FabSwingers.com forum: Not Meeting at the moment

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Came across a quite a few of these profiles in my search today.

People saying they are not meeting at the moment just on here at the moment to talk to old friends and forums.

I know people will say its upto people what they do with their profile, but rather than writing all this, just hide the profile.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Maybe they’re exhibitionist types and like posting pics.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Why does it bother you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why? Maybe they want their friends to still see their profile? Maybe they want it open for forum games? Or maybe they just don't want to hide it and why should they?

Pxx

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Maybe they’re exhibitionist types and like posting pics. "

The old dear is right.

Maybe they like having their profile open and interacting with people on their terms. The not meeting at the moment can be a deterrent for those who message nonsense.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I don’t want to. Thanks

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford

What does it matter. As long as you read the not meeting part then move on. I'm not meeting but it still makes.my day cheerful when people read my profile and chat or compliment my photos.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Maybe they’re exhibitionist types and like posting pics.

The old dear is right.

Maybe they like having their profile open and interacting with people on their terms. The not meeting at the moment can be a deterrent for those who message nonsense."

Old dear.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

We're not currently meeting. It's the first thing you'll read on our profile. But we are hoping to attend a social soon, and I don't think the organisers or other people going would be too impressed if it was a hidden profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t meet at moment and for foreseeable future

It is what it is

Doesn’t mean I can’t comment on forums message friends on hear

Everbody has there own lives to lead

Its there choice

Happy Friday all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know people will say its upto people what they do with their profile, but rather than writing all this, just hide the profile. "

Why?

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Most of the people who aren't meeting are still members paying their memberships keeping the site going, chatting with friends etc, cant see anything wrong with this, why hide a profile that they're paying for?

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

"I can’t meet at moment and for foreseeable future

It is what it is

Doesn’t mean I can’t comment on forums message friends on hear

Everbody has there own lives to lead

Its there choice

Happy Friday all x

Exactly...we're in the thick of DIY at home so not meeting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not meeting because I have a face like a week old asparagus pizza, but I don’t put that I’m not meeting OP because there are many in here that aren’t bothered if you are or not, there’s forums, hotlists, weekly fab my thunderthighs and all that, let people do what they want

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know people will say its upto people what they do with their profile, but rather than writing all this, just hide the profile.

Why? "

Because its teasing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose for those who use Fab like an argos catalogue where everything they see should always be available to them at all times,and the out of stock items are what comes up at the top of the list that could be frustrating...

For others, it bothers us not how people choose to use their account and profile...

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I’m not interested in meeting atm (still will if someone takes my breath away — wishful thinking) and I’m not going to hide my profile just because you say I should.

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I know people will say its upto people what they do with their profile, but rather than writing all this, just hide the profile.

Why?

Because its teasing."

So we're not allowed to tease on here? Wow who knew

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Most of the people who aren't meeting are still members paying their memberships keeping the site going, chatting with friends etc, cant see anything wrong with this, why hide a profile that they're paying for?"

Get a refund.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Why hide it, what if they want to make new friends, new connections they may meet at a later date.

Mrs

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

So many people on this forum, I'd like to say lately, but it's all the time, that want other people to change for their own ideas...

Why not change You, and see how that feels op!!!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I know people will say its upto people what they do with their profile, but rather than writing all this, just hide the profile.

Why?

Because its teasing."

Why is that a bad thing?

Is teasing about not meeting at all different to teasing about not meeting someone in a particular?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Because I'm attention seeking, I like posting pictures of me. But currently I don't want to meet anyone. Isn't it better we're clear on the profile rather than have people message and then tell them?

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

"Maybe they’re exhibitionist types and like posting pics.

The old dear is right.

Maybe they like having their profile open and interacting with people on their terms. The not meeting at the moment can be a deterrent for those who message nonsense.

Old dear.

Generous I thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not meeting but owe it to the community to provide fap material. After all, everything I do is for a man's approval

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

Ok, I'm one of these annoyances, OP.

