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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do we all have a "one", you know the one that didn't work out but you just can't forget about?

They always creep back into your thoughts no matter what.

I do. He's lush. Also a dickhead.

So, what do you do when someone messages you that strikes an uncanny resemblance to said "one", I mean, a very uncanny resemblance. Squint a tad and it could almost be them.

Would you??

Purely for sexual pleasure obviously, nothing more sinister, no bunnies here. Not the furry kind anyway.

It's a bad idea isn't it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had exactly that! I turned the bloke down and told him why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just going to say "mental nurse"

I refuse to delve further!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve had exactly that! I turned the bloke down and told him why "

But he's soooo pretty! I mean my kinda pretty, which is actually a tad rough looking with tattoos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had exactly that! I turned the bloke down and told him why

But he's soooo pretty! I mean my kinda pretty, which is actually a tad rough looking with tattoos. "

I wonder if we’re talking about the same bloke

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve had exactly that! I turned the bloke down and told him why

But he's soooo pretty! I mean my kinda pretty, which is actually a tad rough looking with tattoos.

I wonder if we’re talking about the same bloke "

Hands off he's mine!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm just going to say "mental nurse"

I refuse to delve further!!"

I need you to delve further.

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent

I do worry about you sometimes Jaga.

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By *ayzDreamingMan
over a year ago

Shipton bellinger

I still think about her every day, and it's been nearly 20 years. All she would have to do is say yes and I'm there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're the one that I want

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do worry about you sometimes Jaga."

So does my psychiatrist

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're the one that I want "

Ooh ooh ooh honey

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I still think about her every day, and it's been nearly 20 years. All she would have to do is say yes and I'm there"

It sucks doesn't it.

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By *ttmcdguyTV/TS
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I was once mistaken by a woman who had a affair with a married guy

She went absolutely dogshit doolally at for around a minute whilst I stood there and took all her abuse

When she had finally burnt herself out I just said thank you and then showed her my driving licence

She apologised

I found it quite funny

I don’t think she quite got over “The one!”

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent


"I do worry about you sometimes Jaga.

So does my psychiatrist

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Understandable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't seem to have that one. Thankfully.

I'd do it anyway. Surely you can't judge someone just because they look like someone else and assume they'd be the same. They can't possibly be the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was once mistaken by a woman who had a affair with a married guy

She went absolutely dogshit doolally at for around a minute whilst I stood there and took all her abuse

When she had finally burnt herself out I just said thank you and then showed her my driving licence

She apologised

I found it quite funny

I don’t think she quite got over “The one!”

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Eeeeek!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't seem to have that one. Thankfully.

I'd do it anyway. Surely you can't judge someone just because they look like someone else and assume they'd be the same. They can't possibly be the same. "

I'm only considering it because he looks like him, I'm not overly fussed about the personality on this occasion!

Just feeling a tad squirrelly you know?

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
over a year ago

Durham

Hell yeah, it’s been over three years since last seeing her and every day she’s in my thoughts. Good memories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't seem to have that one. Thankfully.

I'd do it anyway. Surely you can't judge someone just because they look like someone else and assume they'd be the same. They can't possibly be the same.

I'm only considering it because he looks like him, I'm not overly fussed about the personality on this occasion!

Just feeling a tad squirrelly you know? "

Well you need to get that squirrelly feeling sorted. So what's the harm? Can't have you climbing the walls can we!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just going to say "mental nurse"

I refuse to delve further!!

I need you to delve further. "

The first part of that sentence doesn't compute coming from your lips

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Is it strange mine was someone I met at a meet. After our second and unfortunately last, there was time when I thought about her nearly every day.

XX

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

No, sorry I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately yes

Think about her every day

When someone passes away

Powerless and hopeless

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

I do yea. Also a dickhead. But not met anyone since that resembles him in anyway really...though i do still find myself going for the same 'type'...a bit. No hair and tatoos!! I must get out of that habit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. They’re still not that one.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and I'm his too. Fate is cruel

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Yes, very attractive, stylish, sex would be incredible.

But if a guy like me got hold of her, it would leave an imprint on her mind.

She don't need that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't seem to have that one. Thankfully.

