FabSwingers.com forum: Are you feeling older?

By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

I know that we are all chronologically getting older but do you feel that mentally too?

I don't feel any older mentally than I did in my 20s, when I look in the mirror I see ageing but I don't feel it yet.

Have a great day all.

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny

I imagine myself as mid thirties.

I’m surprised at my limitations sometimes and have to be reminded that I am an old man

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I don't feel old as such, but in many ways I feel more confident in myself and my abilities. I look back on myself as a 20 year old and see how naive and shy I could be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really.

I'm certainly no wiser either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mentally no I don't, though I confused with electronic devices and generally confused at life

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't feel older but I do feel more mature. I was dreadfully immature when I was in my teens and early twenties

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By *erseykevMan
over a year ago

St Helier

Don't feel old at all. Try to keep active

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
over a year ago

Beverley

I do occasionally, like when I see people younger than I doing things I would have done at their age and cringing, but in the day to day I don't.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Yes. I do like this stage of life. I'm aware that I cannot run as fast , jump as high , or drink as often but there are compensations for being mature and I wouldn't swap what I have for a return to youth...

We are born the wrong way around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I do like this stage of life. I'm aware that I cannot run as fast , jump as high , or drink as often but there are compensations for being mature and I wouldn't swap what I have for a return to youth...

We are born the wrong way around

Youth is wasted on the young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I don't feel old as I'm still in good working order mentally and physically. But if I was in a room of 20 somethings I'd be much more aware of my age.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

My knee does today.

I've moved from the hedonistic to the epicurean.

Still feel the will to push the boundaries but I mostly drink tea and go for walks in the woods.

Actually I have always done that I just used to get stoned too.

Oh I don't know... What was the question?

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I feel about 90 odd body and mind

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By *heExcommMan
over a year ago

Llantrisant

I've always felt older than many people my age, but that could be down to the fact that I prefer being in bed by 9pm and cwtched up with a book.

I do feel really old however when I ID someone at the bar and the number starts with 20

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you get up at 04.30am in morning

Yes I feel old

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

We are born the wrong way around

Youth is wasted on the young"

It sure is..... what do they do with it ? computer games and being miserable bless them ...

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny

The big irony is that now I can drink as much as I want, go places at the drop of a hat, eat what I want, stay up all night.

Trouble is, I don’t want to.

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By *arlot_CharlotteWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I collected my first pair of reading glasses today - up until now I’ve only needed glasses for distance (a pretty strong prescription too!) - so today I feel old

It also takes me longer to recover from a big night out - but then it doesn’t help that I still try to dance like I did when I was 18

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

I really want a large cake ......

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I don’t feel older so much, but … I’ve gained experience and confidence with the accumulation of years. I make less mistakes than I used to. I fill my space in the world a bit better - I feel like I’ve earned it.

I don’t mind this ageing thing.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I really want a large cake ......"

Then have one! While there's still time

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

The only way I really feel older is in exercise and making sure I warm up correctly as opposed to when I was younger and my joints/muscles were made of rubber

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel old recently x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My body feels a lot older.

In my head I'm still that sexy 20 something year old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Practically ancient m

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By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

We are born the wrong way around

Youth is wasted on the young

It sure is..... what do they do with it ? computer games and being miserable bless them ... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know that we are all chronologically getting older but do you feel that mentally too?

I don't feel any older mentally than I did in my 20s, when I look in the mirror I see ageing but I don't feel it yet.

Have a great day all.

Can't lie but the recent lockdown made me feel older ..a person couldn't go anywhere..gigs ..movies ..sports..pubs ..all the usual things were closed..am ..like everyone else ... totally glad it's back to normal.

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By *oanne ETV/TS
over a year ago

Near Warrington

When I'm in male mode I do feel and I think look my age. However when I'm Joanne I do feel younger than my years xxxx and literally feel people younger than my years

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Well I am 60 this year snd I feel in as good shape as I was in my 30s and 40s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I think my internal voice is still about 17.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

I feel good

But I do have a lot of past injuries that cause pain now and then.

But everyday above ground is a good day.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

I’ve been suffering with an illness for the past 18 months and it has made me feel physically old. However, my son makes me feel mentally young. It’s a weird mix.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No not at all x

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By *mo512Man
over a year ago

LONDON

I feel old.. especially when I realise that 20 years ago was not the early 90s.

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By *inballs99Man
over a year ago

Blackheath

You know you're old when you make that sound when you stand up aaarrrggg!!

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By *aggonerMan
over a year ago

for a penny

"I feel old recently x"

Anything in particular? Or just coming to terms with it?

