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By *anted by Night OP   Man
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Behind every successful woman is a fabulous handbag. How many are in your closet ladies?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Behind every successful woman is a fabulous handbag. How many are in your closet ladies?"

Probably a dozen.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Indeed, behind every {redacted} woman is a {redacted} handbag.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Fucking hell. Don’t get her started on handbags, we’ll be here all day .

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

23

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not really into bags. Does this mean I'm not successful???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None. They aren't practical for work.

But 1 backpack and a document wallet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not really into bags. Does this mean I'm not successful???"

Buy one, quick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have one.

Then I have a cross body bag.

3 clutch/going out bags.

I usually just stuff my pockets with things

F

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

I have a few, mainly vintage. But most of the time I rock a tote from my favourite record store. I have a handbag picture on our profile which was taken as part of a conversation on here - this place is amazing. It has a surprisingly high number of fabs, and if you want people to tell you have terrible taste in handbags, I highly recommend doing the same.

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few but I'm not really into bags the way some are

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

A few plus one special one.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Only a couple really and they are years old. Can't remember the last time I bought one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be very successful

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

One for every day of the week.

Monday Tesco

Tuesday Sainsburys

Wednesday Lidl

Thursday Aldi

Friday Morrisons

Saturday Co op

Sunday Waitrose

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By *ubergenieWoman
over a year ago

Neath


"Behind every successful woman is a fabulous handbag. How many are in your closet ladies?"

What kind of nonsense is this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not really into bags. Does this mean I'm not successful???"

Ball bags count..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Successful woman here, only two handbags! I use a backpack/laptop bag to carry my laptop and paperwork. Behind me is my husband who pushed me to follow my dreams (whilst buying me a handbag or two)

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lidls carrier bag?

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Define successful?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Indeed, behind every {redacted} woman is a {redacted} handbag."

This has reminded me that I need to do another handbag photo challenge™. It's been a year.

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

I prefer mini backpacks. Handbags are incredibly annoying and painful.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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4 but 2 I want to sell

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Define successful?

"

She has bags...... obvs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Behind every successful woman is a fabulous handbag. How many are in your closet ladies?

What kind of nonsense is this"

Welcome to the world of fab

It’s all nonsense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Indeed, behind every {redacted} woman is a {redacted} handbag.

This has reminded me that I need to do another handbag photo challenge™. It's been a year."

Set it up good sir, I'll make sure F takes part

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"None. They aren't practical for work.

But 1 backpack and a document wallet"

Jesus, I’ve spent too much time on Fab today. I read this as bareback

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

3. One normal one, one big enough to take a laptop and one I bought to use at a wedding.

I'll buy more when one of them wears out.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Behind every successful woman is a fabulous handbag. How many are in your closet ladies?"

Errrrrr. Don't do handbags. See profile for the giant wheelchair backpack I scoot around with.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

One very expensive leather handbag, two clutches for evening and two small ones for when I just need phone, tissues,debit card.

I'm not terribly successful though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm curious why women are supposedly all about the bags, shoes and makeup. Seems a tad regressive. Just an opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seriously need to up my game.

A pathetic 2 here.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm curious why women are supposedly all about the bags, shoes and makeup. Seems a tad regressive. Just an opinion. "

Because we're simple women talking about women stuff. Let's not fill our head too much with other stuff.

I'm quite successful. I have six bags - a YSL that was a present to myself after a recent thing. A Coach that was a Christmas present. A Mulberry and Chanel that were graduation gifts. A leather satchel I've owned for fourteen years, purchased in Italy with a lover. It's a tad worn. Colour has changed on it. And a cute leather backpack that I bought for gigs and stomping around in the leaves.

I don't think they're an indicator of my success though. My favourite is the satchel because of the memories it brings to surface - that's my sign of success. Happy memories with dear ones that remind me how good it is to be alive.

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By *ust a little bit moreWoman
over a year ago

kendal

Before I answer that, I'm gonna need to know if you're doing this research on behalf of my partner or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm curious why women are supposedly all about the bags, shoes and makeup. Seems a tad regressive. Just an opinion.

