FabSwingers.com forum: Friends on Fab.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We’ve all got them surely, people you talk to more often than not by DM or offsite

But, are they mostly male or female?

I knew a girl who always said she got along better with guys.

*she was very pretty, I always thought ‘yeh sure, I guess they get along with your personality!’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve got one couple, one woman and one man. Make of that what you will.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Eight men and two couples in my friends, no women currently though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get on better with men than women, my closest friends are men...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends as in those that can see my naked pics? One woman, rest men.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I get on better with men, and have more male fab friends than female, platonic ones.

But I have made more female friends on fab than ever in my life.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I get on better with men than i do females. I've got a few good male friends, no sex between us just good mates.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"We’ve all got them surely, people you talk to more often than not by DM or offsite

But, are they mostly male or female?

I knew a girl who always said she got along better with guys.

*she was very pretty, I always thought ‘yeh sure, I guess they get along with your personality!’

Hey Woody, I’ve got a few. Some women, some couples, some guys and a lovely trans.

I like the fact we can have a bit of personal chat away from the forums, just for a giggle or to catch up.

How about you?

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

On fab I definitely talk to men rather than women or couples. The person I speak to most, and would describe as a friend, is a man. I'd probably find it harder to flirt with women

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

All my plutonic friends who I chat to from Fab are females / couples. I do message some other make forum users but it’s more one off comments, sharing a joke than daily / regular communication.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. We speak to a few couples on here more often than not. Whether here or on other messaging services. Also speak to some women on here more often than anyone else

. We're very nice people when you get to know us

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Most of my friends are men but there are a couple of women I’m very close to.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Mostly men.

Not because any eyeroll inducing reasons like 'oh I'm not like other women tehehehe', it's just how it's happened.

I do get on very well with some women and non-binary people from here but yes, I definitely talk to more men from here than women (as friends!).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In life I have all male dominated hobbies plus all my jobs

so on here I talk to mainly men. Actual friends from fab ... met them all and talk to them via other means phone/whatsapp

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I've always got on better with women than men, at least as an adult. On here, though there are loads of amazing men, male friendship isn't what I'm looking for. All my Fab friends, and most - definitely not all - of my offline friends are women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Friends as in those that can see my naked pics? One woman, rest men.

Can I see you naked?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Think we have a good mix.

It’s a mix between people we’ve met and the people with personalities we like in the forums. So basically if we think you’re alright we’ll add you.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Friends as in those that can see my naked pics? One woman, rest men.

Can I see you naked?

Sorry….can I add you as a friend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got a lot of men friends on fab who helped me with advice and techniques to help me have few lady friends on fab in non sexual way even in work get on more with lady’s then I do with men

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I chat daily, with a woman I first met in Fab around 5 years ago. We both enjoy the fact we can tell each other everything, and anything, about our lives. She would be a huge hole in my life if I were to lose her for some reason

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We’ve all got them surely, people you talk to more often than not by DM or offsite

But, are they mostly male or female?

I knew a girl who always said she got along better with guys.

*she was very pretty, I always thought ‘yeh sure, I guess they get along with your personality!’

Hey Woody, I’ve got a few. Some women, some couples, some guys and a lovely trans.

I like the fact we can have a bit of personal chat away from the forums, just for a giggle or to catch up.

How about you?"

More personal chats are mostly with women, and a couple would be classed as a friend , and I talk to a male or 2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Friends as in those that can see my naked pics? One woman, rest men.

Can I see you naked?

Sorry….can I add you as a friend? "

Perv

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

I chat via DM frequently with one lady on here, and that's it. Away from here, my closest friends are all women - all platonic. I seem to get on better with women than men.

Im open to having a good natter with other ladies on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Friends as in those that can see my naked pics? One woman, rest men.

Can I see you naked?

Sorry….can I add you as a friend?

Perv"

Haha. What site are we both on?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I’m rubbish at making friends with men. Must try harder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Friends as in those that can see my naked pics? One woman, rest men.

Excuse me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Friends as in those that can see my naked pics? One woman, rest men.

Excuse me.

You're excused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Friends as in those that can see my naked pics? One woman, rest men.

Excuse me.

You're excused.

I want to be friends

I needn't fill the bath with water, I'll use my own tears

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

I seemed to have befriended mostly women. They are instinctively tuned into my metrosexual and stylistic traits. The 'befriendship' isn't exclusively sexual but mostly platonic.

With that said, I do have a few male friends on here whose harmonic friendship I treasure dearly.

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

I have met most of my friends so there is a mix of everything in there. I would say I speak to male halves of couples mostly though

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

Currently keep in touch with one couple away from the site - who we also meet up with from time to time - and one lady. We’ve always found it quite easy to make connections, but it’s not so easy keeping them over time.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

On here several women one guy we've been friends many years

Away from the site do have guy friends loads but more women we just seem to really connect talk about anything even the odd time late at night when they just need someone to chat with I value each and everyone of them

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Mostly female friends on here that I speak to frequently

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m rubbish at making friends with men. Must try harder."

