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"How good do you think you look when naked in the mirror? I'm going a solid 7 It's not bad!" for those of us with body dysmorphia, this post is somewhat cruel, I would say a big fat zero but to end on a positive note, the feedback I get here helps and I can now say 1 on bad days and 2 on good ones. Ego is not my strong point, vanity doesn't claim me. | |||
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"How good do you think you look when naked in the mirror? I'm going a solid 7 It's not bad!" a solid.............. nil pwa! presently, I am very unhappy with my body. | |||
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"Oh gosh.... A 4 maybe" ... my word your much better than a 4 x | |||
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"How good do you think you look when naked in the mirror? I'm going a solid 7 It's not bad!" 2 and thats being generous for at least being naked in the mirror !! | |||
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"1 maybe 2 but got to the point where I don't care what people think about my looks. I like my messy bed hair, i like my cheeky grin " Will politely disagree you are doing yourself a disservice x | |||
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"Truthfully, about an 8. I have bits of me I don't like, a little belly jiggle, not entirely symmetrical breasts, the usual things people don't like that I know don't really matter, but they matter enough to me to knock a couple of points off. But I have fantastic legs, a cracking arse, I love my waist and my curves and I was blessed with a face that appeals at least to me. Overall, I'm hot. I'd fuck me " .. thats more like it think positive | |||
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"How good do you think you look when naked in the mirror? I'm going a solid 7 It's not bad!" Naked reflection in a mirror I'll say I'm a 5, I've been worse and I've been better. Fully clothed reflection would be 3 or 4, I have zero dress sense and clothes hang off my boobs hiding my hourglass figure. Luckily with my camera, some good hand positioning I think my photos can be scored higher | |||
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"Truthfully, about an 8. I have bits of me I don't like, a little belly jiggle, not entirely symmetrical breasts, the usual things people don't like that I know don't really matter, but they matter enough to me to knock a couple of points off. But I have fantastic legs, a cracking arse, I love my waist and my curves and I was blessed with a face that appeals at least to me. Overall, I'm hot. I'd fuck me " I'd kill to have your confidence in yourself - even when I had a better body I never thought like that. It's awesome to read. | |||
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"Truthfully, about an 8. I have bits of me I don't like, a little belly jiggle, not entirely symmetrical breasts, the usual things people don't like that I know don't really matter, but they matter enough to me to knock a couple of points off. But I have fantastic legs, a cracking arse, I love my waist and my curves and I was blessed with a face that appeals at least to me. Overall, I'm hot. I'd fuck me " And modest too | |||
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"Truthfully, about an 8. I have bits of me I don't like, a little belly jiggle, not entirely symmetrical breasts, the usual things people don't like that I know don't really matter, but they matter enough to me to knock a couple of points off. But I have fantastic legs, a cracking arse, I love my waist and my curves and I was blessed with a face that appeals at least to me. Overall, I'm hot. I'd fuck me I'd kill to have your confidence in yourself - even when I had a better body I never thought like that. It's awesome to read. " If I'd been asked this question a year ago, the answer would have been 1 or 2 at best. It's fucking hard to break out of that negative mindset, but it's well worth doing | |||
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"And modest too" Modesty just comes across as fishing for compliments to me. I know who I am and how I look. I know I won't appeal to everyone and I'm okay with that. That doesn't mean I don't get to enjoy me | |||
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"4.5" You’re an 8 or 9 never doubt yourself Gorgeous | |||
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"Truthfully, about an 8. I have bits of me I don't like, a little belly jiggle, not entirely symmetrical breasts, the usual things people don't like that I know don't really matter, but they matter enough to me to knock a couple of points off. But I have fantastic legs, a cracking arse, I love my waist and my curves and I was blessed with a face that appeals at least to me. Overall, I'm hot. I'd fuck me I'd kill to have your confidence in yourself - even when I had a better body I never thought like that. It's awesome to read. If I'd been asked this question a year ago, the answer would have been 1 or 2 at best. It's fucking hard to break out of that negative mindset, but it's well worth doing " Really? That's impressive. I keep working on it. I don't think it should be the way but I feel much more positive when I have an active sex life! | |||
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"Really? That's impressive. I keep working on it. I don't think it should be the way but I feel much more positive when I have an active sex life! " An active and wanted sex life has definitely helped. As has listening to weird podcasts which include a kind of mindfulness and CBT in among the full hour ramblings about otters or art history. I'd been watching drag race and hearing "If you can't love yourself how in the hell are you gonna love anybody else" for years and never really taken it in. It's been a real rough fucken journey though | |||