1. Teasing is fun. You can't stop me.

2. I am still meeting up with people I've met before, so my profile with all its photos is visible for them, for forum users, for people I've spoken to before and like interacting with, etc.

3. I pay subs. I get to use the site, within the rules, the way I choose

You're coming across a little sour because you can't have your way with the women you want.

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I'm not meeting at the moment, but it doesn't mean I have to hide away.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I do it in the hope to to minimise the number of 'meet now' messages

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Maybe they’re exhibitionist types and like posting pics.

The old dear is right.

Maybe they like having their profile open and interacting with people on their terms. The not meeting at the moment can be a deterrent for those who message nonsense.

Old dear.

Generous I thought

You can pipe down too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not meeting anyone new or chatting to anyone new at the moment at some point when it suits me that will change. But I am still interacting with friends and posting on here.

I do have all my message filters on to block new chats. That's my choice .... could hide my profile but then my friends can't perve at my pics

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Came across a quite a few of these profiles in my search today.

People saying they are not meeting at the moment just on here at the moment to talk to old friends and forums.

I know people will say its upto people what they do with their profile, but rather than writing all this, just hide the profile. "
some of them are secretly meeting though, they just say that so they can search and not be bothered by endless messages from men who don't read profiles

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

I'd like to make many more friends on here. I'm not going to be able to do that if I hide my profile so people can't see whether I'm the sort of person they'd want to be friends with.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I rarely meet & I'm totally upfront about that .

As long as people are transparent and dont lead others on,then i see no problem.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"Maybe they’re exhibitionist types and like posting pics.

The old dear is right..."

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I agree with the ex-wife ^ who, in turn, agrees with the old dear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Came across a quite a few of these profiles in my search today.

People saying they are not meeting at the moment just on here at the moment to talk to old friends and forums.

I know people will say its upto people what they do with their profile, but rather than writing all this, just hide the profile. "

Um… no.

My profile says exactly that and I have no wish to hide my profile.

Just move on and don’t tell me what to do with MY profile. Why’s it even an issue for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not the first post I’ve seen like this. People are entitled to use their profiles - and the site - how they see fit. If you don’t like that, maybe go to another site.

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By *eard and TattsCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

"Came across a quite a few of these profiles in my search today.

People saying they are not meeting at the moment just on here at the moment to talk to old friends and forums.

I know people will say its upto people what they do with their profile, but rather than writing all this, just hide the profile. "

Sorry, forgot you was the law

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"Maybe they’re exhibitionist types and like posting pics.

The old dear is right.

Maybe they like having their profile open and interacting with people on their terms. The not meeting at the moment can be a deterrent for those who message nonsense."

I don't meet because i had major surgery last year and still recovering from it , what makes impossible for me to meet now and in and probably till next year.

There's always a reason, like, family, work , health , for people state in their profile they don't meet . Sometimes all it takes is just respecting what profiles state

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

I know people will say its upto people what they do with their profile, but rather than writing all this, just hide the profile.

Why?

Because its teasing.

So we're not allowed to tease on here? Wow who knew

Fecking hell its getting worse!!! we cannot tease now!!!! FFS

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

And to answer the OP "what the Hell has it got to do with you how others run their profile!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I bet if I was a women posting this, I would be getting more agreeable comments

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Came across a quite a few of these profiles in my search today.

People saying they are not meeting at the moment just on here at the moment to talk to old friends and forums.

I know people will say its upto people what they do with their profile, but rather than writing all this, just hide the profile.

Sorry, forgot you was the law "

I need yo take a picture with my Sherrif badge and put it on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not the first post I’ve seen like this. People are entitled to use their profiles - and the site - how they see fit. If you don’t like that, maybe go to another site. "

Now your blocking free speech.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Maybe they’re exhibitionist types and like posting pics. "

Like me?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've considered the op's suggestion and concluded, nah. I like the way it is now

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By *redBlogs1965Man
over a year ago

LUTON

The thing I see it as, when you search for a possible meet, and people say they aren't meeting at the moment, then you don't really want to look at there profile.

