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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why can't some men get the message.

I've been contacted several times by a men and i've told him that i'm not in the least bit interested in him,. So i've had to block him as he just keeps messaging me.

Why can't they get it into there thick heads, that when you say no you actually mean NO.

It's like banging your head against a brick wall sometimes. xxx

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I know. And it's a shame coz that's why a lot of people don't respond to messages now. Sounds like blocking him was the only way to go x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because some men are thick. If i send a message and dont get a reply .... even a polite no thank you i just take it as not interested . Although i have been surprised a few times by a reply a few days later.

we all have types and diff things we go for ... be nice if everyone i messaged fancied me but then again i dont fancy everyone who has messaged me.

Good job the block button is there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can't some men get the message.

I've been contacted several times by a men and i've told him that i'm not in the least bit interested in him,. So i've had to block him as he just keeps messaging me.

Why can't they get it into there thick heads, that when you say no you actually mean NO.

It's like banging your head against a brick wall sometimes. xxx"

Don't see the problem if you had blocked in the first place. Its almost as though you relish being mailed again so you can complain. If you think someone is a prat block its simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have to keep blocking someone, he comes back with a similar name and block again..... Annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

who has the biggest block list then ? mine is over two hundred now.. some cpls too..is being polite and respectful a thing of the past ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are greater trials in life

If your main worry is men not getting the message, you are truly blessed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trannies love the attention, so rather than block and move on its like "hey look at me, i'm a bloke in a dress"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you block someome its your choice to.

there is no rules how you run your profile and who you talk to etc.

after all its your life who you talk to meet and have fun and thats what you are here for x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trannies love the attention, so rather than block and move on its like "hey look at me, i'm a bloke in a dress"

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That's my take on it too. Trying be more 'woman' than real women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trannies love the attention, so rather than block and move on its like "hey look at me, i'm a bloke in a dress"

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So what would you say if the OP had been a single woman then? Or a M/F couple?

Why does being a TV/TS/CD have any bearing on the attention seeking aspect above any other group on here? (IF the intention was indeed attention seeking)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trannies love the attention, so rather than block and move on its like "hey look at me, i'm a bloke in a dress"

That's my take on it too. Trying be more 'woman' than real women."

What a lovely generalization. Many thanks for your wonderful insights into all our personalities. Perhaps you should start up a support group seeing as you clearly know so much about us and our ways. Obviously you have met and conversed with so many of us to be able to glean these important insights.

Please feel free to enlighten me as to any other issues you feel I might have?

This post is in no way bitchy, I'm just interested in learning more about the real "me" from the experts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i treat everyone the same

and sometimes this site doesnt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trannies love the attention, so rather than block and move on its like "hey look at me, i'm a bloke in a dress"

That's my take on it too. Trying be more 'woman' than real women.

What a lovely generalization. Many thanks for your wonderful insights into all our personalities. Perhaps you should start up a support group seeing as you clearly know so much about us and our ways. Obviously you have met and conversed with so many of us to be able to glean these important insights.

Please feel free to enlighten me as to any other issues you feel I might have?

This post is in no way bitchy, I'm just interested in learning more about the real "me" from the experts.

"

You have a paragraph on your profile that generalises that 'if a guy wants to meet you he isn't straight'.

You want to portray yourself as a woman but if a straight guy wants to meet you then he's not straight. Seems to me you have a gender identity crisis going on.

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Okay. Thanks for blocking him. I hope you told him that you will come in the forum to rant about all the "MEN" before blocking him

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

oh well, onwards and upwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trannies love the attention, so rather than block and move on its like "hey look at me, i'm a bloke in a dress"

That's my take on it too. Trying be more 'woman' than real women.

What a lovely generalization. Many thanks for your wonderful insights into all our personalities. Perhaps you should start up a support group seeing as you clearly know so much about us and our ways. Obviously you have met and conversed with so many of us to be able to glean these important insights.

Please feel free to enlighten me as to any other issues you feel I might have?

This post is in no way bitchy, I'm just interested in learning more about the real "me" from the experts.

You have a paragraph on your profile that generalises that 'if a guy wants to meet you he isn't straight'.

You want to portray yourself as a woman but if a straight guy wants to meet you then he's not straight. Seems to me you have a gender identity crisis going on."

Ok, if you want to choose choice quotes from my profile to try and catch me out, how about "I have no illusions that I pass as a woman". That one's right there too. Don't see you quoting that little phrase cos it might make your last post seem a little daft.