Because we're simple women talking about women stuff. Let's not fill our head too much with other stuff.

I'm quite successful. I have six bags - a YSL that was a present to myself after a recent thing. A Coach that was a Christmas present. A Mulberry and Chanel that were graduation gifts. A leather satchel I've owned for fourteen years, purchased in Italy with a lover. It's a tad worn. Colour has changed on it. And a cute leather backpack that I bought for gigs and stomping around in the leaves.

I don't think they're an indicator of my success though. My favourite is the satchel because of the memories it brings to surface - that's my sign of success. Happy memories with dear ones that remind me how good it is to be alive. "

I wasn't criticising women who like bags, shoes and makeup in the least. I was simply questioning why there is a judgement of women as being successful (feminine?) if they like those things. I green arrowed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a functional satchel type for work documents. Other than that, I've no use for fussy handbags.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm curious why women are supposedly all about the bags, shoes and makeup. Seems a tad regressive. Just an opinion. "

Stereotyping or conversation starter.

I think most of us know that lots of women aren't all about shoes, handbags, giggling in the cloakroom which they're unable to enter in groups of less than three to chat about men.

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By *anted by Night OP   Man
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I'm curious why women are supposedly all about the bags, shoes and makeup. Seems a tad regressive. Just an opinion.

Because we're simple women talking about women stuff. Let's not fill our head too much with other stuff.

I'm quite successful. I have six bags - a YSL that was a present to myself after a recent thing. A Coach that was a Christmas present. A Mulberry and Chanel that were graduation gifts. A leather satchel I've owned for fourteen years, purchased in Italy with a lover. It's a tad worn. Colour has changed on it. And a cute leather backpack that I bought for gigs and stomping around in the leaves.

I don't think they're an indicator of my success though. My favourite is the satchel because of the memories it brings to surface - that's my sign of success. Happy memories with dear ones that remind me how good it is to be alive.

I wasn't criticising women who like bags, shoes and makeup in the least. I was simply questioning why there is a judgement of women as being successful (feminine?) if they like those things. I green arrowed. "

These posts are only for fun sweetie. Not judging anyone by their material possessions.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm curious why women are supposedly all about the bags, shoes and makeup. Seems a tad regressive. Just an opinion.

Because we're simple women talking about women stuff. Let's not fill our head too much with other stuff.

I'm quite successful. I have six bags - a YSL that was a present to myself after a recent thing. A Coach that was a Christmas present. A Mulberry and Chanel that were graduation gifts. A leather satchel I've owned for fourteen years, purchased in Italy with a lover. It's a tad worn. Colour has changed on it. And a cute leather backpack that I bought for gigs and stomping around in the leaves.

I don't think they're an indicator of my success though. My favourite is the satchel because of the memories it brings to surface - that's my sign of success. Happy memories with dear ones that remind me how good it is to be alive.

I wasn't criticising women who like bags, shoes and makeup in the least. I was simply questioning why there is a judgement of women as being successful (feminine?) if they like those things. I green arrowed. "

Oh I know! My first sentence was very much sarcastic.

There's nothing wrong with embracing that side of thing. Far from it.

It really isn't a marker of success though. I green arrowed as well. Why is feminine success still seen as being so linked to outdated tropes? You can enjoy those things with being successful. Without. You can find them eyewateringly boring without it affecting how successful you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm curious why women are supposedly all about the bags, shoes and makeup. Seems a tad regressive. Just an opinion.

Because we're simple women talking about women stuff. Let's not fill our head too much with other stuff.

I'm quite successful. I have six bags - a YSL that was a present to myself after a recent thing. A Coach that was a Christmas present. A Mulberry and Chanel that were graduation gifts. A leather satchel I've owned for fourteen years, purchased in Italy with a lover. It's a tad worn. Colour has changed on it. And a cute leather backpack that I bought for gigs and stomping around in the leaves.

I don't think they're an indicator of my success though. My favourite is the satchel because of the memories it brings to surface - that's my sign of success. Happy memories with dear ones that remind me how good it is to be alive.

