention I have is for the now and if I'm with someone in the now, they are the one that deserve and get all my attention. I don't mean a relasionship, just someone I'm spending time with. I'll be blocked now. " Ah no, not today | |||
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"Unfortunately yes Think about her every day When someone passes away Powerless and hopeless " I feel your pain. Its been 19 years for me yet still feels like yesterday. | |||
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"Do we all have a "one", you know the one that didn't work out but you just can't forget about? They always creep back into your thoughts no matter what. I do. He's lush. Also a dickhead…." Yes… I met someone almost 15 years ago and it was without doubt love at first sight for us both. I truly believe that we are soul mates, but we’ve tried three times over the years to make it work and it never does. I still can’t even smell his aftershave or listen to one of ‘our’ songs without my stomach still doing a flip. | |||
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"I found my one, she's a bit of a bitch but she's my bitch She's a female do too by the way A female do too? " Dog, fuck sake, I was playing my pc talking to F and who knows what else | |||
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"Do we all have a "one", you know the one that didn't work out but you just can't forget about? They always creep back into your thoughts no matter what. I do. He's lush. Also a dickhead. So, what do you do when someone messages you that strikes an uncanny resemblance to said "one", I mean, a very uncanny resemblance. Squint a tad and it could almost be them. Would you?? Purely for sexual pleasure obviously, nothing more sinister, no bunnies here. Not the furry kind anyway. It's a bad idea isn't it??" Wow! I feel like I could have written this myself... Yes, yes and yes. It was going great. A few months in and he changed. Cancelling at the last minute. Then the message came, I don't want what I thought I wanted. Even looked for guys similar looking. It's definitely wrong I know. 11 months later and he messages me to ask how I'm doing. Brings all the shitty feelings back.. .. Now he's in my head again. | |||
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"Do we all have a "one", you know the one that didn't work out but you just can't forget about? They always creep back into your thoughts no matter what. I do. He's lush. Also a dickhead. So, what do you do when someone messages you that strikes an uncanny resemblance to said "one", I mean, a very uncanny resemblance. Squint a tad and it could almost be them. Would you?? Purely for sexual pleasure obviously, nothing more sinister, no bunnies here. Not the furry kind anyway. It's a bad idea isn't it??" Ohh god yea, definitely OP. I had my 25 year school reunion last night, 1st time i was home for one I didnt go, because i knew the one would be there and id be a blundering mess infront of her. | |||
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"I’ve stayed friends with my exs - but I don’t obsess over any of them now. Occasionally something will trigger a memory and i’ll find myself smiling… but life moves on… and we all have… except I think about Raven all the time - how shit can a shag be…? Does she look like blancmange wrapped in dirty washing first thing in the morning before she shaves her moustache? Can I live without that in my life?? " Haha I've just read this. Very shit btw. | |||
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"I’ve stayed friends with my exs - but I don’t obsess over any of them now. Occasionally something will trigger a memory and i’ll find myself smiling… but life moves on… and we all have… except I think about Raven all the time - how shit can a shag be…? Does she look like blancmange wrapped in dirty washing first thing in the morning before she shaves her moustache? Can I live without that in my life?? Haha I've just read this. Very shit btw. " But you’re MY shit… | |||
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"Sorry Raven but I'm another who married their one! 26 years. " I mean we all say that, but there's also the 'one'. It didn't work out or if they were just a bit too into the satanic rituals type of deal? | |||
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"Do we all have a "one", you know the one that didn't work out but you just can't forget about? They always creep back into your thoughts no matter what. I do. He's lush. Also a dickhead. So, what do you do when someone messages you that strikes an uncanny resemblance to said "one", I mean, a very uncanny resemblance. Squint a tad and it could almost be them. Would you?? Purely for sexual pleasure obviously, nothing more sinister, no bunnies here. Not the furry kind anyway. It's a bad idea isn't it??" Yes, but unfortunately it’s you. Well, obviously not you, but you remind me of her. Especially squinting, maybe leave my glasses off, and you could be her… Bloody tragic…. | |||
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"Sorry Raven but I'm another who married their one! 26 years. " This is not the thread for the happily in love people!! | |||
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"Shag the look-alike, not the dickhead. Unless the look-alike is also a dickhead, then don’t shag either of them. Just…don’t tell the look-alike you’re only shagging them because of who they look like, because then you’re the dickhead. Also, next time the dickhead propositions you, tell the dickhead that you already found someone who looked like them, but who wasn’t a dickhead so you shagged the look-alike instead. This might sound cruel, but if enough people do this to the dickhead, they might learn not to be a dickhead, that way you get to have your jollies AND do the whole human race a service by educating a dickhead." That's a lot of dickheads. I like you. | |||
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"Do we all have a "one", you know the one that didn't work out but you just can't forget about? They always creep back into your thoughts no matter what. I do. He's lush. Also a dickhead. So, what do you do when someone messages you that strikes an uncanny resemblance to said "one", I mean, a very uncanny resemblance. Squint a tad and it could almost be them. Would you?? Purely for sexual pleasure obviously, nothing more sinister, no bunnies here. Not the furry kind anyway. It's a bad idea isn't it?? Yes, but unfortunately it’s you. Well, obviously not you, but you remind me of her. Especially squinting, maybe leave my glasses off, and you could be her… Bloody tragic…." Unfortunately it's you...I hear that a lot. | |||
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"Sorry Raven but I'm another who married their one! 26 years. I mean we all say that, but there's also the 'one'. It didn't work out or if they were just a bit too into the satanic rituals type of deal? " It was one ritual,one time. Jeeeeeezz. | |||
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"Sorry Raven but I'm another who married their one! 26 years. I mean we all say that, but there's also the 'one'. It didn't work out or if they were just a bit too into the satanic rituals type of deal? It was one ritual,one time. Jeeeeeezz. " I still have nightmares | |||
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"Do we all have a "one", you know the one that didn't work out but you just can't forget about? They always creep back into your thoughts no matter what. I do. He's lush. Also a dickhead. So, what do you do when someone messages you that strikes an uncanny resemblance to said "one", I mean, a very uncanny resemblance. Squint a tad and it could almost be them. Would you?? Purely for sexual pleasure obviously, nothing more sinister, no bunnies here. Not the furry kind anyway. It's a bad idea isn't it?? Yes, but unfortunately it’s you. Well, obviously not you, but you remind me of her. Especially squinting, maybe leave my glasses off, and you could be her… Bloody tragic…. Unfortunately it's you...I hear that a lot." Hence your propensity for dickheads… | |||
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