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By *obilebottom OP   Man
over a year ago

All over

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
over a year ago

All over

Do you think people make assumptions about someone based on their sexual preferences? Is there a sort of Sex Class System? Do tops view bottoms as inferior. Do straight guys think are above bi guys. Do alpha males view women as below them. Not sure I am expressing this well but reading some profiles, and even some forum responses, I feel that there might be certain assumptions made about people depending on their sexual preferences rather than other things. Personally that's not what I would base any opinion I may have of a person but seems a fair few do. What do you think?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I thought this was gonna be about sofas!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Some tops think bottoms are inferior.

Some straight guys think they're superior to bi guys.

Some alpha males think they're superior to women.

Also some bottoms think they're on top, some bi guys look down on straight guys, some (I think most) women look down on men who think of themselves as alphas.

Personally, as a bottom, I play with people I consider equals, and don't see what anyone's sexual preferences matter beyond defining compatibility in that area.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Definitely. There are certain preferences that people find it acceptable to look down on, he rude about and make assumptions about the people expressing them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought this was gonna be about sofas!"

^She likes leather.

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)


"I thought this was gonna be about sofas!"

I was getting ready to tell people how to get independent furniture inspections and take sofa companies to court!

Never heard of a sex class system. Will read the replies with interest.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Is the sale still on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is the sale still on? "

Three bank holidays in May. Bargains to be had.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Is the sale still on?

Three bank holidays in May. Bargains to be had."

Thanks, I can finally use my vouchers for that footstool I’ve always wanted

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Is the sale still on?

Three bank holidays in May. Bargains to be had."

3+1+1 should be popular!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is the sale still on?

Three bank holidays in May. Bargains to be had.

Thanks, I can finally use my vouchers for that footstool I’ve always wanted "

Pouffe?

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Don't think there's a hierarchy, I've never seen it myself.

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
over a year ago

All over


"Definitely. There are certain preferences that people find it acceptable to look down on, he rude about and make assumptions about the people expressing them"

Yes, that's what I thought and rather interesting as had never thought about it before

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Definitely. There are certain preferences that people find it acceptable to look down on, he rude about and make assumptions about the people expressing them

Yes, that's what I thought and rather interesting as had never thought about it before "

There's a kind of base level that the majority subscribe to and outside of that tacit disapproval is applied. The phrase 'each to their own but' is used a lot.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Do you think people make assumptions about someone based on their sexual preferences? Is there a sort of Sex Class System? Do tops view bottoms as inferior. Do straight guys think are above bi guys. Do alpha males view women as below them. Not sure I am expressing this well but reading some profiles, and even some forum responses, I feel that there might be certain assumptions made about people depending on their sexual preferences rather than other things. Personally that's not what I would base any opinion I may have of a person but seems a fair few do. What do you think?"
I just think I'm superior

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
over a year ago

All over


"Definitely. There are certain preferences that people find it acceptable to look down on, he rude about and make assumptions about the people expressing them

Yes, that's what I thought and rather interesting as had never thought about it before

There's a kind of base level that the majority subscribe to and outside of that tacit disapproval is applied. The phrase 'each to their own but' is used a lot. "

Understood and well put.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Personally I don't think so or I don't see it.

This is the one place people can come and be open about their sexuality and kinks.

Mrs

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Do you think people make assumptions about someone based on their sexual preferences? Is there a sort of Sex Class System? Do tops view bottoms as inferior. Do straight guys think are above bi guys. Do alpha males view women as below them. Not sure I am expressing this well but reading some profiles, and even some forum responses, I feel that there might be certain assumptions made about people depending on their sexual preferences rather than other things. Personally that's not what I would base any opinion I may have of a person but seems a fair few do. What do you think?"

Some people make assumptions about anything and everything.

Some people naturally have a superiority complex and equally some people have massive insecurity issues that manifest themselves in angst, rage and aggression.

I've always stood by the notion everyone is equal. There's no pecking order. No league tables and no cliques.

Others of course disagree.

Some would argue black is white and down is up.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are tgey still having a sale?

Oh no, wait a minute, I'm confusing them with DFS

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
over a year ago

All over


"Do you think people make assumptions about someone based on their sexual preferences? Is there a sort of Sex Class System? Do tops view bottoms as inferior. Do straight guys think are above bi guys. Do alpha males view women as below them. Not sure I am expressing this well but reading some profiles, and even some forum responses, I feel that there might be certain assumptions made about people depending on their sexual preferences rather than other things. Personally that's not what I would base any opinion I may have of a person but seems a fair few do. What do you think?

Some people make assumptions about anything and everything.

Some people naturally have a superiority complex and equally some people have massive insecurity issues that manifest themselves in angst, rage and aggression.

I've always stood by the notion everyone is equal. There's no pecking order. No league tables and no cliques.

Others of course disagree.

Some would argue black is white and down is up.

A"

That's true.

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
over a year ago

All over

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By *ust a little bit moreWoman
over a year ago

kendal

I think it depends on the person doesn't it, I've never judged anyone or thought they were 'beneath' me because if Thier tastes, preferences or kinks, just as I've never felt anyone is 'above me' for the same reasons

Anyone who thinks they are better or more above than someone else because of thier sexual preferences....

Is clearly just a massive twat.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia


"I thought this was gonna be about sofas!"

So did I

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

I think there is a class system, its sometimes an un- conscious bias, sometimes a lot more overt.

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock


"I thought this was gonna be about sofas!"

I thought there was a sale on

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By *obilebottom OP   Man
over a year ago

All over


"I thought this was gonna be about sofas!

I thought there was a sale on "

There seems to be enough interest on that to start a thread. I might even post on it too myself

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Some peculiar people do. And you see men alleged to fuck 'any hole's a goal', as near their bottom.

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

It certainly shouldn't but you are probably right that it does and that 'macho' attitude is often apparent even on here whether overt or covert. Those people though are not really worth to bother with. They probably harbour far worse prejudices and a lot of their own insecurities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I the only one who’s completely confused by the fact this isn’t about sofas?

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Am I the only one who’s completely confused by the fact this isn’t about sofas? "

Well, I read the post and did not confuse me but can see the acronym on the title may have done that for you though the post itself is perfectly clear

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