FabSwingers.com forum: Sex without chemistry

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you still enjoy it? I think chemistry is important and the circumstances have to be right, but that’s not to say that a quickie isn’t impossible. Thoughts? Much love to you all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *bwlady123Woman
over a year ago

private

Definitely not got to be chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is effort.

I'm only making that effort for dam good sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex without a connection is empty and meaningless.

But as empty meaningless experiences go it gotta be one of the best!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I've never had sex without any kind of chemistry it'd never get to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What in the ?

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Nooo it really repulses me hence why i rather just wait until mr right comes along. If i fancy the pants off him just looking at his profile.... usually I do in person

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

No, not for me. Sex without chemistry is like food without flavour.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"Do you still enjoy it? I think chemistry is important and the circumstances have to be right, but that’s not to say that a quickie isn’t impossible. Thoughts? Much love to you all

Nope! I get your point, but I have to have some level of chemistry and connection. I can’t bring myself to shag someone I don’t fancy.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"No, not for me. Sex without chemistry is like food without flavour."

Ooo, this! Nicely put, Elephantis.

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Need some chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, not for me. Sex without chemistry is like food without flavour."

But you've still gotta eat at some point though right?

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Do you still enjoy it? I think chemistry is important and the circumstances have to be right, but that’s not to say that a quickie isn’t impossible. Thoughts? Much love to you all

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I can have sex without chemistry.. fun and giggles needs to be there. However mostly 121 I need some chemistry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not for me as a rule. I dislike one offs, and I wouldn’t let anyone touch me without chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got to learn chemistry now. Ffs, every days a school day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had no connection sex a couple of times and it was not enjoyable. I'm just not built that way.

Nell

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'm sure without any chemistry it would end up being painful sex

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"No, not for me. Sex without chemistry is like food without flavour.

But you've still gotta eat at some point though right? "

That's where the analogy breaks down, yes. I'd definitely rather be celibate for life than ever have to force myself into sex.

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By *empest2KMan
over a year ago

Derby

"No, not for me. Sex without chemistry is like food without flavour."

This is a great analogy!

For me, I need flavour, and the more exotic it is, the better

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

chemistry was my favourite subject at school,, no you defo need chemistry

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"No, not for me. Sex without chemistry is like food without flavour.

Ooo, this! Nicely put, Elephantis."

Aww, thank you! I was just saying the other day how nice you are, to a mutual friend.

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By *N4funCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Need to find some connection or nothing rises to the occasion

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

How are we defining chemistry?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Surely without chemistry explosions don't happen?

I like my sex to include an explosion or several.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be a bit of chemistry for me

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"No, not for me. Sex without chemistry is like food without flavour.

Ooo, this! Nicely put, Elephantis.

Aww, thank you! I was just saying the other day how nice you are, to a mutual friend. "

I’m flattered! Likewise, old sausage

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I totally agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just a lil bit?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I assume you’d appreciate a sexual recreation of the blitz

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

OP, if you click on reply+quote we'll know who you're replying to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, not for me. Sex without chemistry is like food without flavour."

This hits perfectly.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"No, not for me. Sex without chemistry is like food without flavour.

Ooo, this! Nicely put, Elephantis.

Aww, thank you! I was just saying the other day how nice you are, to a mutual friend.

I’m flattered! Likewise, old sausage

Hee hee... you said sausage

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"No, not for me. Sex without chemistry is like food without flavour.

But you've still gotta eat at some point though right? "

Hummmmm

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Anyway the answer is no. Been there, done it, hated it.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

No, I'd rather just do it myself, I'd be much better.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need the chemistry, might as well do it myself otherwise!

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Without chemistry I won't progress to biology!

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By *lipzer KnicksaffWoman
over a year ago

Up My Own Arse Apparently

No. Absolutely no point in it.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Ain't happening

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"I need the chemistry, might as well do it myself otherwise! "

On the way with popcorn, don’t mind me

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

I have, I will never ever do it again.

There needs to be that spark. It starts in my brain and works its way down.

Without the chemistry it really is just physics and failed biology.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Interesting. I think it's possible to have enjoyable sex without chemistry. I doubt there's individual chemistry in gang bangs, glory holes, dark rooms, blind fold meets etc. It's the situation rather than the individuals in those circumstances isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Exactly!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I think things like that activate the wild crazy fun side of us just cos we’re there. Love em. They’re exceptions to the supposed rule

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, not for me. Sex without chemistry is like food without flavour.

But you've still gotta eat at some point though right? "

No-one needs sex to live. Many here are proof of that….

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've had great sex without chemistry. Blindfolds, gangbangs, club meets all kinds of sex with no chemistry

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yeah I think things like that activate the wild crazy fun side of us just cos we’re there. Love em. They’re exceptions to the supposed rule "

Are you referring to my post (reply+quote will quote the post you want to answer)?

I think you're right when you say 'supposed rule '. Some need chemistry to enjoy sex but some don't every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Need some chemistry "

Yeah, cunt juice and pre cum, perfect match

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

No chemistry, no sex - pretty simple for me really

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By *ultured Gent16Man
over a year ago

close.

When biology just isn’t doing it for you….

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"No, not for me. Sex without chemistry is like food without flavour.

Ooo, this! Nicely put, Elephantis.

Aww, thank you! I was just saying the other day how nice you are, to a mutual friend.

I’m flattered! Likewise, old sausage

Hee hee... you said sausage

Haha good job I didn’t say clam!

