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How come many women are not into South asian guys?

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By *haz23 OP   Couple
over a year ago

dagenham

We have come across so many profiles that say sorry not interested in asian or South asian men?

Don't want to sound rude but facts are facts but not all of there veris are great looking etc but they hold high standards for South asian men?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

People like what people like... there is no reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can choose to meet who they want to meet

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By *haz23 OP   Couple
over a year ago

dagenham

Missing out the point. No one said they can't see who they want.

But to rule out a whole ethnicity lol really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have come across so many profiles that say sorry not interested in asian or South asian men?

Don't want to sound rude but facts are facts but not all of there veris are great looking etc but they hold high standards for South asian men?"

So you think south asian men are ugly?

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

It’s just a personal preference. We all have our preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s no different to a profile saying the wants to meet Asian men only

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

East London

I'm south asian and have had no problems

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"?Ideally other South Asians only

?If you are other than South Asian we may consider of you have a decent size cut cock. But she will have to approve."

Ermm you may want to readjust your own profile before pulling that card…

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By *haz23 OP   Couple
over a year ago

dagenham

I did and it clearly doesn't exclusively disregard any ethnicity. Still open to others...

Better than stating sorry not into asian men lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the point in questions like this?

Do you like marmite? Why?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

OP, I would look at someone's profile, and make my decision. If the profile is not appealing, it won't happen, no matter what colour you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, I would look at someone's profile, and make my decision. If the profile is not appealing, it won't happen, no matter what colour you are."

This for me too,you've worded it better than I would.

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"I did and it clearly doesn't exclusively disregard any ethnicity. Still open to others...

Better than stating sorry not into asian men lol..."

It’s no different.

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

I don't understand the issue when you have your own preferences listed on your page. Surely you like what you like and others do the same.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"I don't understand the issue when you have your own preferences listed on your page. Surely you like what you like and others do the same. "

This

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

Given that your own profile pretty much rules out evveryone other than se Asians unless they fit your specific criteria, I find this a very odd thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did and it clearly doesn't exclusively disregard any ethnicity. Still open to others...

Better than stating sorry not into asian men lol..."

It’s really not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Given that your own profile pretty much rules out evveryone other than se Asians unless they fit your specific criteria, I find this a very odd thread "

This

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

It’s the east and west Asian where it’s all happening, south Asian is so last year. I think north Asian will be the next big thing so look out for that.

Catch you on the flip side you crazy cats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd just accept it as part of Fab life. There's no point trying to wrack your brain as to why people have those "preferences" as it doesn't benefit you or your Fab journey.

FWIW, I think there is an existing stigma and narrative around South Asians and their behaviour when it comes to sex as a subject that could put people off which is why SOME people might put that on their profile. The best we can do is just find those that look past it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have come across so many profiles that say sorry not interested in asian or South asian men?

Don't want to sound rude but facts are facts but not all of there veris are great looking etc but they hold high standards for South asian men?"

Your are confusing. Your pref is south Asian men and it seems it's only your wife playing while you watch yet you're complaining about getting no interest from women then claiming it's because you're south asian. Maybe a re write making it clear what you really want. Also wouldn't hurt if people could see what's on offer too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op, you need to get the chip of your shoulder. Or put one on the other.

Your own profile, suggests your the pot calling the kettle. If someone doesn't want to meet you for whatever reason, they don't want to meet you. Get over it and move onto looking for someone who does. Will save you a lot of energy and lifes to short.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you should express here, along with your initial post, your viewpoint that you express in your profile. *Facepalm*

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I'm confused here. You are complaining that some people's profile states that they do not wish to meet Asian men. You are not happy about that.

BUT.... your own profile states a preference about who you will be willing to meet. Only South Asians unless your wife decides otherwise.

Why is it OK for you to have preferences; but not fair when others do the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand the issue when you have your own preferences listed on your page. Surely you like what you like and others do the same. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm confused here. You are complaining that some people's profile states that they do not wish to meet Asian men. You are not happy about that.

BUT.... your own profile states a preference about who you will be willing to meet. Only South Asians unless your wife decides otherwise.

Why is it OK for you to have preferences; but not fair when others do the same?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

What about uncircumcised people or those not hung?

Is not wanting to meet them not classing all turtlenecked tiny weinered guys as being the same?

A

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By *ts the taking part thatMan
over a year ago

southampton


"I don't see the point in questions like this?

Do you like marmite? Why?

"

100% but it gives bleeding hearts a chance to feel aloof.

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"I don't see the point in questions like this?

Do you like marmite? Why?

100% but it gives bleeding hearts a chance to feel aloof."

The oppressed Olympics

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By *azz coolMan
over a year ago

nelson


"People like what people like... there is no reason"

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

It is a preference.

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London


"It’s no different to a profile saying the wants to meet Asian men only "

Ooh! Where ARE these profiles? Point me in their direction please! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Given that your own profile pretty much rules out evveryone other than se Asians unless they fit your specific criteria, I find this a very odd thread "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s no different to a profile saying the wants to meet Asian men only

Ooh! Where ARE these profiles? Point me in their direction please! Lol"

I believe it's in reference to the OP's preference expressed openly in profile.

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst


"Missing out the point. No one said they can't see who they want.

But to rule out a whole ethnicity lol really. "

Perhaps you should ask first to your lady why she is ruling out ALL ethnicities in your couples profile except South Asians, that would give you an answer to your own question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Missing out the point. No one said they can't see who they want.

But to rule out a whole ethnicity lol really.

Perhaps you should ask first to your lady why she is ruling out ALL ethnicities in your couples profile except South Asians, that would give you an answer to your own question. "

Or ask why this thread was resurrected despite the last reply being a week ago and the OP 10 weeks ago. Any particular reason?

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By *ragon007Man
over a year ago

london


"I'd just accept it as part of Fab life. There's no point trying to wrack your brain as to why people have those "preferences" as it doesn't benefit you or your Fab journey.

FWIW, I think there is an existing stigma and narrative around South Asians and their behaviour when it comes to sex as a subject that could put people off which is why SOME people might put that on their profile. The best we can do is just find those that look past it "

This

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