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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Which feature of fab do you use the most when you're actively looking?

And why?

Winks?

Messages?

Friend Requests?

Who's fabbed you?

Who's looked at you?

Who's nearby?

Who's online?

Updates?

The forum?

Hot Pics?

New profiles?

New pics?

Or something else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which feature of fab do you use the most when you're actively looking?

And why?

Winks?

Messages?

Friend Requests?

Who's fabbed you?

Who's looked at you?

Who's nearby?

Who's online?

Updates?

The forum?

Hot Pics?

New profiles?

New pics?

Or something else?

"

You forgot Wanking

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

none of the above

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Gloryholes within a 2 mile radius…

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek


"Which feature of fab do you use the most when you're actively looking?

And why?

Winks?

Messages?

Friend Requests?

Who's fabbed you?

Who's looked at you?

Who's nearby?

Who's online?

Updates?

The forum?

Hot Pics?

New profiles?

New pics?

Or something else?

You forgot Wanking "

That falls under the ‘something else’

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"none of the above"

So that would be something else? Would you share what it is?

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By *ez669Man
over a year ago

East Kilbride

Fabbing hot pics and winks sometimes or direct msg

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock

I mainly browse the forums now and if someone's comment or profile pic catches my eye I'll have a nosey at their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea, I'll view someone random, then view who they've met, then who they'v met and so on and so on until I land on someone I kinda like.

Sometimes I look on who's looked at me and think ohhh he's hot, but he hasn't messaged so he obviously doesn't feel the same. So I just spare myself the rejection and perv quietly.

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By *lexanderSupertrampMan
over a year ago

Gourock


"I have no idea, I'll view someone random, then view who they've met, then who they'v met and so on and so on until I land on someone I kinda like.

"

Fabs version of the Spotify rabbit hole I find myself in quite often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Searching profiles always seems to end up being a dead end for me, anyone I'm interested in doesn't seem to be interested in me (believe me I've tried all sorts of approaches when sending a first message)

Looking at who's viewed me is pretty pointless as they would've more likely gotten in touch if they liked what they saw

Fabbed pics just means they like what they see, doesn't mean they want to me to message them

I've only ever had one wink (yup, just one and that did result in a meet last summer)

I don't really bother looking at anything else on the site

What has worked for me in terms of making a connection is starting a convo in PMs with another forumite who knows me going off some thread we are commenting on at the time, sadly no meets from but that's mostly due to expenses as everyone who I've shared a mutual interest in meeting with lives fecking miles away

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I search certain words in usernames firstly, then I'll send a wink and a message if I like him and see if he replies

Secondly is status update fishing. I use carefully tailored sentences and innuendos to see who responds correctly

Thirdly is pulling at socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums by an absolute mile. I rarely send winks or messages and any I have, I'll take the time to respond to when I'm in the right frame of mind

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By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

Just like to look around maybe fab the odd nice photo that deserves it and use these forums can’t be bothered with owt else

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I'm not really sure I actively look. I tend to just wander the forums, cross my fingers and see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped ‘looking’ a long time ago.

I find I’m more likely to be attracted to people I get talking to, because there’s a reason we end up talking, we have something in common which is hard to find any other way.

It’s amazing how the heat starts to rise when you get to know them, and you know their desires… and it matches what you want to share with them.

You can’t feel that by a wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forums mostly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not really sure I actively look. I tend to just wander the forums, cross my fingers and see what happens "

Crossed fingers worked at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forums mostly. "

Damn. That’s a glamorous profile pic.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

The Forum, an occasional wink, but mainly I just wait for someone I like to message me. Luckily I am very patient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forums mostly.

Damn. That’s a glamorous profile pic. "

When I wanna do glam I don’t fuck about

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Couldn't say actively looking but at a steady pace I just explore some of what you've mentioned and obviously the forums loads of people lurking you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't bother anymore

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

I just trawl local and hotlist updates to see if anyone might seem desperate enough to meet the likes of me... usually fruitless.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire


"none of the above

So that would be something else? Would you share what it is? "

my secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to update our profile, post a status expressing as much, and then watch the inbox, and check winks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of the above. I just cross my fingers and hope that someone I like messages. We’re never in a rush to meet anyone so waiting for someone to come along has worked out well for us so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no idea, I'll view someone random, then view who they've met, then who they'v met and so on and so on until I land on someone I kinda like.

