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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you guys have a kiss and a fumble on a social?

Do you bother with socials?

What’s the funniest/scariest/most awkward thing that’s happened to you on a social (keep the persons anonymous pls)?

I’ll start, we always have a social, love a kiss and a fumble and the scariest/funniest thing that happened was a guy tried to give me an envelope of cash!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'm always open for the social to beome something more if there is mutual attraction, time etc.

A couple started having a domestic infront of me . It wasn't scary just horribly awkward.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I love socials especially when there's no expectation and you get that spontaneous spark. That's why I prefer to meet earlier before it's all built up in our heads.

Kissing if you don't like kissing I can't help you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes I'm always open for the social to beome something more if there is mutual attraction, time etc.

A couple started having a domestic infront of me . It wasn't scary just horribly awkward.

Oh no how awful! What did you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always have a social first and if we click always end in a kiss/snog, you can tell a lot from a first kiss

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Social was a social. Maybe a kiss goodbye. One guy we came out the coffee shop on a busy high street and he tried to push me against the wall and full on snog me. I did have one social where there really was a connection and he came home with me but I tended to keep a social as a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have time for socials now, plus I like drinking coffee alone.

If I meet you, there's 97% chance we're having the sex stuff.

I don't think I've had any horrible experiences, not that any stand out anyway, actually not many experiences that stand out for any reason....

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Yes i always atend social as much as i can fortunately all social i have atend all went well and very well organised , the only issues is with myself as i never arrived on time i mean at the very start of the social , alway from 30 minutes to 1hour late

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once met [REDACTED] for a social on the London Eye.

We were getting on great when all of a sudden, she [REDACTED] and started [REDACTED] all over the place.

Well the problem was that we were just about to embark and everyone could see her [REDACTED] as we tried to [REDACTED] the [REDACTED].

She was absolutely mortified and ran off before anyone could see her [REDACTED]. I guess it was more embarrassing for her than me but I quite often [REDACTED] when I think of the moment when she [REDACTED].

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I said it was lovely to meet them and left, blocked them once I got home. It was awful. She was rather d*unk and got randomly funny. I hadn't even done anything apart from be my usual bubbly self. I certainly wasn't flirting with him and excluding her or anything like that.

In my opinion they shouldn't have been swinging but that was upto them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We always meet socially and don't kiss and fumble

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I once met [REDACTED] for a social on the London Eye.

We were getting on great when all of a sudden, she [REDACTED] and started [REDACTED] all over the place.

Well the problem was that we were just about to embark and everyone could see her [REDACTED] as we tried to [REDACTED] the [REDACTED].

this made me lol

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I love a kiss and a fumble.

I’ve never received an envelope of cash, although I’d say my kissing wasn’t entirely amateurish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a social it’s the way forward

Kissings a must

I once had the worst experience and it was all my fault for way to d*unk ended up chundering in her bed…..ended up fucking in her mums bed

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Not really a fan of socials ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes very much so.

Some socials are so good they need to be repeated too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Love a social it’s the way forward

Kissings a must

I once had the worst experience and it was all my fault for way to d*unk ended up chundering in her bed…..ended up fucking in her mums bed

She still fucked you? Dude you’ve got game!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love a social it’s the way forward

Kissings a must

I once had the worst experience and it was all my fault for way to d*unk ended up chundering in her bed…..ended up fucking in her mums bed

She still fucked you? Dude you’ve got game!!!"

Oh na she was equally as pissed just managed to hold it down haha I showered brushed my tegs and powered on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Love a social it’s the way forward

Kissings a must

I once had the worst experience and it was all my fault for way to d*unk ended up chundering in her bed…..ended up fucking in her mums bed

She still fucked you? Dude you’ve got game!!!

Oh na she was equally as pissed just managed to hold it down haha I showered brushed my tegs and powered on

You puked all over your tegs too?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love a social it’s the way forward

Kissings a must

I once had the worst experience and it was all my fault for way to d*unk ended up chundering in her bed…..ended up fucking in her mums bed

She still fucked you? Dude you’ve got game!!!

Oh na she was equally as pissed just managed to hold it down haha I showered brushed my tegs and powered on

You puked all over your tegs too?!"

Tegs = teeth

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Love a social it’s the way forward

Kissings a must

I once had the worst experience and it was all my fault for way to d*unk ended up chundering in her bed…..ended up fucking in her mums bed

She still fucked you? Dude you’ve got game!!!

Oh na she was equally as pissed just managed to hold it down haha I showered brushed my tegs and powered on

You puked all over your tegs too?!

Tegs = teeth"

I know I’m just pulling your teg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love a social it’s the way forward

Kissings a must

I once had the worst experience and it was all my fault for way to d*unk ended up chundering in her bed…..ended up fucking in her mums bed

She still fucked you? Dude you’ve got game!!!

Oh na she was equally as pissed just managed to hold it down haha I showered brushed my tegs and powered on

You puked all over your tegs too?!

