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On a first Social !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Question open to all

Well that makes a change lol

Where would you take you’re first social to

1 Swanky Meal

Suit and tie

2 All you can Eat Breakfast

3 Macdonalds

4 KFC

5 Burger King

6 Coffee

7 Pub

You choose might be something different

Naked skydiving

Naked Scuba diving

Question is where !

Just a bit of meandering fun

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Probably a pub, but a nice pub. We appreciate good company in good surroundings and first impressions count.

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

I’m pretty boring, I ask to take a walk with them somewhere public and well lit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 or 7

Unless something specific was requested/ discussed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m pretty boring, I ask to take a walk with them somewhere public and well lit "

That, pub or coffee

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Usually coffee or pub but I have been on walks in the countryside. One social was to the zoo I have been for meals as well but as a rule I like to keep it simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always coffee. He can buy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who it is and what we are both into.

I’d offer a coffee, maybe the pub.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

A bookshop and coffee house.

I wouldn't really do a swanky meal with someone I've just met.

A pub is fun but a cute country pub, all roaring fire and twinkling lights in the beer garden as the sun sets.

It really depends on the other person.

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By *mo512Man
over a year ago

LONDON


"I’m pretty boring, I ask to take a walk with them somewhere public and well lit "

Barbados?

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Any number of places. It depends on where they wanted to go, what they wanted to do or where they felt most safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A rather nice roof top bar I know over looking a beautiful city.

They serve the best espresso martinis and it's attached to a hotel for the after party.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"A rather nice roof top bar I know over looking a beautiful city.

They serve the best espresso martinis and it's attached to a hotel for the after party."

You’re my kind of scoundrel.

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

A pub for a few drinks

or

We do have some of the nicest beeches local,A seafront walk with a bag of chips.Being attacked by seagulls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first social was in a Maccies

I also once has a social in an Antique Centre

The location really isn't all that important

The persons meeting are what it's about

I never think of a first social and "chance of sex" kinda thing, it will just be a purely social exchange, so again whatever both parties are cool with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pub lunch

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I’ve done…

Meal at restaurant

Pub

Coffee shop

Walk along the Southbank

Walk in Bushy Park

Swingers club

Crazy golf

But generally it’s a pub for a drink.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Probably a coffee or pub but thinking about it - breakfast sounds good!!

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By *aui.Man
over a year ago

around here

Pretty much all mine have been pub or coffee. I'd definitely be open to doing other things though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually ask for a drink at my local pub, I only ever go in there for socials, so god knows what the barpeople think of me! Lol!

I stay local in case it goes well and we can go back to mine.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"Probably a coffee or pub but thinking about it - breakfast sounds good!! "

Full English?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've also been to a museum as well

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Bus stop, I'm might even offer you a chip, stay the fuck away from my fish though.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"Probably a coffee or pub but thinking about it - breakfast sounds good!!

Full English? "

With Tea please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually coffee and a walk, venue of her choice so she feels safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually ask for a drink at my local pub, I only ever go in there for socials, so god knows what the barpeople think of me! Lol!

I stay local in case it goes well and we can go back to mine."

Just for my erm... research what might the name of that pub be

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Usually pub or coffee. Also done bacon rolls at mine, random layby, park, train station cafe.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

6 or 7 depending on the time of day

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By *iercedItMan
over a year ago

Mcr

I have actually done an all you can breakfast at a crowne carvery years ago, ladies choice. Breakfast before her nails appointment haha.

I usually plan a low pressure social, so pub, bar, coffee shop, and have a back up plan for a follow on activity which is usually food or activities related.

My last social, the lady suggested Axe Throwing,


"Question open to all

Well that makes a change lol

Where would you take you’re first social to

1 Swanky Meal

Suit and tie

2 All you can Eat Breakfast

3 Macdonalds

4 KFC

5 Burger King

6 Coffee

7 Pub

You choose might be something different

Naked skydiving

Naked Scuba diving

Question is where !

Just a bit of meandering fun "

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"I usually ask for a drink at my local pub, I only ever go in there for socials, so god knows what the barpeople think of me! Lol!

I stay local in case it goes well and we can go back to mine.

Just for my erm... research what might the name of that pub be "
The Four Cards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do socials with someone from fab where neither of you have a desire for anything sexual count?

If so I've been somewhere really good for a meal out. An experience I'd not ever had before. Was such a nice treat.

Usually a coffee place

But have done....