Perhaps the site could add a button for this purpose so I can search for people that want to meet. A bit like the "no men" and age functions.

Mind you, not everyone uses that either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Came across a quite a few of these profiles in my search today.

People saying they are not meeting at the moment just on here at the moment to talk to old friends and forums.

I know people will say its upto people what they do with their profile, but rather than writing all this, just hide the profile.

Um… no.

My profile says exactly that and I have no wish to hide my profile.

Just move on and don’t tell me what to do with MY profile. Why’s it even an issue for you? "

Maybe am looking to get a reaction. Or maybe am trying to understand why they don't just hide their profile it would probably give the same message but clearer. But sorry to upset you.

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I know people will say its upto people what they do with their profile, but rather than writing all this, just hide the profile.

Why?

Because its teasing.

So we're not allowed to tease on here? Wow who knew

Fecking hell its getting worse!!! we cannot tease now!!!! FFS

Quite comical isn't it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The thing I see it as, when you search for a possible meet, and people say they aren't meeting at the moment, then you don't really want to look at there profile.

Perhaps the site could add a button for this purpose so I can search for people that want to meet. A bit like the "no men" and age functions.

Mind you, not everyone uses that either.

If you hide your profile, you don't appear on searches. Thats what the privacy settings says.

Maybe people aren't aware of this and would be easier for them rather than to write this on their profiles. But people like shooting the messenger, particularly if he's a guy.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I bet if I was a women posting this, I would be getting more agreeable comments

Nope. Not from me and not from most others U suspect.

But I'd be surprised if a woman actually asked the question in the first place.

Lets face it. We and many others have details in our profiles advising when people should message about meets and when they shouldn't.

And yet still people message.

So you're assuming people read the words on a page anyway, which is often not the case.

Like anything you see on a profile, if it's not for you, you're not for them, or there's something in bright neon flashing letters advising you to not bother contacting them......move on.

There's no end of profiles on here that are looking to meet so concentrate on those.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know people will say its upto people what they do with their profile, but rather than writing all this, just hide the profile.

Why?

Because its teasing.

So we're not allowed to tease on here? Wow who knew

Fecking hell its getting worse!!! we cannot tease now!!!! FFS

Quite comical isn't it

Absolutely

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"Came across a quite a few of these profiles in my search today.

People saying they are not meeting at the moment just on here at the moment to talk to old friends and forums.

I know people will say its upto people what they do with their profile, but rather than writing all this, just hide the profile. "

Nope don't want to hide mine x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Came across a quite a few of these profiles in my search today.

People saying they are not meeting at the moment just on here at the moment to talk to old friends and forums.

I know people will say its upto people what they do with their profile, but rather than writing all this, just hide the profile.

Nope don't want to hide mine x"

Tease.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We're not currently meeting. It's the first thing you'll read on our profile. But we are hoping to attend a social soon, and I don't think the organisers or other people going would be too impressed if it was a hidden profile. "

I get that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I told you to fix the spelling on your profile and stop calling women bitches, that would be ok wouldn't it?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm not meeting.

I'm not hiding my profile.

I like waving my willy at people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I told you to fix the spelling on your profile and stop calling women bitches, that would be ok wouldn't it?

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not meeting.

I'm not hiding my profile.

I like waving my willy at people."

Happy waving

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I bet if I was a women posting this, I would be getting more agreeable comments

Nope. Not from me and not from most others U suspect.

But I'd be surprised if a woman actually asked the question in the first place.

Lets face it. We and many others have details in our profiles advising when people should message about meets and when they shouldn't.

And yet still people message.

So you're assuming people read the words on a page anyway, which is often not the case.

