FabSwingers.com forum: Orgasms RUINED

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has anybody had a partner who ruined there orgasm?

I had a partner who did this as a sport and well, the relationship didn't last long.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Ruined how

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

Who would ruin an orgasm?

Who would do such a thing?

How?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

One of my partners takes great joy in bringing me right to the edge and then stopping just to piss me off.

He's a cunt though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

An example would be she would give my a BJ, now I'm a vocal guy so I'd tell her I'm about to orgasm she would then stop, ruining the orgasm. x

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

That's just plain nasty. I've had guys ruin it for me because they haven't followed simple instructions and think they knew better than me

No malice aforethought tho

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"One of my partners takes great joy in bringing me right to the edge and then stopping just to piss me off.

He's a cunt though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m wracking my brains. But nope, I think anyone I’ve ever had sex with has tried really quite hard to make sure we both had fun

Are you sure it was a purposeful thing, OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m wracking my brains. But nope, I think anyone I’ve ever had sex with has tried really quite hard to make sure we both had fun

Are you sure it was a purposeful thing, OP?"

There are men who like this and can be done on purpose

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By *adbod2godbodMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Another form of orgasm denial. Don't get it, not for me. But different strokes for different folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how sadistic im feeling

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m wracking my brains. But nope, I think anyone I’ve ever had sex with has tried really quite hard to make sure we both had fun

Are you sure it was a purposeful thing, OP?"

I don't know but I'd get a cheeky smile afterwards. I'm a giver so I made sure she had her fun x

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

I do it with someone but I get off on it and orgasm. Knowing I have control feels good

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By *ardinal FangMan
over a year ago

Sandy

"I’m wracking my brains. But nope, I think anyone I’ve ever had sex with has tried really quite hard to make sure we both had fun

Are you sure it was a purposeful thing, OP?

There are men who like this and can be done on purpose "

Apparently when you are eventually allowed to release it is much more “wow”. Not been there though.

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

It could be a form of edging

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"I’m wracking my brains. But nope, I think anyone I’ve ever had sex with has tried really quite hard to make sure we both had fun

Are you sure it was a purposeful thing, OP?

There are men who like this and can be done on purpose

Apparently when you are eventually allowed to release it is much more “wow”. Not been there though. "

I'm pretty much a denial junkie. I don't cum at all unless it's with one of my partners. The rest of the time I just edge.

It works for me somehow. I appreciate it doesn't work for everyone.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I had one recently when I slammed the laptop on my cock when the office cleaning lady walked in unexpectedly…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m wracking my brains. But nope, I think anyone I’ve ever had sex with has tried really quite hard to make sure we both had fun

Are you sure it was a purposeful thing, OP?

There are men who like this and can be done on purpose

Apparently when you are eventually allowed to release it is much more “wow”. Not been there though.

I'm pretty much a denial junkie. I don't cum at all unless it's with one of my partners. The rest of the time I just edge.

It works for me somehow. I appreciate it doesn't work for everyone."

I promise not to give you an orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m wracking my brains. But nope, I think anyone I’ve ever had sex with has tried really quite hard to make sure we both had fun

Are you sure it was a purposeful thing, OP?

There are men who like this and can be done on purpose "

Sure, but if that’s the case, it’s communicated up front, no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m wracking my brains. But nope, I think anyone I’ve ever had sex with has tried really quite hard to make sure we both had fun

Are you sure it was a purposeful thing, OP?

There are men who like this and can be done on purpose

Sure, but if that’s the case, it’s communicated up front, no?"

In most cases it should be yes like any type of that play

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"I’m wracking my brains. But nope, I think anyone I’ve ever had sex with has tried really quite hard to make sure we both had fun

Are you sure it was a purposeful thing, OP?

There are men who like this and can be done on purpose

Sure, but if that’s the case, it’s communicated up front, no?"

Always. It’s called consent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's never really happened to me to be honest, I've had where they've brought me close and then changed it up so I lost it so they had to build it back up again but nothing in terms of actually ruining my orgasm

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

"Has anybody had a partner who ruined there orgasm?

