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By *he love cats OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

Can you explain how it feels or felt to you?

Have a lovely evening all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only with my penis

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Yes. Special. Secure. Wanted. Valued.

Would like it again

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yes I'm in love. Although my partner isn't physically here anymore my love hasn't waned. He mentored me and nurtured me and taught me so much. I also taught him so much but in different ways. He was my soul mate and I couldn't imagine the thought of another man being anywhere near ne

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Yes sex and life becomes a shared experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've thought about this, 4 guys from my life come to mind. In all honesty, I'm not entirely sure if it was love or infatuation.

I think real love is very rare, and it's not something everyone gets to experience. I'm guessing it feels pretty nice though.

Do I want it? No. Because that would mean one day I would lose it.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’m actually not sure if I’m honest

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"I've thought about this, 4 guys from my life come to mind. In all honesty, I'm not entirely sure if it was love or infatuation.

I think real love is very rare, and it's not something everyone gets to experience. I'm guessing it feels pretty nice though.

Do I want it? No. Because that would mean one day I would lose it.

"

A question I ask myself often.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It’s nice waking up everyday to a face that make you happy.

The mr

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

Yes a few times I think after the first time you never quite open up to it fully for fear of being hurt. Hope to find it again some day but seems less likley the older get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s nice waking up everyday to a face that make you happy.

The mr "

You have a picture of Ryan beside your bed aswell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For 37 year.

We just love spending each day together

Plus our 3 kids and 9 grandkids keep us happy.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"It’s nice waking up everyday to a face that make you happy.

The mr

You have a picture of Ryan beside your bed aswell! "

No he’s above the bed. I can’t wank on my side.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Head over heels, quite simply the best thing. Very oddly have never felt more in love since joining fab. Don’t know how to explain that, but it’s correct. X

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Yes been in love for 30 plus years to most wonderful, loving, caring man . Who complements me all the time is always there for me is amazing father. Plus he still fancies ass off me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I fell in love almost 10 years ago. The feeling is indescribable. Yes, feelings change throughout the years but it's more grounded, easier, freeing now. Mr is my whole world and I'd be completly lost without him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Head over heels and always for the wrong people, more infatuation in my youth as it was many years ago. I've not been fully in love with someone romantically for 10+ years and not had someone love me probably for longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No,I was duped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and I still am. He, like, every other man I've ever loved broke my heart.

Though oddly despite his many lies to me, I think he did love me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At times yes.

Kinda given up on the idea recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and its a wonderful feeling.

I'm in love with someone right now just a shame that it won't work out. If you really love someone you will just know x

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I’ve almost never not been in love.

I think some of us are just wired that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you explain how it feels or felt to you?

Have a lovely evening all. "

Nope, never been in love because I have never been loved so I am unable to have those feelings. It’s a long, long story you don’t want to hear about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. I fell in love almost 10 years ago. The feeling is indescribable. Yes, feelings change throughout the years but it's more grounded, easier, freeing now. Mr is my whole world and I'd be completly lost without him

F"

Oh, I thought we were just friends?

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts


"Yes. Special. Secure. Wanted. Valued.

Would like it again "

Nailed it

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I have yes. Being in love is beautiful, but it sure hurts when it ends, however it ends.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

All consuming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have yes. Being in love is beautiful, but it sure hurts when it ends, however it ends."

Being wanted

Hurts when they pass

Too much

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I have been in love. It is rare. But all consuming. And utterly wonderful

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Yes, she was like my friend lover soulmate had even got to the point of getting engaged

Remember I said was all those 3 quickly turned around

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

I’ve been in love twice in my life. The first with my wonderful better half, and it’s been 28 years so far and it’s still growing and getting bigger. The second was unexpected and lasted about 18 months, but the experience taught me a great deal.

As someone who has spent three quarters of his life in love someone and been loved in return, here is what I have learned about true love:

It’s not about the smiles, laughter, sex, romance, intimacy and lust. The good stuff matters, but it’s not really where you find love. True love is when the wheels fall off, when everything goes wrong, when fate conspires against you and pulls your life out from under your feet. If the other person is still there, if they stand beside you so you’re not alone facing the worst time of your life, if they are prepared to sacrifice part of themselves to make sure you’re going to be okay, if they accept the worst of you alongside the best, that’s love.

Love needs to be tested. Otherwise it’s just infatuation or lust or even just a good friendship. Actual love requires compromise, patience, tolerance, and the ability to listen, to empathise and put the needs of another above your own. It alters your sense of value and your sense of self, so you become part of something that is greater than just you. A partnership, a union, facing the world and everything it can throw at you together. It’s a journey and an adventure, and it comes with all the wonderful stuff that people always reach for, laughter, romance, sex, passion, but the bad stuff has to be in there too. Otherwise you won’t ever know if it’s really love. Xx

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Yes, I've been in love probably 3 times.