Like anything you see on a profile, if it's not for you, you're not for them, or there's something in bright neon flashing letters advising you to not bother contacting them......move on.

There's no end of profiles on here that are looking to meet so concentrate on those.

But the ones I want concentrate on are hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not the first post I’ve seen like this. People are entitled to use their profiles - and the site - how they see fit. If you don’t like that, maybe go to another site.

Now your blocking free speech. "

Nope. Not even close.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Since when has 'meeting' been a prerequisite for using the site?

There can be any number of reasons for not meeting or wanting to including, probably, no wish to and/or not having a hope in hell of doing so.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I bet if I was a women posting this, I would be getting more agreeable comments

Nope dislike anyone suggesting how others should run their profile. Nice try to and deflect and make it gender issue though

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"Maybe they’re exhibitionist types and like posting pics.

The old dear is right...

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I agree with the ex-wife ^ who, in turn, agrees with the old dear.

I agree with the ex-husband ^ who agrees with the ex-wife ^^, who in turn agrees with the old dear ^^^.

and

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Not the first post I’ve seen like this. People are entitled to use their profiles - and the site - how they see fit. If you don’t like that, maybe go to another site.

Now your blocking free speech. "

I'm fascinated: disagreement has become censorship, somehow.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I bet if I was a women posting this, I would be getting more agreeable comments

Nope dislike anyone suggesting how others should run their profile. Nice try to and deflect and make it gender issue though

Yeah, quite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not the first post I’ve seen like this. People are entitled to use their profiles - and the site - how they see fit. If you don’t like that, maybe go to another site.

Now your blocking free speech.

I'm fascinated: disagreement has become censorship, somehow."

Ironically I’m accused of censorship by someone who wants to censor his people use the site. For pointing out it out. Kafka would have a field day.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Not the first post I’ve seen like this. People are entitled to use their profiles - and the site - how they see fit. If you don’t like that, maybe go to another site.

Now your blocking free speech.

I'm fascinated: disagreement has become censorship, somehow.

Ironically I’m accused of censorship by someone who wants to censor his people use the site. For pointing out it out. Kafka would have a field day. "

It's a bit double plus ungood: you must express yourself in a way I believe to be suitable but if you disagree, you're censoring me!

I'm looking forward to words meaning things again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I’m an attention whore and I like posting pics, and because it’s my choice to run my profile as I wish.

It doesn’t mean anyone is entitled to anything

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

All you folk now not meeting and getting hot under the collar about my comments. Best cure is have a meet.

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By *anilla-sinCouple
over a year ago

lancs

People can do what they like can't they.. ?

To be honest.. I think it is actually really quite helpful if people have it as a status, or first line of their bio.. Because [ and it pays to read the bios guys!] you know where you stand.. And I guess if I was a single guy then I wouldn't copy and paste my opening message to them

Just for a laugh I might start putting it at the end of our profile.. Which is a bit like Tolstoy.. People start it with good intentions, but never finish it!

Actually. I was a single guy on here some time ago, and I never copied and pasted. Promise.

[Mr]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All you folk now not meeting and getting hot under the collar about my comments. Best cure is have a meet."

Who said anyone is hot under the collar?

Maybe people say they aren’t meeting, but they actually are, they just don’t make a song and dance about it.

Who says we have to do as we’re told anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not the first post I’ve seen like this. People are entitled to use their profiles - and the site - how they see fit. If you don’t like that, maybe go to another site.

Now your blocking free speech.

Nope. Not even close. "

Instaed of just disagreeing with my post. Your telling me to leave the site, because you don't like what I said, how's that not censorship..?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All you folk now not meeting and getting hot under the collar about my comments. Best cure is have a meet.

Who said anyone is hot under the collar?

Maybe people say they aren’t meeting, but they actually are, they just don’t make a song and dance about it.

Who says we have to do as we’re told anyway "

Suggestions are just that, suggestions. The choice is yours.

