FabSwingers.com forum: Fantasy obstacles

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So this is for mainly ladies and couples

I’m wondering why are so many fantasies unfulfilled due to set up issues?

Like public teases, mile high club member?

Quicky in the woods next to the wedding in the marquee,

What are the most wanted fantasy with what obstacles? Or am I the only one who wants to fuck in a field on warm afternoon but won’t because of possibility of being arrested for indecent exposure?

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"So this is for mainly ladies and couples

I’m wondering why are so many fantasies unfulfilled due to set up issues?

Like public teases, mile high club member?

Quicky in the woods next to the wedding in the marquee,

What are the most wanted fantasy with what obstacles? Or am I the only one who wants to fuck in a field on warm afternoon but won’t because of possibility of being arrested for indecent exposure? "
lol are you too shy to be a swinger one wonders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always wanted an MFM.

However, I want it to be sensual, slow,full of seduction, intimacy and dare I say it, even a bit of romance.

2 men who I trust, who are comfortable with each other and who both adore me.

I want unhurried, relaxed. Like a perfect date but for 3. Lots of kissing, touching, flirting, laughter, innuendos.

It wouldn't all be about me. I'm not selfish. I'd love knowing without any doubts they were both enjoying my attentions on them and as they see me with each other.

Sadly, I fear it may never happen and I don't want my favourite fantasy to be ruined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always wanted an MFM.

However, I want it to be sensual, slow,full of seduction, intimacy and dare I say it, even a bit of romance.

2 men who I trust, who are comfortable with each other and who both adore me.

I want unhurried, relaxed. Like a perfect date but for 3. Lots of kissing, touching, flirting, laughter, innuendos.

It wouldn't all be about me. I'm not selfish. I'd love knowing without any doubts they were both enjoying my attentions on them and as they see me with each other.

Sadly, I fear it may never happen and I don't want my favourite fantasy to be ruined.

Im sure you could make that happen if you really tried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've fucked in a field on a warm afternoon and it was very fulfilling. It was a fantasy I'd discussed with my fwb (we were married, but not to each other) and one day we had the opportunity and we took it. We knew there was a risk, but our desire (on the day) overcame the risk.

I think often we perceive the risk as higher than it really is, so we don't do what we want to do.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"I've always wanted an MFM.

However, I want it to be sensual, slow,full of seduction, intimacy and dare I say it, even a bit of romance.

2 men who I trust, who are comfortable with each other and who both adore me.

I want unhurried, relaxed. Like a perfect date but for 3. Lots of kissing, touching, flirting, laughter, innuendos.

It wouldn't all be about me. I'm not selfish. I'd love knowing without any doubts they were both enjoying my attentions on them and as they see me with each other.

Sadly, I fear it may never happen and I don't want my favourite fantasy to be ruined.

That is quite an exceptional experience. I would highly recommend it, if one is so inclined.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Probably looking for a partner OP, bullet dodged.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

In my experience these things happen when you meet another person / couple with a very similar mindset - spontaneous, risky but careful, fast moving. It’s happened a few times, normally within a day or so of first message….. the rest are just fantasists.

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

Well if it were easy, we’d do it every day and then it wouldn’t be a fantasy.

I have the same indecent exposure worries

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

It's difficult for me to find that level of trust with a person.

Obviously I can fancy someone but to fulfill my fantasies, I want that level of trust and openness where I can lean into letting go of my inhibitions without a second thought.

I find that my fantasies aren't so much "I want to do x, y and z" but more inspired by other people who make me think about exploring something with them.

But then that level of trust is very rare. So the vast majority of them are unfulfilled, nice fantasies but nothing more.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"So this is for mainly ladies and couples

I’m wondering why are so many fantasies unfulfilled due to set up issues?

Like public teases, mile high club member?

Quicky in the woods next to the wedding in the marquee,

What are the most wanted fantasy with what obstacles? Or am I the only one who wants to fuck in a field on warm afternoon but won’t because of possibility of being arrested for indecent exposure? "

Undoubtedly the most common fantasy on here is a guy having a threesome with two bi women. The main obstacle to that is 50 times more guys looking for that than women.

For your scenario, the easiest solution is to be somewhere away from a road or footpath. You only need to go 10 yards into a field before you are totally hidden from view in any direction.

Cal

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Finding someone you click with enough to share your fantasies and play them out is difficult, I have to have a good level of communication prior.

I'd love to tie the Mr up, blindfold him while me and another woman get it on and release him only when we are ready, very specific fantasy I'd only fulfill with the right woman, maybe I'll find her in time for his birthday, now that would be a treat.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fantasy is to find a guy that is a total dickhead.

The obstacle? The fact it's a guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a fantasy of my partner sharing me with other men for years. He invites one or two over for dinner, and I'm dessert. He tells them what they can do to me. The obstacle is that whenever I've had a partner, they've been monogamous. I still live in hope.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I've always wanted an MFM.

