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"I am really struggling...I know each to there own...but I don't think I could meet a cpl for full swap with no kissing " don't meet them then, simple as | |||
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"I am really struggling...I know each to there own...but I don't think I could meet a cpl for full swap with no kissing " I have the solution. Don’t meet couples that don’t like kissing We’re very kissy. I especially like to give it a lot of tongue, really explore the dentistry of my lovers. | |||
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"I prefer not to kiss! To intimate for casual sex! Plus mouths are so germey! X" Im with you on this. Ive a bit of a kissing phobia. Although i will kiss anywhere else, neck i love kissing, on the lips mouth vlosed TopGun Take My Breath Away playing in the background is hot. But full on snogs, with tongues, spit, and the noises makes me gag thinking about it. Everyone is different, we humans are strange animals | |||
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"I am really struggling...I know each to there own...but I don't think I could meet a cpl for full swap with no kissing " It just sounds like they wouldn’t be for you and you for them OP. It’s their choice the same as it’s yours. There are plenty that do like to kiss if that’s your thing | |||
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"Kissing is my thing. Its vital for me so while I know I couldn't have sex without it, I do kinda understand couples who want to keep that as something special just for each other. " I do completely get ot and want to keep that something special for just them, but for me it's like a huge part of foreplay.....just such a shame when you see someone who you would really enjoy meeting x but respect accross the land ...we are all different and want different things from Fab x | |||
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"Def hard pass , I'm craving a good kissing session more than a fuck at the moment Also what's with the couples that pipe up with you can do anal but no kissing I appreciate it's all about choice ,but I've always found you can telalot about some one by how they kiss " | |||
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"I save kissing for girlfriends only." Can i be your new girlfriend | |||
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"Won't have oral performed on me either much as I love it! To many germs in the mouth! X" What if a condom was used flavoured you can choose it | |||
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"Won't have oral performed on me either much as I love it! To many germs in the mouth! X What if a condom was used flavoured you can choose it " I will give just won't receive! They can have my mouth germs OK if they want them lol x | |||
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"Kissing is everything! " I was just wondering if men weren't bothered about kissing then given the last xple of posts so glad some are...I love it x | |||
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"But what if you start kissing and their breath is a bit manky ? Happened to me on Saturday. " Sorry about that, it was the garlic bread. Will bring mints next time. x | |||
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"I save kissing for girlfriends only. Can i be your new girlfriend " Haha if you play your cards right! | |||
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"I blame Pretty Woman for making it a thing! It sounds like she was making sense in the movie but the diff is that it was a job to her, she wasn’t looking/wanting to get excited." I don't think Pretty Woman made it a thing. Some people don't want to kiss others. It's a rather intimate act. Maybe they're not aroused by it. Maybe they'd rather not have crap kissers drying up their vagina. Maybe they want to keep it for their partner. Maybe jealousy. There's a myriad of reasons for it, I don't think it necessarily is because they want to keep things more perfunctory. I love kissing and wouldn't be compatible with those who didn't want to kiss me - for me I can't get aroused with another person without it. But I don't think there's a right/wrong way about it. You're compatible or you're not. No one is really losing out, just say if it's a thing for you to do or avoid. | |||
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"I am really struggling...I know each to there own...but I don't think I could meet a cpl for full swap with no kissing " The solution is very simple; don't meet people with whom you aren't compatible, whatever the reason may be. | |||
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"Perhaps those who think that sex without kissing on the mouth must surely be cold and mechanical, a perfunctory fuck with no passion, are lacking in imagination and thinking rather one-dimensionally?" I think everyone has their own ideals on how something should be done, some are more easy going than others too. I think a lot is ingrained into us possibly, so we only see something if it has a specific element to it, sex with no kissing to some is probably like a birthday party with no | |||
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"I am really struggling...I know each to there own...but I don't think I could meet a cpl for full swap with no kissing " The very first person we met on here years ago didn’t kiss, the most was just a chaste little peck. We knew from then on that kissing and the intimacy that goes along with it is important for us. Xx | |||
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"Perhaps those who think that sex without kissing on the mouth must surely be cold and mechanical, a perfunctory fuck with no passion, are lacking in imagination and thinking rather one-dimensionally?" Possibly, it always seems odd to me that people who claim to be open minded find it so difficult to accept this one simple thing and insist on making it clear they won't meet without it. Or are rude about people who don't kiss. They're never going to meet us they make that obvious so what's the problem with other people being sexual in a way that's different to how they do it? Are we a threat? | |||
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"Perhaps those who think that sex without kissing on the mouth must surely be cold and mechanical, a perfunctory fuck with no passion, are lacking in imagination and thinking rather one-dimensionally? Possibly, it always seems odd to me that people who claim to be open minded find it so difficult to accept this one simple thing and insist on making it clear they won't meet without it. Or are rude about people who don't kiss. They're never going to meet us they make that obvious so what's the problem with other people being sexual in a way that's different to how they do it? Are we a threat? " Yes it's the rudeness that gets me, along with the (incorrect imo) assumption that sex without kissing on the mouth must be cold/passionless/weird/insert other derogatory adjectives here. | |||
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"I can't meet people who won't kiss either. I love it far too much , I've tried before and it really didn't work for me. " Same here. | |||
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"Perhaps those who think that sex without kissing on the mouth must surely be cold and mechanical, a perfunctory fuck with no passion, are lacking in imagination and thinking rather one-dimensionally?" THIS I am not a big kisser , it has nothing to do with sex for me, I do not see it as foreplay at all. If someone didn't kiss me at all that would do me fine. I will do it with certain people in the moment but it is not essential. I have red not passionate experiences with or without kissing Each to their own | |||
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"I had a Fab meet years ago, where the female didn’t kiss others. The lack of intimacy just didn’t do it for me, and I walked away. I now ask every potential meet if they kiss, before even arranging a social " Agree! 110%. sex is way deeper and more intimate than kissing. | |||
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"I am really struggling...I know each to there own...but I don't think I could meet a cpl for full swap with no kissing " No kissing, no point! | |||
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"I blame Pretty Woman for making it a thing! It sounds like she was making sense in the movie but the diff is that it was a job to her, she wasn’t looking/wanting to get excited. I don't think Pretty Woman made it a thing. Some people don't want to kiss others. It's a rather intimate act. Maybe they're not aroused by it. Maybe they'd rather not have crap kissers drying up their vagina. Maybe they want to keep it for their partner. Maybe jealousy. There's a myriad of reasons for it, I don't think it necessarily is because they want to keep things more perfunctory. I love kissing and wouldn't be compatible with those who didn't want to kiss me - for me I can't get aroused with another person without it. But I don't think there's a right/wrong way about it. You're compatible or you're not. No one is really losing out, just say if it's a thing for you to do or avoid." You make a good point well. My previous post was maybe a bit blunt. No judgement intended towards those that prefer not to kiss on meets, but that's not my preference. It feels like leaving out a huge part of the overall eroticism to me. I *really* enjoy the kissing. | |||
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"I am really struggling...I know each to there own...but I don't think I could meet a cpl for full swap with no kissing " Same here. | |||
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