I’m rubbish at getting women on my friends list. Must try harder

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

People have friends???

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"People have friends???"

It does happen

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

When I joined fab the last thing I expected was to make actual friends, but I’ve made quite a few really good friends on my journey. A few women but mostly men.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Thought this was going to be about seeing friends on here .. but yeah I've made a few regular friends over the years pop up here and there chat keep in touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was a mixture

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Our good friends progress from here to group chats and other social media. It’s seldom we chat on here as we are in contact a lot by other means.

If we start a group chat it usually means we’re happy to know them much better.

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

Mainly men. One lady who we became friends quite quickly. I think there are a few more women I may become friends with.

It is a tricky one to gauge…

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By * Le ShhhhhMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Only a select few women get to see those pics!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most friends on our list are couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve got a few fab friends we talk to regularly on here. We did have a few we talked to off here but that’s fizzled out and it’s rare we chat off here anyway tbh.

Mainly couples but there’s also a couple of fab ladies we chat to regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like a friend here mail me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The friends I've made from sites like Fab are nearly all men, but I think that's because I haven't been to events. IRL all my friends are women.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I don't really have many friends on here. I don't tend to chat much on here for a few reasons.There are two people I chat to daily and a few people I chat to occasionally but that's it's.Unfortuntely I found most guys who chatted expected more and got annoyed when they didn't get meets even when I made it clear from the start that I wasn't interested in them sexually.

I was also backstabbed by a woman who I thought was a good friend before on here who has shared my pics and private info with others so that made me a lot more wary on here.

I'm also quite introverted anyhow and I have never needed a load of people to chat to or be one of the popular people. I'm quite happy having a small amount of true friends rather than a lot of people who actually don't care.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

More female than make correspondence online

At socials, I typically spend more time talking to men than women

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"People have friends???

It does happen

Sake, yet another thing I've been doing wrong!!!

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"We’ve all got them surely, people you talk to more often than not by DM or offsite

But, are they mostly male or female?

I knew a girl who always said she got along better with guys.

*she was very pretty, I always thought ‘yeh sure, I guess they get along with your personality!’

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I have female and male friends on here, i don’t think it works the same in life i have no relatives my parents are both dead i have mostly female friends but no reason for that, i like my own company, my ex said i flirted with women but i would say i enjoy life and enjoy making people smile so maybe thats a reflection of that.

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By *ellanbennyCouple
over a year ago

cambs

We have a M/F couple we speak to. We have spoken to a few couples in the past but when it cones to arranging a social meet there is no longer a reply. It would be nice to make friends out if this lifestyle too.

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By *ustincamebridgeCouple
over a year ago

manchester

None

Been on here a while and just not happened for us. Luckily we have an awesome relationship and not that bothered. Our original plan was to try and meet a couple we could meet with on a regular basis and see wher it would go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a female friend on here who I knew offsite before I found she was here. We chatted offsite, we went walking together, got on real well without there being anything sexual in the relationship (though I sure as hell fancied her and still do).

Sadly the relationship broke down (My fault) and we don't really speak now except I sent her a birthday and Xmas message.

She's not blocked me on here or privately, so I hold out hope things can be repaired one day.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Keep meaning to reply to this. Bookmarking for after work.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've just looked..my list is quite small as I don't befriend everyone, I'd say I have a 60/40 split in favour of guys x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people we have a good connection with have a good days chatting then poof they're gone lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Offline my friends are a mix of women and gay men, and maybe a few guys on the edge of friend zone who I think might be a bit curious.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Ours are a mixture of regular people that we chat with and then others that we have actually met. It's a mixture of all, singles, couples, male and females.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Ours are a split that seems quite normal now looking at others.

Predominantly couples with about 20% singles split between male and female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really have many friends on here. I don't tend to chat much on here for a few reasons.There are two people I chat to daily and a few people I chat to occasionally but that's it's.Unfortuntely I found most guys who chatted expected more and got annoyed when they didn't get meets even when I made it clear from the start that I wasn't interested in them sexually.

I was also backstabbed by a woman who I thought was a good friend before on here who has shared my pics and private info with others so that made me a lot more wary on here.

I'm really sorry to hear that - must have been quite a betrayal.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"We’ve all got them surely, people you talk to more often than not by DM or offsite

But, are they mostly male or female?

I knew a girl who always said she got along better with guys.

*she was very pretty, I always thought ‘yeh sure, I guess they get along with your personality!’

There's no 'surely' Woody. I don't talk to people here in DM. I don't talk to people from here offsite.