Sometimes I look on who's looked at me and think ohhh he's hot, but he hasn't messaged so he obviously doesn't feel the same. So I just spare myself the rejection and perv quietly.

"

Omg this is exactly what I do too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally browse forums and chat

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"I'm not really sure I actively look. I tend to just wander the forums, cross my fingers and see what happens

Crossed fingers worked at times "

And other times not so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm actively looking I use the advanced search to have a nosey at profiles locally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to send winks as messages get ignored, crap with first messages but always try saying something different. Hi or Hiya is a nono

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I've never actively looked. I find that things arise almost organically for me, whether that's through the fora or a message that catches my attention at the right time.

So those two but I'm not really looking for people as such. Staying open and curious but also, just seeing what happens.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I can’t remember the last time I actively searched for and messaged someone.

I’m mainly here for the forums now and usually find myself messaging some poor, deluded soul who liked something I posted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used the forum when I was looking. Latterly I just let people find me.

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By *ilkstressWoman
over a year ago

Drasnia

For me, it's primarily messages. If I receive a message that is interesting, then I'll look at the profile to see what else he has to say and how he says it. I rarely remember to check winks and I ignore friend requests unless it's someone I'm already chatting to and I'm comfortable with him seeing my private pics.

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

Usually go through messages.

Fab a few pics.

Usually cam on the weekends

Also of course the forum

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

Generally search locally, and then spread the net wider when that doesn't work!

Pop on the forums sporadically but more just for a natter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which feature of fab do you use the most when you're actively looking?

And why?

Winks?

Messages?

Friend Requests?

Who's fabbed you?

Who's looked at you?

Who's nearby?

Who's online?

Updates?

The forum?

Hot Pics?

New profiles?

New pics?

Or something else?

"

Who is nearby. No idea who looks at me and don't get that much attention that way so just check who I think would most likely be interested/who I find interesting nearby and have a look/send a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forums mostly.

Damn. That’s a glamorous profile pic.

When I wanna do glam I don’t fuck about "

I noticed.

I better up my bloody game in here.

Nice photo.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Messages mostly. I’m a lazy bitch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually just check the forum, if I see something interesting posted than I check the profile, if I like what I see, usually Dm the person, sometimes I get reply sometimes not.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

The forums for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forums for me "

Really? Not Misty then

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Haven't sent a first contact message in more than 3 years and haven't used the search function in even longer.

I don't look at hotpics and don't send winks or friends requests to people I've never spoken to.

I post randomly on the forums and if people like what they read they usually get on touch to say so.

If they don't like what they read they usually block and move on to someone who does catch their eye.

I know I'm not actively looking or meeting for the foreseeable future for personal reasons but even when I am, that's the only approach I take.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"The forums for me

Really? Not Misty then "

I’ve already found her silly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've added men to my hotlist via the forum and searching directly - I will follow up if and when I gain my nerve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've added men to my hotlist via the forum and searching directly - I will follow up if and when I gain my nerve. "

I wait in earnest

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Forum and club meets. As usual, single men rarely get messages read unless they are a honed adonis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hung like a horse section on hot pics.

I used to use the licks for hours filter but hard to sort through 45,000 results.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've added men to my hotlist via the forum and searching directly - I will follow up if and when I gain my nerve.

I wait in earnest "

Ah, you're a shy Cookie Monster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've added men to my hotlist via the forum and searching directly - I will follow up if and when I gain my nerve.

I wait in earnest

Ah, you're a shy Cookie Monster "

Apparently so, but anything else you hear are all vicious rumours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not really sure I actively look. I tend to just wander the forums, cross my fingers and see what happens

Crossed fingers worked at times

And other times not so much "

There just pricks then

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Hung like a horse section on hot pics.

I used to use the licks for hours filter but hard to sort through 45,000 results."

Oh I miss that filter

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By *histle do nicelyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow South

Hot pics...love to see my favourites new pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who’s on and near by and messaging those! But it’s not easy

Maybe is should try another approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've added men to my hotlist via the forum and searching directly - I will follow up if and when I gain my nerve.