Tegs = teeth

I know I’m just pulling your teg "

Deaded me that ngl

Feel like I’ve hijacked this forum anyone else got a good story?

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Do you guys have a kiss and a fumble on a social?

Do you bother with socials?

What’s the funniest/scariest/most awkward thing that’s happened to you on a social (keep the persons anonymous pls)?

I’ll start, we always have a social, love a kiss and a fumble and the scariest/funniest thing that happened was a guy tried to give me an envelope of cash!!!!!!"
how much was in it?

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington

First meet is only guaranteed to be a social...

However could it lead to more sure. A kiss is likely ...I like to chat before meeting and I'm pretty sure there is compatibility before we actually meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you guys have a kiss and a fumble on a social?

Do you bother with socials?

What’s the funniest/scariest/most awkward thing that’s happened to you on a social (keep the persons anonymous pls)?

I’ll start, we always have a social, love a kiss and a fumble and the scariest/funniest thing that happened was a guy tried to give me an envelope of cash!!!!!!how much was in it?

Didn’t count it, hundreds, we were mortified and said thank you no. Had to really be assertive too. He said it was for hotels but it felt awful.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We've had socials turn to sex and socials left at socials, it all depends on the person and how things are going between all of us.

Mrs

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I’m not dipping my wick with any Tom, Dick of Harry. Socials a must then take it from there

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Do you guys have a kiss and a fumble on a social?

Do you bother with socials?

What’s the funniest/scariest/most awkward thing that’s happened to you on a social (keep the persons anonymous pls)?

I’ll start, we always have a social, love a kiss and a fumble and the scariest/funniest thing that happened was a guy tried to give me an envelope of cash!!!!!!how much was in it?

Didn’t count it, hundreds, we were mortified and said thank you no. Had to really be assertive too. He said it was for hotels but it felt awful."
so you booted him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My problem is, I can guarantee I will move on to someone else between the social and sex. My attention doesn't stay in the same place for long these days.

I speak to them a lot beforehand, so we've already done the "social" bit.

If I met a guy and he was like "well this was fun, see you sometime next week?" I'd be insulted, deeply insulted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a social first and no kissing or fumbling. If they hint at it when I already said no, there's no second meet.

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

I prefer the social bit after the sex bit, always in that order

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you guys have a kiss and a fumble on a social?

Do you bother with socials?

What’s the funniest/scariest/most awkward thing that’s happened to you on a social (keep the persons anonymous pls)?

I’ll start, we always have a social, love a kiss and a fumble and the scariest/funniest thing that happened was a guy tried to give me an envelope of cash!!!!!!how much was in it?

Didn’t count it, hundreds, we were mortified and said thank you no. Had to really be assertive too. He said it was for hotels but it felt awful.so you booted him?

We were friends for a bit, helped him improve his profile etc x told him not to pay women for sex that sort of thing you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My problem is, I can guarantee I will move on to someone else between the social and sex. My attention doesn't stay in the same place for long these days.

I speak to them a lot beforehand, so we've already done the "social" bit.

If I met a guy and he was like "well this was fun, see you sometime next week?" I'd be insulted, deeply insulted. "

Love that ngl my attention spans crap too

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"If I met a guy and he was like "well this was fun, see you sometime next week?" I'd be insulted, deeply insulted. "

I like a social that leads to more. And by more I mean sex.

That can be the same night, in a ‘fuck you’re hot and that kiss was amazing I must have you right now’ kind of way. Or it can be weeks, even months later, in a ‘this is ace, you’re ace, let’s do more nights like this and also the fucking thing too’ way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was younger. The chemistry was absolutely crackling between us, especially when he decided he ought to sit next to me instead of opposite, in the bar. Two glasses of wine later, we had a kiss. All good. We go to leave, we walk slightly away from the bar, he pulls me in for another kiss, again, fantastic chemistry…and then suddenly he slaps me

There was no mention of slapping, BDSM, spanking - nothing, at any point. Completely random. My hand flew to my cheek and I asked why did you do that. He just smiled and shrugged and then his smile fell when he realised yes it was too hard and actually just weird. I walked off and we never spoke again!

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Do you guys have a kiss and a fumble on a social?

Do you bother with socials?

What’s the funniest/scariest/most awkward thing that’s happened to you on a social (keep the persons anonymous pls)?

I’ll start, we always have a social, love a kiss and a fumble and the scariest/funniest thing that happened was a guy tried to give me an envelope of cash!!!!!!how much was in it?

Didn’t count it, hundreds, we were mortified and said thank you no. Had to really be assertive too. He said it was for hotels but it felt awful.so you booted him?

We were friends for a bit, helped him improve his profile etc x told him not to pay women for sex that sort of thing you know "
ahhhh ok so you transformed him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My preference is always for a social. Usually located near mine so that I can take them back if it goes well.

