FabSwingers.com forum: Being cooked for by someone on here

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good morning all,

Just a question really but has anyone actually had anyone on here cool for them?

I mean as in a proper full blown the works meal.

I’ve always been of the mindset that you take a lady out for dinner when meeting from this place.

I’m feeling rather fortunate that someone would go to all that effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cook a meal at home? To me that seems a bit full on, unless it’s someone you already know and get along with.

I’d prefer something less formal and less pressured. It sounds a little too “romantic” for a first meeting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We get on and have met quite a bit but yeah a full on meal at hers.

Not had someone do that for me in years haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most peoples culinary capabilities are likely better than mine ,however I would need to know them pretty well for that to happen and again it would need to be neutral territory.

I do like an air BnB though!

I think it's a lovely thing to do though and cooking together can be great fun and pretty erotic too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well it’s certainly going to be an experience.

I’m not bad in the kitchen but certainly no pro.

I’m going to have to find a decent desert or something to take, would be rude to go empty handed

As for Airbnb …I’m more Hotel with a palatable restaurant attached

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

It’s a massive risk - I have had someone cook for me once and it was also the first time we’d met too. We had been speaking for a long time before that though and met in public first. He was an amazing cook too which definitely helped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean I'll use a loophole, F has cooked for me once or twice since we've been on here

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

If it was someone was going to date! But not from here x

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

No I like restaurants and hotels

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I mean I'll use a loophole, F has cooked for me once or twice since we've been on here

Haha…very droll! Good loophole!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No I like restaurants and hotels

Well we have something in common then!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s a massive risk - I have had someone cook for me once and it was also the first time we’d met too. We had been speaking for a long time before that though and met in public first. He was an amazing cook too which definitely helped."

Fingers crossed….if not…water…lots of water!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We've been to quite a few people's homes for dinner with sex as dessert

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I've had someone make me a carbonara-ish meal.

I can't usually eat before sex so it wasn't a great idea.

Actually, he wasn't on here at the time, but did join a few years after we met.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We've been to quite a few people's homes for dinner with sex as dessert "

It’s something that shall certainly be an experience, when thinking about it, it’s actually rather social. Well….I’ll take desert and a couple of decent bottles.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

id never let someone cook for me.

probably be poisoned and have her laughing as im dying on the floor.

the bitch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had someone make me a carbonara-ish meal.

I can't usually eat before sex so it wasn't a great idea.

Actually, he wasn't on here at the time, but did join a few years after we met.

After meeting you why would he need to be on here? Who could hope to compete with the legendary Bad Nanna?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Yes, but not a random person. Was my fwb

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We've been to quite a few people's homes for dinner with sex as dessert

It’s something that shall certainly be an experience, when thinking about it, it’s actually rather social. Well….I’ll take desert and a couple of decent bottles."

It's very sociable and a great way to relax, flirt and build tension.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really weird when it comes to food.

Restaurants and fast food joints, no problem.

Other people cooking for me in their home...I just can't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It’s interesting to see the different points of views on here.

Quite enlightening really.

Not that keen on being poisoned!

Flirting and tension …..I’ll still say the food nice even it is not lol…..manners!

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

No we're just here to fuck and then fuck off

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We've done this about half a dozen times.

Only one experience was unpleasant, the others were great. We've been out to dinner a lot with fab meets too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We've done this about half a dozen times.

Only one experience was unpleasant, the others were great. We've been out to dinner a lot with fab meets too. "

Going out for dinner I really enjoy!

It’s the best kind of social for myself, I enjoy eating out and it’s all rather chilled if you pick the right kind of establishment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No we're just here to fuck and then fuck off

The direct approach haha

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"Good morning all,

Just a question really but has anyone actually had anyone on here cool for them?

I mean as in a proper full blown the works meal.

I’ve always been of the mindset that you take a lady out for dinner when meeting from this place.

I’m feeling rather fortunate that someone would go to all that effort "

Yes I have, and i really enjoyed it

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

"No we're just here to fuck and then fuck off

The direct approach haha

Cant beat it! I think our longest social with a single guy was 2 mins .. Long two minutes

With couples we've always just gone to thiers or a club had a drink and then the fun usually starts (if its going to start) pretty quickly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No we're just here to fuck and then fuck off

The direct approach haha

Cant beat it! I think our longest social with a single guy was 2 mins .. Long two minutes

With couples we've always just gone to thiers or a club had a drink and then the fun usually starts (if its going to start) pretty quickly

I one had a social with a lady and you know when you have that moment when you think…what the hell have I got myself into here!!

I was too polite and had dinner and bolted!

