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By *aggoner OP Man
over a year ago

for a penny

Under what circumstances would you physically hurt someone?

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Only if i was in a position / scenario of life threatening where

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If my loved ones were under threat and that includes me.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Self defence. Or if they were doing something to my kids

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Although again as I think with everything in life, can we really say what we’d do until we’re in a situation? I honestly think not.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"Only if i was in a position / scenario of life threatening where i didn't other option if not causing hurt to someone "

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Under what circumstances would you physically hurt someone? "

Physical or emotional... Not in my nature at all. As a last resort and only if me or mine were under threat.

Theres too much harm.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Although again as I think with everything in life, can we really say what we’d do until we’re in a situation? I honestly think not. "

No, we can't. I've seen that in action, people freeze.

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

some pain my be part of BDSM fun but only with full consent & agreed limits

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By *opetop4UMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

If someone turned up at my door and said, "here's your ex wife back!"

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By *omersetsmithyMan
over a year ago

Horfield

I would not hurt any one . Spanking to there limits .

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Although again as I think with everything in life, can we really say what we’d do until we’re in a situation? I honestly think not.

No, we can't. I've seen that in action, people freeze."

They do. And also if it was your child the red mist can appear. I honestly don’t think I’d know what I’d do in some situations. Would I jump in the Niagara falls to try and save them. Yeah probably. Even though there’s not a chance.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Also if i saw someone being hurt without a valid explanation. I may wouldn't be very helpful but i kmow instinctively i couldn't let someone been hurt

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Although again as I think with everything in life, can we really say what we’d do until we’re in a situation? I honestly think not.

No, we can't. I've seen that in action, people freeze.

Bloody thumb again! I didn’t click the thumb!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they hurt my kids or my dogs

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Also if i saw someone being hurt without a valid explanation. I may wouldn't be very helpful but i kmow instinctively i couldn't let someone been hurt "

By hurting someone else?

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By *ummerfield94Man
over a year ago

falkirk

If someone was to hurt me my pets or those that I have close to me.

Any other time everything can be resolved with a nice long conversation

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"If someone was to hurt me my pets or those that I have close to me.

Any other time everything can be resolved with a nice long conversation "

And a cuppa

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Although again as I think with everything in life, can we really say what we’d do until we’re in a situation? I honestly think not.

No, we can't. I've seen that in action, people freeze.

I remember some years ago a young woman was attacked by a man with a machete, t was in a public place with onlookers. The only person who helped her was a woman who dragged her away by her feet.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Although again as I think with everything in life, can we really say what we’d do until we’re in a situation? I honestly think not.

No, we can't. I've seen that in action, people freeze.

Bloody thumb again! I didn’t click the thumb!

Ah you have been targeted by the 'phantom thumb'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Under what circumstances would you physically hurt someone? "

For me, I imagine it would be self defense or someone hitting one of my kids regardless of them now being adults.

I say imagine, as we may be surprised as to how we react, I may freeze on the aoot or i nay retaliate.

However, one has to take on board, we are all capable of murder in such situations regardless of how we would normally react.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

In a Zombie Apocalypse situation I'd swing my club at anyone getting in the way of my family's food or medicine.

Those Zombies would be pulverised too.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

As someone who is now incredibly weak I'd have no chance against most people, but I'd still throw myself at anyone putting a family member in danger.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Only when I put it ALL in

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

During consentual BDSM, very easily, and will do happily.

During security work. Yes, if required, and causing the minimum level of pain required to deal with the situation. ( Though this is rare)

Frequently growing up, fighting with my brothers.

These days, if someone was hurting family, friends or myself, then I don't think I'd have issues hurting them physically. But unless faced with it in the moment, I could never be sure what I would do.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

If anybody hurt my child I would go full darkside on them and then they would truely discover what pain realy was.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Self defence or defending someone, however I'm prone to freeze over fight.

Violence is never my answer and I absolutely detest it.

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

If you don’t move out my way in Morrisons.

The mr

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

Self defence, hurting or the threat of hurting my kids or loved ones. Luckily it’s been nearly 10 years since being in a physical confrontation of any kind and hoping to keep it that way

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By *pen2UMan
over a year ago

Telford

If my family were maliciously hurt in anyway due to someone else outside of the family and if I'm being generally attacked maliciously.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Never would.

I'm happy to be able to restrain most people safely and competently. If you hurt someone and you awaken their already high fight or flight, then it can only escalate into much worse. I prefer to immobilise and talk my way out of it

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By *ummerfield94Man
over a year ago

falkirk

"If someone was to hurt me my pets or those that I have close to me.

Any other time everything can be resolved with a nice long conversation

And a cuppa"

Don't forget the custard creams and Jaffa cakes too

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Self defence, I'm not ever going to go down without a fight.

If anyone ever intentionally hurt any of my dogs the red mist would descend.

Helping other humans, it very much depends on the situation.

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By *aggoner OP Man
over a year ago

for a penny

"If anybody hurt my child I would go full darkside on them and then they would truely discover what pain realy was."

So, not necessarily in the heat of the moment. You would plan revenge?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Self defence or if they done something really bad and I found out about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they looked at me.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

If i fell on them from above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone tries to dip their grubby little fingers in my food when they have their own, they’re getting a karate chop to the throat.

In all seriousness though, only if I felt like me or my kids were in danger.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Intentional physical harm is never on my list. Restraint if necessary but not deliberate harm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not physically hurt someone no

I protect people using minimal force

And pain

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By *tooveMan
over a year ago

belfast

When sparring.

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By *aggoner OP Man
over a year ago

for a penny

"Not physically hurt someone no

I protect people using minimal force

And pain

I thought pain stemmed from physical (or mental) hurt. How do you cause pain otherwise?

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I'm not a violent person and I believe love is the Law. However although love is my creed I am not a pacifist. I know from experience it is perfectly in me hurt another human and I have long square away that with my own ethics regarding the use of violence. Both in relation to everyday life and within the context of my previous career. Luckily now in terms of everyday life in the UK there is very little need for this due to rule of law and the State monopoly on the issue of and use of lethal violence (which is not the case in so many other parts of the world). Most everday situations in this country violence can be avoided with a cool head and sensible strategy. I wish never to do harm to any human, it is not in my nature. However the world can be a horrible place and there are time when we must protect and stand on what is right for the very sake of the love of humanity it's self and common human values. I suppose the defence of Ukraine being a valid example right now.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I don't know, in violent circumstances I've general froze. But those were acts of violence against me. I'm unsure what I would do if someone was violent against my kids.

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