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By *anilla-sinCouple
over a year ago

lancs

"All you folk now not meeting and getting hot under the collar about my comments. Best cure is have a meet.

Who said anyone is hot under the collar?

Maybe people say they aren’t meeting, but they actually are, they just don’t make a song and dance about it.

Who says we have to do as we’re told anyway "

So hang on.. Are you meeting, or not meeting.. Or not saying that you're not meeting but still not meeting, or saying that you're not meeting until somebody dead sexy comes along?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"All you folk now not meeting and getting hot under the collar about my comments. Best cure is have a meet."

So the cure for someone trying to tell you how to run your profile is to do something you don't want to do?

It sounds like when I first joined Fab and landed in hospital. "Baby, baby. What you need isn't surgery, it's to satisfy my throbbing cock! Don't listen to these doctors. Pay attention to my blue blue balls!" (Not an actual message. The spirit of many)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People can do what they like can't they.. ?

Just for a laugh I might start putting it at the end of our profile.. Which is a bit like Tolstoy.. People start it with good intentions, but never finish it!

Actually. I was a single guy on here some time ago, and I never copied and pasted. Promise.

[Mr]"

Men don't actually read profiles, the just perv the pics. So after the pics get them horny they want to meet.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"All you folk now not meeting and getting hot under the collar about my comments. Best cure is have a meet."

Not really any need when many of us are couples.........just sayin.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"People can do what they like can't they.. ?

Just for a laugh I might start putting it at the end of our profile.. Which is a bit like Tolstoy.. People start it with good intentions, but never finish it!

Actually. I was a single guy on here some time ago, and I never copied and pasted. Promise.

[Mr]

Men don't actually read profiles, the just perv the pics. So after the pics get them horny they want to meet."

That sounds like a them problem, not a me problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not the first post I’ve seen like this. People are entitled to use their profiles - and the site - how they see fit. If you don’t like that, maybe go to another site.

Now your blocking free speech.

Nope. Not even close.

Instaed of just disagreeing with my post. Your telling me to leave the site, because you don't like what I said, how's that not censorship..?

No I didn’t tell you to leave the site. I said if you don’t like how people can run their own profiles as they want to, maybe go to another site (ie where there are different rules)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All you folk now not meeting and getting hot under the collar about my comments. Best cure is have a meet.

So the cure for someone trying to tell you how to run your profile is to do something you don't want to do?

Sounds a interesting hospital, was it NHS..

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By *anilla-sinCouple
over a year ago

lancs

"People can do what they like can't they.. ?

Just for a laugh I might start putting it at the end of our profile.. Which is a bit like Tolstoy.. People start it with good intentions, but never finish it!

Actually. I was a single guy on here some time ago, and I never copied and pasted. Promise.

[Mr]

Men don't actually read profiles, the just perv the pics. So after the pics get them horny they want to meet."

And that is exactly why most of them never ever get a meet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not the first post I’ve seen like this. People are entitled to use their profiles - and the site - how they see fit. If you don’t like that, maybe go to another site.

Now your blocking free speech.

Nope. Not even close.

Instaed of just disagreeing with my post. Your telling me to leave the site, because you don't like what I said, how's that not censorship..?

No I didn’t tell you to leave the site. I said if you don’t like how people can run their own profiles as they want to, maybe go to another site (ie where there are different rules) "

Am sure there’s things about the site you and many others don't like. Or are you all saying its perfect..?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"All you folk now not meeting and getting hot under the collar about my comments. Best cure is have a meet.

So the cure for someone trying to tell you how to run your profile is to do something you don't want to do?

Sounds a interesting hospital, was it NHS.."

Manchester Royal Infirmary. Fortunately the "interesting" was only from men and couples who thought my need for surgery was less important than their libido.

Anyway, that attitude is the same as "you disagree with me about meeting, therefore you should fix that by meeting".

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

"Came across a quite a few of these profiles in my search today.

People saying they are not meeting at the moment just on here at the moment to talk to old friends and forums.

