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How long is to long ?

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By *ubmissiveman2u OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

Before meeting face to face with someone ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure there is a set rule .

Depends on the person, circumstances, logistics etc.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Can it ever be too long if you like someone?

Obviously if it’s just the horn talking then more than a week is pushing it!

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

if someone wants to meet they will want to get on and arrange it.

once the conversation has been going nicely ask about meeting. if the message is read and not replied too, move on.

youve done all you can. delete the conversation forget and move on.

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By *amesBeelzebubMan
over a year ago

norwich

Anything above 12 inches?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If nothing ever comes of it, anytime is too long. If it is envitable, just a case of when not if, then I'm happy to wait for the right people.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

5 years has been my longest. We chatted thinking we would never meet then circumstances changed.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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There's not a set amount of time. I've been speaking to someone for four years. We've not met yet, we will one day. In the mean time I'm enjoying our varied conversations, the truths and care we have for each other albeit virtually.

I'm meeting someone later this week who I've been speaking to for just under two weeks. Admittedly a lot faster than I normally would but there's been a flurry of messages and phonecalls.

You do what's right for you and what makes you happy. Length be damned.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't think there's a set time, if it's someone I speak with a lot then I'd rather meet quicker, if it's someone I chat with once every couple of weeks then whenever.

Sometimes day to day chat can get a little tedious and the excitement goes without meeting, for me anyways.

Mrs

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

My longest has been 2 years of chatting before we met up, sometime life gets In the way

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

4 years way too long give up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m currently doing research I’ll be back with my results.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our longest was just over 2 years.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

The longest for me was about 2.5 years.

Lockdown got in the way

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