The one I fell for the most broke my heart completely, and I will never get over that feeling and don't want to fall in love ever again

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By *am101aMan
over a year ago

swad

Not sure. I have been married though!

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Like a feeling beyond lust and attraction, a connection to another being on levels you were unaware you had until you met that person.

Someone who sees the real version of you and still sticks around, who’s laugh you can hear when you close your eyes, who’s touch makes your hair stand on end, who you trust enough to hold your heart and take care of it.

That person who in your darkest and happiest moments you want to hold your hand.

It’s an awe consuming feeling of wonderful moments fused between two souls

I’m beyond lucky to have found it xx

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

Once yes! Not sure how many times you can find a soulmate, However they can also be a friend too.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"Once yes! Not sure how many times you can find a soulmate, However they can also be a friend too. "

Three chances is what you get, I saw it on the telly.

(1) Went to Sicily and I stayed here for a job I ended up hating.

(2) Was crazy... Like wake you up at 3am pointing a knife at you with wild eyes crazy.

(3) Died.

So I'm screwed I reckon. Guess I gotta be my own soulmate.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

That your world totally made sense...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once yes! Not sure how many times you can find a soulmate, However they can also be a friend too. "

I’ve had/got true soulmates. One was my step sister, another was a very dear cat and my current is one of my dogs

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Yes and I am!

I'm lucky enough to love and be loved by two wonderful men...

I'm valued, appreciated, sage, secure and all of us know our own worth which makes all the difference

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"Like a feeling beyond lust and attraction, a connection to another being on levels you were unaware you had until you met that person.

Someone who sees the real version of you and still sticks around, who’s laugh you can hear when you close your eyes, who’s touch makes your hair stand on end, who you trust enough to hold your heart and take care of it.

That person who in your darkest and happiest moments you want to hold your hand.

It’s an awe consuming feeling of wonderful moments fused between two souls

I’m beyond lucky to have found it xx"

Ok these are the words I couldn't write

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Once yes! Not sure how many times you can find a soulmate, However they can also be a friend too.

Three chances is what you get, I saw it on the telly.

(1) Went to Sicily and I stayed here for a job I ended up hating.

(2) Was crazy... Like wake you up at 3am pointing a knife at you with wild eyes crazy.

(3) Died.

So I'm screwed I reckon. Guess I gotta be my own soulmate."
Mine died from Cancer was my soulmate, But were just best friends for a few years. Bless you! You can be your own best friend, Well you never know what the future holds so don't lose hope if that's what you are looking for.

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Once yes! Not sure how many times you can find a soulmate, However they can also be a friend too.

I’ve had/got true soulmates. One was my step sister, another was a very dear cat and my current is one of my dogs "
Bless you! x

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Yes ive had it once, we did everything together as one, we laughed, we drank, we travelled, we had children, we dealt with the problems death and money, we were united

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once. Where together, had a family and it was over. The worst feeling in the world is loving someone who tells you they don't love you back.

It's put me off any form of relationship in the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once yes! Not sure how many times you can find a soulmate, However they can also be a friend too.

I’ve had/got true soulmates. One was my step sister, another was a very dear cat and my current is one of my dogs Bless you! x "

I know it sounds ridiculous but that cat was my absolute rock. Big old fluffy thing who used to put his paws round my neck and sit and have lovely cuddles. Stroking him was such a cathartic experience, it was like he took all the stress away. Was truly heartbroken when he died and I still see him sometimes out of the corner of my eye and in my dreams

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Once yes! Not sure how many times you can find a soulmate, However they can also be a friend too.

I’ve had/got true soulmates. One was my step sister, another was a very dear cat and my current is one of my dogs Bless you! x

I know it sounds ridiculous but that cat was my absolute rock. Big old fluffy thing who used to put his paws round my neck and sit and have lovely cuddles. Stroking him was such a cathartic experience, it was like he took all the stress away. Was truly heartbroken when he died and I still see him sometimes out of the corner of my eye and in my dreams "
Not at all! Animals are family and a big loss too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Opens door….. closes door.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

One of my old cats was a soul mate as is one of mine now. I hit rock bottom a few weeks a go and she spent all night cuddled cheek to cheek with me and neither of us moved all night. She's done it ever since. We underestimate animals

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"Once yes! Not sure how many times you can find a soulmate, However they can also be a friend too.