I know people will say its upto people what they do with their profile, but rather than writing all this, just hide the profile. "

It’s also a great way of putting off single guys, you can just point them at that rather than have to play the ‘but why’ game.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People can do what they like can't they.. ?

Just for a laugh I might start putting it at the end of our profile.. Which is a bit like Tolstoy.. People start it with good intentions, but never finish it!

Actually. I was a single guy on here some time ago, and I never copied and pasted. Promise.

[Mr]

Men don't actually read profiles, the just perv the pics. So after the pics get them horny they want to meet.

And that is exactly why most of them never ever get a meet!"

So no point writing it on your profile, easier to hide it.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"People can do what they like can't they.. ?

Just for a laugh I might start putting it at the end of our profile.. Which is a bit like Tolstoy.. People start it with good intentions, but never finish it!

Actually. I was a single guy on here some time ago, and I never copied and pasted. Promise.

[Mr]

Men don't actually read profiles, the just perv the pics. So after the pics get them horny they want to meet.

And that is exactly why most of them never ever get a meet!

So no point writing it on your profile, easier to hide it."

Nope. It allows us to find out who either can't read or doesn't respect our wishes, so we don't have to deal with people who don't respect our wishes when we do meet

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By *anilla-sinCouple
over a year ago

lancs

"People can do what they like can't they.. ?

Just for a laugh I might start putting it at the end of our profile.. Which is a bit like Tolstoy.. People start it with good intentions, but never finish it!

Actually. I was a single guy on here some time ago, and I never copied and pasted. Promise.

[Mr]

Men don't actually read profiles, the just perv the pics. So after the pics get them horny they want to meet.

And that is exactly why most of them never ever get a meet!

So no point writing it on your profile, easier to hide it."

But what if you don't want to hide your profile? Some people are on here just to share pics, or cam, or chat.. You're deluded

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"People can do what they like can't they.. ?

Just for a laugh I might start putting it at the end of our profile.. Which is a bit like Tolstoy.. People start it with good intentions, but never finish it!

Actually. I was a single guy on here some time ago, and I never copied and pasted. Promise.

[Mr]

Men don't actually read profiles, the just perv the pics. So after the pics get them horny they want to meet.

And that is exactly why most of them never ever get a meet!

So no point writing it on your profile, easier to hide it."

But what if we want people to look at the pics, just for the sake of it?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"People can do what they like can't they.. ?

Just for a laugh I might start putting it at the end of our profile.. Which is a bit like Tolstoy.. People start it with good intentions, but never finish it!

Actually. I was a single guy on here some time ago, and I never copied and pasted. Promise.

[Mr]

Men don't actually read profiles, the just perv the pics. So after the pics get them horny they want to meet.

And that is exactly why most of them never ever get a meet!

So no point writing it on your profile, easier to hide it.

But what if you don't want to hide your profile? Some people are on here just to share pics, or cam, or chat.. You're deluded "

Basically some people want what they want. The solution is to do what they want. And if you don't want to do what they want, you're wrong, because you should do what they want.

I'm not sure if it's manipulative or naive

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All you folk now not meeting and getting hot under the collar about my comments. Best cure is have a meet.

So the cure for someone trying to tell you how to run your profile is to do something you don't want to do?

Sounds a interesting hospital, was it NHS..

Manchester Royal Infirmary. Fortunately the "interesting" was only from men and couples who thought my need for surgery was less important than their libido.

Anyway, that attitude is the same as "you disagree with me about meeting, therefore you should fix that by meeting"."

You shouldn't compare the comments of a stranger on a sex site ( Comments meant to be tongue in cheek by the way) with medical professionals meant to be treating you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People can do what they like can't they.. ?

Just for a laugh I might start putting it at the end of our profile.. Which is a bit like Tolstoy.. People start it with good intentions, but never finish it!

Actually. I was a single guy on here some time ago, and I never copied and pasted. Promise.