I'd do it anyway. Surely you can't judge someone just because they look like someone else and assume they'd be the same. They can't possibly be the same.

I'm only considering it because he looks like him, I'm not overly fussed about the personality on this occasion!

Just feeling a tad squirrelly you know? "

I’d say do it, it might cure the original attachment

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Get him banged!!

We were very much like that for nearly 8 years. We had a bit of fun when we first met and had partners (yup both dicks), but we put an end to it as wasn’t fair. Didn’t speak for several years as she was a massive twat, but always fancied her, best fuck EVER and just drawn to her. I snuck in her DM’s when I was single and we’re now living our best lives.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it strange mine was someone I met at a meet. After our second and unfortunately last, there was time when I thought about her nearly every day.

XX"

Sometimes you just click and you don't ever unclick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, sorry I don't. "

I feel like our relationship has broken down...

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Sounds Healthy!

Um nope, I would say a big fat Nop, NO, no entry, no way Hosè!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do yea. Also a dickhead. But not met anyone since that resembles him in anyway really...though i do still find myself going for the same 'type'...a bit. No hair and tatoos!! I must get out of that habit "

I definitely have a type...but this guy i had to do a double take and zoom in just to make sure it wasn't him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it !!!

I've had some lingering longing thoughts for several ladies, all because they were just one or two night stands and the sex was so magical that i think about them often. If i got a message from someone similar I'd be there in a flash. It's just sex you're not trying to ruin their lives. ... Share the love

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't seem to have that one. Thankfully.

I'd do it anyway. Surely you can't judge someone just because they look like someone else and assume they'd be the same. They can't possibly be the same.

I'm only considering it because he looks like him, I'm not overly fussed about the personality on this occasion!

Just feeling a tad squirrelly you know?

I’d say do it, it might cure the original attachment "

This is my thinking

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Oh yes without a doubt, I have one of those. Still remember her 20+ years on.

Didn't work out was an understatement, she was feral. Loved completely one day and could be ready to kill you the next.

But no as hot as she was I don't think looks would be enough, she had some very unique 'qualities'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get him banged!!

"

Simple and to the point!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds Healthy!

Um nope, I would say a big fat Nop, NO, no entry, no way Hosè!"

Fully agree, not in the slightest bit healthy. Unfortunately I'm drawn to things that aren't good for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh yes without a doubt, I have one of those. Still remember her 20+ years on.

Didn't work out was an understatement, she was feral. Loved completely one day and could be ready to kill you the next.

But no as hot as she was I don't think looks would be enough, she had some very unique 'qualities'."

Did we know each 20 years ago?

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff


"I do yea. Also a dickhead. But not met anyone since that resembles him in anyway really...though i do still find myself going for the same 'type'...a bit. No hair and tatoos!! I must get out of that habit

I definitely have a type...but this guy i had to do a double take and zoom in just to make sure it wasn't him! "

Well if you can see it for what it is, just some fun then go for it!! Just make sure you don't call out your ex's name mid thrust

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"Oh yes without a doubt, I have one of those. Still remember her 20+ years on.

Didn't work out was an understatement, she was feral. Loved completely one day and could be ready to kill you the next.

But no as hot as she was I don't think looks would be enough, she had some very unique 'qualities'.

Did we know each 20 years ago? "

To be honest you remind me of her.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Yes but never seen anyone since who resembled them...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh yes without a doubt, I have one of those. Still remember her 20+ years on.

Didn't work out was an understatement, she was feral. Loved completely one day and could be ready to kill you the next.

But no as hot as she was I don't think looks would be enough, she had some very unique 'qualities'.

Did we know each 20 years ago?

To be honest you remind me of her. "

It was the "Loved completely one day and could be ready to kill you the next" that struck a chord!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it!

Just make sure he never finds out you had sex with him because he resembles someone else and it’ll be grand

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've never had such a guy in my life. There all in the past and stay there. I've never really given any of them a thought

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Awww no. I feel sorry for him now. I’d hate that if someone did that to me. It’s mean! But he’s a man and you’re hot so it’s probably cool. Don’t think I could though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do it!