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

Not when at play ... x A & G

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"I know that we are all chronologically getting older but do you feel that mentally too?

I don't feel any older mentally than I did in my 20s, when I look in the mirror I see ageing but I don't feel it yet.

Have a great day all.

I had to grow up before I reached 10 due to crap family troubles.

When I turned 20 I began to see my childhood was lacking in fun so I started to reclaim it a lot.

I thought that by the time I reached 40 I would have calmed down again.

Wrong!

If I hadn't had my life changing accident at 43 I would still be feeling 20 again.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

No, mentally I feel just me. Ageless, just me. I look in the mirror and see the Grey's poking through and think fuck!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Yes I kind of do especially in the last year between one thing and another I definitely feel more my age than I ever have before.

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By *ez669Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Mentally not really untill recently. I've always attended big club nights with the top djs but the last 4 I've attended I've not enjoyed it and felt old compaired to the other folk there. Think it's time to maybe learn golf

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I feel i gain gain more experience, I'm not sure what getting older should feel like unless I stereo-type older people.

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By *opman121Man
over a year ago

stoke on trent

They say know fun getting old aches and pains , touch wood I am doing ok feel great and performance is good too happy kev lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mind still thinks I'm about 21

My body has a tendency to remind my mind that this is not the case on numerous occasions, like if I kneel down.

One thing I've found as I've got older is that hard surfaces feel an awful lot more solid than they did when I was younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feeling older? Not really, I have my age preferences, but I’ll also feel younger.

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By *andy199Man
over a year ago

bedford

I’m a recycled teenager

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By *hGlobbitsMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Only when I look in the mirror.

Or bend down to pick something up.

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

My brain is still in my 30's, my body is definitely feeling that my 50's aren't that far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only when I look in the mirror.

Or bend down to pick something up. "

Have you been surprised by the noises you make when standing back up again?

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

I'm learning several languages as well as a relatively new musical instrument (piano coming soon too) and over the last week I've cycled 20-plus miles on windy country roads on four occasions. So no, not feeling older than my years, in fact a decade or two younger. It's only the odd glitch that makes me feel older... oh, and ageism in various places... Maybe I ought to knock a couple of decades off my Fabs age as I'm forever being told I don't look my age.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Nope. I'm always surprised when the houses insurance comes up for renewal. Like come on, who trusted me with a mortgage?

LvM

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I know that we are all chronologically getting older but do you feel that mentally too?

I don't feel any older mentally than I did in my 20s, when I look in the mirror I see ageing but I don't feel it yet.

Have a great day all.

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you don't look it either and in my case i don’t feel any different to when i was in my 20s my body does but my mind doesn't

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

No feel exactly the same mentally as did through 20s perhaps even better with the help of trt which I think is a massive help for men as we age was off it for 8 months or so and fell apart mentally

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I feel physically ancient, but that's my disability shit. Otherwise, no, not really. I've been a grown up since I was very young though, maybe that's something to do with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My body feels old with aches & pains wear & tear by my mind is young

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

mentally still good and try to keep myself fit,, get odd aches like everybody but alls good,,

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

A gorgeous fabber told me just last week that “you’re only as old as the woman you feel”. She’s a fair bit younger than me and I was definitely feeling her up, so …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd feel anyone right now.....

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Yes, definitely. I really struggle to retain information. Forgot my own mobile number at the weekend...

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

I don't feel much older mentally, and still able to do everything I want to do physically, but I am definitely conscious of my aging.

Obvious signs like the salt-n-peppering hair and less youthful skin, but sometimes I'm just struck by my actual age, and how long ago my youth was!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, definitely. I really struggle to retain information. Forgot my own mobile number at the weekend... "

Should of phoned me I'd of reminded you

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I don't feel much older mentally, and still able to do everything I want to do physically, but I am definitely conscious of my aging.

Obvious signs like the salt-n-peppering hair and less youthful skin, but sometimes I'm just struck by my actual age, and how long ago my youth was!

Salt & pepper hair is sexy though

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Obvious signs like the salt-n-peppering hair …"

I’m quite jealous of that. Wish mine would turn.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"Obvious signs like the salt-n-peppering hair …

I’m quite jealous of that. Wish mine would turn."

Dream big, RTG!

To be fair, it's quite subtle so far, but the times they are a-changing with each passing hair cut...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older as in age but the mind at the minute isn’t having it so I’m going with the mind

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

Only when I kneel. If there isn’t anything to lean on to get back up it can take me awhile!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Dream big, RTG!

I’ll get there one day. Might even consider myself a grown-up when it finally happens.

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