[Mr]

Men don't actually read profiles, the just perv the pics. So after the pics get them horny they want to meet.

And that is exactly why most of them never ever get a meet!

So no point writing it on your profile, easier to hide it.

But what if we want people to look at the pics, just for the sake of it?"

Your choice

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Hey!! Look what you could've won.. Oh, no you can't because we're hidden atm.

Though not by anyone else's choice or influence

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"All you folk now not meeting and getting hot under the collar about my comments. Best cure is have a meet.

So the cure for someone trying to tell you how to run your profile is to do something you don't want to do?

Sounds a interesting hospital, was it NHS..

Manchester Royal Infirmary. Fortunately the "interesting" was only from men and couples who thought my need for surgery was less important than their libido.

Anyway, that attitude is the same as "you disagree with me about meeting, therefore you should fix that by meeting".

You shouldn't compare the comments of a stranger on a sex site ( Comments meant to be tongue in cheek by the way) with medical professionals meant to be treating you. "

You misunderstand. I wasn't.

The doctors said "hold still, we'll get you into surgery as soon as possible"

While I was still working out how Fab worked (I had no idea about filters, hiding, anything), people on Fab told me that I should abandon that for the sake of their genitals.

I'm comparing the people who believed that I needed to abandon my medical needs for their boner (usually boner) to your attitude that your answers are the only correct ones.

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over a year ago

"All you folk now not meeting and getting hot under the collar about my comments. Best cure is have a meet.

Who said anyone is hot under the collar?

Maybe people say they aren’t meeting, but they actually are, they just don’t make a song and dance about it.

Who says we have to do as we’re told anyway

So hang on.. Are you meeting, or not meeting.. Or not saying that you're not meeting but still not meeting, or saying that you're not meeting until somebody dead sexy comes along?

That would be telling

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"People can do what they like can't they.. ?

Just for a laugh I might start putting it at the end of our profile.. Which is a bit like Tolstoy.. People start it with good intentions, but never finish it!

Actually. I was a single guy on here some time ago, and I never copied and pasted. Promise.

[Mr]

Men don't actually read profiles, the just perv the pics. So after the pics get them horny they want to meet.

And that is exactly why most of them never ever get a meet!

So no point writing it on your profile, easier to hide it.

But what if we want people to look at the pics, just for the sake of it?

Your choice

Exactly. Our choice and no need for others to criticise it, as it's really not negatively impacting anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All you folk now not meeting and getting hot under the collar about my comments. Best cure is have a meet.

So the cure for someone trying to tell you how to run your profile is to do something you don't want to do?

Sounds a interesting hospital, was it NHS..

Manchester Royal Infirmary. Fortunately the "interesting" was only from men and couples who thought my need for surgery was less important than their libido.

Anyway, that attitude is the same as "you disagree with me about meeting, therefore you should fix that by meeting".

You shouldn't compare the comments of a stranger on a sex site ( Comments meant to be tongue in cheek by the way) with medical professionals meant to be treating you.

You misunderstand. I wasn't.

The doctors said "hold still, we'll get you into surgery as soon as possible"

While I was still working out how Fab worked (I had no idea about filters, hiding, anything), people on Fab told me that I should abandon that for the sake of their genitals.

I'm comparing the people who believed that I needed to abandon my medical needs for their boner (usually boner) to your attitude that your answers are the only correct ones."

I don't believe my answers are the correct ones. Just couldn't understand why those people didn't use the hide button.

Some people have explained the reasons where its better to be visible. Others have taken umberage to. But rereading my OP, my last line should have been phrased better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty sure they are stopping you from meeting anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People can do what they like can't they.. ?

Just for a laugh I might start putting it at the end of our profile.. Which is a bit like Tolstoy.. People start it with good intentions, but never finish it!

Actually. I was a single guy on here some time ago, and I never copied and pasted. Promise.