However, I want it to be sensual, slow,full of seduction, intimacy and dare I say it, even a bit of romance.

2 men who I trust, who are comfortable with each other and who both adore me.

I want unhurried, relaxed. Like a perfect date but for 3. Lots of kissing, touching, flirting, laughter, innuendos.

It wouldn't all be about me. I'm not selfish. I'd love knowing without any doubts they were both enjoying my attentions on them and as they see me with each other.

Sadly, I fear it may never happen and I don't want my favourite fantasy to be ruined.

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i have two personalities can i be the two guys rolled into one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long dresses and girls on top (no exposure at all) achieve the outdoor sunshine thing with a degree of risk I'm comfortable with in fairly public settings (and I'm pretty risk averse).

If anyone has a great solution for MsWyld's one I wanna know. None of bi Ms, two M friends or adding a M when I was in a MF couple have felt exactly right beyond a 'social' type situation. So, it's no longer a fantasy and MM isn't on my list here... I'd totally do it though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love an outdoor gang bang

but finding an area outdoors that is quiet and private enough would be difficult.

Also found a few fantasies I've done in the past just haven't lived up to what I thought. X

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Main ones left for me is famous porn stars had sex with three of them now.

Last now is a particular Female body builder. Not the hulk type more a slim version.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I've always wanted an MFM.

However, I want it to be sensual, slow,full of seduction, intimacy and dare I say it, even a bit of romance.

2 men who I trust, who are comfortable with each other and who both adore me.

I want unhurried, relaxed. Like a perfect date but for 3. Lots of kissing, touching, flirting, laughter, innuendos.

It wouldn't all be about me. I'm not selfish. I'd love knowing without any doubts they were both enjoying my attentions on them and as they see me with each other.

Sadly, I fear it may never happen and I don't want my favourite fantasy to be ruined.

I don't think you'd be short of volunteers

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By *egDaySkipperMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I don't have a partner to go on sexy hikes with and fuck in tents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have a partner to go on sexy hikes with and fuck in tents

What kinda tents?

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By *egDaySkipperMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I don't have a partner to go on sexy hikes with and fuck in tents

What kinda tents?"

Camping tents!

It says 2 person tent but it's really small so more like 1.5 person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have a partner to go on sexy hikes with and fuck in tents

Pick me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about finding the right persons to execute fantasies .... for me so far my fantasies seem to be best left in my head . People are just so eager to be involved that they say just about anything to get piece of the pie and on the day itself it's solely about what they want to get out of it .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So for you it’s more a trust issue which depends on what the worry is about, and what the exploration would be

For example I’ve had chats where a mate has wanted to do something and be watched in public but her worry was a guy watching could be an absolute crazy person so we made it happen by her knowing I’m close by and that she knew she had her back covered

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks cal, you’re right about the men, I probably should’ve asked for women’s thoughts preferable

Yes I get what you’re saying about the quiet path but for someone who’d risk ruining something big of their lives if cautioned for naked in public for example which prevents them having one of the most erotic experience of their lives? But there was a way of having it through an adult role play very discreet planning service?

It might just be me but there’s some stuff I’d like to do single that isn’t safe for many reasons so if I could have that 1 off major filthy encounter I’d do it but more than likely not if there was a chance I’d be caught or worse… xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That sounds like a very memorable birthday your lucky man will have if you can find the right bird, ensure she’s clean, ensure as much as you find her attractive will ur fella, as well as location if you have kids or curtain Karen’s

Wouldn’t it be easier if you could have pre arranged coffees with verified both sexual health and intention confirmed ladies? From maybe a place for only women

And if u needed a location away from home there could be recommendations for high quality hotels / play rooms / locations all suggest from other service users?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah yeah those manogamous guys aren’t as rare as we thought

So if single would a role play with a fb or a role played hubby satisfy that urge?

Tbh it’s a naughty thought of mine too I think it’s more common for us ladies than we realise hemce why I’m doing this chat for research to see if there’s something that could be created for ladies for this reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love a bound gangbang, however I don't trust men to wrap up, struggle to find me I like enough on a 1-1 basis let alone enough to group up etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love a bound gangbang, however I don't trust men to wrap up, struggle to find me I like enough on a 1-1 basis let alone enough to group up etc. "
for a gangbang like that would be best to have someone in your corner as a lookout like another lady just making sure the men follow the rules or another male you can trust to oversee.... in gangbangs men always seem to get overly excited and carried away or such has been my experience thus far.

Always have a lookout.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes think I must be the only person to not have fantasies, I just don't. I'm more feel in the moment and roll with it

I dread it when you chat to someone and they ask what fantasies I have, like fuck knows, I don't fantasise. Then you get the 'but everybody has fantasies' but do they?

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