I read a lot of comments here from women who say they get on better with men than women ..... and basically , I thought along the same lines as you ....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

P.S. There are a few people I will answer when they DM me but that is because they have been on the forum for years and I 'know' them.

I don't chit chat tho as a rule.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought I did, but maybe not. It's all superficial isn't it?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Thought I did, but maybe not. It's all superficial isn't it? "

I think we all have hugely differing idea of what a 'friend' is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thought I did, but maybe not. It's all superficial isn't it?

I think we all have hugely differing idea of what a 'friend' is "

You are right Granny

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

There's only one forum contributor we chat to via DM occasionally and she's a woman.

We don't talk to anyone off site unless it's in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 1/2 women. I chat to others but we just haven’t done the friend thing as we aren’t going to meet, so our bits are irrelevant..

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By *ames_dieselMan
over a year ago

London

"I chat daily, with a woman I first met in Fab around 5 years ago. We both enjoy the fact we can tell each other everything, and anything, about our lives. She would be a huge hole in my life if I were to lose her for some reason

I would dearly love a friend like this…you’re very lucky.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It comes from this mainly. A quote from When Harry met Sally ….

Harry - “ What I'm saying is - and this is not a come-on in any way, shape or form - is that men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my friends are women. I have very few male friends (I wish I had more).

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Always gotten along better with women. And women of all ages although I tend to find I’ve less to chat about as they get nearer 20 since I’m an old man

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"It comes from this mainly. A quote from When Harry met Sally ….

Harry - “ What I'm saying is - and this is not a come-on in any way, shape or form - is that men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way”

Harry is so wrong.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"It comes from this mainly. A quote from When Harry met Sally ….

Harry - “ What I'm saying is - and this is not a come-on in any way, shape or form - is that men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way” "

Whilst I love the film (who doesn’t?) I’ve never agreed with that premise.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"It comes from this mainly. A quote from When Harry met Sally ….

Harry - “ What I'm saying is - and this is not a come-on in any way, shape or form - is that men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way”

Harry is so wrong.

Affirmative. Harry is so very wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It comes from this mainly. A quote from When Harry met Sally ….

Harry - “ What I'm saying is - and this is not a come-on in any way, shape or form - is that men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way”

Literally all my friends are women and I don’t talk about sex at all with the vast majority of them. I don’t like the viewpoint (same with the idea of friendzoning) because it implies that there’s no value in being nonsexual friends with someone.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Until about 4 or 5 years ago I could genuinely claim to have no male friends at all.

Plenty of work colleagues but I didn't spend any time with them outside of work.

Claiming that men and women can't be friends without the sex getting in the way is a load of bull in my opinion.

I'm definitely not the exception to the rule.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"It comes from this mainly. A quote from When Harry met Sally ….

Harry - “ What I'm saying is - and this is not a come-on in any way, shape or form - is that men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way”

Harry is so wrong.

Affirmative. Harry is so very wrong

We are wise women.

Isn't that what they used to call witches?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I have a total mixture of friends. But then I do in my life away from fab too. I just love making friends

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By *oubletroubleCouple
over a year ago

South West

No friends on Fab

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"We’ve all got them surely, people you talk to more often than not by DM or offsite

But, are they mostly male or female?

I knew a girl who always said she got along better with guys.

*she was very pretty, I always thought ‘yeh sure, I guess they get along with your personality!’

I'm equally as good with ladies and guys...have a bunch of them I talk on daily basis.meeting up for giggles and few drinks too.

It's great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both... Tho it is weighted towards the gals. Because the boys just want me for my willy.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Men. I don’t really gel with many women.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I am a shity friend

True story

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

In real life I have more female friends than male.

On here my friends are people I've met, so men and couples. I've not found it possible to make female friends on here.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

W/c mostly

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By *ink Panther 123Man
over a year ago

Colnbrook

I’ve made loads of friends in here. Some have left and still remain friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my fab friends are male. The list is small but perfectly formed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As said male and women friends

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Actual Fab friends is a fairly even split between men, women, couples and TVs. Some are just friends and some are friends where our intentions are less than honourable

The same goes for our fab inbox, a very even split.

Off fab we're in a social chat and I also have some lovely ladies I talk to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actual Fab friends is a fairly even split between men, women, couples and TVs. Some are just friends and some are friends where our intentions are less than honourable

The same goes for our fab inbox, a very even split.

Off fab we're in a social chat and I also have some lovely ladies I talk to

Our ambition this year is to become besties with you, the sort where I can ship Mr to yours when I need a break

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"Actual Fab friends is a fairly even split between men, women, couples and TVs. Some are just friends and some are friends where our intentions are less than honourable

The same goes for our fab inbox, a very even split.

Off fab we're in a social chat and I also have some lovely ladies I talk to

Our ambition this year is to become besties with you, the sort where I can ship Mr to yours when I need a break

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"….small but perfectly formed.

Can I paste this to my profile?….

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