Just make sure he never finds out you had sex with him because he resembles someone else and it’ll be grand "

I did kinda tell him that he reminds me of another guy already! He doesn't seem overly bothered

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've never had such a guy in my life. There all in the past and stay there. I've never really given any of them a thought"

I try not to, but sometimes it's just right there in front of me!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Do it!

Just make sure he never finds out you had sex with him because he resembles someone else and it’ll be grand

I did kinda tell him that he reminds me of another guy already! He doesn't seem overly bothered "

Ah that’s not too bad then.

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Yep, though we still talk sometimes so it’s not too bad. But damn, does it hurt a little at times

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Awww no. I feel sorry for him now. I’d hate that if someone did that to me. It’s mean! But he’s a man and you’re hot so it’s probably cool. Don’t think I could though "

Men don't think the same!

He's really really hot! That's makes it ok right?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Awww no. I feel sorry for him now. I’d hate that if someone did that to me. It’s mean! But he’s a man and you’re hot so it’s probably cool. Don’t think I could though

Men don't think the same!

He's really really hot! That's makes it ok right? "

True. They don’t. I’m too soft. I don’t want to be! . Go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do it!

Just make sure he never finds out you had sex with him because he resembles someone else and it’ll be grand

I did kinda tell him that he reminds me of another guy already! He doesn't seem overly bothered "

There you go then. It’s meant to be!

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By *tarr619TV/TS
over a year ago

Warrington


"Do we all have a "one", you know the one that didn't work out but you just can't forget about?

They always creep back into your thoughts no matter what.

I do. He's lush. Also a dickhead.

So, what do you do when someone messages you that strikes an uncanny resemblance to said "one", I mean, a very uncanny resemblance. Squint a tad and it could almost be them.

Would you??

Purely for sexual pleasure obviously, nothing more sinister, no bunnies here. Not the furry kind anyway.

It's a bad idea isn't it??"

Only just a recent one who is in my thoughts and have just realised the feeling isn't mutual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I have the one I keep him xx

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Absolutely. But definitely better without him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When I have the one I keep him xx "

Oh no I don't want a guy full time. Too much of a commitment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do we all have a "one", you know the one that didn't work out but you just can't forget about?

They always creep back into your thoughts no matter what.

I do. He's lush. Also a dickhead.

So, what do you do when someone messages you that strikes an uncanny resemblance to said "one", I mean, a very uncanny resemblance. Squint a tad and it could almost be them.

Would you??

Purely for sexual pleasure obviously, nothing more sinister, no bunnies here. Not the furry kind anyway.

It's a bad idea isn't it??

Only just a recent one who is in my thoughts and have just realised the feeling isn't mutual "

Well this is it, it isn't with him either. But the new him seems keen.

It sucks

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Not yet, but it will happen.

Eventually he'll want to settle down and have children; or he'll meet The One for him, and I'll lose him.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Go for it op.

Regret is horrible.

Do it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do we all have a "one", you know the one that didn't work out but you just can't forget about?

They always creep back into your thoughts no matter what.

I do. He's lush. Also a dickhead.

So, what do you do when someone messages you that strikes an uncanny resemblance to said "one", I mean, a very uncanny resemblance. Squint a tad and it could almost be them.

Would you??

Purely for sexual pleasure obviously, nothing more sinister, no bunnies here. Not the furry kind anyway.

It's a bad idea isn't it??"

For your heart and head yes its a terrible idea

For your body probably not a bad idea

But what's the worst that could happen

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I've had the more than one some can be hard work but only one unexpectedly pops up and I ask myself why not just leave me alone

To have everything and throw it away

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Sounds Healthy!

Um nope, I would say a big fat Nop, NO, no entry, no way Hosè!

Fully agree, not in the slightest bit healthy. Unfortunately I'm drawn to things that aren't good for me. "

Ditto, I am a slow learner xx

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Do it, I definitely would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found my one, she's a bit of a bitch but she's my bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I found my one, she's a bit of a bitch but she's my bitch "

She's a female do too by the way

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"Oh yes without a doubt, I have one of those. Still remember her 20+ years on.

Didn't work out was an understatement, she was feral. Loved completely one day and could be ready to kill you the next.

But no as hot as she was I don't think looks would be enough, she had some very unique 'qualities'.