I wait in earnest

Ah, you're a shy Cookie Monster

Apparently so, but anything else you hear are all vicious rumours "

Uh huh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who’s on and near by and messaging those! But it’s not easy

Maybe is should try another approach "

Maybes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've added men to my hotlist via the forum and searching directly - I will follow up if and when I gain my nerve.

I wait in earnest

Ah, you're a shy Cookie Monster

Apparently so, but anything else you hear are all vicious rumours

Uh huh "

You disbelieve? Nothing is confirmed or denied until proven guilty

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

I browse the forums, local updates then have a perv on some of my friends. After all that o go back to forums and eventually just come

Out

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

The fora: 99% of the time the Lounge. Catching up on messages with friends takes up a little (lovely) time, but that's social, not sexual. Mostly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've added men to my hotlist via the forum and searching directly - I will follow up if and when I gain my nerve.

I wait in earnest

Ah, you're a shy Cookie Monster

Apparently so, but anything else you hear are all vicious rumours

Uh huh

You disbelieve? Nothing is confirmed or denied until proven guilty "

Ditto for me mwah ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've added men to my hotlist via the forum and searching directly - I will follow up if and when I gain my nerve.

I wait in earnest

Ah, you're a shy Cookie Monster

Apparently so, but anything else you hear are all vicious rumours

Uh huh

You disbelieve? Nothing is confirmed or denied until proven guilty

Ditto for me mwah ha ha "

Hi, I'm Ditto

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

zWhen I was meeting I'd sort through my messages and browse profiles. I never used the forums. In all the years I've been here I've met very few people from the forums (apart from at socials,) there's a whole website here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've added men to my hotlist via the forum and searching directly - I will follow up if and when I gain my nerve.

I wait in earnest

Ah, you're a shy Cookie Monster

Apparently so, but anything else you hear are all vicious rumours

Uh huh

You disbelieve? Nothing is confirmed or denied until proven guilty

Ditto for me mwah ha ha

Hi, I'm Ditto "

You said you were Cookie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've added men to my hotlist via the forum and searching directly - I will follow up if and when I gain my nerve.

I wait in earnest

Ah, you're a shy Cookie Monster

Apparently so, but anything else you hear are all vicious rumours

Uh huh

You disbelieve? Nothing is confirmed or denied until proven guilty

Ditto for me mwah ha ha

Hi, I'm Ditto

You said you were Cookie? "

Cookie is my morning name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've added men to my hotlist via the forum and searching directly - I will follow up if and when I gain my nerve.

I wait in earnest

Ah, you're a shy Cookie Monster

Apparently so, but anything else you hear are all vicious rumours

Uh huh

You disbelieve? Nothing is confirmed or denied until proven guilty

Ditto for me mwah ha ha

Hi, I'm Ditto

You said you were Cookie?

Cookie is my morning name "

...backs away slowly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've added men to my hotlist via the forum and searching directly - I will follow up if and when I gain my nerve.

I wait in earnest

Ah, you're a shy Cookie Monster

Apparently so, but anything else you hear are all vicious rumours

Uh huh

You disbelieve? Nothing is confirmed or denied until proven guilty

Ditto for me mwah ha ha

Hi, I'm Ditto

You said you were Cookie?

Cookie is my morning name

...backs away slowly... "

I glad I still have that effect, for one moment I thought I'd lost my unique talent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow "

Well that sums it up in one word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take a butchers at the local wildlife, see if there's anyone interesting to Perve. A quick look at my hotlist before moving onto the forums and I select 3 topics to peruse. Almost never use the search, they nowhere to find me if they want me.

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I like looking at the updates

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

I feel if your a Joe average it's pointless msging , winking. 99.9% of the time you don't get a response, even a polite bugger off. I understand the reasons why. I figure if someone likes me they will let me know.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Who looked.

Fabs.

Forums.

Nothing more. Actually I do go on a boredom mid poo winking spree every now and again.

The mr

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Messages, and the forum take up the majority of my time here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages and the Forum are the two features I use the most. I may pop into the cam rooms on occasion but I rarely look for meets that way.

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