I was hungry lol…but jeez! That was a tedious hour!

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

hurry up and eat luv then i can smash ya back doors in

footies on in a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I would trust S' cooking!!!

Jay

Haha

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes, I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m weird and don’t like eating out of other peoples houses so I couldn’t.

Going out for food before or after I wouldn’t mind.

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By *essicagraceWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

I've cooked for quite a few people from fab! Either as socials, mate dates, or proper dates. Would love to be cooked for

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By *bitjesusMan
over a year ago

darwen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but I did cook for someone in here.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Not on a first meet, but yes, I've cooked for people from here and had someone else cook for me.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not on this site but I did have a swingers dinner party at my house

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Oh and a guy I used to see I used to go and stay with once a month and he used to cook for me. Always something Jamaican

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Come to think of it I've cooked for quite a few people. Usually chilli. The ones I've cooked of here are no longer on this site. Wonder if that's a coincidence

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Another swinging friend(non sexual) when I used to go and stay with him he would take me to his mums and she would do me a roast dinner and make a trifle for me

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Someone who uses the forums has cooked for me. Very nice it was too, he was a good shag and a great cook

I don’t do cooking unless you like an omelette or scrambled egg on toast.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I love cooking so would quite happily cook for someone if they wanted.

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

Yes. I met a bi couple and the wife made me a beautiful meal.

Great night all around.

Fab couple

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London

I’m a good cook, but I read you heading as “being cooked by someone” haha

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

"I’m weird and don’t like eating out of other peoples houses so I couldn’t.

Going out for food before or after I wouldn’t mind. "

Intrigued why it might be different from a restaurant... I've seen some very dubious restaurant kitchens and chefs .

I'd trust someone I was going to be intimate with every bit as much as them!

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I've been the cook in my family for years. I don't cook elaborate food, but I like it!

I reckon my boef bourguignon and creamed mash could get a marriage proposal out of maybe a third of the guys on the site.

Especially if I threw in a Shiraz and a night of passion to follow. Watch out girls...

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"I’m a good cook, but I read you heading as “being cooked by someone” haha"

So did I!!

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Yes I had some of the best ever meals cooked for me by fab and a homemade desert that literally was better than anything I’ve ever eaten ….but not on the first date. Im a foodie so attract foodies I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yed, I've cooked for and been cooked for by friends on here.

Pxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shag before the food, builds up an appetite. Can't shag after eating with full bellies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here many years ago! We watched boxing and had a take away (perfect night to me), it must have worked because we’re now married with children

Mrs

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

I get so nervous cooking for other people! Even if its just for my mum, lol. Im normaly too nervous on a 1st meet to be able to eat anyway. And I prefer to eat after sex rather than before, cant be so enthusiastic with a full tummy. X

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

If it was someone i was going to marry yes definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I’ve had a few very nice meals cooked for me, nothing less than special, I’ve also cooked for others.

One particular person I cooked for though, did not get invited back, for a few reasons (this wasn’t the first time I’d met him) but also because when I cooked for him, a dish involving pesto, he exclaimed loudly as he sat down that he loved pesto and asked to look at the jar. I retrieved it, bemused, only to watch him….spoon the rest of the contents of the jar….over the beautifully presented meal…without even taking a bite….

Willy Dribble

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

"Yes. I’ve had a few very nice meals cooked for me, nothing less than special, I’ve also cooked for others.

Willy Dribble

He was checking for poison.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Both ... I've been cooked for and have cooked ...can be a great icebreaker, and dessert can be debated

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I've cooked for quite a few people from fab! Either as socials, mate dates, or proper dates. Would love to be cooked for

Oi! I’ve cooked for you!

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I don’t meet people unless they are prepared to cook me a 7-course tasting menu with wines to match each dish. Kind of explains my success rate…

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"Yes. I’ve had a few very nice meals cooked for me, nothing less than special, I’ve also cooked for others.

Willy Dribble

Don’t be too pesto-mystic about it….

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

No I wouldn't. I've had it offered a few times but I wouldn't accept

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've cooked for a couple that my husband and I meet with. They rented an apartment near to us so I cooked.

It isn't something I would do very often though.

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By *e renard de la campagneMan
over a year ago

Surrey mostly when over

My kind of lady in so many ways xx

"No I like restaurants and hotels

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well it’s interesting reading your comments.

She was an excellent cook and it was really rather a pleasant experience, its effort so one appreciates that.

Makes a pleasant change from restaurant dining all the time.

I think I shall return the gesture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't see anything wrong with cooking a meal for someone. Not on a first meet granted and to be honest I've only ever done it for one woman off here but I was well rewarded.

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