FabSwingers.com forum: Advise needed

By *ycom72 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Hi guys new to all this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would you like advice on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First off, Ryan, awesome name.

Advice on fab?

Expect nothing. Nothing. At. All.

You'll do grand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly what Raven said.

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By *ycom72 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Well thanks for the piss taking lol .. not a lot I can say to that I suppose

.. it’s funny tbh glad I cheered you all up

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Leave now..... Thats my advice...... You won't take it mind...... So good luck

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By *ycom72 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Expect nothing at all .. totally honest so as I thought this site is a total waste of time lol ??

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By *ycom72 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Trolls are trolls nothing to get worked up about make me laugh to be honest

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

If you set out to achieve nothing, and you do achieve nothing, then you've achieved something just by achieving nothing!

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Expect nothing at all .. totally honest so as I thought this site is a total waste of time lol ?? "

Like a great deal of other things, you get out what you put in.

This isn't rent a flange.

Be nice, find your niche, don't sulk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Expect nothing at all .. totally honest so as I thought this site is a total waste of time lol ?? "

Again, what do you want advice on?

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Expect nothing at all .. totally honest so as I thought this site is a total waste of time lol ??

Again, what do you want advice on?"
threads and the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Expect nothing at all .. totally honest so as I thought this site is a total waste of time lol ?? "

Depends what you expect.

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By *winging Sally SeanCouple
over a year ago

Warks / Northants Border

"Expect nothing at all .. totally honest so as I thought this site is a total waste of time lol ?? "

It's probably best to consider this site as a link to other ways to meet people. For example, to find out when arranged social meets are happening, or when clubs are holding nights which are suitable for single guys.

Once you've attended a few of those, use this site for reason above AND for staying in contact with those you meet at the events.

Trying to use the site to meet others individually is going to be tough. Some guys have been on here for years and not managed that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Expect nothing at all .. totally honest so as I thought this site is a total waste of time lol ??

Again, what do you want advice on?threads and the point

Eh?

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Welcome to the jungle,

We've got fun and games...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dude you've had more comments than alot of other posts so thats an achievement.

People that can't take a bit of rib tickling are probably people who get triggered by memes lol

Happy fabbing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys new to all this "

My advice is to put some better photos on your profile, the ones you have are not good shots to be honest.

Add a bit more about what you like sexualy and what type of person/persons you are looking to meet.

Also I would advise you not to start forum threads asking for advice because this often leads to piss taking and unkind replies from some members...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trolls are trolls nothing to get worked up about make me laugh to be honest "

I think what they were saying (in a blunt way) about camera angles, is that perhaps try different angles so show your face differently.

Also a smile is much more appealing to see than a grump face.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"Expect nothing at all .. totally honest so as I thought this site is a total waste of time lol ?? "

The reply+quote let's us know who you're talking to.

Well done on being brave and posting. The Lounge forum is a place for general chat. You'll find Swingers Chat, Meets & Events and all sorts of other fora further down the page (don't recommend the Virus one, they take everything a bit seriously).

Join in with a few threads and get to know people. The site is a great way to waste time but I don't think it's a waste of time. But yes, as a single man you are one of many horny dudes so the site isn't for everyone.

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By *ycom72 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Cheers guys at least I got you talking and a few laughs I will try and up my game ..

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By *winging Sally SeanCouple
over a year ago

Warks / Northants Border

"Cheers guys at least I got you talking and a few laughs I will try and up my game .."

If you're looking for advice to update your profile, there's plenty on here for that. Alternatively click the green arrow next to our profile name and look at the thread we created about 2 months ago...

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By *ycom72 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

No problems with the advice at all .. lol

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By *winging Sally SeanCouple
over a year ago

Warks / Northants Border

"Expect nothing at all .. totally honest so as I thought this site is a total waste of time lol ??

The reply+quote let's us know who you're talking to.

Fora? Everyday is a school day!

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"Fora? Everyday is a school day!

Sometimes I says forums. Today I felt fancy

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"No problems with the advice at all .. lol"

Reply+quote. Please

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By *ycom72 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

You all nuts lol ..

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By *ycom72 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Your …

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By *KloganMan
over a year ago

Ramsbottom

Hey buddy..

I just read this bit on your profile bio..

“I won’t be sending any dick pictures or abusive emails or asking for sex without chatting first”..

This makes me think that you will send all the above as soon as you’ve chatted, that could just be me not reading sarcasm correctly of course..

Just thought I’d drop in and let you know. Happy fabbing..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there anything particular you are wanting advice on?