Three chances is what you get, I saw it on the telly.

(1) Went to Sicily and I stayed here for a job I ended up hating.

(2) Was crazy... Like wake you up at 3am pointing a knife at you with wild eyes crazy.

(3) Died.

So I'm screwed I reckon. Guess I gotta be my own soulmate. Mine died from Cancer was my soulmate, But were just best friends for a few years. Bless you! You can be your own best friend, Well you never know what the future holds so don't lose hope if that's what you are looking for. "

My condolences and thank you.

I thought it was, but then I remembered I never found it by looking for it anyway.

Bless you x

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
over a year ago

Durham

You feel charged and euphoric around them…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Madly in love. I knew from the first night I spent with T that we would get married, I don’t know why, we just clicked, laughed and became best friends.

He’s the first person I want to speak to, to inform of anything that’s gone on, at work, in life and I can always trust him to be 100% honest.

Mrs

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

Yes twice and each time it felt as though I had care concern for them whether they were around me or not. I wanted to advice them to be their best with or without me in their life.

I was interested in their family and where we wanted the relationship to go but it didn't evolve that way hence why I am here as a single pringle

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Once yes! Not sure how many times you can find a soulmate, However they can also be a friend too.

Three chances is what you get, I saw it on the telly.

(1) Went to Sicily and I stayed here for a job I ended up hating.

(2) Was crazy... Like wake you up at 3am pointing a knife at you with wild eyes crazy.

(3) Died.

So I'm screwed I reckon. Guess I gotta be my own soulmate. Mine died from Cancer was my soulmate, But were just best friends for a few years. Bless you! You can be your own best friend, Well you never know what the future holds so don't lose hope if that's what you are looking for.

My condolences and thank you.

I thought it was, but then I remembered I never found it by looking for it anyway.

Bless you x "
Aww thank you! You are welcome. it's best not to look, What's meant to be will always be. x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Once yes! Not sure how many times you can find a soulmate, However they can also be a friend too.

Three chances is what you get, I saw it on the telly.

(1) Went to Sicily and I stayed here for a job I ended up hating.

(2) Was crazy... Like wake you up at 3am pointing a knife at you with wild eyes crazy.

(3) Died.

So I'm screwed I reckon. Guess I gotta be my own soulmate. Mine died from Cancer was my soulmate, But were just best friends for a few years. Bless you! You can be your own best friend, Well you never know what the future holds so don't lose hope if that's what you are looking for.

My condolences and thank you.

I thought it was, but then I remembered I never found it by looking for it anyway.

Bless you x "
I lost my soul mate last October. I've yet to grieve. I haven't shed a tear I wish I could. He was a lot older than me and we knew we wouldn't have the amount of time together as some people so we spent our time making memories of everywhere we went and although I'm heartbroken I still smile at the memories

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Yes and yes.

I love very easily. And it's not something I ever stop doing. Once someone has a place in my heart it's their place forever, regardless of what happens or if we leave each others lives entirely.

In love is a different thing entirely. I've only ever fallen in love once, and I still feel every part of it, even over a decade since it happened, and the gut reaction when I see that person even now has never changed or waned in the slightest. Though it's easier to forget the intensity when we've been apart for longer.

I bask in the joy of the people I love. Whatever makes them happy is wonderful, whatever brings them pain is abhorrent. But their happiness brings such contentment and compersion to my soul.

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Once yes! Not sure how many times you can find a soulmate, However they can also be a friend too.

Three chances is what you get, I saw it on the telly.

(1) Went to Sicily and I stayed here for a job I ended up hating.

(2) Was crazy... Like wake you up at 3am pointing a knife at you with wild eyes crazy.

(3) Died.

So I'm screwed I reckon. Guess I gotta be my own soulmate. Mine died from Cancer was my soulmate, But were just best friends for a few years. Bless you! You can be your own best friend, Well you never know what the future holds so don't lose hope if that's what you are looking for.

My condolences and thank you.

I thought it was, but then I remembered I never found it by looking for it anyway.

Bless you x I lost my soul mate last October. I've yet to grieve. I haven't shed a tear I wish I could. He was a lot older than me and we knew we wouldn't have the amount of time together as some people so we spent our time making memories of everywhere we went and although I'm heartbroken I still smile at the memories"
Aww so sorry to hear that! Mine died in January my best friend was a lot older too so i can relate to that. I know what you mean! It still doesn't feel real and check my phone i sometimes wake up and forget. it's the adjustment that is hard hugs xo

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling


"Like a feeling beyond lust and attraction, a connection to another being on levels you were unaware you had until you met that person.