Did we know each 20 years ago?

To be honest you remind me of her.

It was the "Loved completely one day and could be ready to kill you the next" that struck a chord! "

Yup that'd be it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes most definitely, she probably even knows this…

But i try to live by the words of the great man Lemmy

Don’t live a life with an regrets

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By *tarr619TV/TS
over a year ago

Warrington


"Do we all have a "one", you know the one that didn't work out but you just can't forget about?

They always creep back into your thoughts no matter what.

I do. He's lush. Also a dickhead.

So, what do you do when someone messages you that strikes an uncanny resemblance to said "one", I mean, a very uncanny resemblance. Squint a tad and it could almost be them.

Would you??

Purely for sexual pleasure obviously, nothing more sinister, no bunnies here. Not the furry kind anyway.

It's a bad idea isn't it??

Only just a recent one who is in my thoughts and have just realised the feeling isn't mutual

Well this is it, it isn't with him either. But the new him seems keen.

It sucks "

Plot twist it's a woman I'm gutted, but I'm so rubbish at messaging ladies I'm not surprised they don't get back to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I found my one, she's a bit of a bitch but she's my bitch

She's a female do too by the way "

A female do too?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes most definitely, she probably even knows this…

But i try to live by the words of the great man Lemmy

Don’t live a life with an regrets "

Hey, I know that face!

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By *hroatitboyMan
over a year ago

GLA

Only had it once with an ex when we were together it was the wrong time. So we split up and were open to reconnecting later. That was about 7/8 years ago tried to reach out to him last year and he’s married. So that’s out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there one that looks like you op?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is there one that looks like you op? "

We can only pray there isn't!

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I hate to say this on your thread as I know it’s me and Ryan you’re referring to but my ‘one’ did work out.

Please… no vomit emoji’s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate to say this on your thread as I know it’s me and Ryan you’re referring to but my ‘one’ did work out.

Please… no vomit emoji’s."

As a consultation I think you should invite me to join you and your one.

I'll bring a Deadpool mask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there one that looks like you op?

We can only pray there isn't! "

I’m not a religious man.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"I hate to say this on your thread as I know it’s me and Ryan you’re referring to but my ‘one’ did work out.

Please… no vomit emoji’s.

As a consultation I think you should invite me to join you and your one.

I'll bring a Dead owl mask. "

A sexy body and a wise face, how could I resist!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate to say this on your thread as I know it’s me and Ryan you’re referring to but my ‘one’ did work out.

Please… no vomit emoji’s.

As a consultation I think you should invite me to join you and your one.

I'll bring a Dead owl mask.

A sexy body and a wise face, how could I resist!"

Twit-twoo

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"No, sorry I don't.

I feel like our relationship has broken down..."
There is always a person you will feel a historical attachment towards as that person could have been the catalist for a change in your life, emotional growth for example. Some attachement to that part of your life which is significant. Moe or not we look at the past with 'rose tinted glasses' even in reality that the reason things don't work we still attach a level of joy to it, becasue of how significant that era was.

The reason I say no is simply based on the fact that I learned from that moment in time and moved past it. The 'one' was the one that was part of a change in my life. I can't live in the past as it no longer serves me and any attention I have is for the now and if I'm with someone in the now, they are the one that deserve and get all my attention.

I don't mean a relasionship, just someone I'm spending time with.

I'll be blocked now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes most definitely, she probably even knows this…

But i try to live by the words of the great man Lemmy

Don’t live a life with an regrets

Hey, I know that face!"

Is that a good thing lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, sorry I don't.

I feel like our relationship has broken down... There is always a person you will feel a historical attachment towards as that person could have been the catalist for a change in your life, emotional growth for example. Some attachement to that part of your life which is significant. Moe or not we look at the past with 'rose tinted glasses' even in reality that the reason things don't work we still attach a level of joy to it, becasue of how significant that era was.

The reason I say no is simply based on the fact that I learned from that moment in time and moved past it. The 'one' was the one that was part of a change in my life. I can't live in the past as it no longer serves me and any attention I have is for the now and if I'm with someone in the now, they are the one that deserve and get all my attention.

