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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do people trust Public Verifications more than Admin Verifications??

All it takes is someone to make a fake account, have there old Verified account verify the fake one and boom you’re “trustworthy”

At least with the admin it’s a 3rd party, although I think they just kinda let most slide

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Because I've seen plenty of fake accounts that are photo veried as well. I place more faith in my own judgement than I do veris.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

That's why I covered my back by making 1000 fake accounts that have all been verified by a dozen or so of each other and I keep up forum posts for most of them. Then I hold fake socials and events that we all pretend to attend. It's tough work but the only way to convince you all I'm real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people trust Public Verifications more than Admin Verifications??

All it takes is someone to make a fake account, have there old Verified account verify the fake one and boom you’re “trustworthy”

At least with the admin it’s a 3rd party, although I think they just kinda let most slide "

The photo verification only proves the person is the sex they claim to be..

Public verifications prove the person has met others.

It's not as easy as you think for a person to verify a new profile they have made from an old one ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust nothing on the site as it can all be faked.

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By *oody BondMan
over a year ago

Sligo


"How do people trust Public Verifications more than Admin Verifications??

All it takes is someone to make a fake account, have there old Verified account verify the fake one and boom you’re “trustworthy”

At least with the admin it’s a 3rd party, although I think they just kinda let most slide "

I always check the person who wrote the verification and see what kind of verifications they have and take it from there. You can determine if they are trustworthy this way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can fake a admin. Send in a correct pic, get the veri, then upload fake pics.

Tbh I'm slightly cynical of someone with one veri, if it's from someone with only one veri.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

All the women are ChatGPT bots anyway mate, I wouldn't waste your time

LvM

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"That's why I covered my back by making 1000 fake accounts that have all been verified by a dozen or so of each other and I keep up forum posts for most of them. Then I hold fake socials and events that we all pretend to attend. It's tough work but the only way to convince you all I'm real. "

Commitment to the cause right there

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I just like playing degrees of separation to see how far they are from the types I'm drawn to

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

When it comes to couples, they could have got photo ID'd then broken up years ago. A recent verification is an indication that they are both still using the account

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

Ive hardly any veris because I hardly ever meet and don’t necessarily verify or ask for one either - but I am genuine - how else would i have such a dreadful attitude !?

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"How do people trust Public Verifications more than Admin Verifications??

All it takes is someone to make a fake account, have there old Verified account verify the fake one and boom you’re “trustworthy”

At least with the admin it’s a 3rd party, although I think they just kinda let most slide "

It’s simple. You follow the veri trail.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Nothing is foolproof.

I know of a couple who had a public breakup and she advertised for a replacement and when she found one she ammended the profile accordingly and carried on as before using all the verifications received with her previous partner.

I've seen profiles posting screenshots of a verification list which were all given a year before the current profile was even created.

It's all about consistency so I don't trust any verifications on their own merit.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"That's why I covered my back by making 1000 fake accounts that have all been verified by a dozen or so of each other and I keep up forum posts for most of them. Then I hold fake socials and events that we all pretend to attend. It's tough work but the only way to convince you all I'm real.

Commitment to the cause right there "

Thank you, thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the verification trail game . Hours of entertainment

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

Fake verifications from others are very easy. People ask if someone will verify them and the answer could well be yes. I recognise a few profiles now who write verifications when asked because they do it repeatedly for a person who keeps creating profiles after they get a ban, then a few days later a new one pops up. All just wank fodder and the verifications are always on a similar theme.

Like anything, Instagram likes or whatever some people put a lot of stock into numbers of meets. Real or not.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Check they're real, after that, don't read them and really dislike the vividly sexual ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Check they're real, after that, don't read them and really dislike the vividly sexual ones "

‘Well what can I say about this one? Has a cock to die for, made me squirt/gush/cum multiple times! Knows what he’s doing in the bedroom, don’t pass him by ladies!’

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Check they're real, after that, don't read them and really dislike the vividly sexual ones

‘Well what can I say about this one? Has a cock to die for, made me squirt/gush/cum multiple times! Knows what he’s doing in the bedroom, don’t pass him by ladies!’ "

Ah, this is supposed to be our secret

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Photo verification is a bare minimum - the profile is the gender/sex they claim to be.

Public verification is "someone met this person and lived to tell the tale".

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

And both can be faked. Not just user written verifications.

Do your own research, as they like to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris = relying on a stranger's opinion of another stranger.

Makes sense to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Photo verification is a bare minimum - the profile is the gender/sex they claim to be.

Public verification is "someone met this person and got covered in custard". "

Well we all know who that was don’t we

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Photo verification is a bare minimum - the profile is the gender/sex they claim to be.

Public verification is "someone met this person and got covered in custard".

Well we all know who that was don’t we "

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Photo verification is a bare minimum - the profile is the gender/sex they claim to be.