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By *ycom72 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Joking aside and take the piss if you like I’ve got a thick skin and if you can’t laugh at you’re self who can you laugh at …

I’ve been single for a while and friend suggested this site .. I haven’t got time for a relationship.

Im new to this and just looking for advise where I’m going wrong .. some one who knows the ropes

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By *ycom72 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Never posted a cock pic would need a magnified camera lens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Joking aside and take the piss if you like I’ve got a thick skin and if you can’t laugh at you’re self who can you laugh at …

I’ve been single for a while and friend suggested this site .. I haven’t got time for a relationship.

Im new to this and just looking for advise where I’m going wrong .. some one who knows the ropes

Welcome to Fab by the way. You've took a good step by posting in the forums. Another good idea is to go to social events where you can meet swingers and mingle and chat. You'll learn about the lifestyle and perhaps make connections with people who may then want to take things further. Relying solely on this site to meet people can be hard work.

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By *ycom72 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Cheers best to be honest

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"Expect nothing at all .. totally honest so as I thought this site is a total waste of time lol ??

The reply+quote let's us know who you're talking to.

J"
this spot on..

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By *ack 500Man
over a year ago

stafford

Expect an influx of men wanting to rip your pants off mate !!! Haah

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Expect nothing at all .. totally honest so as I thought this site is a total waste of time lol ?? "

The site is far from a waste of time, but many guys come on here and expect to be knee deep in ladies before the week is out.

By "expect nothing" I would mean, don't feel entitled, don't expect someone to reply just because they've messaged you, don't expect dozens of messages begging to meet. There are a hundred times more men on here than women, so the law of averages is always against the single guy.

On the other hand, a good profile with nice photos and well written messages directed at those whom you know might be interested because you've read their profile, are a good foundation for a successful FAB Life.

The forums are great too, there are loads of laughs & more meaningful conversations happening here every day.

Cal

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Cheers best to be honest "

Also.... click the Reply With Quote (Or +Quote if on computer) button below a post so we can see who you're replying to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you set out to achieve nothing, and you do achieve nothing, then you've achieved something just by achieving nothing!"

What an awesome bit of advise that I am now going to use to my work staff and bosses

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"Hi guys new to all this "

Except nothing,

Be charming not pushy

& go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP welcome along, it’s a good place to be honest and you will learn more about yourself than you will about others so it’s a worthwhile venture….

The are rules

1) be nice….. the assholes get ‘found out’ the forum is moderated to stop you being an asshole but if you aren’t a good boy you will get told off by a lot of people, they are the good

2) expect nothing, no one owes you anything on here, you could be hung like a horse (some are) and amazing in bed (some are) doesn’t mean you will get one message

3) you are here for a long time not a good time…. This philosophy might sound arse about face but in your time here if you listen and play nice you will learn a lot about yourself, hone your profile, take better photos, give better responses, and to this end it’s not just about interaction on fab, it’s a life lesson too

4) more important than all that enjoy it, put some effort in and you will be rewarded, there’s decent people in here l, yeah there’s the odd idiot (hi, waves) but the good bunch will look after you

You are welcome

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Welcome to the jungle,

We've got fun and games..."

We got everything you want, honey, we know the names...

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By *ycom72 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Guns n roses what a band

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Hi OP, welcome to the forå. Don't be too put off with the negativity, just focus on the p+sitive advice and support from the forumites above. Whatever you're looking for and in whatever direction it takes you I hope you get much fulfilment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the forums. Just be yourself and ignore the haters

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also I would advise you not to start forum threads asking for advice because this often leads to piss taking and unkind replies from some members..."

This.

Why are people so unwelcoming to others on the forums.

It’s not smart or clever to try and make others look stupid so you can have a laugh at their expense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also I would advise you not to start forum threads asking for advice because this often leads to piss taking and unkind replies from some members...

This.

Why are people so unwelcoming to others on the forums.

It’s not smart or clever to try and make others look stupid so you can have a laugh at their expense."

Well said, it's easily forgotten that we all started somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just enjoy and have fun

And sometimes this place is good place

Filled with laughter and fun from gents as well as women

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By *ycom72 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Don’t argue guys it’s all good I have all the advice good and bad .. it’s just fun and if you can’t laugh at yourself who can you laugh at .. You’re all great happy fabbing

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By *ycom72 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

It’s cool chatting to all of you a broad spectrum of fabbers

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By *ycom72 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Got you all talking that’s the main thing

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Use reply and quote

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By *ycom72 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Use reply and quote

What do you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Use reply and quote

What do you think "

I like it

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By *ycom72 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Getting the hang of this now

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Use reply and quote

What do you think "

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By *ycom72 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Use reply and quote

What do you think

Got it

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