I don't mean a relasionship, just someone I'm spending time with.

I'll be blocked now. "

Ah no, not today

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Unfortunately yes

Think about her every day

When someone passes away

Powerless and hopeless "

I feel your pain. Its been 19 years for me yet still feels like yesterday.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Do we all have a "one", you know the one that didn't work out but you just can't forget about?

They always creep back into your thoughts no matter what.

I do. He's lush. Also a dickhead…."

Yes… I met someone almost 15 years ago and it was without doubt love at first sight for us both. I truly believe that we are soul mates, but we’ve tried three times over the years to make it work and it never does. I still can’t even smell his aftershave or listen to one of ‘our’ songs without my stomach still doing a flip.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

I’ve stayed friends with my exs - but I don’t obsess over any of them now. Occasionally something will trigger a memory and i’ll find myself smiling… but life moves on… and we all have… except I think about Raven all the time - how shit can a shag be…? Does she look like blancmange wrapped in dirty washing first thing in the morning before she shaves her moustache? Can I live without that in my life??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I do….. I often think about him but I haven’t come across anyone that resembles him…. Yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I found my one, she's a bit of a bitch but she's my bitch

She's a female do too by the way

A female do too? "

Dog, fuck sake, I was playing my pc talking to F and who knows what else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just do him already! Then tell him he's a piece of shit and spit on him.

Everyone's different, he could be a real sweetheart?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do we all have a "one", you know the one that didn't work out but you just can't forget about?

They always creep back into your thoughts no matter what.

I do. He's lush. Also a dickhead.

So, what do you do when someone messages you that strikes an uncanny resemblance to said "one", I mean, a very uncanny resemblance. Squint a tad and it could almost be them.

Would you??

Purely for sexual pleasure obviously, nothing more sinister, no bunnies here. Not the furry kind anyway.

It's a bad idea isn't it??"

Wow! I feel like I could have written this myself... Yes, yes and yes.

It was going great. A few months in and he changed. Cancelling at the last minute. Then the message came, I don't want what I thought I wanted. Even looked for guys similar looking. It's definitely wrong I know. 11 months later and he messages me to ask how I'm doing. Brings all the shitty feelings back.. .. Now he's in my head again.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"Do we all have a "one", you know the one that didn't work out but you just can't forget about?

They always creep back into your thoughts no matter what.

I do. He's lush. Also a dickhead.

So, what do you do when someone messages you that strikes an uncanny resemblance to said "one", I mean, a very uncanny resemblance. Squint a tad and it could almost be them.

Would you??

Purely for sexual pleasure obviously, nothing more sinister, no bunnies here. Not the furry kind anyway.

It's a bad idea isn't it??"

Ohh god yea, definitely OP.

I had my 25 year school reunion last night, 1st time i was home for one

I didnt go, because i knew the one would be there and id be a blundering mess infront of her.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I don't know about the one. But I definitely have a soulmate that I've never been able to shake.

He's visiting for a day in a couple of weeks, so I'm preparing myself for the listless melancholy that always follows when his light leaves my life again

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I married my One

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I seriously think there is something wrong with me as I never met the one including my ex husband until I was 41 when I met Jay and only death separated us. I guess I just didn't have those strong feelings for anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do a little bit. Im sure he's not the one for a million terrible reasons but he's Ok enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve stayed friends with my exs - but I don’t obsess over any of them now. Occasionally something will trigger a memory and i’ll find myself smiling… but life moves on… and we all have… except I think about Raven all the time - how shit can a shag be…? Does she look like blancmange wrapped in dirty washing first thing in the morning before she shaves her moustache? Can I live without that in my life?? "

Haha I've just read this.

Very shit btw.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle


"I’ve stayed friends with my exs - but I don’t obsess over any of them now. Occasionally something will trigger a memory and i’ll find myself smiling… but life moves on… and we all have… except I think about Raven all the time - how shit can a shag be…? Does she look like blancmange wrapped in dirty washing first thing in the morning before she shaves her moustache? Can I live without that in my life??

Haha I've just read this.

Very shit btw.

"

But you’re MY shit…

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By *elinda BeaverCouple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Sorry Raven but I'm another who married their one! 26 years.

