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My weekend has been full of engaging in the awkward conversations that I've been putting off for a while now and was then topped off with my eldest unexpectedly asking about the birds and the bees  .
All of the ones that I got the chance to have turned out markedly better than expected and I'm feeling so much better for it. So i urge you, if there's any of those types of coversations you've been putting off, dive in as it's highly likely they will go a lot better than expected and you then won't have the thought of them weighing you down any longer. You got this!!  | |||
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So as a deflection - how did the tattoo go today  | |||
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"Well said OP! Think I need to have a conversation with myself but I'm not ready yet
So as a deflection - how did the tattoo go today "The one with myself was the 1st and worst of the weekend, I'm a stubborn bugger. It went brilliantly thank you, the new guy is a genius for saving me, haven't stopped looking at it. I'll send you a pic if you like. I now just need to figure out how I'm going to sleep with my whole usual sleeping side being rather sore. | |||
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"I actually bottled a conversation with my dad today. It needs to be had and it’s been stressing me out for weeks. I’ll do it tomorrow. You’re an angelic faced man of wisdom "Yes do it tomorrow!!! I'm going to nag you as well until you do now. I had to have 1 with my dad as well and it was the 1 that surprised me the most. For the 1st time ever he actually said "I'm proud of you big head" might not seem a lot, but I've wanted to hear that for a very long time | |||
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"I actually bottled a conversation with my dad today. It needs to be had and it’s been stressing me out for weeks. I’ll do it tomorrow. You’re an angelic faced man of wisdom
Yes do it tomorrow!!! I'm going to nag you as well until you do now.
I had to have 1 with my dad as well and it was the 1 that surprised me the most. For the 1st time ever he actually said "I'm proud of you big head" might not seem a lot, but I've wanted to hear that for a very long time "Ah Chuck 
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"We're avoiding a conversation with my adult son about his fucking disgusting attitude and general laziness because we haven't the stomach for an argument right now. Shit parents R Us right now "Many of us put these things off as no-one like an argument with a loved one, but this weekend proved to me that pulling that plaster off is better down sooner rather than later. I wish you luck | |||
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"Ach I dunno Mister. I'll get around to it some time. Mebbe "Ermmm _eli you might flutter those eyelashes and look at me with that cute face, but you're not getting away with it. Get on with it woman | |||
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"Well said OP! Think I need to have a conversation with myself but I'm not ready yet
So as a deflection - how did the tattoo go today
The one with myself was the 1st and worst of the weekend, I'm a stubborn bugger.
It went brilliantly thank you, the new guy is a genius for saving me, haven't stopped looking at it. I'll send you a pic if you like. I now just need to figure out how I'm going to sleep with my whole usual sleeping side being rather sore. "Yeah mine can wait another year or 10
Yes please  didn't want to be pushy and ask for one | |||
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"We're avoiding a conversation with my adult son about his fucking disgusting attitude and general laziness because we haven't the stomach for an argument right now. Shit parents R Us right now "You shouldn't be so hard on yourselves. Being a parent isn't easy, no matter how good or bad kids can be. You'll either face the issue or you won't, but it doesn't always mean you're bad parents  | |||
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"Well said OP! Think I need to have a conversation with myself but I'm not ready yet
So as a deflection - how did the tattoo go today
The one with myself was the 1st and worst of the weekend, I'm a stubborn bugger.
It went brilliantly thank you, the new guy is a genius for saving me, haven't stopped looking at it. I'll send you a pic if you like. I now just need to figure out how I'm going to sleep with my whole usual sleeping side being rather sore. "What did you get done OP? As for the original post (sorry, I got sidetracked ) I’ve had a few difficult conversations this week and none have gone particularly well, some needed to be had but one didn’t, I felt cornered to have it. | |||
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"We're avoiding a conversation with my adult son about his fucking disgusting attitude and general laziness because we haven't the stomach for an argument right now. Shit parents R Us right now
Many of us put these things off as no-one like an argument with a loved one, but this weekend proved to me that pulling that plaster off is better down sooner rather than later. I wish you luck"Yeah, we know that too. That's what's making me even crosser. We've had similar conversations in the past, but it's slipped to the point where I'm losing my patience completely. I don't exist to be spoken to like I'm a turd
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"I have to ring rheumatology and tell my doctor I think my new tablets are giving me a stomach ache. I hate ringing doctors and hospitals. " If they're anything NSAID, they should have given you some PPIs or similar to protect your stomach | |||
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That one is going to be hard bless him | |||
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"I think in the last 6 months I’ve had more awkward conversations than I ever thought possible. But I’ve had them because they all needed to be said and dealt with. The only awkward one I’ve got pending now is talking to the dog about me moving away
That one is going to be hard bless him "He will understand. Dogs are so understanding. That will only make it worse for you, of course, lovely. | |||
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"I think in the last 6 months I’ve had more awkward conversations than I ever thought possible. But I’ve had them because they all needed to be said and dealt with. The only awkward one I’ve got pending now is talking to the dog about me moving away
That one is going to be hard bless him
He will understand. Dogs are so understanding.
That will only make it worse for you, of course, lovely."I know he will. He knows I love him very much | |||
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"I have to ring rheumatology and tell my doctor I think my new tablets are giving me a stomach ache. I hate ringing doctors and hospitals. If they're anything NSAID, they should have given you some PPIs or similar to protect your stomach "I've been taking PPIs for years. | |||
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"I think in the last 6 months I’ve had more awkward conversations than I ever thought possible. But I’ve had them because they all needed to be said and dealt with. The only awkward one I’ve got pending now is talking to the dog about me moving away
That one is going to be hard bless him
He will understand. Dogs are so understanding.
That will only make it worse for you, of course, lovely.
I know he will. He knows I love him very much "Oh my heart
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