FabSwingers.com forum: Friends with Benefits

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And we don't mean the kind of benefits that George Osborne wants to stop.

Honest question: does it really exist?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And we don't mean the kind of benefits that George Osborne wants to stop.

Honest question: does it really exist? "

Very much so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indeed they do. However, I prefer to call them my playmates instead.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Certainly does exist

I have a great friend with benefits

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By *uttyMan
over a year ago

Local to you maybe

Def does

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have them. Just wanted to know other people's take on this.

It's important to us that it's this and not just turn up and shag!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

hugely so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno what the terminolgy is..but Ive friends that sometimes I'd visit or them visit me...we can watch films, drink , shag nothing is set as stone...and its rarely planned things

I've never really been the in and out type though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And we don't mean the kind of benefits that George Osborne wants to stop.

Honest question: does it really exist? "

Didn't for me when I tried...Ended with someone saying 'I Love You' but not hearing it back.

Felt so guilty too but couldn't lie to her because of our friendship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have them. Just wanted to know other people's take on this.

It's important to us that it's this and not just turn up and shag! "

Not from here; my friend and I sometimes meet up for lunch or go to the cinema, doesn't always end up with sex as we were looking for companionship and friendship, not just sex but without the bf/gf label

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Yup. Got one now and had a few in the past. Best of both worlds.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Friends with benefits are the best friends to have.

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

Yes i wouldnt be without

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By *outhernchappieMan
over a year ago

brighton

I do- love the fact there is no pressure, it's always fun, off the cuff- butterflies everytime!

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Has anyone else found that with some the second time meets aren't as good as the first time. Only rarely will you find a true friend with benefits.

I have found only one so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes friends with benefits does exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends with benifits playmates whatever you wish call them. Yes you can have these peeps in your life. But please be aware sometimes feelings get involved. Which can ruin a special understanding. Nd leave one hell of a mess in their place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone want to be my Friend lol

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

I think for me its important that I'm able to talk to the ppl that I meet on a friend like level. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i need connection not just sexual but to be able to converse to as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it hard to find a good fwb.... But when you do its great. No drama, no hassle just sex and good company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep without a doubt, and when you find someone that thinks like you and there's a bit of chemistry , it works and its great!

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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago

East Manchester

I have a few FWB'S, they are in the most part social friends, people who can be relied on to offer company for something other than sex, some have actual skills which they will offer to use to help me, a female electrician, and a plumber, also someone who manages an agency and calls on me to help fill various positions when they need someone at short notice.

Because I am also a friend with benefits, because to survive, all relationships have to works in both directions

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if it works for you both, enjoy it.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Yes definately x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i will let you know ......lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Meeting one of ours tonight. Should be fun as always.

The reason we posed the question is that despite us writing that we wanted FWBs in our profile, we still get so many messages that imply that they just want to show up and shag. We just thought we were either out if step with the way the site operates, or just too old fashioned for our own good!

It's pleasing to know we aren't on our own xxx

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Friends with benefits are the best friends to have."

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

"Meeting one of ours tonight. Should be fun as always.

It's pleasing to know we aren't on our own xxx"

You get from the site exactly what you put into it. You 2 sound like you're a good laugh, if these guys don't want to take the time to get to know you then its their loss. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep definitely - best kind of friends there are

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By *acdoodleMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"We have them. Just wanted to know other people's take on this.

It's important to us that it's this and not just turn up and shag!

that's what it's about. I couldn't have worded it better x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone want to be my Friend lol "
correct yes without a doubt lol

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By *unnymuncherMan
over a year ago

Carmel

I have found that ex's make the best friends with benefits/fuckbuddies. Once you have gone through the falling in and out of love but still remember the brilliant sex you had together...

I have 2 ex's that i might not see for a few mths at a time but everytime we do meet....

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

"Has anyone else found that with some the second time meets aren't as good as the first time. Only rarely will you find a true friend with benefits.

I have found only one so far.

This can be the case but then theres those meets that get better with time

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

They do exist, I had one for 3 yrs until we both moved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do 100% exist and thank god they do

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I have some friends on benefits.

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

Absolutely do......my OH is just that....and it works fine.....

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By *illycarrolCouple
over a year ago

n/cle on tyne

we are thinking of one of our best friends to have benefits with just not sure how, he and carol deffo fancy each other we have huge trust so thats not an issue its how to let it happen weve been on hols together with other friends as well but to busy laughing and carrying on to take it further but we want it to happen any tips and watch this space ps funky hes on benefits lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And we don't mean the kind of benefits that George Osborne wants to stop.

Honest question: does it really exist? "

They do for lots of people but more so singles I would say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess I could say I have a couple or 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I really do. Like meeting new people. And I find they want to do stuff other than play.

I know friends that do have them and seems to work.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Having an fb means:

You have freedom - to see who you want or don't want without any comebacks

They don't run your life - as some relationships can end up

There's no pressure - you don't have to explain where you are going, where you have been, when you will be back,etc

You can have great sex regularly

You can socialise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was awesome she was like my best mate, we would just have a blast and the sex was fantastic but she passed away about 7 year ago by some nob d*unk driver but as long as I remember her she still alive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I've been fixing a ladies wobbly legs today!! Her table legs I mean!!

The sexy playmate did my family tree recently so it was the least I could do..

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By *piritfingersMan
over a year ago

isle of wight

Yeah there are for sure,many names for it but all mean same. Mine,well was, is now unfortunately 150 odd miles away,due to me moving to sunny wales(lol). Used to meet up,chat,pizza,dvd and then benefits and cuddle,well cwtch ( is that what its called here?) miss it as was easy going and no pressure!!

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By *teve_S65Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

not in my world

where am i going wrong lol

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton

"And we don't mean the kind of benefits that George Osborne wants to stop.

Honest question: does it really exist? "

Oh yeah, you bet lol.

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