FabSwingers.com forum: Advice from girls needed

By *ingdang OP TV/TS
over a year ago

london

If an attractive man approach you and only seem to talk about how he is wanking, and how he would do to you, but never about when and where he would meet, what will you do?

This is what this man did to me. I felt he just want me to help him have a wank, although he said he would meet tomorrow. I clearly said I’m not into cyber sex, and ignored his question like ‘what r u wearing now’

This morning I found myself blocked by him, both on here and on phone.

What would you do differently if you were me? Help needed.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

When isn't advice from girls needed

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Nothing differently.

I think you read the situation correctly.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"If an attractive man approach you and only seem to talk about how he is wanking, and how he would do to you, but never about when and where he would meet, what will you do?

This morning I found myself blocked by him, both on here and on phone.

What would you do differently if you were me? Help needed."

Hey OP, I’d say welcome to fab but you’ve been here a while. Is this really the first horny wanker you’ve had?

It seems as though he just wanted you to talk him off and saw you as a non-starter so blocked you.

Best forgotten along with the others who don’t treat you as a human bean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sweetheart, if a guy on here just wants to talk about wanking and what he'd like to do to you, he's wanking.

If it a potential meet its going to be much more chatty.

As to how you respond will depend on what you want.

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Don't engage with them.

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

I wouldn’t do anything differently, other than not care that he’d blocked me

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

If it was me I’d have blocked him as soon as he used the word wanking in the message.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"If it was me I’d have blocked him as soon as he used the word wanking in the message. "

What Nora said.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I would have blocked him first. Clearly what you want/wanted is the polar opposite of what he wanted.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

"Sweetheart, if a guy on here just wants to talk about wanking and what he'd like to do to you, he's wanking.

If it a potential meet its going to be much more chatty.

As to how you respond will depend on what you want."

Indeed - I get the wank out of the way before I start chatting

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By *ingdang OP TV/TS
over a year ago

london

I wrote this post because his picture was very attractive and exactly my type. I don’t find people like him often. It still feel bad when I found I was blocked.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Never engage in sex talk.

It rarely goes anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If an attractive man approach you and only seem to talk about how he is wanking, and how he would do to you, but never about when and where he would meet, what will you do?

This morning I found myself blocked by him, both on here and on phone.

What would you do differently if you were me? Help needed."

Absolutely nothing, I think I would of done the same as you, he was just looking to unload.

I don't do the whole sexting/cyber stuff and it soon adds clarity to who is just looking to cum and who genuinely wants to know you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's why I won't do sexting, wank chatting, or whatever it's called...any hint of that and they're blocked faster than something that's very fast..unless I kinda know them...

Then I tell them I'm wearing baggy pyjamas with last night's pizza crust on.

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By *ingdang OP TV/TS
over a year ago

london

"It's why I won't do sexting, wank chatting, or whatever it's called...any hint of that and they're blocked faster than something that's very fast..unless I kinda know them...

Then I tell them I'm wearing baggy pyjamas with last night's pizza crust on."

Lol I am going to write it down your perfect response here.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've never engaged in sex talk on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he'd mentioned wanking or he was saying what he wanted to do to me I'd have left the message unread and left him to it and had a more meaningful conversation elsewhere.

I usually shy away from any sexy talk before a social so they don't think I'm going to fuck them. Be the slightest bit suggestive and people will take that as a dead cert for sex. So I avoid. Unless I clearly fancy the pants off someone and I've seen their face. But that's very rare.

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