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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

seriously do people think these are good idea? just been winked by a couple, so winked and sent a message saying hi! and then got a load of abuse back for not using their password which is there 'to filter w*****s like me'

now i appreciate that some say hi whatever... but surely in the this world saying a cheeky hiya is not exactly eating someones children!

the number of people on here who clearly act differently than their profiles (straight people clearly being bi, couples saying no men, but all they meet is men, meets looking for guys, but then block guys etc etc.)

now i'm on a bit of a rant.. but surely being civil, polite and respectful, as i'd hope i always was, is more important?

not looking for 'an answer' but open to discuss!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I put it on the bottom of mine one day when I had nothing better to do. Never made a shit of difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I put it on the bottom of mine one day when I had nothing better to do. Never made a shit of difference "

words yours is 4 words

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

but honestly, does it bother you? would you get abusive if someone hasn't? or is it just a childish game? do you have to quote it every time you say hi??

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I put it on the bottom of mine one day when I had nothing better to do. Never made a shit of difference

words yours is 4 words "

Good point.

* I put them on the bottom of mine one day when I had nothing better to do. Never made a shit of difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well im not stating a convo with that with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but honestly, does it bother you? would you get abusive if someone hasn't? or is it just a childish game? do you have to quote it every time you say hi??"

One profile I read had a word, but the person didn't tell you what it was, just that it was hidden in the profile and you had to work it out, I just thought it rather pretentious and passed on by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"seriously do people think these are good idea? just been winked by a couple, so winked and sent a message saying hi! and then got a load of abuse back for not using their password which is there 'to filter w*****s like me'

now i appreciate that some say hi whatever... but surely in the this world saying a cheeky hiya is not exactly eating someones children!

the number of people on here who clearly act differently than their profiles (straight people clearly being bi, couples saying no men, but all they meet is men, meets looking for guys, but then block guys etc etc.)

now i'm on a bit of a rant.. but surely being civil, polite and respectful, as i'd hope i always was, is more important?

not looking for 'an answer' but open to discuss!"

You know what..? We have messaged just four profiles who had the 'secret password' in them - and we put it in the message title too, as requested/demanded (delete as appropriate) in their profile - and guess what...?????

Not a dickie bird from them. In all respects, they would have been a reasonable match for us, so not flights of fancy on our part.

Personally, I think some of the 'code word users' do it thinking they can kick back all the messages they get, but when someone actually does find it, hidden away in the bowels of their profile (like one of the ones we replied to was) they are so shocked they delete and block immediately!

Don't bother with people like that now. If you're that up yourself, then you ain't for us...

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I agree that sometimes writing passwords/codewords is a good idea to sort the chaff from the wheat. But lots dont read profiles. I admit if I see a sexy womans pic I'll fab it but sometimes she'll have a bi partner Im not saying I want to meet em. There again like this morn Ive had someone wink at me. Being polite I tried to thank em but Im blocked

I just chat to people now because most on here are just fakers or talkers and think theyre TOO good for others.

I cant understand why they wanted to abuse you just because you hadnt read their profile or performed like a seal honk honk.... Maybe kinder just to block you...... Theres nowt so strange as folk

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"but honestly, does it bother you? would you get abusive if someone hasn't? or is it just a childish game? do you have to quote it every time you say hi??"

Lol no of course not, it's a total load of bollocks. If they can't be arsed to respond to a decent message. Or maybe if they don't think you are suited, just forget it and move on to someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see this profile on fab said if you sent a letter had to have this word in to show you had been reading the profile ............. myself i hate to be told what to do here so i find it a little bit sad ... a person telling me what to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tea-Kettle Barbecue Land-Rover Chipolata.

You are cleared for entry.

Over.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

My codeword is "I'm not meeting at the moment".

But guess what......

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

@OP: I am sure that couple is a serial winker and can't even remember everyone they winked at hence that reaction

Just forget them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just report the abuse..even though u might have not done as they wanted, there is NO excuse to receive abusive mails

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

we have one on ours, only put it on 'cos some cant actually be arsed reading other folks profiles..

even with the 'header' on ours saying taking a break we still get mainly single guys asking to meet up now..

no need to be rude to anyone, we just say no ty not compatible..

not yet lost a nights sleep over being told the same..

hey ho..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

nah they said a wink was 'an invite to read their profile and use the code word'

jesus!!! so sure i'd have to complete a rubiks cube in less than a minute, find the higgs boson, and solve world hunger to meet them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Evidently all these 'serial winkers' haven't got to names starting with 'P' yet in the list if Single Guys....

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

We had one couple that had what they claimed was an anagram but upon telling them that it couldn't possibly be one or two words as not enough vowels they then told us it was to deter single men so completely pointless as surely even they would work out it couldn't be a real word

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"nah they said a wink was 'an invite to read their profile and use the code word'

jesus!!! so sure i'd have to complete a rubiks cube in less than a minute, find the higgs boson, and solve world hunger to meet them!"

honestly...

some folk have just no commitment..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nah they said a wink was 'an invite to read their profile and use the code word'

jesus!!! so sure i'd have to complete a rubiks cube in less than a minute, find the higgs boson, and solve world hunger to meet them!"

True fact - I attended the wedding for the guy who wrote the book 'How to solve the Rubiks cube in 37 seconds' - his claim to fame was appearing on Swap Shop! His name was Nicolas Hammond.

He was NOT Spiderman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had one couple that had what they claimed was an anagram but upon telling them that it couldn't possibly be one or two words as not enough vowels they then told us it was to deter single men so completely pointless as surely even they would work out it couldn't be a real word"

Are you sure they had'nt put a typo and they should have been looking for single 'MENSA'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think a lot of people have also wised up to the code word and now just scan the profile for that word rather then read it. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the code word people mostly ignore you even if you put it in the message or title. I dont bother contacting them anymore or people who have loads of do's and donts in their profiles. like someone said before, your either up for meeting or not, report and block them.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

When I'm meeting my profile asks for a joke, it's my first numptie filter - no joke = block and delete. My current profile says don't message me (apart from forum comments) till my old profile goes up else block and delete. It seems to have worked fine for me, my block list is huge and anytime I send back a thanks but no thanks I never get abuse back like so many complain of

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

a load of tripe......

seems to work for some tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have words "READ ME" on bottom of mine since joined but id say only 50% ever bother; which know them when they start asking ....

"can we fuck your wife"

"is your place safe to meet"

"are you Bi"

"do you live near (usually 50 miles away)

etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see this profile on fab said if you sent a letter had to have this word in to show you had been reading the profile ............. myself i hate to be told what to do here so i find it a little bit sad ... a person telling me what to do."

I just can't be ased any more.. Did send some msg out with code word but naff all back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put one on our profile because I was sick of people messaging then getting into message ping pong with them then discover they haven't read our profile so complete waste of time xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

My code words are "Steve, you're so hot, we want you for sex". I've never had anyone use the code words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So did you get the wink and wink back and message without reading their profile first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"seriously do people think these are good idea? just been winked by a couple, so winked and sent a message saying hi! and then got a load of abuse back for not using their password which is there 'to filter w*****s like me'

"

Well I do hope that you instantly added a password to your profile then mirrored their email back (including their password) complaining that they didn't use yours

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So did you get the wink and wink back and message without reading their profile first?"

yep!

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