[Mr]

Men don't actually read profiles, the just perv the pics. So after the pics get them horny they want to meet.

And that is exactly why most of them never ever get a meet!

So no point writing it on your profile, easier to hide it.

But what if we want people to look at the pics, just for the sake of it?

Your choice

Exactly. Our choice and no need for others to criticise it, as it's really not negatively impacting anyone. "

Glad you got that off your chest. Now have a meet

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By *anilla-sinCouple
over a year ago

lancs

"All you folk now not meeting and getting hot under the collar about my comments. Best cure is have a meet.

Who said anyone is hot under the collar?

Maybe people say they aren’t meeting, but they actually are, they just don’t make a song and dance about it.

Who says we have to do as we’re told anyway

So hang on.. Are you meeting, or not meeting.. Or not saying that you're not meeting but still not meeting, or saying that you're not meeting until somebody dead sexy comes along?

That would be telling

Ahh.. As a man I assume that you really fancy me now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm pretty sure they are stopping you from meeting anyone. "

How's that..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm pretty sure they are stopping you from meeting anyone. "

Aren't!!! Dam it

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By *anilla-sinCouple
over a year ago

lancs

"Hey!! Look what you could've won.. Oh, no you can't because we're hidden atm.

Though not by anyone else's choice or influence

You know when you're on the forum, and you see an interesting profile, and click on it 'HIDDEN'

That's annoying too

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I'm not meeting anyone new the moment but I won't hide my profile I don't see any reason why I should hide my profile.If people don't like it tough. It's written on the very first line I'm not so they don't have to read any farther than that.

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By *anilla-sinCouple
over a year ago

lancs

"I'm pretty sure they are stopping you from meeting anyone.

Aren't!!! Dam it"

Assumed you were just winding him up! haha

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

In a way we're not meeting, well in terms of online. We don't really seek anyone out online or look to arrange anything in the online world. Pretty much all of our adventures and swinger freinds have come from our adventures at clubs and parties. We just don't really how the time, energy or patience to arrange meets with strangers online. We get a lot of people wink us who would potentially float our boat on paper if we where to come across them out and about. But we're just not in a place where we have the time to chase up such winks and messages into arranging something. In general anyway, I'm sure there's always and exception to to rule. And to be fair sometimes we do happen to bump into folk we've interacted with online somewhere down the line at club or event (even years down the line sometimes).

We mainly use this site to keep upto date with clubs/events/parties, to stay in touch with our freinds, forums and to perv.

As for hiding our profile you can get stuffed. We're proud of our profile and we have as much right as anyone else to show it. Its not our problem that some on here are butt hurt that's there's profiles on display of people not currently meeting. It's a lifestyle site not directory of who you can shag. Also as per above we're not completely closed to offers just it's difficult. So it would be a case of some exceptional people wooing us with their words but also lining up with a practical calendar slot and not a million miles away. Also we are always open to party offers and we get a few. As per above we like parties. I'm going to guess some people like to read/see the profiles of people they may invite. So visability is important to us.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"Maybe they’re exhibitionist types and like posting pics.

The old dear is right...

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I agree with the ex-wife ^ who, in turn, agrees with the old dear.

I agree with the ex-husband ^ who agrees with the ex-wife ^^, who in turn agrees with the old dear ^^^.

and

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I did that, now what should I do

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I'm not meeting anyone new the moment but I won't hide my profile I don't see any reason why I should hide my profile.If people don't like it tough. It's written on the very first line I'm not so they don't have to read any farther than that. "

See. If people hid their profiles we wouldn't get to see peachy bums like Bo's.

Don't worry, you aren't missing anything from my public gallery.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

See. If people hid their profiles we wouldn't get to see peachy bums like Bo's.

Don't worry, you aren't missing anything from my public gallery."
you sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't arrange meets, but I still go swinging. I like chatting to people I've met in real life on here, but not randos sometimes I hide my profile, sometimes I don't

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