FabSwingers.com forum: Receptionist at work

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So started my first professional job a few weeks ago and a new receptionist started a few weeks after me.Me and the lady start talking etc and one day out of the blue she calls me cute, do you think this is a sign for me to make a move or maybe I should take it as just a meaningless compliment, she is 34 and I am 24.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"So started my first professional job a few weeks ago and a new receptionist started a few weeks after me.Me and the lady start talking etc and one day out of the blue she calls me cute, do you think this is a sign for me to make a move or maybe I should take it as just a meaningless compliment, she is 34 and I am 24."
work colleague when it all goes tits up you'll still be work colleagues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it as a meaningless compliment and leave it at that.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Well… that wouldn’t be very professional would it… No

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

tell her shes cute too,, see what kind of reaction you get if its lovely big smile things are looking up,

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

Cute is more a term of endearment. Not an invitation to bend her over and bang her.

People we don’t know say our grandkids are cute but not looking to have sex with them are they??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically this: at work keep it in your pants or your first professional job will be your last professional job. One accusation of inappropriate behaviour will end your career before you’ve started.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Given it your first professional job and you are a few months in maybe focus on making a good impression with your boss / colleagues rather than asking out the receptionist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Basically this: at work keep it in your pants or your first professional job will be your last professional job. One accusation of inappropriate behaviour will end your career before you’ve started. "

True

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

"Take it as a meaningless compliment and leave it at that. "

This

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

It sounds like a compliment OP take it as one, you could end up making things really awkward otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It sounds like a compliment OP take it as one, you could end up making things really awkward otherwise."

Will do

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I wouldn't jump to conclusions. I get called lovey, cutey all kinds.

I have colleague who says I'd love to fuck you and rubs her breasts on me.

I even take that with a pinch of salt tbh.

My advice don't fuck someone at work. It's not advice I've followed but it's very good advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just bang her up the shitter.

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

Unless it’s explicitly clear, then better to be safe than sorry in work places especially if your field is a small world.

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

If you like her as more than a fuck don't do it, it can get messy.

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By *yrman57Man
over a year ago

Ayr

One professional advice I heard years ago:

Never fuck the partners or the payroll !!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You should take it as a meaningless compliment regard of how she intended it. I say this for several reasons including she's ten years older, it's your first professional job and any mistakes now will follow you around, you will still have to work there if any awkwardness occurs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do those things with someone you work with. Or one day they'll bring your knickers into the office declaring loudly "you left these at mine last night"

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

You might find your first job may be your last if you miss read what is happening.

Don't shit where you eat.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

Send her a LickedIn™ invite. If she accepts, do nothing but see if she repeatedly looks at your profile. If she does create an article about "workplace romance in the modern era".

She'll read it soon enough and it becomes a topic of conversation. Where this leads to I have no idea because I'm just making up this shit as I go along.

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By *innocentMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

Cuckold behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Send her a LickedIn™ invite. If she accepts, do nothing but see if she repeatedly looks at your profile. If she does create an article about "workplace romance in the modern era".

She'll read it soon enough and it becomes a topic of conversation. Where this leads to I have no idea because I'm just making up this shit as I go along. "

I've just realised I've slept with more of my linkedin friends than my fab friends

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"I've just realised I've slept with more of my linkedin friends than my fab friends

I have got the *wrong* people on my LinkedIn.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"I have got the *wrong* people on my LinkedIn.

(I think I’ve only slept with two of them. Maybe three. Shit, now I’m going to have to check or I won’t sleep tonight.)

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

"Send her a LickedIn™ invite. If she accepts, do nothing but see if she repeatedly looks at your profile. If she does create an article about "workplace romance in the modern era".

She'll read it soon enough and it becomes a topic of conversation. Where this leads to I have no idea because I'm just making up this shit as I go along.

I've just realised I've slept with more of my linkedin friends than my fab friends

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Linkedin freind request, sent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Send her a LickedIn™ invite. If she accepts, do nothing but see if she repeatedly looks at your profile. If she does create an article about "workplace romance in the modern era".

She'll read it soon enough and it becomes a topic of conversation. Where this leads to I have no idea because I'm just making up this shit as I go along. "

Nero…I feel like you’ve just hit on an untapped avenue here. LickedIn?! You should find an app creator and get this idea rolling!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the age difference may indicate it wa a meaningless compliment. Not all the older women in real life are as insatiable for younger guys as they clearly are on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have got the *wrong* people on my LinkedIn.

(I think I’ve only slept with two of them. Maybe three. Shit, now I’m going to have to check or I won’t sleep tonight.)"

I wish I hadn't just looked through mine!!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"I wish I hadn't just looked through mine!!

Er … the number was higher than I thought. Oops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish I hadn't just looked through mine!!

Er … the number was higher than I thought. Oops.

Glad it's not just me!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Glad it's not just me! "

(And that wasn’t counting my ex-wife. She’s blocked!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do yourself a favour and keep it in your pants!

Harassment case could be incoming if you don’t!

Mrs

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By *amesTheLegsMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Been there, done it, didn't end well.

For every success hook-up/relationship I've heard of in the work place, there are 10 stories where it's gone wrong

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Most of my girlfriends and even my wife were met through work.

I'm sure working in a female environment helped. You never know, just ask her If she fancies going out for an evening.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's often used in a style that indicates no flirting or attraction. Let it go. Have a good work relationship.

Move on and meet others elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do not mix business with pleasure….. ever

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

If you like her ask her out me and the wife meet at work 21 year's ago been together now 20 year's.

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By *piritualSFCMan
over a year ago

london

"Send her a LickedIn™ invite. If she accepts, do nothing but see if she repeatedly looks at your profile. If she does create an article about "workplace romance in the modern era".

She'll read it soon enough and it becomes a topic of conversation. Where this leads to I have no idea because I'm just making up this shit as I go along.

I've just realised I've slept with more of my linkedin friends than my fab friends

Ha ha you are funny.

But got me thinking .. is this actually a thing?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"Send her a LickedIn™ invite. If she accepts, do nothing but see if she repeatedly looks at your profile. If she does create an article about "workplace romance in the modern era".

She'll read it soon enough and it becomes a topic of conversation. Where this leads to I have no idea because I'm just making up this shit as I go along.

I've just realised I've slept with more of my linkedin friends than my fab friends

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This can be easily remedied.

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By *agnar73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

Most of my work career was in professional offices, public and private sector.

The old saying is don’t shag on your own doorstep and given the hours that work entailed, it makes sense.

I did one ‘shag a Secretary’ and it was bloody fantastic one night fling. Months of the little looks and smiles built up into absolutely hot sex all night. Sweaty mess stuff, still wanting to fuck each others brains out but too tired to do it.

We had a meal date later that week, did it again but wasn’t the same after burning out the tension. Awkward next six months until I left the place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say you're 24 , my advice would be that even if she's absolutely beautiful and you really do want to have Sex with her ..for a second..think of yourself and your career ..l would put both wayyyyy ahead of having Sex with her ..why ? .. because in a workplace as the old saying goes the ride is not worth the fall...there is wayyyyy more adventures for you outside of work and outside of her ..no matter how hot you think she is..but that's only my tuppence worth .

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I call dogs cute. Doesn’t mean I want them to shag my leg.

The mr

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By *tar80sWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Just bang her up the shitter."

10 hours later I am still laughing about this comment.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Cute also has the definition "clever or shrewd, often in an underhand manner"

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