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Learning not to be ashamed of kinks

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By *ruskJoker OP   Man
over a year ago

Royston

I’d like to share a kink of mine and hear other people’s along the way.

I have a big kink for being a “kept man” having a man, sometimes but not necessarily older, look after me is a huge turn on. Having a sugar daddy figure goes beyond any financial gain or gifts. But the scenario of you having power over me and rewarding my subservience gets me. Used to have a gentleman friend that would buy me gifts such as expensive or sexy underwear and I’d have to oblige anytime he’d want to see me in them and that he’d be the only one to see me in them etc. plays very much into the dom and sub relationship.

A lot of people, in my experience assume I just want a sugar daddy for the material gain. It has left me sometimes feeling anxious or reluctant to share. But it goes beyond that of the gain.

I hope this can be a safe space to share and discuss this kink (one of many I promise) and importantly a safe and fun place for others to share too.

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By *denvents2Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Think is more common than people admit.

I have a huge kinks for 1950 house wife.

I'd like to be the little woman kept at home. Shooping allowance for pretty things and the duty to keep the house spotless. My man happy and well satisfied.

He knows best kinda thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d like to share a kink of mine and hear other people’s along the way.

I have a big kink for being a “kept man” having a man, sometimes but not necessarily older, look after me is a huge turn on. Having a sugar daddy figure goes beyond any financial gain or gifts. But the scenario of you having power over me and rewarding my subservience gets me. Used to have a gentleman friend that would buy me gifts such as expensive or sexy underwear and I’d have to oblige anytime he’d want to see me in them and that he’d be the only one to see me in them etc. plays very much into the dom and sub relationship.

A lot of people, in my experience assume I just want a sugar daddy for the material gain. It has left me sometimes feeling anxious or reluctant to share. But it goes beyond that of the gain.

I hope this can be a safe space to share and discuss this kink (one of many I promise) and importantly a safe and fun place for others to share too."

I think this is quite prevalent, I've done this although for me it was quite short lived

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By *ruskJoker OP   Man
over a year ago

Royston


"Think is more common than people admit.

I have a huge kinks for 1950 house wife.

I'd like to be the little woman kept at home. Shooping allowance for pretty things and the duty to keep the house spotless. My man happy and well satisfied.

He knows best kinda thing. "

Ohh I 100% know the feeling. The goal is to be the trophy (husband in my case lol) the pretty object on the shelf who secretly gets thrown around the bedroom like a whore.

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By *ruskJoker OP   Man
over a year ago

Royston


"I’d like to share a kink of mine and hear other people’s along the way.

I have a big kink for being a “kept man” having a man, sometimes but not necessarily older, look after me is a huge turn on. Having a sugar daddy figure goes beyond any financial gain or gifts. But the scenario of you having power over me and rewarding my subservience gets me. Used to have a gentleman friend that would buy me gifts such as expensive or sexy underwear and I’d have to oblige anytime he’d want to see me in them and that he’d be the only one to see me in them etc. plays very much into the dom and sub relationship.

A lot of people, in my experience assume I just want a sugar daddy for the material gain. It has left me sometimes feeling anxious or reluctant to share. But it goes beyond that of the gain.

I hope this can be a safe space to share and discuss this kink (one of many I promise) and importantly a safe and fun place for others to share too.

I think this is quite prevalent, I've done this although for me it was quite short lived"

Perhaps I have t got the looks for it or found the right people to share it with. Nice to see I’m not the only person in this frame of mind though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Perhaps I have t got the looks for it or found the right people to share it with. Nice to see I’m not the only person in this frame of mind though."

Looks I suppose are important but once the initial titillation was over for me I never went back. No one got hurt and everyone involved got something out of it as far as I know

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