I had a partner who did this as a sport and well, the relationship didn't last long. "

I (The Boy) do enjoy this as part of a Femdom edging scenario, Kitty has done it a few times. But one memorable morning she edged 6 times then on the last time she stopped, and watched my cum dribble out as she squeezed my balls.

She then made me lick it out her hands. Pure pleasure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anybody had a partner who ruined there orgasm?

I had a partner who did this as a sport and well, the relationship didn't last long.

She then made me lick it out her hands. Pure pleasure!

Imaginative

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

The only time my orgasm has been ruined is when we've been interrupted. Or the evening that the smoke alarm went off at the crucial moment

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

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It would really piss me off if it was done intentionally.

Wouldn’t like it at all

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By *ultured Gent16Man
over a year ago

close.

Had a woman “ch ok Ed” and vomit when deep throating.

Gotta say that threw all the eroticism right out of the window……

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By *ultured Gent16Man
over a year ago

close.

Also had my dog come bounding in and start licking my butt.

Yup. Seen it talked about in films but I’ve been there.

At that point the moments long gone…..

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Had a woman “ch ok Ed” and vomit when deep throating.

Gotta say that threw all the eroticism right out of the window……

Well, if you play with fire......

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By *ultured Gent16Man
over a year ago

close.

"Had a woman “ch ok Ed” and vomit when deep throating.

Gotta say that threw all the eroticism right out of the window……

Well, if you play with fire......"

Proper burned…..

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By *rMonkeyMan
over a year ago

Somewhere

You'd be kicked the fuck out if anyone did that to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex wife used to give me a BJ or HJ and just as I was about to cum bend my dick at 90 degrees to the side to avoid any splash, it really killed the orgasm.

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By *eacupsbearCouple
over a year ago

York

"It could be a form of edging

Was thinking that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only am allowed ruined orgasms now

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

I think it's best agreed before the ruin.

Its a thing. controlled ruined orgasms can be a super erotic kinky kind of control play.

After a few ruined orgasms can come a beautiful intense release.

Its great to experiment but not great OP if you weren't expecting it. Booo.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

"An example would be she would give my a BJ, now I'm a vocal guy so I'd tell her I'm about to orgasm she would then stop, ruining the orgasm. x"

Maybe she just didn’t want to swallow.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

But you kept on telling her you were going to come yeah ?

Sounds to me that she just didn't want you to come in her mouth.

Reasonable .....

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"One of my partners takes great joy in bringing me right to the edge and then stopping just to piss me off.

He's a cunt though

Oh I love that keep me there till I am squirming and begging lol.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Can someone define the difference between edging and ruining..

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By *resesse_MelioremCouple
over a year ago

Border of London

"The only time my orgasm has been ruined is when we've been interrupted. Or the evening that the smoke alarm went off at the crucial moment

If there is smoke coming out, you really should use more lubricant.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I used to edge my ex like this sometimes but when she came she came

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I know someone who loves to do this. She will wait untill you're just about to come then quickly wriggle away laughing saying let’s have a glass of wine or something.

Of course she gets punished for such bratty antics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Edging ? Just carry on without them op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's just plain nasty. I've had guys ruin it for me because they haven't followed simple instructions and think they knew better than me

No malice aforethought tho"

No one knows a woman's body better than the Woman herself, if she says she likes a certain thing done a certain way ...she means it ...always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps she just didn’t want you to cum in her mouth.

Had you discussed this?

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By *ainbows_can_be_metal_tooCouple
over a year ago

Darlington

Edge play and orgasm denial can be fun provided that both parties know that it's happening and are both into it.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

"That's just plain nasty. I've had guys ruin it for me because they haven't followed simple instructions and think they knew better than me

No malice aforethought tho"
Do print the instructions or write them down, I'm good at the picture ones you get when constructing draws.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love edging but we also know eventually we'll get to finish before the session is over x

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By *amieLDN22Man
over a year ago

London

I'm a professional orgasm ruiner. A big tease and an all round sadist.

I like to stop just when she's about to gush, slow down then speed things up. Its all worth it when the waves of the inevitable explosion carries me to the street. Big win.

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