Public verification is "someone met this person and got covered in custard".

Well we all know who that was don’t we "

Why is it always me

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Photo verification is a bare minimum - the profile is the gender/sex they claim to be.

Public verification is "someone met this person and got covered in custard".

Well we all know who that was don’t we

"

Knew you'd be involved ffs

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Photo verification is a bare minimum - the profile is the gender/sex they claim to be.

Public verification is "someone met this person and got covered in custard".

Well we all know who that was don’t we

Why is it always me "

Why do you assume it was you? There might be another custard monger in the tens of thousands of members on Fab

Do I sense a guilty conscience?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Photo verification is a bare minimum - the profile is the gender/sex they claim to be.

Public verification is "someone met this person and got covered in custard".

Well we all know who that was don’t we

Why is it always me

Why do you assume it was you? There might be another custard monger in the tens of thousands of members on Fab

Do I sense a guilty conscience? "

This will be bloody written on my gravestone ffs

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Photo verification is a bare minimum - the profile is the gender/sex they claim to be.

Public verification is "someone met this person and lived to tell the tale". "

Custard to one side, the first people I met, I relied *heavily* on meet verifications.

Not like, can they lick for hours treat them with respect blah blah.

But - if more than a few people said they had a good time with person X - they're probably not a serial killer and I'll probably be ok. That sounds melodramatic and I am saying this with tongue in cheek re my previous self.

But - is the person I'm messaging a man? On this kind of site, that's almost a given. It's not remarkable.

Is the person I'm messaging respectful, polite, considerate of boundaries, safe? That's a harder question to answer. (Verifications alone are a tool to answer that question - nothing is a guarantee)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I’ll only meet people that have 1000 verifications or more…

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

If my profile was fake, I’d have made myself better looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I’ll only meet people that have 1000 verifications or more…"

Fuck, that's harder than my code.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I’ll only meet people that have 1000 verifications or more…

Fuck, that's harder than my code. "

Is your code…. 1001? *my 14th guess.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If my profile was fake, I’d have made myself better looking "

Saaaame

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Photo verifications just show your a human who can hold a peice of paper, regardless of whether you look like your pics, turn up to meets etc.

Real verifications can be faked of course but follow the trail and there easy to spot.

Ps I'm fake, I look nothing like my pics and a 3rd arm.

Mrs

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Photo verification is a bare minimum - the profile is the gender/sex they claim to be.

Public verification is "someone met this person and lived to tell the tale".

Custard to one side, the first people I met, I relied *heavily* on meet verifications.

Not like, can they lick for hours treat them with respect blah blah.

But - if more than a few people said they had a good time with person X - they're probably not a serial killer and I'll probably be ok. That sounds melodramatic and I am saying this with tongue in cheek re my previous self.

But - is the person I'm messaging a man? On this kind of site, that's almost a given. It's not remarkable.

Is the person I'm messaging respectful, polite, considerate of boundaries, safe? That's a harder question to answer. (Verifications alone are a tool to answer that question - nothing is a guarantee)"

The serial killer bit is actually important.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"How do people trust Public Verifications more than Admin Verifications??

All it takes is someone to make a fake account, have there old Verified account verify the fake one and boom you’re “trustworthy”

At least with the admin it’s a 3rd party, although I think they just kinda let most slide "

Easy. We put faith in veris from club meets way more than private. We also do the verification trail and having been on here 15 years we're aware of folk we can be 99.9% sure are who they claim to be because people we know have met them, or people that have met people we know have met them, or people we've seen as being active on the site and in clubs for years have met them.

We don't take anything said by anyone as an indication that we'll be compatible with someone, but we can be sure enough that they exist based on who has met them before.

Verification trails are very useful. Any break, or if they appear circular or odd and its a big red flag.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Photo verification is a bare minimum - the profile is the gender/sex they claim to be.

Public verification is "someone met this person and got covered in custard".

Well we all know who that was don’t we

Knew you'd be involved ffs "

Well cover me in custard and spank my arse

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Photo verification is a bare minimum - the profile is the gender/sex they claim to be.

Public verification is "someone met this person and got covered in custard".

Well we all know who that was don’t we

Knew you'd be involved ffs

Well cover me in custard and spank my arse "

Oh, messy play

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Photo verification is a bare minimum - the profile is the gender/sex they claim to be.

Public verification is "someone met this person and got covered in custard".

Well we all know who that was don’t we

Knew you'd be involved ffs

Well cover me in custard and spank my arse "

Well if you insist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Photo verifications just show your a human who can hold a peice of paper, regardless of whether you look like your pics, turn up to meets etc.

Real verifications can be faked of course but follow the trail and there easy to spot.

Ps I'm fake, I look nothing like my pics and a 3rd arm.

Mrs"

I can confirm. However the third arm is a a bonus. Handy, one may say.

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