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By *ed MartinMan
over a year ago

Shefford

Shag the look-alike, not the dickhead. Unless the look-alike is also a dickhead, then don’t shag either of them. Just…don’t tell the look-alike you’re only shagging them because of who they look like, because then you’re the dickhead.

Also, next time the dickhead propositions you, tell the dickhead that you already found someone who looked like them, but who wasn’t a dickhead so you shagged the look-alike instead. This might sound cruel, but if enough people do this to the dickhead, they might learn not to be a dickhead, that way you get to have your jollies AND do the whole human race a service by educating a dickhead.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

There is definitely that ‘one’, probably will always be, who I would always say yes to again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes (wife) but she’s no longer here ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m trying to find ‘the 3’

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Nope for me

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"Sorry Raven but I'm another who married their one! 26 years. "

I mean we all say that, but there's also the 'one'. It didn't work out or if they were just a bit too into the satanic rituals type of deal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do we all have a "one", you know the one that didn't work out but you just can't forget about?

They always creep back into your thoughts no matter what.

I do. He's lush. Also a dickhead.

So, what do you do when someone messages you that strikes an uncanny resemblance to said "one", I mean, a very uncanny resemblance. Squint a tad and it could almost be them.

Would you??

Purely for sexual pleasure obviously, nothing more sinister, no bunnies here. Not the furry kind anyway.

It's a bad idea isn't it??"

Yes, but unfortunately it’s you. Well, obviously not you, but you remind me of her. Especially squinting, maybe leave my glasses off, and you could be her…

Bloody tragic….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a 'one' The sexual connection was of the scale. He still pops into my thoughts but he turned out to be a bit of a cunt

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry Raven but I'm another who married their one! 26 years. "

This is not the thread for the happily in love people!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Shag the look-alike, not the dickhead. Unless the look-alike is also a dickhead, then don’t shag either of them. Just…don’t tell the look-alike you’re only shagging them because of who they look like, because then you’re the dickhead.

Also, next time the dickhead propositions you, tell the dickhead that you already found someone who looked like them, but who wasn’t a dickhead so you shagged the look-alike instead. This might sound cruel, but if enough people do this to the dickhead, they might learn not to be a dickhead, that way you get to have your jollies AND do the whole human race a service by educating a dickhead."

That's a lot of dickheads.

I like you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do we all have a "one", you know the one that didn't work out but you just can't forget about?

They always creep back into your thoughts no matter what.

I do. He's lush. Also a dickhead.

So, what do you do when someone messages you that strikes an uncanny resemblance to said "one", I mean, a very uncanny resemblance. Squint a tad and it could almost be them.

Would you??

Purely for sexual pleasure obviously, nothing more sinister, no bunnies here. Not the furry kind anyway.

It's a bad idea isn't it??

Yes, but unfortunately it’s you. Well, obviously not you, but you remind me of her. Especially squinting, maybe leave my glasses off, and you could be her…

Bloody tragic…."

Unfortunately it's you...I hear that a lot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry Raven but I'm another who married their one! 26 years.

I mean we all say that, but there's also the 'one'. It didn't work out or if they were just a bit too into the satanic rituals type of deal?

"

It was one ritual,one time. Jeeeeeezz.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"Sorry Raven but I'm another who married their one! 26 years.

I mean we all say that, but there's also the 'one'. It didn't work out or if they were just a bit too into the satanic rituals type of deal?

It was one ritual,one time. Jeeeeeezz.

"

I still have nightmares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do we all have a "one", you know the one that didn't work out but you just can't forget about?

They always creep back into your thoughts no matter what.

I do. He's lush. Also a dickhead.

So, what do you do when someone messages you that strikes an uncanny resemblance to said "one", I mean, a very uncanny resemblance. Squint a tad and it could almost be them.

Would you??

Purely for sexual pleasure obviously, nothing more sinister, no bunnies here. Not the furry kind anyway.

It's a bad idea isn't it??

Yes, but unfortunately it’s you. Well, obviously not you, but you remind me of her. Especially squinting, maybe leave my glasses off, and you could be her…

Bloody tragic….

Unfortunately it's you...I hear that a lot."

Hence your propensity for dickheads…

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