A pub for a soft drink,

A pub with an alcoholic drink.

Social distanced walks,

Dog walk,

Restaurant by complete accident as he wasnt so keen on coffee place I picked as it was awful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question open to all

Well that makes a change lol

Where would you take you’re first social to

1 Swanky Meal

Suit and tie

2 All you can Eat Breakfast

3 Macdonalds

4 KFC

5 Burger King

6 Coffee

7 Pub

You choose might be something different

Naked skydiving

Naked Scuba diving

Question is where !

Just a bit of meandering fun "

Trust me (mr) it matters nothing where you end up first if you have put the work in prior

7 years later mrs is still with me after a disastrously first date (my fault )

You get out what you put in !

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By *trawberry shortcake 9999Woman
over a year ago

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First social meet I've met for coffee,

Gone for breakfast,

Evening in a pub with a couple of beers,

Walk round the shops and lunch, depends who I'm meeting, where they live in relation to me etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social smocial take me to bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social smocial take me to bed "

On my way - just send me the details and I'll be there ASAP

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've also been on a social where I went lingerie shopping

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Trampolining

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By *ez669Man
over a year ago

East Kilbride

Drive and a cbat see how qe get on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how much we'd spoken/how sure I was I'd like them. If the jury is still out a quick coffee date, but if I think we'll definitely get on I'd go to a gig.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question open to all

Well that makes a change lol

Where would you take you’re first social to

1 Swanky Meal

Suit and tie

2 All you can Eat Breakfast

3 Macdonalds

4 KFC

5 Burger King

6 Coffee

7 Pub

You choose might be something different

Naked skydiving

Naked Scuba diving

Question is where !

Just a bit of meandering fun

Trust me (mr) it matters nothing where you end up first if you have put the work in prior

7 years later mrs is still with me after a disastrously first date (my fault )

You get out what you put in !"

Baby… I had my input too!!! No just you!

And btw… that date was the worst ever ???????? didn’t go too bad in the end, innit?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Trampolining "

This sounds fun

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I don’t mind where. Breakfast is good, but it must have a great cuppa or 5

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social smocial take me to bed "

Hussy!....Ah, go on then......

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"Trampolining

This sounds fun "

I imagine it has its ups and downs…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social smocial take me to bed

Hussy!....Ah, go on then...... "

If you give me coffee Im falling asleep, have to get me whilst Im awake

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social smocial take me to bed

Hussy!....Ah, go on then......

If you give me coffee Im falling asleep, have to get me whilst Im awake "

Tea it is then.

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ryde

I've had a couple of socials in the last month, and we just went for a coffee at one of the tourist cafes on the lovely Ryde seafront.

There's something very odd about discussing spanking and the like as others are sitting around enjoying the sun and a relaxing cuppa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a fan of the pub! I don't drink coffee and always feel coffee shops are wasted on me!

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Comfy, quiet pub with lots of space so conversation isn’t overheard.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Our first socials have either been going out to eat or going to a naturist club.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

A gig is a great ice breaker...

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

Would like a lass who trains regular and serious so maybe gym for a session haha

Failing that the pub

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I think somewhere swanky and expensive we'd go dutch obviously, women love to pay these days and memories can be made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question open to all

Well that makes a change lol

Where would you take you’re first social to

1 Swanky Meal

Suit and tie

2 All you can Eat Breakfast

3 Macdonalds

4 KFC

5 Burger King

6 Coffee

7 Pub

You choose might be something different

Naked skydiving

Naked Scuba diving

Question is where !

Just a bit of meandering fun

Trust me (mr) it matters nothing where you end up first if you have put the work in prior

7 years later mrs is still with me after a disastrously first date (my fault )

You get out what you put in !

Baby… I had my input too!!! No just you!

And btw… that date was the worst ever ???????? didn’t go too bad in the end, innit?"

Hahaha well I put a lot of effort in after the date

Bed time made up for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The two socials we've been on we've actually gone to pretty fancy restaurants

F

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Mainly cuppa socials for chats

Then a few hotel restaurants for a meal and stay over social/meet

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Go to the local spoons at 9am for breakfast and a pint???

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"Go to the local spoons at 9am for breakfast and a pint??? "

See you soon then

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Pub or a coffee usually or if we are staying in a hotel in their bar maybe.

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Coffee somewhere. I've got an asbestos throat so if I don't feel it I can neck my coffee quick, if I let it get cold then it's a good sign!

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