I wasn't criticising women who like bags, shoes and makeup in the least. I was simply questioning why there is a judgement of women as being successful (feminine?) if they like those things. I green arrowed.

These posts are only for fun sweetie. Not judging anyone by their material possessions. "

Don't call me sweetie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm curious why women are supposedly all about the bags, shoes and makeup. Seems a tad regressive. Just an opinion.

Because we're simple women talking about women stuff. Let's not fill our head too much with other stuff.

I'm quite successful. I have six bags - a YSL that was a present to myself after a recent thing. A Coach that was a Christmas present. A Mulberry and Chanel that were graduation gifts. A leather satchel I've owned for fourteen years, purchased in Italy with a lover. It's a tad worn. Colour has changed on it. And a cute leather backpack that I bought for gigs and stomping around in the leaves.

I don't think they're an indicator of my success though. My favourite is the satchel because of the memories it brings to surface - that's my sign of success. Happy memories with dear ones that remind me how good it is to be alive.

I wasn't criticising women who like bags, shoes and makeup in the least. I was simply questioning why there is a judgement of women as being successful (feminine?) if they like those things. I green arrowed.

Oh I know! My first sentence was very much sarcastic.

There's nothing wrong with embracing that side of thing. Far from it.

It really isn't a marker of success though. I green arrowed as well. Why is feminine success still seen as being so linked to outdated tropes? You can enjoy those things with being successful. Without. You can find them eyewateringly boring without it affecting how successful you are. "

My inner feminist piped up and I need to shush her, Meli Outdated tropes always wake her up!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Please keep this thread relatively classy; no mention of Michael Kors handbags.

I'm fine with Longchamp, Mulberry, Anya Hindmarch, Loewe, etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please keep this thread relatively classy; no mention of Michael Kors handbags.

I'm fine with Longchamp, Mulberry, Anya Hindmarch, Loewe, etc... "

Ok Lord Snobbington

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

Christ, if a handbag makes a woman successful. I'm fucked

Zero here

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Far too many that I can admit to

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Please keep this thread relatively classy; no mention of Michael Kors handbags.

I'm fine with Longchamp, Mulberry, Anya Hindmarch, Loewe, etc...

Ok Lord Snobbington "

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Not that many as I tend to move one out when I purchase a new one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please keep this thread relatively classy; no mention of Michael Kors handbags.

I'm fine with Longchamp, Mulberry, Anya Hindmarch, Loewe, etc...

Ok Lord Snobbington

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew this was were I had gone wrong in life. I just get whichever one doesnt irritate me the most from tk maxx.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

I bet the woman who runs bet365 has loads stuffed with cash

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I have a lot of handbags some quite expensive and some from charity shops. But I use the same one all the time.

My most expensive one I've never used

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I'm curious why women are supposedly all about the bags, shoes and makeup. Seems a tad regressive. Just an opinion. "

Yup

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Erm...... at a rough guess 70 plus bags are neatly lined up in my wardrobe.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Old bag ^

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

^^^Ball sack

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"Indeed, behind every {redacted} woman is a {redacted} handbag.

This has reminded me that I need to do another handbag photo challenge™. It's been a year."

You should. I will use my Nanna's vintage handbag that she passed to me. It's art deco style by the brand Alligator and my research suggests it dates back to the 1940s

J

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Indeed, behind every {redacted} woman is a {redacted} handbag.

This has reminded me that I need to do another handbag photo challenge™. It's been a year.

You should. I will use my Nanna's vintage handbag that she passed to me. It's art deco style by the brand Alligator and my research suggests it dates back to the 1940s

J "

I used to work in a fine art auction house, therefore leave it to (us) experts to determine the handbag's age and provenance.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"^^^Ball sack "

Love you, KC². XX²

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By *anted by Night OP   Man
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Please keep this thread relatively classy; no mention of Michael Kors handbags.

"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please keep this thread relatively classy; no mention of Michael Kors handbags.

