FabSwingers.com forum: What do you think of me?

By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It’s been a little while since I posted this thread, and as a request, I’m doing another! So let’s bring a moment of self reflection, introspection and non reactive thought about others to the forums, as it can be helpful.

It might seem a strange idea but at its heart is the intent for us to be more rounded and understanding people.

Self reflection is an important tool in understanding what, why and how we act but so is how others honestly see us.

Post that you’re in on the thread, then respond to others via private message with honest opinions about people. Not nasty, not sycophantic, honest appraisals of how you feel about them, this isn’t a chance to try to ‘get in’ with that hottie, this should be a self improvement exercise.

Please remember to keep it via PM, not on the thread.

The intent is to honestly see how others view us, if you give criticism, then please be constructive with it. Try to think of it like group therapy, it’s not about you, it’s about others too. Remember to be kind folks. Let’s see how this goes...

Remember to respect filters, if you can’t directly message someone, then don’t post it on the thread, it’s meant to be private and personal.

Please also do send messages, passivity only lessens the interaction and those that often complain about not receiving messages, also tend to be the ones that didn’t send any.

Away you go folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I will be in

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Sure I'm in

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

I’ll play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I’m in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in.

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm in

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I'm in, I think

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty sure I know what people think of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In x

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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

Out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might not be the best day to ask that on here today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure I’m in!

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Tentatively in

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I'm in... but I'm only sending replies this time because I rarely get anyone messaging me first on these threads.

Sorry Tea.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I'm in but will have to send messages after later this evening. But I will do so

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I’m in, but I’m the worlds biggest sycophant, flitter and all round people pleaser.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please tell

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

I have done this in the past, it was hard but useful x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m in, but I’m the worlds biggest sycophant, flitter and all round people pleaser.

Same but always honest x just because we’re being nice doesn’t mean we’re lying lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm back in now had to leave for a bit

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

I'm in too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s been a little while since I posted this thread, and as a request, I’m doing another! So let’s bring a moment of self reflection, introspection and non reactive thought about others to the forums, as it can be helpful.

It might seem a strange idea but at its heart is the intent for us to be more rounded and understanding people.

Self reflection is an important tool in understanding what, why and how we act but so is how others honestly see us.

Please remember to keep it via PM, not on the thread.

Remember to respect filters, if you can’t directly message someone, then don’t post it on the thread, it’s meant to be private and personal.

Please also do send messages, passivity only lessens the interaction and those that often complain about not receiving messages, also tend to be the ones that didn’t send any.

Away you go folks"

Hang on, i send a message to someone that says their in, but i dont know them all i have is what the profile says? Have I got it wrong? Lol i normally do

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

I’m in

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Seen as I’m being nice lately. And I’m not restricted to a schedule. We’re in.

The mr

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By *.T.Man
over a year ago

the Dromara hills

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in. I'll also adjust my filters for it.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'm in. Mainly because I want to send messages.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Dropping out for a bit, Mandalorian time

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

This is interesting

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I think we did this really recently (over the weekend) and I’m still smiling from some of those lovely messages.

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Hmmm. Those that know me “know” me. Those that don’t will only be guessing. Those that I know also k ow what I think of them

. So I’m out

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Giving this a little bump

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I love you all so much I swap the names of my testicles around each day, naming them after forumites.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Thank you for my lovely messages which included a message I wasn't expecting that helped a lot

There are some truly beautiful people on this site

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By *ez669Man
over a year ago

East Kilbride

In be brutally honest id love to know

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm enjoying this thread. All positive so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're in

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My messages have dried up I have sent a few

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

I’m in be kind

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

This is interesting, I’m in but please don’t say fuck or bugger…

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By *litpleaserMan
over a year ago

Oldham

I'm in for the positivity

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Why the hell not eh? I’ve got no messages in my box so it’ll give me summat to do

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I’ve just realised that I’m not here often enough to know anybody that well. So you are all bloody beautiful creatures

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Also I can't send some messages because of filters

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By *ornyhun69Woman
over a year ago

Wales

I'm in

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Self reflection is just like looking in a mirror isn't it?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Fun popular members of the forums even though he thinks he's a cunt

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

This sounds interesting

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By *ozapperMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

In for a penny......

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By *ez669Man
over a year ago

East Kilbride

"In be brutally honest id love to know

Still awake if anyone wants to tell

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By *tevieg3222Man
over a year ago

Brighton

I'm in

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By *cottishguy033Man
over a year ago

fife

I’m in but dont know any 1 yet lol

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Bump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll join in.

I’ll try and send one or two.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I didn’t really mean to join in here but I’ve been sent some lovely, kind messages. So today I’m going to join in properly and send some out too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not seen this before! Count us in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh why not, I’ll give it a go but without sounding self deprecating I honestly wouldn’t expect people to know me that well on here. I know I’m just one of many here

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm back in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm back in"

Well this one died a quick death, do you think it was you or me that killed it ? lol

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I'll drop in x

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Asking people you’ve never met or never likely to meet what they think of you. How does that work? I’m confused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Asking people you’ve never met or never likely to meet what they think of you. How does that work? I’m confused.

I assuming that the intent was to get an idea of how you come across to others based upon your forum interactions but I could be wrong

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"Asking people you’ve never met or never likely to meet what they think of you. How does that work? I’m confused.

Think when u have been here in forums for few years certainly get an idea how people come across here what u think of them? I have a few views on a fair few peeps here! Not all of them I would voice tbh! Probably some have same about me! As I probably come across quite passionately about certain subjects close to my heart x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Asking people you’ve never met or never likely to meet what they think of you. How does that work? I’m confused.

You are a right character I fucking like you you go girl

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"Asking people you’ve never met or never likely to meet what they think of you. How does that work? I’m confused.

You are a right character I fucking like you you go girl"

Awww ty x

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