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"to many people under rating themselves whats going on.." I always say it doesn't matter how someone sees a person it's how that person views themselves. We may see someone as a 10 or 8 but in their own eyes they see themselves as a 4 or 6 until they do whatever it takes to make themselves look at themselves on a higher view xx | |||
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"Oh gosh.... A 4 maybe... my word your much better than a 4 x" With clothes on yes..... | |||
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"3 and that’s why it’s staying covered until I can sort it out. " You’re incredibly gorgeous | |||
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"Really? That's impressive. I keep working on it. I don't think it should be the way but I feel much more positive when I have an active sex life! An active and wanted sex life has definitely helped. As has listening to weird podcasts which include a kind of mindfulness and CBT in among the full hour ramblings about otters or art history. I'd been watching drag race and hearing "If you can't love yourself how in the hell are you gonna love anybody else" for years and never really taken it in. It's been a real rough fucken journey though " Sex, intimacy and connection help hugely. And mindfulness. I'm out of practice with it. I use an app to practice affirmations and hope that in time... | |||
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"I wouldn't rate myself. I'm happy. I don't need a number to reinforce that. And I'm not worried whether others find me attractive or not, given I'm happily married and no plans for that to ever change. I'm loving the comments from those giving themselves good reviews, have total empathy with those who feel they can't give themselves especially the number they deserve and all I can advise is this. Learning to be happy in your own skin is great for both mental and physical health. Hard sometimes. But great if you can. And fuck those that think they're better than you. Actually....don't. A0" Absolutely from your 6th line down Its very important to mental and physical health people should learn to be happy in their skin they carry around everyday all dayyyy | |||
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"2 out of 10 " You need to clean your mirror. Definitely way higher. I'd rate myself as 2 by what I see, but 10 for enthusiasm. I'm not attracted by looks, age or size. People who do are missing out massively. The sexiest part of anyone is the brain and what goes on in it. | |||
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"How good do you think you look when naked in the mirror? I'm going a solid 7 It's not bad!" . 4 | |||
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"2 out of 10 You need to clean your mirror. Definitely way higher. I'd rate myself as 2 by what I see, but 10 for enthusiasm. I'm not attracted by looks, age or size. People who do are missing out massively. The sexiest part of anyone is the brain and what goes on in it." You can’t fuck a brain, well I guess a few narcissistic types may be able to. | |||
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"-10 I hate my body naked. " Creative and gifted with a lovely persona. | |||
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"-10 I hate my body naked. Creative and gifted with a lovely persona." I was talking about MsWyld, for myself, I am god. | |||
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"I'm posting because I can't wait for this one to fill up and drop off. And it's just not disappearing. I looked at myself in the mirror after a shower today and hated it. The squishy tummy that's slightly wonky because of scar tissue where my appendix was removed. The shoulders that feel too broad for my skinny legs. So no I'm not playing, I'm not rating and the whole thing has upset me and I can't quite put my finger on why. J" I know when you feel that way things others say won't help but, for what it's worth some people look at your body and envy it. I'm one of those people. | |||
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"I'm posting because I can't wait for this one to fill up and drop off. And it's just not disappearing. I looked at myself in the mirror after a shower today and hated it. The squishy tummy that's slightly wonky because of scar tissue where my appendix was removed. The shoulders that feel too broad for my skinny legs. So no I'm not playing, I'm not rating and the whole thing has upset me and I can't quite put my finger on why. J" We all have days like this. I looked at myself earlier and thought ‘Good grief man’. Like MsWyld I cannot say anything that will in this moment change your mind. Though I will say that I think you’re stunning. As for me, earlier today, 0. Middle of the day 4, having been to the gym, watched what I’ve eaten and blow dryed the hair, maybe a 6.5. And that’s ok, things to work on, things I’d like to improve but it kinda works and it’s what I have so I enjoy it regardless. | |||
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"3.14" Mmm did someone say pie? | |||
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"I don't look in the mirror. Especially when naked. So... 0 " You can't be Sugartits cause I'd give you one | |||
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"Trying so hard not to break your sequence. . . . . . . Failed." Don’t worry, it will be gone soon | |||
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"How good do you think you look when naked in the mirror? I'm going a solid 7 It's not bad! for those of us with body dysmorphia, this post is somewhat cruel, I would say a big fat zero but to end on a positive note, the feedback I get here helps and I can now say 1 on bad days and 2 on good ones. Ego is not my strong point, vanity doesn't claim me." ( | |||
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"Completely naked probably a 3" ,, are you kidding | |||
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