If you've issues with tv's, perhaps the forums aren't the best place to air them. But if you want to pm me to talk them through I'd be happy to argue the toss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop being so hot then you won't get messaged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trannies love the attention, so rather than block and move on its like "hey look at me, i'm a bloke in a dress"

That's my take on it too. Trying be more 'woman' than real women.

What a lovely generalization. Many thanks for your wonderful insights into all our personalities. Perhaps you should start up a support group seeing as you clearly know so much about us and our ways. Obviously you have met and conversed with so many of us to be able to glean these important insights.

Please feel free to enlighten me as to any other issues you feel I might have?

This post is in no way bitchy, I'm just interested in learning more about the real "me" from the experts.

You have a paragraph on your profile that generalises that 'if a guy wants to meet you he isn't straight'.

You want to portray yourself as a woman but if a straight guy wants to meet you then he's not straight. Seems to me you have a gender identity crisis going on.

Ok, if you want to choose choice quotes from my profile to try and catch me out, how about "I have no illusions that I pass as a woman". That one's right there too. Don't see you quoting that little phrase cos it might make your last post seem a little daft.

If you've issues with tv's, perhaps the forums aren't the best place to air them. But if you want to pm me to talk them through I'd be happy to argue the toss. "

I don't have any 'issues' with anyone. You want to be seen as a woman or you wouldn't dress as one. Whether you can actually pass as a woman is a different matter entirely. Personally, I think some TV's look better than a lot of their six o'clock shadow counterparts and for straight guys obviously see it too.

For you information, I am bisexual, but I choose not to put it on my profile which is freely _iewable to unregistered visitors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

* some straight guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I don't have any 'issues' with anyone. You want to be seen as a woman or you wouldn't dress as one. Whether you can actually pass as a woman is a different matter entirely. Personally, I think some TV's look better than a lot of their six o'clock shadow counterparts and for straight guys obviously see it too.

For you information, I am bisexual, but I choose not to put it on my profile which is freely _iewable to unregistered visitors."

Again, many thanks for your insight as to why I do what I do. Obviously you have a better handle on my life than I do, again probably due to the many many TV's you've spoken to and met. If you could point me in the direction of the cornflake box where you got your psychology degree I'd be most grateful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had the same with those over the hours distance that I have; one particular gentleman has caused me think about it and have strange confusing feelings so took it off but put it back this morning. I did ignore his further messages like I would normally but he kept on. Had he not carried on, I wouldn't be struggling like I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Block button is my friend, just hope there is no upper limit on the number of profiles I can block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can't some men get the message.

I've been contacted several times by a men and i've told him that i'm not in the least bit interested in him,. So i've had to block him as he just keeps messaging me.

Why can't they get it into there thick heads, that when you say no you actually mean NO.

It's like banging your head against a brick wall sometimes. xxx"

Hence the reason a lot of people don't reply to messages or get into a dialogue with the sender.

Block button is your friend when you feel you need to draw a line under it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manstruation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be hard some times though as you never really know if your mail has been read or just been a bulk delete. I do always try a few times and if i get no responce at all then i leave it.

Its all about having some respect for peoples wishes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can't some men get the message.

I've been contacted several times by a men and i've told him that i'm not in the least bit interested in him,. So i've had to block him as he just keeps messaging me.

Why can't they get it into there thick heads, that when you say no you actually mean NO.

It's like banging your head against a brick wall sometimes. xxx

Don't see the problem if you had blocked in the first place. Its almost as though you relish being mailed again so you can complain. If you think someone is a prat block its simple. "

Why should anyone have to block a profile after telling Someone no.?!

They should be big enough to accept it and pester them in the. Hope they might change their mind. They wouldn't act that way in vanilla life as they would be cautioned fo harassment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I don't have any 'issues' with anyone. You want to be seen as a woman or you wouldn't dress as one. Whether you can actually pass as a woman is a different matter entirely. Personally, I think some TV's look better than a lot of their six o'clock shadow counterparts and for straight guys obviously see it too.

For you information, I am bisexual, but I choose not to put it on my profile which is freely _iewable to unregistered visitors.

Again, many thanks for your insight as to why I do what I do. Obviously you have a better handle on my life than I do, again probably due to the many many TV's you've spoken to and met. If you could point me in the direction of the cornflake box where you got your psychology degree I'd be most grateful. "

Tesco's. Thanks for asking. I think they've got a few left if you hurry, but mind out running in those heels, you might hurt yourself sweetie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find I get a wave of the same message from men, Ive already politely declined.

Some (I stress not all) sit down every few weeks and cnp everyone local.

As a site supporter I can see the previous message history. So after a few waves I will block without reading/repling & just delete; knowing I've broken the cycle can be refreshing.

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