Someone who sees the real version of you and still sticks around, who’s laugh you can hear when you close your eyes, who’s touch makes your hair stand on end, who you trust enough to hold your heart and take care of it.

That person who in your darkest and happiest moments you want to hold your hand.

It’s an awe consuming feeling of wonderful moments fused between two souls

I’m beyond lucky to have found it xx

Ok these are the words I couldn't write "

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only been properly in love with Mr, despite having a few relationships over the years. It feels like home - words I would use to describe the feelings include safe, secure, loved, valued, trust, intimacy, open and honest communication, fabulous sex...

Mrs

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Sometimes you’re lucky enough to meet someone that simply ticks all your emotional boxes. I’ve been lucky enough to have a few partners in life that made me very happy but her up there ^^ kinda takes the biscuit (and eats all of mine too)

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Yes I loved my wife very much and she loved me, we always backed and supported each other and we never argued

We still love and care for each other but we live 5 miles apart, we help each other.

She didn't deserve what I did to her but it's the way I am and she supports me in that as well.

I realise I'm very lucky.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

yes we are

met on here for a bit of fun and ended up being together pretty much every day since

corny but when you know, you know.

Thankyou, have a lovely evening too. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been in love twice in my life. The first with my wonderful better half, and it’s been 28 years so far and it’s still growing and getting bigger. The second was unexpected and lasted about 18 months, but the experience taught me a great deal.

As someone who has spent three quarters of his life in love someone and been loved in return, here is what I have learned about true love:

It’s not about the smiles, laughter, sex, romance, intimacy and lust. The good stuff matters, but it’s not really where you find love. True love is when the wheels fall off, when everything goes wrong, when fate conspires against you and pulls your life out from under your feet. If the other person is still there, if they stand beside you so you’re not alone facing the worst time of your life, if they are prepared to sacrifice part of themselves to make sure you’re going to be okay, if they accept the worst of you alongside the best, that’s love.

Love needs to be tested. Otherwise it’s just infatuation or lust or even just a good friendship. Actual love requires compromise, patience, tolerance, and the ability to listen, to empathise and put the needs of another above your own. It alters your sense of value and your sense of self, so you become part of something that is greater than just you. A partnership, a union, facing the world and everything it can throw at you together. It’s a journey and an adventure, and it comes with all the wonderful stuff that people always reach for, laughter, romance, sex, passion, but the bad stuff has to be in there too. Otherwise you won’t ever know if it’s really love. Xx"

For me it's this ^^^ I still totally love him, will always, be there anytime he needs me without a shadow of a doubt

But my wheels came off being seriously ill and he couldn't be there for me ... actually, wonderfully, have no hard feelings

Love our shared experiences and I am so much a better person now (friends and family think so too)

Will I ever love again ??? Will I ever let anyone near me again ??? Will ... you can answer?? Who knows??

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We're very much in love. We love each other's company. We want to spend time together. We don't fight and very rarely argue.

Seems to have worked for 19yrs this far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been in love with my best friend and soulmate for 33 years and she loves me right back. Unfortunately, life and not being in the right place emotionally at the same time, and being on my part too blind to see it clearly back then means we are both married to other people and have families.

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By *owestoft ManMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

The most common form of love is of oneself. All else is just love of sex or money.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"The most common form of love is of oneself. All else is just love of sex or money."

Errrrrr no.

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden


"Once yes! Not sure how many times you can find a soulmate, However they can also be a friend too.

Three chances is what you get, I saw it on the telly.

(1) Went to Sicily and I stayed here for a job I ended up hating.

(2) Was crazy... Like wake you up at 3am pointing a knife at you with wild eyes crazy.

(3) Died.

So I'm screwed I reckon. Guess I gotta be my own soulmate. Mine died from Cancer was my soulmate, But were just best friends for a few years. Bless you! You can be your own best friend, Well you never know what the future holds so don't lose hope if that's what you are looking for.

My condolences and thank you.

I thought it was, but then I remembered I never found it by looking for it anyway.

Bless you x I lost my soul mate last October. I've yet to grieve. I haven't shed a tear I wish I could. He was a lot older than me and we knew we wouldn't have the amount of time together as some people so we spent our time making memories of everywhere we went and although I'm heartbroken I still smile at the memories"

I think smiling at the memories is all part of the grieving process.

I lost my soulmate almost a year ago (1st May). It was all very sudden so we just went through normal life. I've been very emotional since she passed, sometimes crying for no apparent reason. But also smiling at our shared memories.

I can't imagine sharing my life with anyone else and I am so grateful for the time we did have together.

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