I've had one guy tell me that he was fired from his job because he burned down the warehouse. He then started to rip up the menu and throw it in the logfire infront of us... dude was a psycho arsonist!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t meet without a social. It does nothing for me to have random one-off meets, so a social is a requirement. Would I have a few kisses if the mood was right? Hell yes!!

Weirdest one for me was a catfish turning up. I was still with my ex at the time, and this guy had photos that were about 4 years out of date on his profile. He then spent the entire meet trying to talk me into a quickie.

I left shortly after he ignored my third time saying “NO.”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He was younger. The chemistry was absolutely crackling between us, especially when he decided he ought to sit next to me instead of opposite, in the bar. Two glasses of wine later, we had a kiss. All good. We go to leave, we walk slightly away from the bar, he pulls me in for another kiss, again, fantastic chemistry…and then suddenly he slaps me

Well you never get a 2nd chance to make a first impression and that's quite an effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you guys have a kiss and a fumble on a social?

Do you bother with socials?

What’s the funniest/scariest/most awkward thing that’s happened to you on a social (keep the persons anonymous pls)?

I’ll start, we always have a social, love a kiss and a fumble and the scariest/funniest thing that happened was a guy tried to give me an envelope of cash!!!!!!"

Yet to have a social (proper honesty) but if the feeling was right then yes I would expect so

Good thing of no socials (yet) is no bad experiences lol x

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't meet without a social and most have never involved more than a hug with the odd one involving a kiss and only one a fumble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a few socials that did not lead to anything .... over the couple of years and profiles I have had since being on fab off and on. Most memorable was the person clearly 20 years older than their profile claimed and nothing like their photos.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It depends on how we get on at the social. Some I've never kissed,some I've kissed and some I've kissed and fumbled with

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Always a social, never sex on first meet. Kissing yes, because you can tell so much from that first kiss.

Scariest experience got d*unk, due to drinking on an empty stomach, could barely walk straight but he was a real gent and made sure I got home safe and was OK to be left on my own. Could have ended very differently! I was so lucky and will never be so stupid again.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We love a kiss and fumble with new people. However we don't really do organised meets with new people. We are swingers of opportunity tend to find new people in clubs or on a night out in town.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a social first.

I’ve had catfish, aggressive guys, people that look nothing like their photos, men turn up when I was meant to meet a woman, just a man turn up when I was meant to meet a couple

Love a good kiss it makes me look forward to the rest

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By *ilkstressWoman
over a year ago

Drasnia

I always like a social first, to see if the chemistry is there or not. If I'm interested then I'll say goodbye with a kiss (ok, sometimes a very thorough snog) because if they can't kiss, that's it, no second meet. Good kissing is essential.

I've not had any weird socials. But I did have one guy on another site tell me he wasn't interested in meeting for a drink unless he knew there was going to be sex afterwards. He considered it pointless and a waste of his time.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"I always like a social first, to see if the chemistry is there or not. If I'm interested then I'll say goodbye with a kiss (ok, sometimes a very thorough snog) because if they can't kiss, that's it, no second meet. Good kissing is essential."

This is me too. Although sometimes, just sometimes, I meet someone who I can’t wait until ‘goodbye’ to kiss.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

I don't think we have ever had a social that turned into something more on the date, nope

after (next time) yup

wouldn't rule it out if we met the right people sometime and something urges us to make moves there and then (well, in provate obviously, not in the pub hahaha)

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By *rivateBiDancerMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I like there to be a connection before a meet, but that doesn't necessarily need to be from a social. I'm quite happy to have them and have enjoyed them turning into something more, but equally some hot messages flying back and forthcoming between singles or around a trio has been enough to warrant a hot meet.

A good kiss is a pleasant way to end a good social!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha brilliant! Good luck with that mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My preference is always for a social. Usually located near mine so that I can take them back if it goes well.

Holy shit, good job he didn’t get to yours before you found that out!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you guys have a kiss and a fumble on a social?

Do you bother with socials?

What’s the funniest/scariest/most awkward thing that’s happened to you on a social (keep the persons anonymous pls)?

I’ll start, we always have a social, love a kiss and a fumble and the scariest/funniest thing that happened was a guy tried to give me an envelope of cash!!!!!!how much was in it?

Didn’t count it, hundreds, we were mortified and said thank you no. Had to really be assertive too. He said it was for hotels but it felt awful.so you booted him?

We were friends for a bit, helped him improve his profile etc x told him not to pay women for sex that sort of thing you know ahhhh ok so you transformed him

Who knows, I’m not in touch anymore but I know he had a few successful meets so he clearly improved his game x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My hand would of flown to his cheek twice as hard as he hit me lol

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

I attend socials with no expectations whatsoever other than a good Gin & Tonic, laughter and joviality, and perhaps even the odd dance.

Now, if during the course of the social a woman feels an impromptu desire to sequester me into a velvet-lined coatroom for a kiss, then I'm all for that.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

What’s a social… if I like her and she likes me a kiss is mandatory

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