Oh FFS.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Nope. It wouldn’t happen. Never had sex for the sake of it. Never will

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"Interesting. I think it's possible to have enjoyable sex without chemistry. I doubt there's individual chemistry in gang bangs, glory holes, dark rooms, blind fold meets etc. It's the situation rather than the individuals in those circumstances isn't it?"

Agreed. I think in such circumstances the chemistry comes from the fizzing desire they have to be part of that scenario ie a gang bang or a glory hole. If that’s the proclivity of everyone involved, they each bring chemistry with them

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Nah. Waste of time. I’d rather stay home and eat icecream

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Do you still enjoy it? I think chemistry is important and the circumstances have to be right, but that’s not to say that a quickie isn’t impossible. Thoughts? Much love to you all

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How can you get turned on if you don't remotely like the person, i got used by a woman once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Sex without chemistry, is just a fancy wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah. Waste of time. I’d rather stay home and eat icecream

Have you had the terry chocolate ice cream?

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By *ilkstressWoman
over a year ago

Drasnia

Sex without chemistry is simply a mechanical exercise and forgotten within days.

Sex with chemistry and a connection intensifies the pleasure and puts a smile on your face whenever you recall it. More of this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the thrill of spur of the moment sex

I don't need a mental contact

Physical attraction is enough

I think it is kind of looked down on, but we all play differently and we all have different triggers

If I get to know people, I tend to lose any sexual attraction I have to them

Familiarity usually leads to friend zoning

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Nah. Waste of time. I’d rather stay home and eat icecream

Have you had the terry chocolate ice cream? "

Good god no!!! How have I missed this?? I will search it out.

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

"Do you still enjoy it? I think chemistry is important and the circumstances have to be right, but that’s not to say that a quickie isn’t impossible. Thoughts? Much love to you all

Chemistry is something that develops not an instant thing.

But in answer to your question, yes I'd have sex without 'chemistry', hoping it may develop if I like a guy enough. If not I don't meet him again!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That’s a perfect metaphor

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Those Cadburys tubs with the chocolate bits in are immense!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah. Waste of time. I’d rather stay home and eat icecream

This is the reason why I use Ubereats.

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Never taken one for the team ?

When i was with a partner, in the early days. Yes. But not nowadays

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Define chemistry.

I've had few experiences where they've created enough chemistry to blow a whole in nuclear bunker without saying a word.

And had an awesome friend who I love to bits and when we had sex it was just hilarious, you couldn't blow a hole in a paper bag with the chemistry.

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By *ood Girl KatWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

For me I've found I need chemistry. With that comes a connection and great sex

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

We’ve all probably indulged in sex without chemistry at some stage and just not the same as when you have that connection

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I need something. Excessive horn, an attraction be it of humour, looks, sexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know how to make a volcano. Does that chemistry count?

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

It's horrible

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Not in the slightest.

I don't think I've ever really enjoyed it, even when I was in my cock starved nymph phase. There's always been some sort of chemistry else my foof would be sandpapering their cock.

Connection? That's different. Very different. Now I'm not interested unless there's a connection. I don't think I can find someone sexually attractive until that level is there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need something. Excessive horn, an attraction be it of humour, looks, sexual.

Keep going with your list, I might be something further down

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Might I say I’d be happy if you sandpapered my cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It’s like a film with slightly less than great audio. It can still be a great watch but there’s something missing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even a quickie would still be with someone that caught your eye though wouldnt it, so there would still be chemistry there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another analogy. ….

It’s like looking at the great wonders of the BBC world in a book or the internet, or actually going there and seeing it’s beauty with your own eyes

Anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another analogy. ….

It’s like looking at the great wonders of the BBC world in a book or the internet, or actually going there and seeing it’s beauty with your own eyes

Anyone else? "

Wtf does my phone add words? BBC?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Might I say I’d be happy if you sandpapered my cock

Reply and quote OP so people can appreciate your smoothness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you still enjoy it? I think chemistry is important and the circumstances have to be right, but that’s not to say that a quickie isn’t impossible. Thoughts? Much love to you all

Sex without a connection is just a waste of time for me

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By *ezebel100Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Got to be chemistry otherwise my body won't cooperate.

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By *hogun300Man
over a year ago

Dundee

Not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got to be chemistry otherwise my body won't cooperate."

Try being a man, my cock does not get hard if I’m not turned on, and I need more than just an image.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I’ve never tried it and don’t think I will be doing any time soon

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Do you still enjoy it..."

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What do you mean "still enjoy it"? There is no other manner for me to enjoy it. I'm not into transactional sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

What's the point in it? The only sex I want is mind blowing sex please and thank you and quite happy to wait for that

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I couldn’t! If there’s no chemistry in the eye contact and first kiss, it’s game over for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle to see how sex would even be initiated without chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I struggle to see how sex would even be initiated without chemistry. "

I don’t know. But sometimes I’m willing to experiment

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"What's the point in it? The only sex I want is mind blowing sex please and thank you and quite happy to wait for that

Here for when you change that straight on your profile!

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"For me I've found I need chemistry. With that comes a connection and great sex "

Pity I’m too old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No connection = futile.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"I struggle to see how sex would even be initiated without chemistry. "

quite easily if its just a body part function you are looking for ... bukkake / gangbangs / random blowjobs glory holes etc. gay sauna / swinging club dark rooms etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me I've found I need chemistry. With that comes a connection and great sex "

You say all the right things .

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