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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

what would you do if you had been let down twice by same person for social meet ? call it a day ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what would you do if you had been let down twice by same person for social meet ? call it a day ?"

Yes

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, first time, these things happen. Second time I'd start to think they were a time waster unless they had a very good reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what would you do if you had been let down twice by same person for social meet ? call it a day ?

Yes "

you could try at night if it helps ??

lol

only get one chance here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ill for first meet and work for second !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ill for first meet and work for second !

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Do you believe him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For every one that doesn't turn up, there will be a dozen waiting to take his place xxx

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks


"what would you do if you had been let down twice by same person for social meet ? call it a day ?"
I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ill for first meet and work for second !

"

He's bullshitting you. Give him up and find another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, tbh wouldn't have got a second chance here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two strikes and they're out.

I think this one is messing you about.

If they really wanted to meet with you, they'd make the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First thought was to forget about him, but you never know could be legit. Third time would defo be move on!

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

I would give another chance.

he has given you reasons, why not believe him.

As long as you are not putting off someone else to go meet him then there is no harm giving another chance.

Not everyone is a timewaster, and we all have lives outside the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't get a second chance!!

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By *homas pannsMan
over a year ago

leicester

No , plenty more fish in the sea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have rules.... Depends if I am mature enough to realise that people have real lives or priorities....

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

most likely a bird,with a guys profile.

even had she turned up,your suspicions would most likely have been aroused,by the missing knob

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Update ..... Had meet 3rd attempt and arranging another meet !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three strikes and they're outta there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bet he feels a c*nt reading these

I'm sure Youl have no bother to meet another ..

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"what would you do if you had been let down twice by same person for social meet ? call it a day ?"

Once is understandable - things happen outside of our control.

Too much of a coincidence for it to happen twice. Say goodbye and block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Three strikes and they're outta there!"

I don't think that's what the update means.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Three strikes and they're outta there!

I don't think that's what the update means."

I wasn't referring to the update. Third time can be the lucky one and it might prove worthwhile. their reasons may have been genuine. So three strikes and that's fair. Opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what would you do if you had been let down twice by same person for social meet ? call it a day ?"

I would report to admin as a no show and block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Three strikes and they're outta there!

I don't think that's what the update means.

I wasn't referring to the update. Third time can be the lucky one and it might prove worthwhile. their reasons may have been genuine. So three strikes and that's fair. Opinion."

That's the point, I think (though I can't be sure) that the update means he turned up the third attempt. Maybe the OP can clarify with some punctuation or something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what would you do if you had been let down twice by same person for social meet ? call it a day ?"

Yup.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Genuine reasons for let down . Was well worth one last chance and many more meets to come .

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By *ea and SugarCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Not read all the replies, but I would let him down twice and if he's willing to meet you still, then finally get together lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what would you do if you had been let down twice by same person for social meet ? call it a day ?"

My partner and I suffered this scenario. First time we got to the pub and got a text saying he could not make it. Could we rearrange for the same time next week. So we did.

Following week we got to the pub. Bang on the arranged meet time we got a text calling us, and I quote, "gullable bastards" followed by a string of further abusive texts. He blocked us before we got home so we could not report him.

Some proper knobheads on here for sure. We'll never give second chances again. Simply learn and move on.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not read all the replies, but I would let him down twice and if he's willing to meet you still, then finally get together lol "

Great idea lol

We had to let someone down over the xmas period at a very late time and we were very genuine, we had met once for social and really wanted to meet with thrm a 2nd time. If I were in their place I wouldnt give another chance as would think they had just backed out and gave an excuse. I havnt contacted them again and they havnt contacted us

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"what would you do if you had been let down twice by same person for social meet ? call it a day ?

My partner and I suffered this scenario. First time we got to the pub and got a text saying he could not make it. Could we rearrange for the same time next week. So we did.

Following week we got to the pub. Bang on the arranged meet time we got a text calling us, and I quote, "gullable bastards" followed by a string of further abusive texts. He blocked us before we got home so we could not report him.

Some proper knobheads on here for sure. We'll never give second chances again. Simply learn and move on....."

You can report someone who has blocked you. Either use a message they sent or manually type in their username.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Genuine reasons for let down . Was well worth one last chance and many more meets to come . "

Did he turn up this time?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"what would you do if you had been let down twice by same person for social meet ? call it a day ?"

I always go by the same philosophy as Auric Goldfinger, once is coincidence, twice is happenstance, three times is enemy action. So I never get as far as 3.

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By *adgeeMan
over a year ago

Dumbarton


"what would you do if you had been let down twice by same person for social meet ? call it a day ?"

Yes, without question!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes , would have called it a day after one let down

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