I'm fine with Longchamp, Mulberry, Anya Hindmarch, Loewe, etc... "

I’ve got a Michael kors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm curious why women are supposedly all about the bags, shoes and makeup. Seems a tad regressive. Just an opinion. "

Because they’re pretty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a handbag, usually go for Radley

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I love a handbag, usually go for Radley "

My partner has a few Radley ones. She won't share them though.

XX

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I probably have about 30ish now... None actually look like handbags though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one or two handbags...

Realistically I only really use three of them though haha

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a handbag, usually go for Radley

My partner has a few Radley ones. She won't share them though.

XX"

Good excuse to treat yourself xx

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"I'm curious why women are supposedly all about the bags, shoes and makeup. Seems a tad regressive. Just an opinion.

Because they’re pretty "

And we can get them in our size!

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Quite a few of various sizes

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By *areBares7778Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

I love nice handbags my go too are Harris T working on my collection hubby gets me for gifts currently at 6, different colours and similes almost have one to go with everything

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I got my last bag from Oxfam. £6.99 a not so old M and S one ...... fabulous.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I won't pay more than £65 for a handbag in a sale.

I ruin them on buses and filling them full of crap.

I'd buy cheaper ones if they could stand up to the battering they get.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I'm a woman of substance, not a materialistic one who favours labels over design.

Shoes and handbags are overrated.

Also, there's nothing wrong with a Michael Kors bag, if it serves its purpose.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I won't pay more than £65 for a handbag in a sale.

I ruin them on buses and filling them full of crap.

I'd buy cheaper ones if they could stand up to the battering they get."

I would only pay half of that and only if I really needed the bag.....

I'm good enough without the trappings that feed capitalists thanks.

I can afford expensive things but I like doing other things with my cash rather than just consuming for consumings sake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here come the grannies

(A bluey reference, am not being cheeky!)

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Here come the grannies

(A bluey reference, am not being cheeky!)"

What's a bluey ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here come the grannies

(A bluey reference, am not being cheeky!)

What's a bluey ?"

Toddlers tv programme. A little blue cartoon dog. One episode featured lots of grannies and bluey saying ‘here come the grannies!’ Which in itself wasn’t really that funny. But a few months ago I’d gone roller skating with my nephews and the youngest one (5) saw two old ladies coming towards us and yelled ‘HERE COME THE GRANNIES!) soooooo loudly

Thank you for coming to my tedtalk

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Here come the grannies

(A bluey reference, am not being cheeky!)

What's a bluey ?

Toddlers tv programme. A little blue cartoon dog. One episode featured lots of grannies and bluey saying ‘here come the grannies!’ Which in itself wasn’t really that funny. But a few months ago I’d gone roller skating with my nephews and the youngest one (5) saw two old ladies coming towards us and yelled ‘HERE COME THE GRANNIES!) soooooo loudly

Thank you for coming to my tedtalk "

Oh right ....... thanks.

Cowabunga !

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Here come the grannies

(A bluey reference, am not being cheeky!)

What's a bluey ?

Toddlers tv programme. A little blue cartoon dog. One episode featured lots of grannies and bluey saying ‘here come the grannies!’ Which in itself wasn’t really that funny. But a few months ago I’d gone roller skating with my nephews and the youngest one (5) saw two old ladies coming towards us and yelled ‘HERE COME THE GRANNIES!) soooooo loudly

Thank you for coming to my tedtalk "

We love Bluey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here come the grannies

(A bluey reference, am not being cheeky!)

What's a bluey ?

Toddlers tv programme. A little blue cartoon dog. One episode featured lots of grannies and bluey saying ‘here come the grannies!’ Which in itself wasn’t really that funny. But a few months ago I’d gone roller skating with my nephews and the youngest one (5) saw two old ladies coming towards us and yelled ‘HERE COME THE GRANNIES!) soooooo loudly

Thank you for coming to my tedtalk

Oh right ....... thanks.

Cowabunga !"

No that’s ninja turtles ??

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over a year ago

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I know....

I can do that or Popeye ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm successful as I don't waste my time on handbag shopping. So it's all about the quality of the few bags I own not how many I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Far too many to count!

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By *anted by Night OP   Man
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I'm a woman of substance, not a materialistic one who favours labels over design.

"

This

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