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By *ettingthereslowly OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stafford

Hi all. So this is my first ever post (way more nervous about it than I should be!). I have a fantasy around being massaged and my husband wants to arrange it but to be honest we don't know where to start. It has to be by someone actually trained in massage as I want it to start off as a normal massage. But then I want the masseuse to get a little too close, and again and so on, and then start doing things they shouldn't be doing. I'd like it to feel like it's not supposed to be happening and they are taking advantage of me. I also like the idea of a four hand massage in the same sort of scenario. It's not really something you can just find on Google and a lot of the posts on here asking about massages seem to be full of lovely gents offering their services but not actually being trained/experienced in massage. Any help finding what I'm looking for would be most appreciated! Thank you all ??

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

You're right that it's not something you're likely to find on here, despite offers/claims of training or knowledge

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By *ettingthereslowly OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stafford

It clearly exists out there somewhere it just seems to be a minefield trying to find someone at all, let alone someone with the right credentials. It's not really something I can ask around the office for recommendations ??

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It clearly exists out there somewhere it just seems to be a minefield trying to find someone at all, let alone someone with the right credentials. It's not really something I can ask around the office for recommendations ??"

I think tantra and similar professionals have strict boundaries. Maybe a massage parlour rather than a spa type place?

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By *redBlogs1965Man
over a year ago

LUTON

I have had a small about it training but I'm far from a professional. I have my own massage table here as well. Saves my back more than anything.

I have one verification posted that started with a massage.

So if any of you lovely ladies fancy a massage get in touch. Happy for the other half to watch and take photos if that's what you want as well.

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By *lackwoodGentMan
over a year ago

Pontllanfraith

You could try searching for a massage exchange. I'm registered on a few massage exchange sites, where you can stipulate your requirements, comfort levels etc. You'll find someone, for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried yoni bare?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had a small about it training but I'm far from a professional. I have my own massage table here as well. Saves my back more than anything.

I have one verification posted that started with a massage.

So if any of you lovely ladies fancy a massage get in touch. Happy for the other half to watch and take photos if that's what you want as well. "

It's polite to start your own thread on it not hijack the OP's thread

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By *redBlogs1965Man
over a year ago

LUTON


"

It's polite to start your own thread on it not hijack the OP's thread "

Sorry.

Was just trying to be helpful

Fairly new to all this forum stuff

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"It clearly exists out there somewhere it just seems to be a minefield trying to find someone at all, let alone someone with the right credentials. It's not really something I can ask around the office for recommendations ??

I think tantra and similar professionals have strict boundaries. Maybe a massage parlour rather than a spa type place? "

This

Many professionals wouldn't do what you desire, and many will do it but can't actually massage properly, also lots actually want to penetrate you as well. It's a minefield picking through them all

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By *oolRedMan
over a year ago

Manchester, Birmingham & London


"It clearly exists out there somewhere it just seems to be a minefield trying to find someone at all, let alone someone with the right credentials. It's not really something I can ask around the office for recommendations ??

I think tantra and similar professionals have strict boundaries. Maybe a massage parlour rather than a spa type place?

This

Many professionals wouldn't do what you desire, and many will do it but can't actually massage properly, also lots actually want to penetrate you as well. It's a minefield picking through them all"

You've rightly summed this up... in my limited 15 years of experience in delivering massages a majority couples & ladies have struggled to find a masseur who has the patience, knowledge & skills but if you research well there are a few genuine ones on here that know what they're doing...go with your instincts (& verifications) especially if this is your first time looking for a massage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all. So this is my first ever post (way more nervous about it than I should be!). I have a fantasy around being massaged and my husband wants to arrange it but to be honest we don't know where to start. It has to be by someone actually trained in massage as I want it to start off as a normal massage. But then I want the masseuse to get a little too close, and again and so on, and then start doing things they shouldn't be doing. I'd like it to feel like it's not supposed to be happening and they are taking advantage of me. I also like the idea of a four hand massage in the same sort of scenario. It's not really something you can just find on Google and a lot of the posts on here asking about massages seem to be full of lovely gents offering their services but not actually being trained/experienced in massage. Any help finding what I'm looking for would be most appreciated! Thank you all ??"

Its defo available with a lovely couple whose business is massage. 4 hands available and the rest, but as you'd expect quite expensive. If youre ever in North Wales pm me for info.

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

I have met several fully qualified massage therapists off of fab (men) all of whom had their own practices and client bases outside of fab.

They’re definitely around. Just don’t be shy to ask to see their proof!

It is hard to find people who will dedicate the time to you only and are able to restrain themselves. I don’t just mean physically, but also mentally discplined in order to keep the teasing paced out, and not rushing as the passion builds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is very much a fantasy for me too and I've never found it either.

I think in reality most men on here claiming to be trained are intact not and the ones who may be legitimate are just not what I'm looking for. I did wonder about paying for this type of scenario but again that's a minefield too.

I hope you find it eventually.

Until then send your other half on a course and role play!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did a sports massage course years back not that sensual

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Mr here is a qualified massage therapist - if you were closer would loved to have helped out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all. So this is my first ever post (way more nervous about it than I should be!). I have a fantasy around being massaged and my husband wants to arrange it but to be honest we don't know where to start. It has to be by someone actually trained in massage as I want it to start off as a normal massage. But then I want the masseuse to get a little too close, and again and so on, and then start doing things they shouldn't be doing. I'd like it to feel like it's not supposed to be happening and they are taking advantage of me. I also like the idea of a four hand massage in the same sort of scenario. It's not really something you can just find on Google and a lot of the posts on here asking about massages seem to be full of lovely gents offering their services but not actually being trained/experienced in massage. Any help finding what I'm looking for would be most appreciated! Thank you all ??"

I’ve met someone that done this. He has his own studio. It was so much fun. He’s on and off fab but he’s in the south west xx

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Not sure its that hard to find a great experience. You have to out the time and effort into the selection process. Sure hubby will dobthat for you. But of course you have to dodge the chancers. For folks whose living comes from massage though... Its a big risk for them.

Finding a retired or suitavly trained but non professional may be more fruitful.

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